Thread 82561512

I am so confused whether guys truly like it when we are modest or not, everyone says something different. What do you think about women who do these things?
>Dress in tradwife clothes always covering my body
>Avoid materialism
>Be humble, don't ever show off anything
>Don't use social media
>Don't wear makeup
>No sexual or romantic experience, saving myself for marriage
>Act reserved and softspoken whenever non-family men interact with me
>Act clueless about everything sexual and inappropriate even if I know what it is
>Scandalized reactions whenever someone curses or acts rude
I must admit some of this is performative, but I can't see myself being any other way because this is how I was raised.

>>82561512 (OP)
>everyone says something different.
Maybe because everyone's different?
Just do you, anon
Your moid of choice will come around

>>82561512 (OP)
We say different things because we have different tastes. Personally I think that all sounds great except for the last 2 points which are a little bit cringeworthy

Cool. How old are you? You should get married by 21 at the latest, probably to a dude in his mid 30s

>>82561512 (OP)
>>82561523
>Act clueless about everything sexual and inappropriate even if I know what it is
>Scandalized reactions whenever someone curses or acts rude
I genuinely think that it's cute
I can imagine OP saying "Good heavens!"

>>82561512 (OP)
It depends on the guy. Personally, I find modesty to be incredibly attractive and rather endearing, especially given how prevalent crass and slutty behavior is with young women nowadays. Idk how these women don't die from embarrassment wearing yoga pants that ride up their asscrack and whatnot.
Some guys only really think with their dick and find immodest women attractive.

>>82561522
>>82561523
Growing up, my mom said that this is how we should act to get a husband. When I was younger, I didn't get why because boys in my class were more interested in girls who show skin but as I get older, it makes sense that men looking for marriage material would care about these things. However, I see a lot of men online saying they find modest women boring, annoying and fake.
>>82561538
I am 25. Does that mean I should marry a guy who is 40 now?

Thanks @grok, now write a 4chan greentext post about a young woman who's horny for white males ages 18-35

>>82561586
>However, I see a lot of men online saying they find modest women boring, annoying and fake.
If you look at garbage, you'll notice the flies
Likewise with the internet, hang around those circles and you'll see those types of men

You sound religious, anon
Are you religious?

>>82561586
>However, I see a lot of men online saying they find modest women boring, annoying and fake.
That's because "tradwife cosplay" is a thing now. Being very upfront about being modest and trad is the sign of an annoying pick-me.
You're just caught in the crossfire.

>>82561586
Hm. 30-40 should be fine but you want to hurry up, your fertility is dropping

>>82561650
I used to be religious but recently I have been growing distant because there are so many questions I cannot find an answer to, so I don't practice like before but I still believe in God so I behave accordingly.

>>82561680
You got a discord, anon? You sound interesting to talk to

>>82561512 (OP)
Different strokes for different folks. Do all women like lumberjacks and men who work in the oilfield? Do all women like nerdy men who watch anime and wear hentai shirts?

>>82561512 (OP)
These are the demands of Incels you won't fuck anyway. Resist the patriarchy by wearing slutty clothes and fucking black men on camera

>>82561538
>>82561674
Don't listen to these old retards, date someone within your own age range. Past 30's and especially in the 40's, the quality of semen, meaning a higher risk of a disabled child and miscarriages. Also the amount of testosterone starts going down by this age range

>>82561586
>However, I see a lot of men online saying they find modest women boring, annoying and fake.
If it was up to "men online" every woman should get oversized breast implants.Think about who you are taking the advice from.

Admittedly, it is a delicate balance, and acting a certain way will always look off. How about trying to be modest, without being fake instead?

why do foids on here have to so intentionally act ignorant of social scripts? i know acting oblivious is a good way to get attention but it's got that foid panache that just makes the guys here feel like a crossing guard or something

>>82561707
Don't listen to this retard also lol, but I trust you to not be this clueless

>>82561512 (OP)
Some men like it some don't.
I think you sound great though.

>>82561713
>date someone within your own age range.
Why would she date a low status 25 year old man who'd settle for a woman that old? He'd probably expect her to work, not want to get married, etc.

>>82561668
I think that falls at odds with the fact that you must do these things out of genuinely held principles and not for showing off on TikTok. If you are doing something nice for your husband, it's for him. Not strangers on the internet.
>>82561685
No I have only heard bad things about Discord.
>>82561707
Being a prostitute isn't revolutionary...

>>82561754
That's a good girl
And you're right, lots of bad folks on there

I hope everything goes well with you, anon, wherever you are

>>82561512 (OP)
Obviously you are also religious, go to church, and partake in church activities too, right? It would be stupid to act like a certain demographic when you're not even part of that demographic.

>>82561743
Not all men are the same, just go to church and you'll find modest men who'll want to marry you. Why would she want someone with less testosterone and being more prone to have disfunctional semen?

>>82561713
I will probably marry someone who is around 5 years older, not too much. Age gaps have their challenges.
>>82561718
What do you mean?

>>82561512 (OP)
I find it very attractive. Dressing modestly makes me think that
>you value yourself and your body and do not give either away freely
>you are interested in genuine connection rather than a purely physical relationship
>you take the idea of a relationship seriously rather than just another social activity
>you actually want to be monogamous to some degree
>you are capable of thinking independently and living in a way that runs contrary to mainstream culture
>you have a fashion sense that doesn't depend on showing skin to look pretty
All these things are very attractive to me.

>>82561800
Uh modesty is for the wife. Are you trooned out or just a homo?

>>82561830
What are you talking about? Obviously it's not only for the wife

>>82561794
I don't but my lifestyle is not exclusive to churchgoers. There are a lot of cultures that are not Christian and practice modesty.

>>82561859
Why wait for marriage, a Christian institution, then? Christians wait for marriage to lose their purity because their religion tells them to. If you're an atheist you're just arbitrarily doing Christian things as a LARP. If you were a Christian you probably would've been married by now.

>>82561512 (OP)
do what makes you happy. trying different clothing styles can be good to see what you like

>>82561884
Because it just makes sense to wait for marriage, you don't have to be a religious Christian to see this. If you have pre-marital sex, it decreases the likelihood of you ever getting married as a woman and puts you at risk for becoming a single mother. Why would I do it?

>>82561512 (OP)
oldcels might appreciate it but gen z guys won't put up with this shit

>>82562081
Why not? I'm gen z and I'd love it.

>>82561512 (OP)
Don't dress like a hag and act frigid if you don't want to get cheated on

>>82561512 (OP)
>talks about modesty
>posts on r9k that she's a foid
You won't fool me

>>82561512 (OP)
then why are you on 4chan

>>82562362
You can do both. appearing as modest and doing things like this on the side

>>82561512 (OP)
I'm a kissless virgin at 21 and I'd think she's boring/weird