Thread 82562204

On a scale of 1-10, how pathetic would it be to ask an escort to take my virginity and also maybe give me some non-sexual intimacy, i.e. cuddling, caressing, maybe watching youtube together or something?

>>82562204 (OP)
Im a woman and have done it for free with men b4.

Just use dating apps and dont pay for it. Someone will do it for free

Not the sex part but the non sexual intimacy i have done b4 with men

Not pathetic, idk if most do that and if it's nice you are going to feel even lonelier

pretty standard for escorts i'd imagine
intimacy is more of a psychological comfort though, one intimate night won't tide you over forever

>>82562228
Wait you mean you give people the gf experience for free or you mean you asked men to give you the bf experience?

>Just use dating apps
I haven't tried any dating apps yet but based on what you read online or what I heard from friends that are considered normal looking or attractive, dating apps do not seem work for men at all. I am not sure if my ego could take that hit
>>82562229
Im thinking Id be fine with shortterm happiness even if it makes me lonelier in the end
>>82562250
Thats certainly true.. although maybe somewhere in the back of my head I also hope this would give me experience or confidence

>>82562268
I guess both? It was mutual, I cuddled with someone and kissed him on the cheek.

>>82562282
And you met him on a dating app? How attractive would you consider yourself 1-10? How attractive would you consider him?

>>82562303
Didn't meet him off a dating app, met him because of 4chan.


I consider myself ugly but he looked much better than me I believe

>>82562326
Oh yeah forgot to mention he lived near me, it wasn't edating shit

>>82562326
>>82562337
I see. So this isnt really applicable to me. But thank you for your input.

>>82562268
>do not seem work for men at all
By this definition it can't work for straight women either.

>>82562523
Why couldnt it work for straight women "by this definition"?

>>82562282
What a fucking tease. Do you not feel bad for doing that to him?

>>82562601
I dont wanna elaborate more on that but I asked for intimacy not raw passionate sex or whatever so he was fine with it, he knew what was happening

>>82562621
>he was fine with it
He was in the desert begging for a glass of water and you sprinkled some in his hair

>>82562650
Shut up nigger they had some transactional intimacy and both parties were fine with it. Id take this too any day if any woman offered it

>>82562659
I'd take it too but don't pretend you wouldn't want to fuck her when she's literally cuddling you in bed??

>>82562523
It works for straight women because they all share the same ~20% of men on dating apps. It doesn't work for the remaining 80% of straight men, though

>>82562204 (OP)
its pretty common nowadays. 10 years ago people would make fun of you.

>>82562683
I obviously would but I am not greedy. Ill take what I can and be grateful for it. Also, while I do want to experience sex it's kind of secondary to me. If I want pleasure I can pleasure myself. But I cant have cute dates on my own or cuddle with myself. Well I could but it would be pathetic.. Id prefer cooking with someone or going to the zoo with them or any arbitrary couple activity over sex any day

>>82562204 (OP)
It's pretty pathetic I guess (7/10) but I'll do it too if I can't find a girl before turning 30 at the latest

>>82562523
Because they date each other, retard. If it doesn't work for men AT ALL, then it can't work for women either.

>>82562753
>before 30
How old are you right now, for reference?
>>82562805
>thinking dating apps are actually used by people that want to do dating
Oh you sweet summer child

>>82562204 (OP)
They call that GFE (girlfriend experience) and it's usually extra if they do it. Just ask.

>>82562809
> How old are you right now, for reference?
24, so I still have some time

>>82563000
Dang bro. Im 23 and Id say if I cant make it before 25 Im calling an escort, maybe even before that.. I remember I used to think theres no way I wont find a gf until I hit 20 hahah.. what makes you so willing to wait until 30?

>>82564075
>I used to think theres no way I wont find a gf until I hit 20
Yeah, same...
>what makes you so willing to wait until 30?
I don't know, I'm kinda anxious about someone being with someone I don't fully trust and maybe I'm delusional enough to think that I can still have something special with someone, so I don't really want to throw it away with a prostitute. I know that that's realistically not happening but whatever, not like going to a prostitute is going to change anything for me. Paying for basic human intimacy is probably only going to make me feel worse about myself

>>82562204 (OP)
On a scale of one to ten for pathetic, asking a whore to take your virginity then hang out and watch Youtube videos with you breaks the scale. You're setting yourself up to be robbed. Fix yourself and stop being so pathetic

>>82564265
why would they rob him if they were gonna rob him they might as well rob him anyways right

>>82564214
so for me the paradoxical thing is.. I dont really value my virginity but I still want to lose it. not because I want to lose the title of "virgin" but because I just want to feel what sex is like and if I missed out on it for all this time. If only you knew how many people have told me (without me asking for it) how disappointing their first time was and how sex is overrated anyways.. Like thanks guys but I cant make my own judgement over this.. but either way thats why I dont really care if I were to lose it to a prostitute or to someone that actually pretends to love me..
>>82564265
>robbed
any girl willing to be an escort risks getting raped or murdered by any "customer". I dont think they have robbing a man on their mind, knowing they have a physical disadvantage and would get their ass blasted if they tried anything funny.

>>82562204 (OP)
10 being the most? 10. But honestly, it's not that deep. Married men are paying for gfe with eurosluts when they work away from home. I should know.