Thread 82755774

Guys how awkward is it going to be at work tomorrow?

how did you fuck that one up. Are you just trying to force something?

>>82755774 (OP)
Was this your first time texting her? You should have asked her in person desu I'm laughing at you irl btw hahahaha

>>82755774 (OP)
Look at what you did op you should be ashamed of yourself

>>82755774 (OP)
Damn that's rough sorry desu

>>82755774 (OP)
You'll now have date with HR

>>82755774 (OP)
>giving a foid physical evidence that you're an "omg creep" (see also: non-chad with the audacity to ask her out)
That shit's going straight to HR. You're cooked.

>>82755774 (OP)
I'm sorry anon, I hope you don't let this rejection get you down too bad. One day you will find a woman you can go to dinner with and hopefully more

/r9k/: Just ask her out, what's the worst that could happen?
Her: NEVER FUCKING TALKING TO ME AGAIN TRASH. Hope this helps.
>reports him to HR

>>82755801
Nah we text each other a few times a week and eat lunch together at work sometimes. Fortunately we don't directly work together so I should be able to avoid her for a few days.

>>82755774 (OP)
>Android
oh no no no

Damn, you have some high resilience. I would have committed suicide on the spot.

>>82755774 (OP)
Kek responded like a business email

Why is this board so butthurt? This is infinitely better a response than her leading him on and trying to get free shit.
>S-SHE IS GOING TO REPORT HIM TO HR
highly doubtful

>>82755774 (OP)
Let this be a lesson. Don't get involved with co-workers. You'll be fine. Just stay away from her unless it is required by the job.

>>82755909
Foids do it all the time retard

>>82755923
I worked with a literal autistic retard who constantly harassed some girl he had an obsession with, and hr never did anything. He wasnt chad either so before you bark down that tree lets get that clear.

>>82755854
How? This happened off work hours? Right OP? Please tell me you didn't text her this shit during your lunch break, in the bathroom or something.
>>82755774 (OP)
OP please tell me.

>>82755774 (OP)
never try to date your work wife, man

>>82755774 (OP)
You arent good looking enough to ask for a date you gotta work your way in before going in for the deal

>>82755774 (OP)
Oh my god, dude

>>82755774 (OP)
>understood and sorry if-
nigga stop you done

>that text size

you have bigger problems granpa

>>82755774 (OP)
>asking someone out in a text
a girl that obviously liked me did this to me right after we were hanging out together all day and it gave me the male version of the ick

>>82755939
>well known phenomena
>"erm, but what about my personal anecdote???"
Off yourself

>>82755851
This. Better start working on your resume, OP

>>82755880
This never happened though, she just said no an established a boundary? What the fuck is wrong with you that you think someone rejecting you is the end of the world?

>>82756019
>>well known phenomena
You mean the 3 stories you read on reddit?

>>82755774 (OP)
>Hi this is really random
Hi, Really Random, this is Dad. LOL

no but seriously don't text weird nonsense like that

>>82755880
Never text women, always call them or talk to them in person. They're pushovers when they can't hide behind delays and a screen.

>>82756041
>I am only capable of interpreting the literal words in front of my face and not the tone or underlying meaning
Unfortunate, hate this for you. Your life will be harder on account of your autism.

>>82756001
>>82755801
There's nothing wrong with asking someone out over text, so long as you don't open your text with

>oh uh uhm hi uh uhm sorry if this bothers you haha you can actually go ahead and ignore this and delete my number if I'm too much of a creepy loser but uh uhm oh jeez would you like to do something sometime???????????

or any of that obviously low-confidence cringe

>>82755906
Thank You For Your Attention To This Matter

>>82756056
>always call them
Grandpa, no one calls each other anymore. It's no longer 1995

>Hey lunch at X anything you need, you in
>Oh sorry I see you as just a coworker

Dont respond after that, make her think you dont give a shit

>>82755774 (OP)
lmao lawyer the fuck up bitch nigga
If you're lucky after this whole mess is over you can work at McDonalds. You've literally handed your entire office career-ending ammo to use against you for whatever stupid, petty reasons they cook up.

>>82756082
Erm, YOU don't get calls

>>82756043
This has been the social convention since the fucking boomer days as evidenced by the phrase "don't shit where you eat". It only got to life-ruining levels of unforgivable a little over 15 years ago, mainly in high tier white collar work and the elite college programs that feed into them since there's good fucking reasons money, prestige, and money to eliminate your coworkers. It's since trickled down to menial retail since the proles want to ape the aristocrates without understanding why.

>>82756110
>lawyer the fuck up
unironically this. Save that conversation in multiple safe places and write a memo to yourself in case office warfare goes nuclear. Stick ONLY to the facts and make sure to sign and date it since believe it or not this is considered legally admissible in court. It might be your last defense if the inevitable rumors spread and start mutating faster than Bat AIDS.

>>82756082
>Grandpa, no one calls each other anymore. It's no longer 1995
zoomers are so fucked

>>82755949
>This happened off work hours?
Doesn't matter. Most employers can punish employees for behavior outside of work, especially when it's regarding a coworker. At the very least they're going to consider this inappropriate conduct, and if they don't like anon they might even consider it harassment.

>>82756184
The fact it happened outside of work hours makes it worse as a matter of fact.

>>82756184
>>82756191
It hasn't even began for men holy fuck.
>can't talk to women outside of work
>cant talk to women during work hours
>can't talk to women on campus

>>82756067
You're being incredibly neurotic and projecting your own feelings of inadequacy onto this situation. There is no reason to not take texts like that at face value

>>82756207
The coworker relationship is what is making this situation highly inflammatory. It is figuratively pouring high octane jet fuel onto a fire.

>>82756216
kek, okay young man.

>>82756222
Im probably older than you with far more experience and success with women than you.

>>82756207
Ive heard almost every situation or location mentioned regarding not approaching women. The only one I havent is when they are taking a shit at a gender neutral bathroom.

>>82756232
Woah, big man on campus. Careful with that fat cock, you might poke an eye out.

>>82756244
>Get btfo'd for being a retard
>durrr okay big guy!!

I accept your concession

>>82755774 (OP)
If it makes you feel better i respect you for trying

>>82756254
You type like you belong here, all faggy and shit.
Betrays your insecurities and what a little bitch you really are.

>>82755939
Many companies like to keep retarded employees around as tokens to make them appear progressive. It's definitely possible that they swept it under the rug so they didn't have to look like bad guys who fired a disabled person. Either that or the girl never complained about it because she felt bad for him.

>>82755774 (OP)
why do women even do shit like this, if you do not like me or as much as want to deal with me then do not fucking talk to me

>>82755774 (OP)
>asking out a coworker
Rookie move.

>>82755774 (OP)
It's a polite "no." Just go to work like nothing happened. It's not that big of a deal.

>>82756207
Don't be a retarded moron and be texting "hi sorry if this bothers you" to girls you have nothing in common with and don't have a connection with at work,.

>>82756261
>Dudee ur a fag lol!!!

It's incredibly obvious how mad you are that your neuroticism was called out lol

>>82755774 (OP)
What did you just do you moron

>>82756316
I'm putting in no effort. The only thing incredibly obvious is how shittershocked you are because you can't get off my nuts.

>>82756129
yeah thankfully

>>82756181
I'm not a zoomer, and I remember what life was like when cell phones were just cell phones or even when most people didn't have cell phones.

If you really want to talk to someone, about something deep and important or you just want to chat the night away then meet up in person. If you just want to make plans or ask how someone's day was, just text them.

>>82755774 (OP)
Hope it wasn't a job that you wanted to keep long term. Bad form trying to get intimate with coworkers if you care about the job. Might want to start looking at other options in the meantime.

>>82756331
He's just retarded and hasnt gotten the update that most calls are scam calls nowadays. That or he is a jeet scammer.

>>82756001
>a girl that obviously liked me did this to me right after we were hanging out together all day and it gave me the male version of the ick
she dodged a bullet

>>82756278
>why do women even do shit like this
women LOVE to lead betas on and make them think they have a chance. most companies have an internal messaging app for employees, so the fact that she gave him her number means she knew what she was doing. you gotta stay careful anons, i almost got my ass beat because of a female coworker and it can happen to you.

>>82756366
>>82756331
OK but I have a sister who will talk on the phone for like an hour straight

>>82756384
Besties or people she has never called before

>>82756384
yeah if you're close family and live apart that's fine, give mom and/or grandma a call once a week as well, but friends and bfs/gfs aren't calling each other just to occupy each other's time like

>hey what's up dude nah man not much I'm bored what about you

everytime the phone rings (and I don't let it go straight to voicemail) I have to drop whatever I'm doing and/or still keep an eye on it and wash my hands and now try to shuffle three things and doing the whole "phone on the shoulder with your neck crooked" thing doesn't work since modern cell phones don't have that shape they are just a thin thing of plastic that slips right off

>>82755774 (OP)
literally you the next day

>>82756465
>>82756708
She calls me, I call her, we live about 45 minutes away

>>82755774 (OP)
next time just flirt overtly but in a lighthearted way in person. every time ive done this the girl asks me out first. dating in 2k25 is like fishing unless youre a born chad. even an ugly man can catch a fish with enough patience and time. and if you do take that step, dont do it over text or call, always invite her out in person or set a regular beat of afterwork hangouts, build context as friends, and be direct in person, never from afar. women are programmed to reapond better to a smiling face and laughter, better to hit em with 'youre really pretty and i caught feelings, would love to take you out sometime. if not no worries, i dont want to change our dynamic.' sounds unc level boring and corny, but sometimes unc wisdom wins. word from a robot who spent a long time climbing the coworker to dating ladder, i suffered so you dont have to. but you will anyways, im sure.

>>82756072
>There's nothing wrong with asking someone out over text
I find it tacky as hell but I'm also kind of old.
>>82756367
I fixed her up with my friend who she ended up marrying and then a few years later she wanted to cheat on him with me. If she dodged a bullet then I dodged a cannon ball.

>>82755774 (OP)
Might as well just go on Indeed and look for another job. You're cooked, bucko.

>>82755851
>what in tarnation you think ur doin trying to have sex n sheeit
>this is why theres people like me, for people like you

>>82755774 (OP)
yea this is just brutal, i said oh my goodness out loud after i read this.... oh my goodness. oh man, rough stuff.

>>82756708
yea you're a fucking out of touch incel retard, stop talking

>>82755774 (OP)
Please learn to differentiate coworker smiles vs I "want to fuck you" smiles.

>>82757003
holy shit shut the fuck up, retard. there is no such thing as tricking yourself into a date with a woman unless you're breaking global rule #2, esl tard. shut the fuck up with your middle school antic stories. there's no such thing as pick up artists either, so shut the fuck up. women have their mind made up before you even know what the fuck plan you're going to even employ

>>82757003
>better to hit em with 'youre really pretty and i caught feelings, would love to take you out sometime. if not no worries, i dont want to change our dynamic.'
the last sentence is an immediate self sabotage since it's awkward and shows a lack of confidence. also admitting feelings and attraction for someone isn't something that you can just easily walk back on, so there's no reason to preemptively say that you don't want to change the dynamic. it's a catch 22, but you either have to accept the full risk and shoot your shot, or you have to stay in the friendzone and hope that she eventually takes you out of it.

>>82756784
this is definitely a subtle fetish photo. also the dude is clearly staring at her tits lol.

Getting turned down by a bitch isn't the end of the fucking world, bros. Stop being so sensitive and insecure.

>>82757122
ime, thats a very juvenile view of things. its harder when you work together closely. i find that saying that shows that you arent going to be a problem at work otherwise. 'im interested, but im not going to be an hr level problem.' depends on your presentation of course. i find my sperg level gives me a confident front (in the eyes of others, at least, i apparently seem very self assured), so i havent worried about it. i just plan what i want to say, school the correct face and tone, and say it. women are all about vibe and intent, i think, so if you can communicate that youre a ok.
i dont doubt that perhaps my education-level peers i work with, my city and general region may also put more value culturally on not pressing too hard.
but thats also why fishing works - if she comes onto you, youre in the clear.

>>82755774 (OP)
First, you asked the bitch out over text with obviously zero prior rapport. Second, you matched her overly-professional rejection tone in a cringe as fuck way and made yourself look like a total bitch. Third, you fucking apologized for asking her out LMAO.
I don't even know where to start. All you had to say was "Drinks this Friday?" and if she said no "Np". How did you fuck this up this bad?

>>82755774 (OP)
>Guys how awkward is it going to be at work tomorrow?
It'll only be awkward if you make it awkward. Continue working as if nothing happened and get to know your coworkers. You'll move on, she'll move on, life goes on.

>>82755774 (OP)
Not awkward at all, you just asked if she was free not like you declared undying love or anything silly

>>82755774 (OP)
Lol why did she need to be so cold about it? Couldn't she have just been like "hey :) thats very nice of you to ask but desu I just see you as my coworker...sorry if you thought different".

>>82757181
>she'll move on
weird statement. she moved on the moment she sent that message, she doesn't give a shit about him, what are you even talking about

>>82757207
because she got her egotistical rocks off to it obviously, robot... even if she finds OP repulsive looking, it's still another one to add to her bank

>>82757207
They probably aren't pals, plenty of coworkers out there you barely talk with.

>>82757195
no that's pretty awkward for her to merely deal with in the first place, do you never leave your home? no she isn't going to dwell over it but it was an awkward moment for her to read his message

>>82757163
>i find that saying that shows that you arent going to be a problem at work otherwise. 'im interested, but im not going to be an hr level problem.
professing attraction a female coworker is already an hr level problem. you can get away with it if she wants to be with you, but that's rare unless you're already successful with women in the first place.

>>82757235
>professing attraction a female coworker is already an hr level problem.
lmfao. hilarious for me to read as being attractive considering i've had coworkers want to fuck me in the office and keep it secret so they can keep their family still, try to suck my cock during lunch when i just wanted to be friends with the girl, walk into the printer room and the girl acts like i don't know she's perfecting her hair before she speaks with me.... lmfao... hr level problems, there is no such for me that's for sure with how many hr lines both girls and i have crossed for each other...

>>82757235
thats why you have to study hard son. i watch bldy language and psychology vids on youtube a few times a week, because i dont (or didnt) understand cues, i trained to learn the cues for when its acceptable, and i took a few blows. it wont go hr level bad if you are upfront, direct, and clear. you wont become successful if you dont try and nobody is 'successful' with women besides chad anyways, the best we can do is learn, apply, and try. channel your tism into something useful. youd be surprised what normie women let slide if you do it the right way. i sucked at girls in college and hs because i wasnt a chad, so i turned life around by learning and trying. im no big winner, but you can land a girl or two a year and then you just have to learn to keep them on the hook. fishing nigga, go fish

>>82757265
who are you trying to convince with this unbelievably shitty larp lmao

>>82757265
this is so real. i had a girl try to fuck me in the bosses office once. i had one grope me under a desk at a meeting. im a solid 6.5, a 7 on a good day. you can learn how to present yourself and girls will want your dick because as we well know all women are whores. fishing at its finest.

>>82757210
From the awkwardness, which is the point of the thread and the feelings OP feels.

I'll explain it to you since it seems you don't understand social interactions: When people have a mismatched interaction (mismatch between a social situation and expectations) that ends in a subpar manner, they may feel awkwardness. It's a feeling of unease triggered by social stress or the perception that things are not going as they should.

If OP goes into work awkward, he will further misread social cues due to him not understanding how to react. This in turn will make her feel awkward around him, making this situation worse.

Do you understand now? Need any more basic human emotions explained?

>>82757271
there are far more appropriate places to "learn, apply, and try" in. why risk severe social and career ramifications by trying to ask out coworkers? if anything it makes you seem desperate, or makes it seem like your workplace is the only place where you interact with women.

>>82757283
im seeing double; four larpers!

>>82755851
OP has no fucking idea how much he fucked up. He better hope his friends can give him a fake reference whilst he looks for a new job

t. Femcel in an office environment

>>82757283
yep, i fully believe it. when you're attractive or like you said, 7+ with great presence, they will literally try to fuck you at work. they cannot help themselves. ugly men like >>82757272 don't get it that this stuff happens to us regularly. every single job i've been at even when i was far younger there were things like this going on. the moment i show my face anywhere i already know what's coming because for me personally speaking, this happens everywhere i go. to the store, to fucking anywhere this stuff happens. immediate attraction at sight. but it's only increasing too because i'm trying to bring myself to that next level, 8.5+, like 8.2 or so right now i'd say

>>82755909
>S-SHE IS GOING TO REPORT HIM TO HR

I would

>>82757233
You said it yourself, she isn't going to dwell over it, so it's not awkward at all.

There was no lead, no drama, no exaggerated nonsense that would make her uncomfortable, just a simple invitation and a quick acknowledgement after being turned down.

now im seeing triple!!!

>>82755851
I've been ignoring this coworker that we both want nothing more than to fuck the life out of each but I know she can't keep her mouth shut.

The sexual tension is hot though

>>82756257
The one, lone male HR worker said this in his mind, before also agreeing to terminate his contract

>>82757342
because thats where i meet the most women. again, you seem to fail to comprehend my strategy - study social cues deeply. practice basic reads. elevate to flirting/teasing. learn more social cues deeply. test them. elevate to hanging out out of work. repeat and build connection. make sure you are reading things right by testing little comments. when you approach, do not ever make your offer final, never make it an expectation. again, normies dont think like us, it takes a lot for women to go to hr, and most women wont because it makes them feel wanted even if they decline you. stop blackpilling nigger.

>>82757146
Thats why he lost his job, he needs to be 6 inches taller

>>82757207
Because its evidence now kid

>>82757265
Every male coworker ive had has been gay or fat, why dont any hot men work with me, id rather suck dick than get a latte down the road

>>82757384
why would you care if she says anything about it? so strange. just fuck her, lick her backdoor and fuck her. and afterwards, tell her if she makes a big deal about it to anyone or any of the other women that there won't be any more sex

>>82757361
this guy gets it, but i saw a little 5/10 mexican goblin pull a threesome with two 8's he worked with because he buult presence. you can just copy guys like that. how they stand, their facial expression. how they speak. how they move their hands. how they react.
2nd lookmaxxing also. i went to an barber and told her 'i just had a breakup, can you make me look good? whatever you want.' total lie, she gave me the best cut i ever had, and it worked, been seeing her for cuts for a while now.
If you even gym enough to be toned women will talk to you more, like you more. my face card is not that strong.
its literally a video game. build your cha stat and craft a good image. copy how the fuckboys in your workplace or friend group dress. you can just ask the girl at the store at the mall if a shirt or something suits you and youll get good feedback. test everything, and learn.

>understood and SORRY IM A BETA SORRY BETA SORRY BETA SORRY BETA SORRY
They get off when you reply, embarrassing faggot.

>>82757415
you're not going to find an 8/10+ at every workplace, it's not going to happen. at all of the jobs i've had in my life, i've met only one 8/10+. so probably you have like a 10 - 15% chance or something to meet one. but if i'm taken, i don't cheat so you're not sucking my fucking dick, you would get rejected, just like the girl that put her head in my lap in her car as we parked at the pizza place during lunch. but i'll be flattered and be even more of a friend to you for such a nice thing you did

>>82757449
Final blackpill you have to swallow. Women don't respect respect. They are disrespectful creatures.

>>82757389
>normies dont think like us
>you seem to fail to comprehend my strategy - study social cues deeply. practice basic reads. elevate to flirting/teasing. learn more social cues deeply. test them. elevate to hanging out out of work. repeat and build connection
why should a non-normie try to fit in with normies and emulate their behaviors? normies are notouriously clique-ey and judgmental, the idea that you can just brute force your way in through trial and error is hysterical. im starting to think you guys never actually had a job lol.

>>82757370
Don't respond to that person, they don't understand basic human emotions like >>82757210. They never go outside so they don't know how social interactions work.

>>82757471
emulate so you can breed. i want to reproduce before i die, i am getting close. soon enough ill find one who meets my marriage criteria.
the only other sexual outlet if you cant reel in women is fucking men, which gets the cum out, but its gross.
i am beginning to believe you have never tried. the only way forward for robots is endless trial and error: mark my words

>>82755774 (OP)
LOOOOOL. rule #1 don't shit where you eat. lesson learned, FAGGOT.

>>82757452
Handsome men are so incredibly rare that i always spill my spaghetti.

Im someone that men will stop in the street to tell me im beautiful and i say oh ok. But when i see a handsome man i just lose my senses, its so fucking weird, i cant really understand it. I don't understand why im so in control around average men, but as soon as i see someone i like i become this different person. Reminds me a bit of how i was in school. I dont like that side of me, i wish it would stop

>>82757529
one day you'll get the cheese lol

>>82757551
but what do you mean, that applies to literally all people. and to confirm what you're saying, i experience that all of the time from women. and they have an interesting way to try and hide it, it's more of like a hiding in plain sight thing with them, you just have to pay a little attention and you'll recognize that they are in fact nervous because of my looks. basically deer in headlights thing, i'm looking at their eyes which always tell me if they're nervous or not. and for me personally, nervousness excites me even more and intrigues me on the spot more. but i don't even know what to tell you because i don't get nervous around the opposite gender regardless of their looks. now i don't because i've reached a point where i want to go into modelling in the future after further perfecting and that is if i reach my ultimate goal, but before when i was younger i absolutely would get nervous like every other guy. so yes, i do rely on my looks to avoid nervousness from my end, i don't really give a shit though because i put in the work to get to where i am now, so lick my fucking asshole, and i mean that to you and everyone else in this thread, lick my fucking hot asshole

>>82757436
>>82757361
You're so shamelessly samefagging. At least try to change the writing/punctuation style to make it less obvious. Very embarassing, sistah!

>>82757594
Lol you're funny anon

:)

>>82757596
>sees post written by autists trying to mask
>accuses samefag
clearly my strategy is successful if you are mixing me up with perhaps the only chad in the entire thread.
niggerpill all you want. rent free, in your head.
>>82757594
actually, eye contact is hilariously easy if youre a sperg, i thought i was creeping women out in college until my drunk aunt told me 'you hold such good eye contact, i bet all the girls love you.' so i asked her what she meant, then i asked a female friend if it was true. prolonged eye contact feels natural to me but to the normie it signals a challenge between too men or interest in women.
see how much you can learn?

>>82755774 (OP)
>people will know I am a heterosexual

never approach women digitally, always do it in person because you are bigger and stronger than them and this will make them afraid of insulting you

>>82757387
>male HR worker
If that were the case I wouldn't care if he respected me or not, I could never respect him.
HR is a woman's job. He may as well be a male cheerleader.
If you're a male and you work in HR, just... just lol. Just lol.

lol tried this didnt work out well

>>82755774 (OP)
Weird RP you chose with the AI bot

>>82755774 (OP)
It was a polite way to ask. Now you know, you don't need to be embarrassed. Nothing has changed and life goes on.

>>82755774 (OP)
Are you farming shit for twitter?

>>82755774 (OP)
You should definitely tell everyone before she does or you might get fired.

>>82757449
At least they're not replying to my messages while getting fucked in the ass. That's more than I could ask for

>>82759531
Very lame, since when did being a whire be cool? Thats like wheat bitch in the big city no?

yall never had a real job, as long has op doesnt keep texting her its fine. one time asking out isnt going to get you with hr unless it was in the work handbook not to date

>>82756184
>>82756191
this is just wrong, outside of work does not matter to your employer till law gets involved or harassment starts at work, like following someone home from work.

this will be shocking to the perma online people here but you can talk to women anywhere and itll be ok

Not as bad as what I've been through. I got let go, though. Sweet release, followed by years of regret and pain

>>82755774 (OP)
>>>/biz/61074463

>>82755851
I work on HR, here's some info:

1) stuff like this is completely fine, one employee asks out the other and the other declined, this is a resolved matter unless the guy persistently makes unwanted contact
2) u gotta be a retard to ask out a coworker if you work in the same space
3) this will be extremely awkward for anonymous, people might even gossip. Try to focus on work, maybe bring it up to your manager that you did a fucky wucky.

>I will only ever
Damn, twisting the knife, eh?

>>82756001
Yeah I think asking someone out via text is pussy shit

>>82756050
Kek

>>82756082
I'm a zoomie and always call women, they like it a lot. I hate texting on shitty apps, especially if its a back n forth on a dating app. You're retarded if you think I'll court someone for a week via texts.

>here's my number lady, call me or leave me be
It just works. Albeit I am quite handsome.

>>82757003
> if not no worries

This is retarded. Be assertive, if you approach with a "tee hee, its ok if you dont want to" mentality, you're NGMI

Otherwise good post

>>82761001
>Albeit I am quite handsome.

Lol

How hard is it to say "not interested, thanks?"
"Please don't call or text me, thanks in advance?" What a cunt. I wouldn't have even responded back, just ghosted outright. There's nothing wrong with asking somebody out politely. You didn't even give any indication that you were going to be pushy. Absolutely graceless response by this women, I don't think you're missing out anon.

>>82761122
Eh? It was a bit rude but considering how much conversation I see here in this hellsite, this response felt pretty OK.

>>82760611
>all lowercase typer
>well akshully deflection, other asinine bullshit that isn't true in present day
EVERY FUCKING TIME

>>82756072
if that nigga looked good that bitch would be on his dick regardless, this dude looks either average or unattractive thats it no female brained muh confidence bullshit needs to be applied

>>82760972
>HR nigger is a disingenuous faggot that lies like they breathe
Well that settles it.

>>82757359
shut up whore stfu

>>82760611
>outside of work does not matter to your employer till law gets involved or harassment starts at work
if you work at burger king maybe, but any real job will punish you for behavior outside of work; especially when it involves a coworker.

>>82761175
To me, it's all about the social contract. If men are a obligated to approach, women are obligated to be graceful in rejection.

Obviously if the guy is a douche they can give that energy back, but OP was very polite.

It's funny because in my experience attractive women are the softest rejectors. They'll either be very curt, or apologetic. I guess it's because they aren't insecure. I can guarantee that the women in the op is mid and insecure. OP is likey not a catch, and she's lashing out because the quality of the men hitting on her is a reflection of how unattractive she is herself.

>>82755774 (OP)
Time to either fraud the company by delibarately injuring yourself to get paid leave for a year or quit immediatly. It's fucking over.

>>82760972
>this is a resolved matter unless the guy persistently makes unwanted contact
But notice what he did not bring up is that any contact from this point will be treated as unwanted contact.
What I need you all to understand about foids is, they live in a bubble. As long as they feel comfy and safe and in control, they're fine. But OP will now make her uncomfortable just by existing in her space. She'll pretend to be fine with it at first, but she's going to plot to remove him however she can, she's probably already doing it.
OP has to go so she can go back to living in her bubble, safe from any challenge or discomfort whatsoever.

>>82761226
Ur just mad cuz I make moar money with less work. Do tell how I've been disingenuous

>>82761092
Don't shit on my advice if you havent tried it.
>uhh im ugly so it wouldnt work anyways
Is that you're mindset?

>>82761657
>It immediately goes mask off with how much it hates actual workers
If you worked at the same place op did you would be reporting him to the police, lmfao you dumb fucking nigger.

>>82756377
Unironically this. I think OP tried to escalate because she gave her enough attention to make him think there was interest.

But we don't really know the whole story. Anyhow, lesson learned, try to avoid dating coworkers and don't ask people out through text

>>82755774 (OP)
Do most r9k work at Jewish Daycare office jobs? My impression was mostly NEET or at most a McJob. The claim about OP will never work anywhere again except McDonalds sounded funny if OP works at Burger King (or already works at McDicks).
Two things to keep in mind:
Most Jewish Daycare jobs have already downsized, moved to India, only hire illegals now, or converted to AI, so HR can't fire you from a job you can't get.
Most little companies like a restaurant or tiny retail store don't HAVE a hr dept. As long as you don't ask the owner's daughter to fuck, you'll be OK.

>>82762141
>I think OP tried to escalate because she gave her enough attention to make him think there was interest.
Or he's like the rest of you dumbfucks and mistook basic polite interaction for interest, developed massive onitis about her for no reason and got obsessed with her to the point of acting up like a deranged retard.
Sorry r9k, but that's just how most of you are. It's your autism. I know it's not your fault.
But I have to tell the truth and hurt your feelings a little.

>>82762360
>mistook basic polite interaction for interest
giving a guy your phone number goes beyond just polite interaction. you can't cope and say that she only did it for work-related reasons, since she could've just emailed him or messaged him on slack (or whatever app the company uses for employee communication).

>>82762360
First, you're a judgmental nigger.

Second: not necessarily. Women string along men they know they're interested in them all the time. Giving just enough to keep receiving attention, favors, etc but never putting out and if the guy doesn't have enough experience or too pathetic he'll follow the crumbs

And, like that other anon said, you just don't give your phone number to anyone.

>>82763071
Sorry, nope. It's not that uncommon. I've gotten loads of numbers from female coworkers, it's a matter of convenience. Reading into it is clown shit.
>>82763188
And just like that other anon, you're wrong and a goober. Shut up, goober.

>>82763195
God, you're such a faggot. It's like I'm really on reddit

>>82763211
>s-she gave me her number in a work setting bros
>she totally wants to fuck and anyone who says otherwise is a reddit faggot!
Do you really not realize how hilariously retarded you sound?

>>82763229
I hope she hears that, b/r/o.

>>82763241
Who is "she" even supposed to be in your "joke"?
How much did your parents shake you?
Was your mom a heavy drinker?

>>82763289
Whoah, why are you so hostile? Do you want a reaction?

Daddy didn't pay enough attention to you?

>>82763425
Keep acting like a clown, I'll keep treating you like a clown.

>>82763229
I didn't even have my coworker who is the sole person I work with all day 8hrs a day until like 3 months after working with them. Call it autism or whatever, sharing phone number is not that common unless you're retail.

>>82760611
>>82761267
This. Most actual jobs have it written in the handbook that you can't date employees, especially if there's a seniority difference. It doesn't stop it from happening, my lesbian manager is fucking all the other lesbians at my job so if she can do it, I'm gonna make an exception to fuck this new girl

The only ones that don't care are bullshit jobs you shouldn't be at anyways unless you're a Total failure or for dealt insanely bad cards (Walmart, McDonald's, etc.)

>>82763195
>it's a matter of convenience
by that logic there's nothing wrong with taking a coworker to dinner to discuss work topics. yet you equate that with being obsessed and having oneitis. normalniggers really are the most hypocritical gaslighers lol.

>>82763506
Work lunches and work dinners are super normal and common but that's not what OP was doing you spas.
Jesus, what is wrong with you people? I'd heard auties struggled with social stuff but this is too much. You really can't tell the difference between inviting a peer to a work lunch and asking them on a date?

>>82755774 (OP)
Well that was a solid life lesson, now wasn't it? It'll be awkward for a minute, but don't acknowledge it unless she does, and if she does say something try to be graceful about it.
You'll be fine.

>>82763527
>but that's not what OP was doing you spas
all OP did was ask her if she wanted to go to dinner. he didn't say he liked her or anything like that, it was strictly an offer to go to dinner. the fact that you think her giving out her phone number was strictly professional, yet also think that him asking her to go to dinner was unprofessional only shows how two-faced you normalniggers really are.

>>82763590
>he can't see the difference or handle basic social situations

>>82763614
>Can't explain the difference
No, he's right. You're definitely just retarded.

>A man asked me out.
>I'm not interested.
>I'll simply tell him "sorry, not into you like that" and move on with my life.
Why AREN'T womanbrains like this?

>>82763614
>giving your personal number to someone is fine
>asking someone to go to dinner with no clear romantic intentions is somehow not fine
normalniggers don't operate logically. their concept of good and bad is completely based on herd mentality and gossip.

>>82763626
You don't even have the context in which he was given the phone number, but I can promise it wasn't flirty or romantic in any way.
It's not uncommon or abnormal for coworkers to exchange numbers for the sake of convenience.
Like, are you actually insane?
>coworker gives you number
SHE WANTS MY DEEEEEE

Just pure autism, holy shit.
>>82763657
There were clear romantic intentions. He didn't say "let's meet over dinner to discuss x work thing", he said "Hi, this is really random (teehee) but do you think you'd be up for dinner sometime next week?"
And when she said "I only see you as a coworker" he didn't follow up with "I only meant it as a coworker, this was a work thing" he said "zoinks oops sorry I'm such a wussy fag sorry to bother you"

Like it couldn't be more clear. I'm really starting to understand how most of you end up here, and it's looking bleak.

>>82755774 (OP)
>21 hours ago
How many boxes did they give you to clean out your desk?

>>82763684
Yeah, just like him asking her to diner wasn't him asking to fuck her either, This projection is absolutely hysterical. You're literally mad at the argument you're making you fucking retard, kek.

>>82763792
>romantic intention (asking on date)
vs
>non-romantic intention (giving coworker number for work purposes)
Really shouldn't be this hard, proof half of you or more took way too much Tylenol growing up.

>>82763684
>And when she said "I only see you as a coworker" he didn't follow up with "I only meant it as a coworker, this was a work thing" he said "zoinks oops sorry I'm such a wussy fag sorry to bother you"
you can't even see his full response text stupid nigger. for all we know he did say that it was only a work thing, you're just speculating that he didn't. just like you're also speculating that giving a coworker your number can only be for professional reasons
>I's not uncommon or abnormal for coworkers to exchange numbers for the sake of convenience.
if you went up to every female coworker and asked for their number, you'll be called into hr regardless of if you're chad or not. i'll say it again; most companies already have internal messaging apps like slack or teams that everyone has to use. it's way more "convenient" to message on there than having to give everyone your phone number.

>>82763820
A cute girl reacted to something funny I sent her on Slack with a laughing emoji once. Like a couple months ago. A gf would be nice.

>>82755774 (OP)
>Not sending a "shit sorry, wrong person" text after she rejected you
Ngmi

>>82763863
Any reaction to rejection other than immediate suicide is cope.

>>82763848
>A cute girl reacted to something funny I sent her on Slack with a laughing emoji once.
HOLY
she must want to marry and fuck you and have all your kids anon
there can be no other explanation

>>82763874
she should sent to hr for misinterpreting his signals.

>>82763809
>asking on date
He asked her to dinner, they already ate lunch at work. You are literally the thing you're complaining about retard.

Call in sick forever

>>82763874
I'm an incel so I know this isn't possible but it would be nice.

This is why you must learn to womanize as early as possible, as you misinterpret female actions to hilarious degreees
>SHE WAS NICE TO ME SO SHE WANTS TO FUCK ME
How sad

>>82755774 (OP)
>coworker
Your first and biggest mistake.
Also she sounds like a cunt anyways, none of the awkward emojis or "omg I'm sorryyy"-type rejection stuff.

How does someone like OP even have a job he reeks of the tism, how the fuck did he get pass the interview stage

>>82763863
This would only work if women weren't all narcissistic, even if it you actually did fuck up and send the message to the wrong person it wouldn't matter.

I hope someone asks me out over text

>>82755774 (OP)
This has inspired me to not pursue the work qt I dream about

>>82763820
>most companies already have internal messaging apps like slack or teams that everyone has to use.
This. Why in the fuck would you give out your phone number to coworkers READ: people with a vested interest in fucking you over anyways? Look at the vast amount of personal data, whether from those creepy people search sites or breaches, then imagine what they'd do if they found out about all the shit you do off the clock that would look real fucking bad if it ever went public. Hell, they could easily SIM swap you and get all your personal messages, accounts, and every little detail of your life you keep on your phone. You've effectively given them free leverage to d0x you. It's not even that hard: discord trannies do it all the time and there's not even any money at stake. Imagine what a properly motivated adversary would do.

>>82763470
>Most actual jobs have it written in the handbook that you can't date employees, especially if there's a seniority difference
Blanket bans on coworkers dating are more of a boomer era thing. The the seniority difference is pretty much the only part that is still against the rules. The "rules" against coworkers dating got relaxed not because yuppies found out it was a good way to get dirt on their coworkers and manipulate them closer to getting shitcanned.

>>82761744
Incomprehensible

>>82761612
That is not how a performance oriented (see: successful) company works, idiot

>>82765125
Who gives a single flying shit about """successful""" anymore? Just use it for all it's worth and let it be someone else's problem. It goes under? So what? Just jump ship and do it again after getting promoted up from your """work experience""".

>>82765202
This. Even the founder/owner is in on this. The vast majority of companies nowadays are made with the intention to sell to someone else with deeper pockets. If they don't even care about their own creation, why the fuck should you?

>>82755774 (OP)
This is the sort of thing I'm dealing with all the time. Except I don't even get rejections. They just ignore my fucking message. I don't get the courtesy of "sorry, I'm not interested". So I get left wondering "What if". In the case I'm thinking of the girl continues giving me signal afterwards anyways, but acts uncomfortable and makes up lame excuses for the lack of responses on text (Oh, and obviously a husband was in the pic, but she still gave me signals to begin with).

Women don't get that this shit hurts man. Being lonely hurts like hell. I need a girl so bad. Another Friday night, and another weekend spent alone. And I can't get any of the bullshit strangers I see on social media or dating app to respond to my DM's.

>>82764271
>I hope someone asks me out over text
apparently most people do as well

>>82765732
>Women don't get that this shit hurts man
no, they definitely do; that's why they do it. like i mentioned here >>82756377, i almost got fucked up because of a female coworker. she never mentioned having a bf, then she gave me her number and then one day invited me over. she's showing me around her house when her bf pulls up. as soon as he saw me he started running towards me like he was going to hit me while she tried to get him to stop. i think he felt bad for me because as soon as i explained myself he calmed down, he must've realized i was just a beta orbiter, and the way he looked at her after suggests it probably wasn't the first time she's done this.