Thread 82764793

i recently met with a guy off soc whos 14 years older than me. everything was ok he was a bit chatty but i didnt feel anything. it was my first date. we did drugs together went to a park and that was it. i didnt really feel a romantic attraction or anything despite wanting a boyfriend. it was my first ever date and interaction with a guy after being a stuck in neet for years. hes really handsome and we have similarities but i geniunely felt no connection. hed been in previous relationships and is experienced which kind of turned me off but i knew this ever since i met him. the age difference didnt fuss me and i plan on meeting with him again in a weeks time. i hope i feel something but i dont know what to do. am i to blame for being lonely? i really want a boyfriend but i felt nothing. he said im pretty and hed be happy if i was his girlfriend but i dont feel the same

>>82764793 (OP)
>Complains they have options
>Don't like the options they have
Yawn.

>>82764793 (OP)
what are you expecting out of it and from him?

>>82764868
> options
oh so youre using plurals over one failed date? who are the others i can date anon id like to know. if that was the case this thread wouldnt exist

>>82764793 (OP)
He travelled to meet you or you travelled to meet him? If it was far at least you know he's into you

>>82764885
i was expecting some depressed stuck in neet whos never dated and is a virgin like myself. everything we had in common seemed force >>82764898
he came to me but we're an hour away. im also a neet and he has a job so he can afford to come see me. i know he likes me which is why i dont want to lead him on but hes the only guy whos shown interest in me

>>82764793 (OP)
Just be honest to him about it. Sometimes you feel like you have something but once you are put in the situation, the spark is gone.
If you want to give it another chance that is fine I suppose but it looks to me it would be a waste of both your time.
Cannot help it so the best course of action is to tell him how you really feel. Just be sure to not be an ass about it and that should be enough.
Please do not feel obligated to date the guy because he is nice and into you.

>>82764907
where do you live that its so easy to meet someone like this?

>>82764793 (OP)
you can still hang out as friends and make it clear that you are not emotionally ready for a romantic relationship. a mature guy will respect that.
if you're sure you don't want to date at all then tell him. communication is important

>>82764939
we live in the same country lmao>>82764933
> >>82764943 ive been open to him about maybe cutting contact completely because i feel like a friendship and relationship wouldnt work. he begged me not to do that and i said it to his face as well. i think the drugs had influence on me because i apologised right after via text and he acted like nothing had happened and continued being himself. i hope when we next meet up i might have a change in heart but i dont have much hope. hes the only chance i have though

>>82764970
when i was a depressed neet (still am)i also had that weird "push" and "pull" feeling where i didn't want to be around people, but i knew it was in my best interest. drugs could be a factor for sure. what drugs did you take? you might be glad you went afterwards, that happens to me a lot.

>>82765030
i took ecstacy with some coke. i wanted to feel happy and emoitonal to see if i could feel any romantic tension between me and him since thats what extascy can do . it can make you fall in love. that didnt happen with me but i did feel euphoric. i just went home and layed down on my bed listening to music until it wore off

fembots would rather go on dates with old soc creeps that are trolling 4chan for virgins instead of giving a real robot a chance, grim!

>>82764970
>drugs
What? You should drop that stuff posthaste.
Anyway, cutting contact completely is taking it a bit far but I am also prone to leaving people once I feel like my purpose has been served so I will not comment much on it.
Still, be sure to have a clear head whenever you interact with the guy to avoid any mistake and other decisions you would regret.

>>82764793 (OP)
>i didnt really feel a romantic attraction or anything despite wanting a boyfriend.
I've never really understood what women mean when they say stuff like this. Do you expect to fall instantly in love with a guy on a first date? Because that's kind of a tall order. First dates are meant to be fun and a way to get to know someone. I think your putting an awful lot of unnecessary pressure on yourself and not giving yourself, and him, a chance when you hold such high expectations.

>>82765081
i took drugs like 5 hours into the date. i wanted to feel something romantic but that didnt happen lmfao. i was aware of my surroundings it wasnt anything crazy like a hallucinogenic just a boost of seretonin and dopimaine >>82765075
soc is intended to meet with people. last time i tried on r9k no one was interested apart from 30 year old incels who wanted babies and a young gf. same outcome

>>82765104
he told me he felt a romantic attraction and connection with me. he said he was attracted to me and how he found me gorgeous. i didnt feel the same towards him neither did i seem too interested in the date. whenever i see or hear stories of peoples first date they always talk about feeling a spark or connection. none of that happened with me and i felt insanely depressed.

>>82764793 (OP)
where are you from? do you play vidya? why not date me instead? did you suck his dick? did he feel your tits?

>>82764793 (OP)
give it another chance or two and if it doesn't work then pull the plug and start over imo

>>82765317
tf is wrong w u>>82765353
it took me ages to find someone though

>>82765378
answer the question. they're literally normal questions. EU or USA?

>>82764793 (OP)
If there's nothing there then there's nothing there. Don't force yourself to like this guy, or feel obligated that you have to keep seeing him. There's plenty more men out there.

>i don't feel the same
>but i'll go again anyway
retard alert weeeeeeeeooooooooooooooooooowwwwwwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoooooooowwwww

>>82765140
yeah mdma and coke is a crazy combo. i'm not surprised he wanted to date and felt a romantic connection, shit is a love potion.
its interesting that you didn't feel much, but it looks like a good sign that you are firmly anti relationship.
keep trying to make friends and hang out with people though, its good for neets. just don't force anything.

>>82765387
normal questions for a chronically online fatos >>82765406
tfw no doomer virgin bf

>>82765463
i'm a doomer virgin bf. so where you from?

>>82765517
if ur the op im not interested u have coomer mentality

>>82765537
>loving your gf and wanting to be intimate is bad because... IT JUST IS OKAY

>>82764793 (OP)
i haven't immediately fallen in love and there's no le "spark" like there is in my romance novels!! wth guys...

>>82764793 (OP)
Girl... tell him how you feel and just block him. 14 years older than you and he's taking you to the park to do drugs? That guy's the most pathetic person on the planet. Go out into the world and you'll meet others. He'll ruin your life.

>>82764886
Post that hot pussy and show us your hot sexy body. Faggot

>>82765547
>your
go fuck a slut then? theres plenty of fish in the sea seethe somewhere else coomer>>82765550
he said that he felt a connection with me and we'd been talking online before actually meeting in person why is r9k full of retards

>>82764793 (OP)
>am i to blame for being lonely? i really want a boyfriend but i felt nothing. he said im pretty and hed be happy if i was his girlfriend but i dont feel the same
no, you're not to blame. blame for not having feelings for someone who is handsome by your own admission, relatively kind? sucks. at least you're neutral to him. you'd probably view me as a ugly boring loser though and get the ick.
t. khhv ugly virgin moid former rotter NEET, I am an authentic loser and supposed woman hater
check your privilege, foid

>>82765063
What are you, a fucking idiot?

>>82765140
That's what I mean. That "spark" you're talking about isn't happening because it seems that you've built this idea in your head of what romance/dating should be, like something out of an anime, and are self-sabotaging yourself in the process. In the future go into dates with no expectations and just be open to have fun. That's how that "spark" happens. Of course that's not to say that it always happens, two people can have widely different senses of humor or "energies", or just not be sexually attracted to one another, in which case the initial attraction obviously won't take place. In any case, romantic feelings develop over time.

>>82765589
>he said that he felt a connection with me
i can say a lot of things too
I feel a connection with you right now, so let's meet up. i'm in Germany, deal? let's roll.

>>82764793 (OP)
>expecting love at first sight
Are you dumb? Do you think you're movie protagonist?

>>82764793 (OP)
Fucking brutal blackpill post
Doesn't matter how much of a man you are and if your enjoyable to be around, if a foid knows you arent a chad with a perfect jawline and her pussy isn't wet from seeing you then you might as well rope
chads cock only

>>82765589
>he said that he felt a connection with me
isn't the gripe that you're the one that didn't feel a connection you fucking retard?

>>82765612
whats wrong with that.. >>82765616 i think im just wording this poorly. the date felt more like a task of me going out to socialise with someone instead of wanting to be there and enjoying the moment. it was awkward and he was bloviating. he kept trying to push the idea of being similar but couldnt match my energy. it seemed dull and emotionless. im not expecting some novel romance where i faill in love instantly i just thought id atleast feel happy or something. thats why im going on a second date. i was more or so looking for advice i wanted to know if its normal to feel like this. hes extroverted and im introverted. hes experienced has plenty of friends compared to me which feels like ive just stepped foot outside from isolation after 5 years

>>82765554
>14 years older than you and he's taking you to the park to do drugs?
i meeean... he's right. drugs on the first date is crazyy. especially that combo. he just wants to fuck. 14 years older implies he's at least in his thirties. maybe keep *relationships* to ages close to yours so you can *relate* to them more

>>82765656
hes litterally attractive and tall what the fuck are you saying? hes leagues above me and has a body count of over 10 and has been in several relationships? why do you niggers always have to be incels in every relationship based post. if anything he wouldntve dated me if i wasnt attractive to him because i had no connection with him i acted very emotionless and dull

>>82765705
You literally admitted because your pussy isnt wet you dont want him lol unless its love at first sight with you foids you see them as worthless
Even being a chadlite like him isn't good enough for you
>muh no connection with him!!!!
Aka you didnt get a tingle in your clit seeing him

>>82765700
no one my age has similar interests to me. ive only met some on discord servers and none of them live in my area. >>82765727 incels will say this then swear they arent gay and that all women are whores whilst shitting on virgin women

>>82765705
>has a body count of over 10
and you're gonna be the next notch on his belt? a quick easy lay and then dumped
KEKAROO

>>82765746
i said im not comfortable with the fact hes experienced and im not going to have sex with anyone until marriage . how are you going to call women chadsexuals then say they want to be cum n dumpd by men whove had past relationships xd tell me youre brown without telling me

>>82765783
>im not going to have sex with anyone until marriag
things nobody believes, not even yourself, for 500 Alex

>>82765800
i dont give a fuck that youre a gay seething incel whos never spoke with a woman irl . if virgin doomer men existed id gladly take them on a date

>>82764793 (OP)
Let's say the drugs make you feel a connection, what will happen when you don't have those drugs? It's not sustainable.

>>82765814
>ur an incel
>u never spoke with a woman
>u cant get my holes!
is sex really the only thing you offer?

>>82765814
u do coke and ecstasy and want to save urself for marriage lol ur gonna get date raped by your dealer or some druggie loser desu

>>82765783
no you'll have sex with the 2nd guy you have a crush on cause the first one you think you need to be proper and then the 2nd one you are like fuck it i'll just do it idgaf anymore and then you'll have 10 more cause you're 20 and you will just ride the carousel and then you'll be like oh fuck im 28 now i need to have a life and then you'll get a betabux that you never ever would've considered and you might even pretend that you're happy with him

>>82765823
drugs arent a love potion. youre fully aware of who and what youre doing. the reason why im going on a second date it because when the drugs wore off i still felt something to want to go onto a second date. i just dont know how itll go >>82765840
i buy my stuff online but alright if youve never done drugs just say so
>>82765844
pajeet ur google translate is broken

>>82765830
im waiting for someone who isnt a chronically online r9k incel whos been on a date to give me a logical answer. not an incel whos obsessive about the piss and poo holes of human beings

>shut up inkwell, have sex
>you're obsessed with holes
ngl I'm a "virgin doomer" and you honestly sound like a bitch, even if the faggots in the thread are being assholes
do you have anything to offer?

This whore is literally a fucking hard drug addict, whoever gets her can keep her. No robot here wants you, and rightly so.

>>82765895
>ngl imma virgin doomer
no ur a r9k faggot whos never touched a fag and still lives with his parents. men like you deserve to die alone in society id be more than happy that youre repulsed by me because i dont want to be anywhere near your pitiful existence. what do you have to offer other than bitching like a sissy?

>>82765887
>to give me a logical answer.
What "logica"l answer do you want?
You're dating someone 14 years older, who isn't a virgin, and who is incompatible with you while telling virgin men that they're basically subhumans.
btw sounds like you're being groomed, in a non meme way. If he wouldn't shut the fuck up about how similar you two are and he's just extroverted and not a vrigin and you met him on /soc/, what the fuck are you going on a second date for?
To get raped?

>>82764907
>i was expecting some depressed stuck in neet whos never dated and is a virgin like myself.
if a neet is in his thirties he's probably long since given up on life, of course this guy is going to be utterly normal

>>82765936
>>no ur a r9k faggot whos never touched a fag and still lives with his parents
I have done more psychedelics than you will ever do in your life. considering you call them a "fag" I assume you're in the UK.
>men like you deserve to die alone in society id be more than happy that youre repulsed by me
what the fuck are you talking about? I also am a former neet who lost years of my life to catatonic, bedrotting depression, and live alone.
you're just being really mean and acting like a bitch.

>>82765937
i cant get raped in broad day light in the middle of a shitty city. honestly i dont care what happens to me . life is too boring after the date ill just go back to the usual . all the virgin robots on here have the share the same schizo mentality , they make fake blackpilled scenarios claim theyre not coomers then all they talk about is wanting to have sex then blame women for having sex with men who arent them. why should i feel bad for them? i want adivce from someone whos been in a relationship and has been on dates

>>82765962
>want adivce from someone whos been in a relationship and has been on dates
Fuck off somewhere else then or go get a discord simp to talk to

>>82765960
good for you junkie i dont take drugs to escape reality

>>82765969
> fuck off
blud is voluntarlity on this thread typing this out >get out of my incel territory foid!!! cryin

>>82765981
oh you're just a larping tranny. how original

>>82765971
>>good for you junkie i dont take drugs to escape reality
okay, this is actually a troll thread. buying coke and x off the internet and pretending he's not a junkie in that respect.
you will never be a woman.

bait thread baiting bait

>>82765989
you live with your parents you dont know how to buy drugs off tor or how to use bitcoin let alone have proof of address . >>82765988
i wasnt larping when i say you should kill yourself ( please do )

>>82764793 (OP)
>am i to blame for being lonely? i really want a boyfriend but i felt nothing. he said im pretty and hed be happy if i was his girlfriend but i dont feel the same
Yes. 14 years older is too big a gap though. He wants to fuck you and use you. You should find someone at least a little closer in age.
Btw, normal connections can be like that. It can be literally nothing until it is something. Just stop being so dramatic. You're young as fuck. At least tell him you didn't care that much instead of meeting again.

>>82766009
>you don't know how to buy drugs off tor
are you fucking retarded? do you think you're special for being able to download the browser bundle and operate a wallet, retard?
you will never be a woman

>>82766009
>i wasnt larping when i say you should kill yourself
tranny and an indian. what a terrible life.

>>82766023
hahah keep coping junkie i hope you get laced with ur street dealers dumbass niglet getting scammed >>82766020
how can i meet someone within my age? ive been approached before but theyre all normies. i want someone who resembles me

this retards gonna die in an alleyway absolutely buzzin off cocaine and fent at 2 AM after being mugged by a nigger

didn't read any of this thread but if any euro fembot wants a lonely euro robot to play vidya with and live together add me on discord twentyscoville

>>82766055
typical anti drug normie whos only ever had a sip of cider then orgasmed because of the 4% alc volume

>>82766042
>how can i meet someone within my age? ive been approached before but theyre all normies. i want someone who resembles me
i seriously advise having better luck. luck is a skill in of itself! try to get better at it.

>>82766042
>>hahah keep coping junkie
you're seriously retarded, tranny. I don't buy drugs off the street. if you are a woman, very unlikely, you're seriously a bitch, and there is a reason no one wants you.
you're ugly on the inside and on the outside.

>>82766070
i drank an entire bottle of champagne like a few weeks ago, i was also an alcoholic, you are literally so addicted to drugs you love bragging about it and think its good, this is how far you are gone

>>82766071
i met up with him because we both are really anti semitic and he plays dota and i play wow and he complimented my ss waffen division t shirt but it was so dry when we met. he was blonde hair and blue eyes and said i look like a goth princess because i have pale skin and black hair whilst wearing an iron cross and fishnets. ive read meine kampf in public but no one approached me :/ a nigger approached me whilst i wore an iron cross though no joke

>>82766084
addicted to what XDDDD you should get liver faliure >>82766078
im very pretty and i dont treat subhumans (you) and shitskins (also you) nicely

>>82766114
>im very pretty
>using 4chan arguing to losers
wow so pretty

>>82766123
whats the correlation. i want to know

>>82766114
>im very pretty and i dont treat subhumans (you) and shitskins (also you) nicely
I'm White, you fucking retard, with green eyes. A few posts ago you were bragging about being able to download TBB and using a wallet.
Assuming your subhuman tranny LARP is actually true, you're so oblivious to some 35 year old about to pump and dump you it's comical.
Imagine being such a basic bitch you can't see through some extroverted pervert on /soc/ constantly trying to put the idea in your head that you're in any way similar when he's probably fucked a dozen like you.

>>82766098
idk guys, i kinda think OP is cool. a little tryhard, but i'd be friends with her

>>82766137
attractive people don't waste their lives arguing on 4chan silly

>>82766141
jeets afghans iranians can also have coloured eyes . ur a subhuman fuck i couldnt give a shiettt lalalalala

>>82766098
>i met up with him because we both are really anti semitic and he plays dota and i play wow
>tfw girls dont want to play wow with me because some dude twice their age on soc messaged them and somehow girls hate me
yeah okay i'll just push mythic keys by myself then late at night

>>82766160
nigga its 3am im not in the mood to open steam and play a game. i havent used 4chan in 19 days

>>82766169
>nigga its 3am im not in the mood to open steam and play a game. i havent used 4chan in 19 days
this is cope. you could be reading a book, having a good sleep schedule, doing something actually meaningful you know like how non losers do, also you just admit that you play video games, so yea you're definitely just a loser that isn't attractive

>>82766178
XDDD this is the stupidest shit ive ever read why are you on 4chan then ugly? XDD

>>82766161
>uhh... you're a sandnigger!
No, I'm 100% western european
>ur a subhuman fuck i couldnt give a shiettt lalalalala
Cope and sneed, You're a retard.
>tee hee look at me I know how to use TBB and have a wallet on my phone
This isn't 2011, this shit isn't hard to use or figure out where to buy
Here's to hoping the inevitable happens and you get raped by some rapist from /soc/ since you're being such a retarded, hostile bitch in this thread to people your age who are 100% similar to you.

>>82766187
We're not talking about me, we're talking about you. You are an ugly loser, stop coping and grow the fuck up.

>>82766199
>ugly
youre self projecting like actually im giggling

>>82766205
You said ugly first retard. Why are you coping so much, take a step back and look at yourself, you're posting on 4chan at 3 in the morning and laughing to yourself like a lunatic, you're a loser. Most here can admit this, I guess it's harder for women.

>>82766217
funniest thing youve said and its all friendly fire XDDD i cant believe how subhuman you are oh my god you really think youre that special and exempt when youre a nobody irl not even a jannie

>>82766231
God you're such a loser lol imagine normal functioning humans looking at you right now, they would be repulsed, like I said I guess women cant self reflect as much as men

>>82766246
> i finger my asshole in the hopes one day itll be a fat black cock in my ass i am exempt to using 4chan because im incel chud final boss whos camping on a thread and getting rage baited because i get no attention ever

>>82766266
>now we're bringing up black cock
You got a black cock fetish or something? What the fuck is wrong with you, you're more deranged than I thought.

>>82766266
>and getting rage baited
>lol i troll u
you will never be a woman

>>82764793 (OP)
/soc/niggers are boring normgroids, so that is no surprise.
I think you'll have *slightly* better luck here but you need to be good at filtering
Sucks though. I get it
>I don't know what to tell him
Exactly what you said here, simply tell him that you aren't really feeling it, then you can move on. Don't let yourself be influenced by his begging or whatever else he may try, you've only known him for a few days at best. He'll be fine
>>82766098
I'd date you desu but I'm a hispanic

Anyways I'll make another thread after the date with pic related to thread goodnight everyone apart from the faggot the junkie and the incel

>>82766290
Well hopefully it goes well

>>82766290
>i will make another larp thread pretending i am a woman
you will never be a woman

>>82766290
You're still a loser.

>>82766320
Dude so are you get a life

>>82766364
I know that already, this bitch needs to hear it.
>Dude so are you
AND so are you too so haha

You should at least suck his dick once

>>82766364
he's less pathetic than you considering you're a useless former neet who has nothing to offer while shitting on anyone similar to you in your high school level roleplay
the only thing in this thread that may possibily indicates you may be a real woman is your inconsistencies and ultimately your lashing out due to your cognitive dissonance that you're fundamentally unable to connect the dots on, adding to the realism that you may be a real woman because you are fundamentally retarded and unable to do so
for example, calling yourself a former depressed neet and saying that having experience and being in previous relationships and is experienced turned you off yet shitting on virgins and neets and also going out with him again
fundamentally your larp went out the window with your admission that you are rage baiting and the unrealistic, exaggerated theatrics in your description of the situation that are high school level
even if this board is garbage, it deserves a better class of tranny pretending they're women

I'm 34 but fat and balding but I am however a virgin and I have good face genes & getting a hair transplant next year so if you're willing to see the potential in me you could get a gem of a bf in the next couple years

invest in me (lol)

>>82766441
based. loser btfo

>>82764793 (OP)
read through some of your posts and you seem sweet. shouldnt need to take drugs to know whether you like someone or not on the first date.

the best relationship i ever had, when i met this woman, we talked for like 8 hours straight and it really was love at first sight.

but yeah if you didnt feel that spark and are not attracted to him, it wont work... you can force it if you want, but you wont be happier in the end

>>82766098
hell yeah i like that you took the picture of Heydrich offering the boof very seriously. right. uh, best of luck with all your shit. how neat that your connecting characteristic is not liking the Yids that much. not that there's anything wrong with that. just don't make it your whole identity lol

>>82766098
>plays wow
>roleplays as goth nazi
PLEASE BE MY WIFE. IVE PLAYED WOW NEET LOSER FOR 20 YEARS. YOU'RE THE ONE FOR ME.
AUSTRALIA?

>>82766591
even if it weren't a tranny "she" is chad only (i.e.going out on another date with a 35 year old real AVRYAN man even though he fundamentally turns her off and shitting on NEET losers even though "she" was one herself)
in "her" eyes, you aren't beating chad from /soc/ who has pumped and dumped mora than a dozen different useless assburger sluts like "her"

>>82766591
why is xally such a sexdemon

>>82764793 (OP)
How long did you talk to him online before meeting up irl?

>>82764793 (OP)
Femoid is mad she isn't with a Chad, lmao

Y'all are far too picky

>>82766098
we could statisticpost in tradechat and call it a date

>>82767042
>nuslop characters

>>82764793 (OP)
>first date is ecstacy and coke
well im not getting a gf if I can't afford these days

>>82764793 (OP)
You got shit like this saved on your rig seems like he dodged a bullet wit yo crazy ass

>stinky net goth girl nazi roleplayer who plays WoW
>zoomer
i refuse to believe this is real. its bait.
its too perfect.

>>82767238
yeah its a bit too specific to me, genuine fed op

>>82764793 (OP)
Another stacy humble bragging about being desired. Why dont you go back to TikTok instead where all the normies congregate. You'll never know what its like to suffer as an ugly femcel.

>>82767284
date me ugly femcel

>>82764793 (OP)
>hes really handsome
>he had experience which turned me off
All foids, even femcels, want a fucking unicorn.
You want a tall handsome guy who is also a virgin? I Fucking hate women.

>>82767284
You're just mad she dated a Chad.
You want Chad too.

>>82767389
>chad
Not even about that. Just having someone be attracted to you and calling you pretty is something ive never experienced in my life.
>>82767297
I don't want to be rejected for being ugly

>>82767284
are you capable of love? i see you posting a lot. i dont care how you look. when you love someone, they become the most beautiful person in the world. i just want to love...

>>82767448
>I don't want to be rejected for being ugly
You do want to be accepted and there is the challenge. How many rejections will you lay down on the line to bet on one acceptance?

Incel answer:
>None. That's stupid. I'm not wasting my time.
Sex-haver answer:
>As many as it takes.

My answer:
>Nine. Okay like, fifteen? Maybe twenty or so but I have my limits. Okay fifty.