>>82776794
I mean, if you want specificity, sure. I was giving you specificity and you went for the simplistic "Oh ok so now being educated is irrelevant or what?", and used an extreme outlier, which implies you are thinking in absolutes, so I gave you a summary of why I cannot satisfy your desire for an easy answer.
>Women with "financial awareness" do not choose men based on finances and security if they value men's behavior above financial pragmatism
They do, it's also a factor out of many. A woman has to estimate the best candidate from a pool of men with several pros and cons. You can have, as an example:
>leftie who votes the way she likes, is poor as shit but has a job, is emotionally intelligent, has anger issues
>rightie who votes against abortion, has a secure job, is ugly, is emotionally mediocre but sensitive enough, has no anger issues
>nonpolitical who beats women, has a great job, looks average but fuckable, has zero emotional intelligence
So on. There are many possible combinations. Women rarely marry the guy they want because he simply is uncommon, so they have to make unsatisfying choices.
In the third world situation, you can go ahead and get rid of "emotionally intelligent" or "safe" because men there are trained to be violent.
In the first world situation, they're not much better either: more men, yet still few, are emotionally intelligent, nonviolent, etc. The culture has not changed enough, and the recent turn towards the right will make it even less ideal.
And now, the ones not trapped, traumatized, or ignorant are realizing the situation is just too unsatisfactory, probably pushed by the terrible standards of living. It's getting to the point where they still need money, so they can't finance the uwu leftie, yet they can work for themselves, so they don't need to marry the rich misogynist. They do still fuck, obviously, but they don't want kids and would rather live by themselves.