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Anonymous No.82785734 >>82785795 >>82787528 >>82787561 >>82787574 >>82787594 >>82787596 >>82787667 >>82787707 >>82787726 >>82787734 >>82787985 >>82788027 >>82788143 >>82788192 >>82788750 >>82788878 >>82790764 >>82790841 >>82790945
Male loneliness epidemic
What can society do to fix this?
Anonymous No.82785774 >>82785874
>she's spamming this again
It wouldn't be if you didn't expect a man to randomly appear in your room. Your sister is right to yell at you.
Anonymous No.82785776
1. Living wages

2. Affordable Essentials (Housing, healthcare, education, etc)

3. Accountable Government

Without these things more and more people will just isolate themselves
Anonymous No.82785795
>>82785734 (OP)
This is the nihilistic answer but it's unfixable during our lifetime

The Internet will fuck up human connection for 100s of years
Anonymous No.82785805
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JVeqhHmDPCE
Anonymous No.82785845 >>82785904 >>82787514
You have to move to a city and start talking to strangers. The first 10 to 20 youll be a complete wreck of a person in front of them, the trick is to get them talking and dont be desperate
Anonymous No.82785874
>>82785774
It's a guy. Most mossad payed agents are.
Anonymous No.82785904 >>82786015 >>82787514
>>82785845
i really wish you incels would stop advising on here. that's a great fucking way to end up in a horrible situation. you go to gatherings and shit, you don't just walk up to a fucking stranger in a CITY, and start talking to them
Anonymous No.82786015
>>82785904
I do, its great. Sometimes people ignore you, but other times it blows your mind. I met a smart young guy in a park who gets drunk all the time and has no friends, well, he has one now
Anonymous No.82786130 >>82786301
what can we do to stop faggot shill OPs spamming the same exact 1postbythisid thread over and over?
Anonymous No.82786301 >>82786472
>>82786130
Report it as spam, as it is what this is.
Anonymous No.82786318
By getting women to stop being chadsexuals somehow.
Anonymous No.82786331
I wonder how many times she'll necrobump and samefag this thread.
Anonymous No.82786472
>>82786301
I would, but then the tranny jannies would give *me* a warning or worse. I've learned not to even bother with reporting shit, unless it's straight up cheese pizza or animal torture.

I Just sage in options, hide thread, and move on with my browsing.
Anonymous No.82787514
>>82785845
>bro just waste all of your saving moving to le heckin CITY (idk which one) and harass random strangers in the street
>>82785904
>gathering
Yiu di realize those are almost exclusively filled with men right
Anonymous No.82787528 >>82787539
>>82785734 (OP)
Females could stop being so picky and settle for incels. Women no longer need to adhere to traditional gender roles and beauty standards, so they should be fair and stop expecting men to adhere to the gender roles and beauty standards women demand we adhere to

Of course women would rather die or be with infinite amounts of abusechads than ever do that
Anonymous No.82787539
>>82787528
based fuckwit poster
Anonymous No.82787561 >>82789751
>>82785734 (OP)
This 'loneliness' thing is due mainly to class disparity. I work in a warehouse, and every day I'm there, I'm "locked in" and focused on doing the job, while my older coworkers (particularly Boomers and Gen-X'ers) never shut up, and it's a miracle they get any work done at all. Why? Because I know I can't afford to bullshit around and lose this job; by contrast, they can afford to get terminated or whatever because they have friends, family, etc that will help pick them up when they fall on hard times. I do not. So basically, this 'epidemic' has more to do with the lack of social safety nets, uncertainty for the future, and generally a lack of third-spaces.
Anonymous No.82787574
>>82785734 (OP)
>fix
Just sit back and relax.
Anonymous No.82787594
>>82785734 (OP)
Create women in gene labs and give them to incels per ethnicity to promote moral in society.
Anonymous No.82787596 >>82787636 >>82790890
>>82785734 (OP)
I don't think it actually exists
Most people are introverted so they actually love solitude above anything
It's like "clean water epidemic". Like most people wanna drink clean water anyway so why would anyone complain about it? Extroverts are too rare for it to actually be a problem
Anonymous No.82787636 >>82787663
>>82787596
Retarded nigger, you don't even deserve a rebuttal
Anonymous No.82787663 >>82787743 >>82790890
>>82787636
Have you ever met a genuinely extroverted person? Like not necessarily a loud person, they're always introverted and will tell you how they actually want to be left alone. If you actually get to know most 'extroverted' people, at some point they admit how much they love solitude
On the other hand, there are lots of people complaining about how they're invited everywhere amd everyone wants to spend time with them while they just wanna be alone
If anything, there's a male social overwhelm epidemic because extroverted boys are virtually non-existent
Anonymous No.82787667 >>82787777
>>82785734 (OP)
it's not society's problem, it's yours. have some accountability and work on yourself or you'll regret it
Anonymous No.82787707 >>82787749
>>82785734 (OP)
The most objectively evil possible people you would ever come across (an extreme tiny majority of men):
>success, women, long lasting friendships
The most good hearted and loyal men you would ever meet (a large percentage of men):
>alone, little to no money, no woman in their life, nobody called them since their parents died
Unless we supress women rights and make them dependable on men, there is no fixing this, women are exclusively attracted to evil psychopaths (ever wondered how women abusers, who are well known to be women abusers, always have relationships? Famous example being Ashton Kutcher, who is a pedophile aswell and all of this is on public record).
Anonymous No.82787726 >>82787749
>>82785734 (OP)
The most objectively evil possible people you would ever come across (an extreme tiny minority of men):
>success, women, long lasting friendships
The most good hearted and loyal men you would ever meet (a large percentage of men):
>alone, little to no money, no woman in their life, nobody called them since their parents died
Unless we supress women rights and make them dependable on men, there is no fixing this, women are exclusively attracted to evil psychopaths (ever wondered how women abusers, who are well known to be women abusers, always have relationships? Famous example being Ashton Kutcher, who is a pedophile aswell and all of this is on public record).
Anonymous No.82787734 >>82787754 >>82787832
>>82785734 (OP)
what men can do:

> stop watching porn
> stop hating women
> become a decent human being
> do better
Anonymous No.82787743 >>82787815
>>82787663
>Have you ever met a genuinely extroverted person?
Yes, most people.
>they admit how much they love solitude
That's burnout, not introversion
Genuine introverted people don't seek these experiences, they'd rather do whatever solo hobby they have. They never get invited to these hangouts due to the same reason, not meeting people. That's where the loneliness epidemic comes from, they never made any friends due to their introvertedness. But humans are still social creatures, so they become mentally ill, demoralized, disenfranchised, and depressed since their life inherently doesn't have any meaning to anyone. Extroverted people who get tired occasionally aren't introverts, they're just burned out on the occasion, just like how introverts can get burned out of their solitude. The problem is that they don't have any social skills, which is what the male loneliness epidemic is, and this society definitely doesn't make it exactly easy
Anonymous No.82787749 >>82787754
>>82787707
>>82787726
Wtf, is this a bot?
Anonymous No.82787754
>>82787749
Oh nevermind, I'm retarded
>>82787734
>do better
We MUST do better as men
Anonymous No.82787777
>>82787667
This attitude of yours is precisely why there's an epidemic. No one is receiving the help they need.
Anonymous No.82787815 >>82787976
>>82787743
>Yes, most people
The same people who always complain about wanting to be alone and everyone being overwhelming? Not to mention being really judgemental. Doesn't sound too extroverted desu
>Genuine introverted people don't seek these experiences, they'd rather do whatever solo hobby they have
That's why they're always annoyed , they feel like "Ohhh poor me I'm forced to do social stuff" not realizing that everyone feels the same and would also rather be alone
>They never made any friends due to their introvertedness.
And that's amazing because nobody will bother them with social stuff
>But humans are still social creatures
I'd say no or introverts wouldn't make up the majority of humanity. They actually get depressed from social interaction
>Extroverted people who get tired occasionally aren't introverts
Yes and they're the only people capable of getting lonely. And they're a tiny minority who's too spoiled to appreciate solitude, something the majority of people would kill for
Introverts who got burnt out should just go to a mall, get overwhelmed and start enjoying the solitude again, it's that easy
Anonymous No.82787819 >>82787978
It is not "introversion". I remember when I had friends when I was little and it was great and I wish it had continued into my teens and adulthood. I play both solo and multiplayer games and while some solo games absorb me for hours, human interaction is much more interesting. If people just treated me like a normal person like everyone else, as I often find anonymously over the internet, then I would socialize more.

The problem is society has changed since say the 1950s where you where every boy was born and raised to be part of the community and included to a much greater extent. 99% of the girls are socially accepted but only maybe 80% of the boys nowadays. It is considered socially acceptable to brand a boy a "twat" or something like that and permanently exclude them, teachers help ostracize students and even parents contribute to ostracizing their own sons. Girls are bullied too, but never permanently excluded in the same way, Stacy will make fun of her hairpin, but she won't be considered a threat or an inherently bad person, not like a weird socially awkward boy, she will still have a chance to be part of society while the boy is cut out entirely.

It doesn't help that boys are rebellious, so as teenagers we would rebel against society, they'd mistreat us, we'd fight back, then they'd tell everyone "look he's a bad person". This is all planned out, they run circles around us. Media, "feminists" and all different groups actively decide "right, some boys do not conform, they make the girls go ew, we don't want to waste time or resources on them, we will brand them inferior subhumans and get rid of them", they dress it up in their language, like saying "oh it's toxic masculinity" or some other "gatekeep" "gaslight" sociopathic shit, but really it is hate. They just hate you, and want you gone, and are going to make sure you never have a chance, and they succeed easily. It is the permanence of this hate that does it for them. They are the real "hate group".
Anonymous No.82787832
>>82787734
Where do these conservacucks even come from. It has to be bots.
Anonymous No.82787844 >>82787982
Who is paying you to post these threads every hour every day on every board?
Anonymous No.82787976 >>82788001
>>82787815
>And that's amazing because nobody will bother them with social stuff
Stopped reading, you're being bad faith by being disingenuous
Anonymous No.82787978
>>82787819
You don't get cut off from society as long as you make money though
A guy I know worked in coding and he says there were lots of awkward likely autistic people among his coworkers who would rather switch the company than try and ask for the pay raise in their company first
I'd guess this made stuff more difficult for them, but still, they are making money and they're a part of the society, nobody is banning them from grocery shops or anything
Anonymous No.82787982
>>82787844
how fucking retarded and brown do you have to be in order to believe that regulars get paid for posting bait?
Anonymous No.82787985
>>82785734 (OP)
Why fix it?
Just navigate around it imo
Anonymous No.82788001
>>82787976
Its true though
Just as an experiment, count how many posts you see with people complaining about being forced to do social stuff
And how many posts you see with people complaining about being overwhelmed by a cute little alone time
In my experience posts of the first kind are way more prevalent
Anonymous No.82788027
>>82785734 (OP)
Society doesn't want to fix us. They want us to shut up or better yet die
Anonymous No.82788143
>>82785734 (OP)
Cull the leftover males, that's the only solution.
Anonymous No.82788192
>>82785734 (OP)
>Male loneliness epidemic
It's nothing more than emotional manchildren throwing a mantrum because they refuse to adapt to their environment. Think of it as natural selection.
Anonymous No.82788750 >>82788768 >>82790999
>>82785734 (OP)
Teach men how to provide value independently and achieve greatness in isolation. Pursuing passions and hobbies with self discipline. If a man is talented enough, wealthy enough or provides value to society in some way, people will flock to him. Men have to create their own value. If they are not valued then it is their own fault. Women have inherent value in the eyes of society because they can make babies.
Anonymous No.82788768
>>82788750
This attitude is why society is collapsing.

>hurdur, grind deep into your 30s before we even consider acknowledging your humanity. Also be exceptional or be regarded as subhuman.

Fuck anyone who thinks this way, literal anticivilisational niggers.
Anonymous No.82788878 >>82790930
>>82785734 (OP)
Lonely men should date femcels but they choose to ignore us because we arent htb
Anonymous No.82789751
>>82787561
>class disparity
Yes, it's capitalism that makes women see a 6/10 man as a 2/10.
Anonymous No.82790764
>>82785734 (OP)
End the welfare state: women can't marry the state now and have to look for a men.
End abortion and the pill: women now can't fuck the top 0,1% and have to aim for a men who will stay with them.
Anonymous No.82790841
>>82785734 (OP)
we just need to go back to how things were-
>THE RIDE NEVER ENDS
>THE RIDE NEVER ENDS
>THE RIDE NEVER ENDS

The next generation is fuuuuuucked. Oh well, not my problem
Anonymous No.82790890
>>82787596
Because humans were meant to stay in tight-knit bands. It doesn't matter if you're naturally quiet, you'll still form close relations over a long period of time and have intimate interactions. The closest thing is being in school for your entire life, only you actually get included and care about what you're doing
But now the only thing that can do that is actual school, and after that you're fucked. You'll be unhappy because you pathologically use the easier boredom preventing measure instead of being forced to socialize

This is more or less common knowledge. We're living in manmade dystopia because it's more efficient, but everyone is miserable
>>82787663
Are you posting from a schizoid ward?
Anonymous No.82790930
>>82788878
i will date you under the condition that you stab me on my sleep
Anonymous No.82790945
>>82785734 (OP)
In short term probably not much, boomers and women have too much influence.
Long term society will crumble due to low birth rates, lack of male participation. We would return to lower living standard, at least on some metrics, which might spur a new birth growth. People just want to enjoy themselves, but they fail to realize that our choices will have to be paid for one way or another.
Anonymous No.82790999
>>82788750
>Women have inherent value in the eyes of society because they can make babies.
Meh, they are not having enough kids anyway, some of them are not having them at all, and there is more women like that. They are not valuable. I value men who work on maintaining the infrastructure more.