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Anonymous No.82789545 [Report] >>82789619 >>82789698 >>82789764 >>82789801 >>82789897 >>82790132 >>82790143 >>82790250
how can i possibly compete with other women?
i don't hate other women. i just get way too jealous whenever my moid interacts with anything female. the feeling of competition makes me want to kms. i want to be so secur i never have to worry about other women. robots, what is the trick? how can i compete when i am not a gigastacy? all i can think of is
>do whatever he wants sexually
>be his hypeman
>never say anything negative about him
>don't judge
>don't question
>don't complain
>treat him like a king both to his face and around other people
>act like his ideal type
sage No.82789554 [Report] >>82789575
How about you go for a non chad who does not have options so you don't have to feel that way? I know you won't.
Anonymous No.82789572 [Report] >>82789593
Being insecure is a more attractive on a woman than you realise. Its nothing like how you view insecurity in a man.
Anonymous No.82789575 [Report] >>82789592
>>82789554
that's not true, other women will always be a threat regardless of what he looks like
Anonymous No.82789579 [Report] >>82789593
this is how chad is treated btw while you get shittests and nagging
Anonymous No.82789592 [Report]
>>82789575
Again if he is chad and very social. I am autistic and the only time I had a girl interested in me I only cared for her. Women simply don't like men like that unless they are chad.
Anonymous No.82789593 [Report] >>82789646 >>82789886
>>82789572
what do you mean
>>82789579
if i want to keep him i have to act like it you know
Anonymous No.82789619 [Report] >>82789630 >>82790173
>>82789545 (OP)
last time a femanon was interested in me (8+ yrs ago) i purged and blocked porn, stopped talking to females outside of work and would look at her in public instead of other women because i knew she was insecure and i just need 1 woman to be my wife.
she still cheated on me with e-chad while i was at work.
i was prepared to devote my life to her.
now im alone again.
Anonymous No.82789630 [Report] >>82789674
>>82789619
are you saying the same thing will happen to me if i try too hard to keep him
Anonymous No.82789646 [Report] >>82789779
>>82789593
You know how you get the ick really badly if a guy doesnt demonstrate intense confidence and self-assurance?
Well it doesnt work like that at all for men when looking at women. You being pathetic, unconfident, submissive and insecure is just plain arousing and cute and in a way that makes you more appealing for long term companionship as well.
Girls who are full of themselves are really quite unattractive. The signal of "I'm perfect and I don't need you." is obviously not very enticing.
Anonymous No.82789674 [Report] >>82789779
>>82789630
i built her up and she turned me into a stepping stone to someone "better", leaving me with trust issues.
idk, will you cheat on your devoted bf once you feel too secure?
Anonymous No.82789698 [Report] >>82789779
>>82789545 (OP)
have you considered making yourself more physically attractive? that's a big one that you're ignoring (likely) because you think it's shallow or w/e

e.g.

get a proper skincare routine going
go to the gym and focus on butt/thighs etc.
ask him what kind of hairstyle he'd like on you and take care of your hair

etc.
Anonymous No.82789764 [Report]
>>82789545 (OP)
Find someone who is as jealous as you are.
Anonymous No.82789779 [Report] >>82789784 >>82789886
>>82789646
i am desperate but i don't want to seem desperate
>>82789674
of course not
>>82789698
i am already doing that. it's not even worth mentioning
Anonymous No.82789784 [Report]
>>82789779
>i don't want to seem desperate
Why not? Who cares if its just in front of the guy you like?
Anonymous No.82789801 [Report] >>82790048
>>82789545 (OP)
loyalty either comes from earthly cope
>I cant do any better than her
or from divine values
>Im devoted to the life i have with her. cheating in her or leaving her would be evil

unless your man has the divine mentality he'll either cheat on you, or if he can't do that, resent you.
Anonymous No.82789886 [Report] >>82789953 >>82790048
>>82789593
>>82789779
Why do zoomer foids only write short replies with less than 10 words? They always refuse to elaborate, I've been nooticing this more and more.
Anonymous No.82789897 [Report]
>>82789545 (OP)
There's nothing wrong, you're already doing great. Do all of those things constantly, and be jealous and possessive and fearful of losing him to succubi and harpies. Honestly, you sound like ideal gf, throw in lots of needy and clingy cuddles and kisses, mark him as yours in various ways.
Anonymous No.82789905 [Report] >>82790048
you'll drive yourself actually schizophrenic with jealousy and even if nothing actually happens you'll think you're being cheated on in your paranoid delusions and ruin the relationship because of it

try CBT idk
Anonymous No.82789953 [Report] >>82789963 >>82789990 >>82790048
>>82789886
Because they're boring. This is why she's insecure, she knows she is boring so she tries her hardest to be a yes-man for her partner in order to make up for it.
>Inb4 all women do this
No. I've been there. Only like 95% do this.
Anonymous No.82789956 [Report] >>82790048
>tfw no clingy possessive insecure desperate-to-please gf to subtly flirt with waitresses in front of just to drive her insane
Painful that I do not have this interaction
Anonymous No.82789963 [Report] >>82790125
>>82789953
>so she tries her hardest to be a yes-man for her partner in order to make up for it.
But that's the furthest thing from boring. Desperate to please me and cater to my every whim is like the #1 most interesting personality trait a woman can have.
Anonymous No.82789990 [Report]
>>82789953
>Because they're boring. This is why she's insecure
Yep and despite this they can still get any dude they want. Being a woman is easy mode.
Anonymous No.82790048 [Report] >>82790125
>>82789801
he probably doesn't think either. i am so fucked
>>82789886
>>82789953
what were you expecting?
>>82789905
i wouldn't feel this way if he never interacted with any girls
>>82789956
would commit murder
Anonymous No.82790094 [Report] >>82790118
We must be better girlfriends
Anonymous No.82790118 [Report]
>>82790094
How many girlfriends can you be?
Anonymous No.82790125 [Report]
>>82789963
You haven't experienced first hand just how one-dimensional that really is. But, I guess preferences do exist.
>>82790048
>what were you expecting?
Nothing these days. It's like I've met the same exact archetype of foid a billion times now.
Anonymous No.82790132 [Report] >>82790243
>>82789545 (OP)
Just tell him you get jealous and ask him to steel himself against the allure of other women.
Anonymous No.82790143 [Report] >>82790243
>>82789545 (OP)
>how can I compete with other women
>I already have a bf btw tee hee
fucking kill yourself. You will always be nothing more than a normalfag. You're going to grow up and realize how cringe you were for intentionally trying to emulate being a loser to feel special and unique.
Anonymous No.82790173 [Report]
>>82789619
>devoting yourself to foids (by nature evil creatures)
lol retard
Anonymous No.82790243 [Report]
>>82790132
i think telling him that directly might put it in his mind even more to go cheat
>>82790143
no
Anonymous No.82790250 [Report] >>82790618
>>82789545 (OP)
You described basic requirements of a loyal foid.

Any foid NOT doing all that and more is a troublesome wench and therefor trash/fuck and chuck tier.l

I'm not joking or trolling.
Anonymous No.82790618 [Report] >>82790648
>>82790250
what else can i do please share
Anonymous No.82790648 [Report]
>>82790618
work out how he likes to spend time and facilitate it.

So what does he do when left to his own devices? Approve of the thing and then see how you can get in on it without fucking it up. Make an effort to enjoy the thing and enhance his experience of it.

Thing could be anything, you will know by observation.