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Anonymous No.82790767 >>82791097 >>82791173 >>82791392 >>82792010 >>82792397 >>82792709
I was unemployed for many years then I got job at government company through family, but I'm too retarded for that and they are going to fire me.
How can I cope with this? What can I do? My family hates me and I will probably be homeless.
Also there is no support for autistic adults in this shithole country and I will have no money again.
Anonymous No.82791097
>>82790767 (OP)
where are you from? have you been officially diagnosed?
Anonymous No.82791173
>>82790767 (OP)
Robots shouldn't work we need NEETBUX to survive we are basically handicapped when it comes to have a job
Anonymous No.82791392
>>82790767 (OP)
>where are you from?
eastern european country
>have you been officially diagnosed?
no, my parents didn't care when I was child and I don't think there is anyone doing it for adults here
Anonymous No.82792010 >>82792307
>>82790767 (OP)
Shit OP, your situation seems similar to mine, i am also from Eastern Europe and autistic. You sure they are gonna fire you? If the job requires some skills that are universally needed across most types of careers like being accountable, socialising etc you can at least try to stay for a time, let's say a year (for your CV mostly) so that you can lever that experience into some other career path of your wishing later, that would be better than neeting. That's at least what i am trying, soon i will start a job in a logistics company and they are quite social but i don't care much anymore. Also, you have any degree, any idea what you want to do? How retarded are you, you may be
too harsh on yourself (i mean being bad at socialising doesn't necessarily mean you will be bad at a job). Anyways stay strong and i wish you luck OP, you will get through this and find a way
Anonymous No.82792307 >>82792564 >>82792673
>>82792010
>You sure they are gonna fire you?
I don't know, but the chance is high. Today my boss wrote me a very long mail threatening to fire me.

> How retarded are you
I don't talk, even writing can be difficult. I'm clumsy. I work as IT admin and sometimes I need to explain things to people and it's very hard to find the right words, sometimes I just show them things without saying anything, they must all thing iIm so retarded.
Anonymous No.82792397
>>82790767 (OP)
you don't wanna work a gov job anyway, it comes with a high price later
im in the balkans and it sucks here too but i made my peace with it
just get a simple cleaning job or something
Anonymous No.82792564 >>82792673
>>82792307
Your worries of getting fired may be all in your head, but until you get an official warning, which i guess you would if you were that bad, just try your best and stay at least for a while. And part of your problem seems to be articulating your ideas well, what helps with that is reading books, writing notes, speaking slower etc, i know it is cliche normalfag advice but it helped me a bit. Maybe the others just think you are shy, people usually are too self absorbed and busy to start analysing others deeply. Maybe your problem is mainly low self-esteem and/or depression, but from the way you type your posts i wouldn't conclude you are retarded. I am pretty much in the same boat, we'll see if i can handle that job
Anonymous No.82792673 >>82792999
>>82792307
>>82792564
Sorry i missed the email part for some reason. Well yeah thats not good, you can tell him you will try to be better and give it your best and see what happens. Eventually it will become easier. You being shit at the job seems to be more from the lack of experience working than being retarded. Sorry if i come off as an annoying know-it-all motivational fag, but i kinda relate and wanna help you.
Anonymous No.82792709
>>82790767 (OP)
>create an onlyfans account
>post your feet (must look femenine)
>???
>profit
Anonymous No.82792999 >>82793156
>>82792673
But I hate him, he is even more incompetent than me. He also steals money from the company buying expensive shit through his friends and I can't even replace 10+years old computers.
I'm tired.

That mail was about that I didn't do some small irrelevant tasks, because I prioritized some other more important tasks.
The other problems I have are not helping me, even other employees would probably want someone other than me.
Anonymous No.82793156 >>82793258
>>82792999
He sounds like an evil fag. If its that bad better look for another job, but as you said your family will be against it, sounds tough. If you want we can exchange discords, i am a retard myself but if it helps you can vent and discuss the situation.
Anonymous No.82793258 >>82793496
>>82793156
This thread is enough, but thank you
Anonymous No.82793496 >>82794145
>>82793258
No problem. If you wanna talk later i will look out for this thread. You didn't mention any long term plans or career paths you want, so if you have such it could be worth pushing through this shitty period. If you have no idea you can try different jobs. But the stuff with your family and risk of homelessness sounds tough. Whatever happens dont despair OP, dont go too hard on yourself. If your family is not completely retarded and evil
you may be able to share your feelings like you did here with at least some of them, you probably tried many times, but maybe they do indeed care about you, given they already found a job for you once. I hope you can make up with them that would be a strong foundation. But yeah take care OP, wish you all the best
Anonymous No.82794145 >>82794528
>>82793496
Maybe you are right and my situation isn't as hopeless as I thought, but sooner or later I will lose this job and I'm too retarded for job interviews.

I don't have any long term plans. I don't even know what kind of job I could do.
Anonymous No.82794528 >>82794543
>>82794145
>but sooner or later I will lose this job and I'm too retarded for job interviews.
I understand why you are worried about them, but i dont think
they are that big of a deal. The recruiters look for certain things in my experience and if you tick most of their boxes you can get away with being shy and awkward during the interview, but then again it depends a lot on the job. I think you care too much what your coworkers and others think about you, which is natural and overcoming it is easier said than done but to say it another way, we often overrate other people in our heads and it doesn't really matter that much what they think and worrying about it is one of the things making you "retarded". When you do an autistic fuck up just brush it off or laugh and move on, the others will probably forget after 10 minutes and ironically that's when your social skills improve.
>I don't have any long term plans. I don't even know what kind of job I could do. I myself am rather young and i don't have much experience in different fields to teach others how to choose, but for example a made a list of career paths i definitely dont want and crossed them off - that being medicine, law, humanities (because i wanna feel i do something that feels more "practical" to me), i didnt want some state job because no one in my family did and at the end i decided i want something in between business, like finances or supply chain or some type of engineering. I am bad at math and eventually chose a supply chain degree, because i like trucks, international communications, maps etc. Also you can get an idea of what could suit you based on the genre of games you enjoy, for example i love playing Euro truck sim 2 and Papers please and these games influenced my decision. You can also do online tests on what suits you based on personality and interests, it would give a direction. Or you could describe yourself to chatgpt and ask it to propose some options
Anonymous No.82794543
>>82794528
Oh great i fucked up the greentext but yeah you can read it anyway. Phoneposting aint easy