Thread 82800795

For women: what is the biggest harem you would join?

For men: how big is your dream harem?

>>82800795 (OP)
the only reason i would want more than one gf is so she can keep the other gf company when im not around and i dont understand why this is such a huge issue
im not asking to have chinese emperor triple digit harems where i treat them like animals and dont even remember their names and faces

sigh

>>82800826
>chinese emperor triple digit harems where i treat them like animals and dont even remember their names and faces

>>82800795 (OP)
I don't want a harem. I just want a couple of fuck buddies that I don't have to commit to. They can go and fuck other dudes when we're not together for all I care. They're all sluts anyway, so it's not like I'm getting particularly emotionally invested in their fidelity and commitment.

>>82800795 (OP)
wouldn't do it even with just 2 women. group sex is savagery.

>>82800831
not interested in getting to know them and love them as people?
seems like a lot of work to manage also

>For men: how big is your dream harem?
0-1, the fuck I need more for?

>>82800851
I probably would stop at 20 or so that way I could maintain relationships with them. However, if there is no limit...

>>82800864
if you have a gf you have to fugg her at least once every couple of days
how are you planning to manage all that? not to mention the states of the personal lives and emotions
can you really get to know 20 different people to the depth of what should be your "girlfriend"

>>82800795 (OP)
all I can see is a huge amount of trouble

>>82800885
It's easier if you have them in one location. Also if they are autists.

>>82800885
unless he's a muslim, I doubt people are thinking realistically about harem fantasies

>>82800903
twenty foids in one house still seems like a lot of work
>>82800924
im sure more people would if they werent societally conditioned to believe its immoral
exactly how you mentioned muslim

>>82800975
The conditioning has come from somewhere after all. Allowing harems sounds ironically like a stable way of running a society, but since marriage is often tied to love (so also a commitment) the monogamy exist.

As a foid, a three people relationship is ideal so we ditch the loser guy in the relationship and us 2 girls date instead.

>>82801058
doesn't it default to 2-people relationship if you ditch the third person?

>>82801066
Exactly. I'm not excepting a poly relationship but if the guy INSISTS automatic ditch.

>>82801114
>I'm not excepting a poly relationship
>>82801058
>a three people relationship is ideal

>>82800975
>twenty foids in one house still seems like a lot of work
the point is that they all take care of the house and everything else

>>82801179
and you're their housepet in that household or what?

>>82801127
Sarcasm? Hello?

>>82801127
>A three people relationship is ideal SO that we can ditch the guy

>>82801190
poe's law
>>82801200
wanting something only to get rid of it?

>>82800826
>so she can keep the other gf company when im not around
This is wholesome af

those are some sad looking asses

>>82801215
I love you ur so retarded. Keep doing you idk

>>82800795 (OP)
Being realistic I think 2 is perfect for me. I had a period where I was sort of seeing 2 of my exes at the same time and it was pretty nice. Sex 2+ times a day and they were both beautiful and really liked me.

>>82801494
my only guess is that you're having rejection fantasies (assuming you're not making things up)

>>82801179
you overestimate how reliable foids are
finding one capable one is already extremely difficult. 20, impossible

>>82801246
well i get get automatically labeled evil and unloyal even if i have the best intention in mind
i guess i dont blame people for automatically viewing polygamy as bad, because most of the time it is

>>82801542
Clear cut answer in case you dont get it:

Me saying a three person relationship is ideal is a roundabout way of saying THAT I do not want to be in a harem or poly relationship

>>82801597
that was ambiguous, so I could be sure of no answer

>>82800795 (OP)
>There isn't a single Asian woman there
worthless.

>>82801747
>distinguishing races from just backs

>>82801762
They're cleary white women.

>>82800795 (OP)
I have a very high libido, so I could theoretically handle aspects of sex around a harem, but the amount of time it'd take away from me having to manage several women at once sounds like a pain. I'm busy with my own endeavors and interests already. I think having a sexual attendant or people who serve/work under me would be fine. So, if they all had a purpose/job to keep them occupied, I could handle maybe six. I don't have a dream harem size because I care about other things more.

>>82800795 (OP)
not a single fuckable woman in that picrel. why are nudists never chads or stacys?

>>82802140
European nudists are good looking, this is an amerishit problem

>>82801865
>cleary
not for me
I can't be sure about the black-haired ones with hidden faces

>>82800795 (OP)
>how big is your dream harem?
Uh... one.

Girls are kind of a nightmare, trying to deal with more than one might kill me. Shit, just one might still kill me. Such a shame I'm not gay.