Thread 82803753

What's even stopping you from getting a gf?

I have moved 12 times in the past 10+ years

>>82803753 (OP)
Honestly? Nothing really
I've found *the* trick, anon, and I've been saying it all over around the board

Unfortunately I've just been using it to sext and get nudes
Not gonna commit to having a gf

>>82803753 (OP)
well I quit trying like ten years ago, that might have something to do with it

>>82803753 (OP)
Myself and the many autisms within

>>82803753 (OP)
>What's even stopping you from getting a gf?
Disingenuous. Your idea of a gf is just a masturbation toy, peek the e-prostitute branding on the bottom right. You know why

Missed the time period where everyone was pairing off to be a schizoid shut-in and then there was covid and now im old and it's too late

Brown skin
And my personality

i have a recessed chin rivaling that indian guy people post

>>82803753 (OP)
>What's even stopping you from getting a gf?
The gf that I currently have is stopping me from getting another one.

>>82803753 (OP)
shy
socially awkward
look too fem and dress too weird generally
weird speaking patterns
fear of rejection
strange thoughts and ideas
they can smell my desperation
difficulty relating to others
NEET
depressed and anxious

there's probably more that I'm missing, but these are the ones off the top of my head

>>82803862
*kisses your feet*

fat. Working on losing it though

>>82803862
I'm the same except instead of being too feminine I'm a fat ogre with a part-time job

>>82803753 (OP)
I'm a socially retarded people pleaser so women tend to hate me

poor. mentally ill, short, weird mannerisms, bad posture, etc. just all around not a catch. someone whom another might look at and be glad not to be.

>>82803753 (OP)
>already bald at 23
>below average height
>ugly face
>bad bodyshape (average-fat)
>mentally fucked from years of isolation
>definitely some undiagnosed mental illness
>poor (no job, no car)
>small pp gives small confidence
>I smell even after a shower
>lotta bodyhair

>>82803753 (OP)
>short
>autistic
>submissive in convos
>ugly
why even post this bread? why so often? answers are obvious
>>82803779
suuuuuuuuuure i'll bite. explain this "trick" and link the shit you're selling, too

>>82804032
Why would baldness prevent anyone from having a gf?

>>82803753 (OP)
me being fat, and mentally ill. But most importantly I'm afraid of women

>>82804053
This nigga kidding? Baldness is a huge ick for most women

>>82804053
I don't go a day without readong something a woman said against bald guys. there's literal social media groups about hating bald men.
add to that beign short and ugly, there's literally no reason to even engage in conversation with me, let alone a relationship
fuck you all

>>82804071
Most women prefer bald men

>>82804093
...you know what bald means, right

>>82804093
I vastly minority prefer it the vast majority find it icky. Hair is a big health indicator.

>>82804051
I'm not selling anything, but here's the trick anyway
Marketing
And what's the first step in marketing? You gotta know your target market/demographic

The way I see it with you guys is that you either don't put yourself out there (no marketing whatsoever) OR you're marketing to the WRONG crowd
People aren't a monolith, man
Different folks like different things, and that's why I truly believe there's someone for everyone

Nothing, I've already had LTRs and lays. Women are just generally unbearable and almost always bring more problems than benefits

If women didn't offer sex would most men want to be with them? Not likely.

You're not missing out that much. Hire some escorts if you don't know what sex is like and dedicate your life to higher pursuits.

Trust me, foids ruin lives, whether through divorce rape, false accusations, financial drain, or elevated stress levels that will harm your health. I don't even think constant sex is enough to compensate all of that

>>82804122
Does baldness actually correlate with poor health in any meaningful way? I'm pretty sure it's genetic dice roll that doesn't indicate much else

>>82804128
What's the right crowd for fat balding socially awkward autistic terminally-online low-income men?

>>82804119
Most white men go bald and JBW is a thing. So yes, msot women preferred bald guys.

>>82804093
ragebait so weak it has erectile dysfunction

>>82804138
Androgenic alopecia no but but it gets jumbled up with guys that have bad quality hair from nutrition, genetics, or sickness

i have one testicle from testicular cancer, and it is looking somewhat likely that i will soon have zero testicles. that's the main one! tough world.

>>82803753 (OP)
From most to least impactful
>severely depressed
>mood swings
>poor
>unattractive
>pedophile

>>82804160
I don't know, I'm not in your shoes to asses that properly, I don't live your reality
The thing I wrote up top, that's just the framework, the "skeleton" so to speak
It's yu guys' job to give it flesh

>>82804161
Women would rather have a white guy with a full head of hair than a balding one

>>82803753 (OP)
I am an ugly balding ethnic man

>>82803753 (OP)
>insecure
>overweight (not morbidly so, but still)
>submissive in bed
>only 4-5/10 face (maybe 6 on a good day under good light etc.)

>>82803766
I want to move, but I'm too scared to do anything about it. I grew up in NYC so didn't really need a license-Hell I can't even spell the word without looking it up.

>>82803753 (OP)
>looks like a man ass
>google smol bacon as shown in OPs pic
>a tranny
nigger

>>82803753 (OP)
need contact lenses & lose 20 lbs
>>82804364
>license-Hell I can't even spell the word without looking it up.
Oi it's loisence m8

Right now it's

>low my self esteem
>poor as fuck
>home surrounded by disgusting west indians (seriously they genocided the wrong people)
>Socially retarded

I can't maintain a regular relationship with anyone. I started talking to my grandmother again and that's so much fucking work, imagine another woman? I know women find me attractive I see the looks I get, but my self hatred about where I am in life and how much of a loser I am just pulls me away from everyone. I was going to the gym daily thinking about how I'm getting my life back on track until one day I found myself curled up on the shower floor crying about how much I hate my life. I hate it so much. How can you do anything when you have this rage inside you. How can you act playful and funny when you're a piece of shit? I don't want to die, but I want to not exist sometimes.

>>82804435
Why would your indian neighbors be a factor in you getting a girlfriend at all?

>>82803753 (OP)
Just being unattractive
Ugly face and not tall enough to make up for it

>>82803862
>femboy
You're a fag

>>82804582
>indian
WEST indian. Carribean/ jamaican

Because they're constantly outside, they're on the porch right now with the 15 kids they have and I'm sitting here hearing their loud ass mouths (i guess the gene for volume control missed them) while typing this.

I've had success with girls, If I do I can barely afford a hotel so I'd take them to my place where these dusty fucks are constantly outside no matter what the weather is. I hate it here, but the rent is pretty cheap.

>>82804659
despite desiring women and despising men
masculine men are disgusting faggots and should fucking die
I bet you're a fat hairy faggot pedo
fucking die

I need to sniff a girl's ass

>>82804721
desu getting killed by a femboy wouldn't be so bad

>>82804739
Idk about sniffing it, but eating it is the best, and besides that one time at dave & busters I haven't eaten a girl's ass in about 3 years. I really miss it, to find a girl is hard, but to find one who's into you eating their ass on top of that? I didn't know what I had.

Because I'm unemployed, bald and live with my parents.

>>82804364
I followed work almost like a classic hobo but without being homeless.
Come live with me, we can split an apartment and you can get a job at a nearby restaurant. I'll even buy you a bicycle.

>>82804032
>>already bald at 23
can someone enlighten me on how this is even possible? twenty fucking three?

>>82804206
Can you get it up? Do you still get horny?

>>82803753 (OP)
Social inhibition. I know im not ugly and have actually had a few girls flirt with me throughout the years but I can never take the extra step and ask a girl to date me. Even when a girl was physically touching me I couldnt do it. Literally been afraid of girls since I was a little boy.

Honestly thinking of just becoming prison gay for a tranny, because I do desire intimacy and dont have the same hangups with guys.

>>82803753 (OP)
I don't know how/where to meet women.

>>82805175
>t actual brainless incel

>>82805136
>bald
what would you do if i slapped that bald head of yours

>>82805159
Some other guys here said they started balding in high school.

>>82805208
that's an abomination

>>82805178
outside of your house

>>82805175
>Social inhibition

Get drunk, dumbass

>>82805159
my grandpa was bald at 18, I started thinning out at 19, got rid of it because I looked like a 40yo otherwise
>>82805214
the hair at the top of the head is sensitive to some testosterone byproduct

>>82805232
Me when I go stand around outside my house and still no girlfriend

>>82803753 (OP)
>What's even stopping you from getting a gf?
i'm ugly and unimpressive. there have been periods where I've tried, but it never worked out; women have never showed interest in me.
>recently graduated uni
>live with my parents too

>>82803862
*kisses your hand*

>>82805336
>the hair at the top of the head is sensitive to some testosterone byproduct
only if you have shitty hair genetics
>I started thinning out at 19, got rid of it because I looked like a 40yo otherwise
great idea because now you look 50 instead of 40

>>82805339
yea you have to go places

>>82803753 (OP)
i am waiting for a nerdy fembot pawg gf

>>82805336
Lot of retards online (mostly Reddit) tell you to shave your head if you start balding young. Thats retarded af, probably has to do with some le wholesome Reddit shit.

Women want hair. Having hair even if its thin balding hair is preferable to being bald. Even if you have to get a combover or some shit.

>>82805451
>t has hair on the sides of his head and none on top
lmfao

literal schizo who cant hold eye contact or a job alcoholic manlet whos social experience ended in highschool and my hairlines fucked i look a decade older than i am due to smoking so much. not even going to attempt to look for a mate it's over

>>82805477
how bad's the hairline? just want to get a point of reference as mine has shifted some

>>82804032
why didn't you start taking minoxidil and finsteride

>>82805481
you ever seen that painting of napoleon bonaparte? sort of like that

>>82805499
just napoleonmaxx bro

>>82805469
Idk if it can get that bad before your 30s but still better than being completely bald.

>>82805499
i'm looking at it now and have seen it before, yes. but it doesn't help that in that painting his front fucking hair is just laying there. i know retards back then didn't do anything with their hair, but if yours looks like that, you still need to style it and stop looking like a fucking runt because you're afraid to style your fucking hair out of insecurity

>>82805484
For me personally, Id rather just let nature take its course then have to take drugs the rest of my life like a fag with HIV.

>>82803753 (OP)
I'm fat, old and ugly. Next question?

>>82805535
>Next question?
how fat, how old, and how ugly /10

>>82805533
And now you are bald and it's over for you.

>>82805533
yea there's plenty of lazy losers on here that tout that same line of being big tough men and letting nature take its course. well... that's great for you to know, but just know that everyone else that sees you will just see you for how you look at that moment, fucking ugly. dumbass. why do you eat and drink? just let nature take its course, dumbass.

>>82803753 (OP)
Got one, but she's super sleeper build to the point of frustration.
>Already really cute as is but would be stunning if she wanted to put in the effort.
>doesn't wear makeup because she doesn't like the feel of it on her skin so never learned
>bunch of other things.
Like she literally just complained to me that she wants to get new looser sweats because she's been working out a lot and her butt and thighs are too big.

It'd be like me complaining about some of my shirts because my abs/pecs are too pronounced.
Maybe it bugs me because I'm solidly average, maybe a grade or two above average when in top shape while she has the potential to go wild but just rocks the ponytail/hoodie/pants/tevas

>>82805413
What places do I go to? Everywhere is either elderly people, married couples, or children. Literally nothing else.

>>82805785
oh wow I'm happy for you

Personal choice

tfw intel incel

>>82806010
yea that's why you have to continue going to places like neighborhood parties, casual things, church gatherings, stuff like that, robot. i get it, it's mostly that but there's a few singles lingering about with friends, too. i completely assure you on that too.i barely go to any of them and i spot the singles right away, they're out there, you genuinely just have to go places, i know how much dick that sucks to have to do, too. i do know

>>82806178
>neighborhood parties

Where in the world do these happen

>>82806190
Presumably your neighborhood.

>>82806190
my grandma's upper scale neighborhood does what they call a block party every year where anyone from the neighborhood and friends are free to come and eat and have their kids play in the blow up jumping things and stuff like that. and everyone else just talks and meets each other if they haven't met before, etc. i went with her this year to it to accompany her and there were what i would consider single girls there with a friend or two based on a few different factors from their behavior and trying to get my attention but i had no plans and was just accompanying my grandma and making sure she was alright

>>82803753 (OP)
>What's even stopping you from getting a gf?
I need the psychological validation of the girl wanting me first, otherwise i feel like i'm pressuring them. girls glance at me at work, but i also don't want to contribute to a world where girls can't go to the store without worrying about being hit on or approached by a guy (or a store worker). So some girls seem like they'd want to interact but they don't approach me, and the ones that are forced to interact with me are coworkers and don't voluntarily spend time around me. I've had sex once in the last ten years and was single all through my 30s

Fear of failure and the feeling of being disfigured looking even though I'm not. I can't look in a mirror for longer than 10 seconds and I don't look at one more than once in a day.

>>82806349
yea, you're in the shit spot. you're a respectful person and see the signals, but don't want to push for something that isn't fully wanted on their end to that degree of like romanticizing. i get it. tough fucking spot

>>82806373
>feeling of being disfigured looking even though I'm not
would love to hear more about what exactly this means in your eyes, like how you actually objectively look but how you perceive yourself. you know that how you look is how you look, so which one is the truth?

>>82803753 (OP)
uuuuhhh, being ugly and stupid, i think. oh, and i'm 5'10, so i'm short as fuck too

>>82806528
imagine thinking 5'10 is considered 'short.' you just made the cutoff, retard. you're fucking fine, holy fucking shit

>>82803753 (OP)
I'm insecure, awkward in every conversation I have, I don't talk or do anything when I'm class because I'm terrified of people, I don't know how to "break the ice" and just stand in silent, I don't try to meet new people online because I'm scared, I know that everyone must think im a weirdo or in the spectrum and by behaving the way I do im just giving them reasons

>>82806178
How do I find places to go? How do I know there's stuff going on in a place and there will be people there?

>>82804059
Same goes for me too. I tried getting fat women to be with me but they're all insane. I had one tell me "do you want to have sex with me before I kill myself" and another who I had sex with actually kill themselves. The latter was especially damaging to my psyche. The former turned into some weirdo liberal that I still follow for some reason.

>>82803753 (OP)
i'm too much of a coward to approach anyone, basically
i can only pray to be approached by a girl or to be able to luck out hard enough to meet someone i'd be willing to work up the nerve to approach
i know neither of these are happening though so i'm fucked

>>82806349
>>82806397

He's not in a shit spot, he's not making any moves. There are other ways than overtly hitting on someone. People are stopped by other people all the time in stores and malls, usually they're solicitors. If he doesn't want to be "That guy" then make a funny observation and see if she plays along- if not she's not interested and you have your definite answer. You don't even have to be sexual at first then you subtly throw innuendos and scenarios out that are somewhat sexual and look for more hints.

>>82803753 (OP)
The fact that I'm short, unmasculine, unconfident, autistic, undominant, shy, awkward, and timid... and actually like the way I am and want to be accepted the way I am rather than making any effort to be even remotely more Chadlike

Some women will accept flawed men who at least have the goal of "working on themselves" to adhere to women's bullshit narrow high standards for men. But no women want men who are actually happy to be nonconformist

I haven't asked out a girl in 7 years
That's about it

>>82807027
Why dont you get out there then anonny

>>82807459
im only good at hitting on gorls with proximity
So like coworkers or college/uni.
Bars/clubs/raves etc i fumble all the time so its like situational but i just quit my current job today so mayb ill put myself in a industry with girls again
Wish me luck

>>82803753 (OP)
Brain damage, which is an ick for women.

>>82806178
>neighborhood parties, casual things, church gatherings
what world do you live in where some random incel could even find these things, let alone by accepted into them

>>82807535
You have actual brain damage? Wew lad

>>82807583
Well, I'm about to find out. Going for a CT scan in November to figure out my issue. Its getting to the point where I'm forgetting where I put things 5-10 seconds ago, and my mind always wandering off even when I'm concentrating. I don't think I could ever get a gf in this state.

>>82807666
Sorry to hear it anon.
Hope your brain gets fixed up I guess. Or that you can manage it

>>82807899
Been going on for four years now. By next year, it will be five.

>>82803753 (OP)
chad face but 5'2

>>82803753 (OP)
>very high IQ
>big pussyfree dick
>gentleman with manners
i give triple to ICK to women

>>82803753 (OP)
>non-nt
>below average height (5'11, average is 6'1 in my country)
>acne scarring
>loose skin from 100lbs+ weight loss

>>82805634
$0.02 from big pharma has been deposited into your account

I don't have any charisma and am a chud. I'm painfully average in looks, so I can't rely on that alone.

>38yo
>poor
>ugly
>brown
>mentally ill
I don't even make eye contact or speak to women at this point. Suicide is just around the corner.

>>82803753 (OP)
>beta
>mentally ill
>defeatist
>peter pan syndrome
>jaded, pessimistic, and disillusioned to the point that it would scare off 99.99% of women
>receding hairline and thin, fine, straight hair
>white but no conventionally-desired white features (i.e. blonde hair, colored eyes, pointy nose, etc)
>5'8"
>very noticeable facial asymmetry
>soulless black eyes
>yellow teeth from poor dental hygiene and copious amounts of soda in my youth
>gyno so severe that I have bigger tits than some women
>glued to screens my whole life
>using 4chan since I was 10
>no father figure or significant male role models
>little to no masculine presence
>weak
>can't fight
>no fashion sense
>no desire to try
>no desire to exercise
>no desire to learn new skills or hobbies
>no desire to talk to strangers
>no desire to work on myself or improve in general
>severe yellow fever
>autistically obsessed with idol groups
the universe is screaming as loud as possible in my face that I am not meant to reproduce

>>82808065
you should be proud of that weight loss anon

>>82808139
Normies will look you straight in the eye and say
>bro you just need to try harder

It sucks that some of us are just born into these circumstances

I don't have any advice but I relate to you

>>82808140
I don't want to be proud of myself. I want a girlfriend

>>82808212
well you've made it easier for yourself by losing weight
that's a step in the right direction

>>82803753 (OP)
I can't form relationships

>>82803753 (OP)
The women I want don't want me and I don't have the money or the looks

>>82803930
you two should date each other

>>82803753 (OP)
Me even if I managed to find someone interested in me I would mess it up

>>82803753 (OP)
That's a troon.
>What's even stopping you from getting a gf?
Once again; being a NEET autist and bald manlet.

>>82803753 (OP)
Women don't want men anymore.

>>82803753 (OP)
im a virgin only, low value male, no virgin girl would ever want to settle for me sadly, and i personally refuse to settle for anything besides my experience match.