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Anonymous No.82805411 [Report] >>82805415 >>82805415 >>82805423 >>82805643 >>82805667 >>82805669 >>82806391
What's the point of trying super hard if I am not guaranteed a girlfriend/wife and have no friends? Try hard for what? To have better copes than someone else?
Anonymous No.82805415 [Report]
>>82805411 (OP)
>hard
>>82805411 (OP)
>wife
Anonymous No.82805423 [Report] >>82805443 >>82806155
>>82805411 (OP)
>Try hard for what?
We didn't tell you to work hard, don't ask it to us.
Anonymous No.82805443 [Report]
>>82805423
>We didn't tell you to work hard, don't ask it to us.
Society and everyone told me to work hard. Work hard for what? I wanted a family, but I can't get that. Girls aren't interested anymore and the cost of living has skyrocketed. All I care about now is not starving.
Anonymous No.82805643 [Report] >>82806161
>>82805411 (OP)
You can pay like $40,000 in Russia to have a surrogate carry a child for you, then it's legally yours. You can have a family, no wife or gf required.
necrotic !z0gTFRhQ5g No.82805667 [Report]
>>82805411 (OP)
The point? There is no fucking point if you're someone who fits in here like a puzzle piece. You work hard you get nothing in the end that matters. Big whoop. Just do the bare minimum of what you're expected to do and you'll get along perfectly fine. You especially won't get a lady, that's reserved for Chad.
Rel: https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/82617218/#82640918
Anonymous No.82805669 [Report]
>>82805411 (OP)
op, let me be real with you. humans are animals and we inately desire sex and reproduction, at least most of us do. if you don't have a partner by age 20, then time has shown that your traits and genes are undesirable, and there's no hope for you
Anonymous No.82806155 [Report]
>>82805423
>We didn't tell you to work hard
lol
lmao even
Anonymous No.82806161 [Report]
>>82805643
I want a family, not be a single father (unless my wife dies or something)
Anonymous No.82806391 [Report]
>>82805411 (OP)
>What's the point of trying super hard if I am not guaranteed a girlfriend/wife and have no friends?
The alternative is not trying at all and wasting your time on shit that still won't bring you fulfillment.
If you have nothing to lose and everything to gain, then the rational course of action is to try anyway even if success isn't guaranteed. Even partial success may justify the effort.
There are plenty of horror stories online now where older men say the one thing they regret most is precisely not trying anyway.