Thread 82812254

Tinder has been working less and less for me as time has gone on. When I started using the app, i got loads of matches. A couple of months later, I'm lucky if i get any matches by this point.

It sucks. I don't know how else to try to meet people other than through dating apps

I use nicher apps/sites for my local area but sometimes ghost my matches cause I want to shitpost on here instead of going out lel
it's prob a good thing and a sign to delete Tinder cause it's boring after the first few months anyways

>>82812254 (OP)
If i remember correctly tinder does this on purpose to get people to pay for subscriptions and stuff. They show your profile a bunch when you first sign up so that you get a bunch of matches and then decrease the amount over time

>>82812267
what nicher apps do you use?

>>82812276
this

look up the current left to right ratio, you must speak to every match, I find that if its fubar re make a profile as it will boost you, over time you get hidden in the stack.

>>82812276
Why would anyone use this shit? Jesus dating is already hard enough for the average guy without crapitalists trying to take a cut of your money too

>>82812355
Hiki is pretty good. It's like duolicious except the people actually hold a convo. Usually you'll run into weeb/autist girls if you put effort into your bios and put cringe anime memes with your self photoshopped on it kek.
Hush is good if your local area is active, will usually get DMs since you can sort by local area's post there.

>>82812254 (OP)
It never really worked for me, I find myself installing and uninstalling over a time period of 1-2 months each year before I get depressed or unmotivated and give up.

>>82812254 (OP)
how old are you? 30yo is a magic number a lot of people filter you

for a while it was so trash for me that i used it so infrequently it finally came around and shoes my profile to 6/10 women now

>>82812375
Because there was a guerilla marketing campaign in the mid 2010s that made public approaches look like borderline sexual assault.

>>82812254 (OP)
Tinder is over 80% male users so if you are using the free version and aren't a very attractive guy your account likely won't even be seen by most women on the app let alone swiped on. You get a free boost on your profile when you first start out but after that you need to keep the engagement on your account high or you will get lost in the crowd. If you take a break for a few months it will reset and you will get a little boost when you reinstall

I have paid for tinder platinum a couple times and it definitely works I had 4x the engagement but it's too expensive to bother with for more than a week.

>>82813575
>30yo is a magic number a lot of people filter you
You mean as a foid? Why would it matter for men?

>>82813575
if youre male its quite the opposite. dating becomes the easiest when youre 30

>>82812254 (OP)
I got way, way, way many more matches 1-2 years ago compared to now. It's ridiculous at this point.

>>82812254 (OP)
Worked for me from 2014 to 2016. And at that point it really stopped working! Like, zero matches whatsoever. Something happened in 2016

>>82814761
Hey, I'm saying this from a point of pure jealousy. But I want you dead. We're at the very least, I want your eyes to be poked out.

>>82815564
they have changed it to make it more difficult to get matches if you don't pay for the premium versions.

>>82815580
Jealousy will be your downfall.

The issue is your age. Past 25 all those apps filter you out of the hot girls that like hooking up and put you with single moms.

It's an issue with most dating apps, thats why apps are actually terrible for when men start getting money