Thread 82816133

I've been having a bpd girlfriend for some months now, this shit is great, she started liking things I like just because I liked them, she is a complete degenerate for me, how long until mood swings and that shit happen though because the moment it does the block button seems pretty dope

>>82816133 (OP)
about 6 months

>>82816149
So at the 6 months would you say it's like a boss trial that I have to beat for her to keep loving me
Or it's an unwinabble boss fight

>>82816161
It is a rollercoaster. And it probably already started, does not take that long to show manipulative behavior. If you are already thinking of blocking her, I don't think that will stand it

>>82816210
It hasn't started I think, I just mentioned if she wanted to play with me and my friend who happened to be female, and she goes on a tantrum and wants me to block her, of course I do not give in because that's stupid but she was mad at me the entire week for it

>>82816149
More or less this.
Get ready for her to get comfortable enough to have meltdowns around you. They can usually be calmed down fairly easily but it gets worse once she starts threatening suicide. Once that starts DO NOT PUT UP WITH IT unless you want trauma. But yeah be careful anon.

>>82816226
Yeah, it has already started, things like that are going to keep happening.

>>82816269
There's no way to put her in her place?
She cried once because I called her a bitch
>>82816242
I don't really care about her wellbeing that much
I pretend I do but not really

>>82816292
You're kinda shitty but I respect the game, I did the same for awhile.
Don't let her borrow or keep anything you own that you don't want destroyed.

>>82816292
>There's no way to put her in her place?
She cried once because I called her a bitch
Nope, they are going to keep behaving the same way. You obviously hurt them by saying that, but that is not going to change anything. Probably is going to make things worse

>>82816133 (OP)
try leaving her alone for a few weeks
does she have a legit diagnosis?

>>82816346
So actually if you want her to change you have to treat her nice. But that is extremely hard because indeed they are very difficult people

>>82816292
>I don't really care about her wellbeing that much
>I pretend I do but not really
ur gonna get murdered lol

>>82816373
Like a 100 lb anorexic girl could kill a 170 lb dude
>>82816346
Fuck :/
>>82816343
It's not really shitty, women can get 100x guys to sympathize with them, it's why I find it so hard to sympthasize with a female and truly care for her whwen she's already being cared by everyone
>>82816353
Yes she got diagnosed a while back

>>82816415
>Like a 100 lb anorexic girl could kill a 170 lb dude
have you heard of poison? anyways im telling you these girls are insane when they split on you more likely she will hit you and if you hit her back she will call the cops and ensure you get as smeared as possible and yeah i answered ur question usually they split when they their partner gets distant and they perceive real or imagined disloyalty or abandonment

>>82816439
So basically when you don't message them for hours everyday they'll go crazy
Nah man these women are too hard to take care of

>I don't really care about her wellbeing that much
>She cried once because I called her a bitch
>I find it so hard to sympthasize with a female
fast forward
>nooo why did my little bpd kitten leave me i just don't get it. must be le bpd hitting hard

>>82816486
You don't have to do anything you don't wanna do.

>>82816486
time to start planning your escape then

>>82816520
But I like the attention and love she gives me, I don't want it gone
>>82816511
I do try to show her llove but I've told her multiple times it might be hard to and if you're okay with that stay with me and she stays each time

>>82816511
That shows that he is fucked

>>82816548
>But I like the attention and love she gives me, I don't want it gone
You have to take care of yourself first. If you are going to keep that relationship you cannot enable her