Thread 82819046

Anyone else a virgin by choice? How many volcels are even left in this brave new world? What happened to the religious guys and the high functioning spergs and the misanthropes and the high IQs? I hate people so much after learning how they work, last thing I want is a relationship. Hell I don't even want friends, and family is a ruse in this materialistic hellscape. Your own mother would sell you out because she worships money like anyone else. People are animals nowadays why would you want them near you.

Not really by choice, but I have never tried getting a girl/laid thanks to social anxiety/depression/autism etc
>t.35 year old virgin loser

>>82819046 (OP)
>What happened to the religious guys and the high functioning spergs and the misanthropes and the high IQs?
We get old and stop trying. I don't hate women but I haven't had very many positive experiences with them romantically.

im too afraid of wasting my time, like sometimes ill read about how someone breaks up/divorces with their gf or wife of 4 or 7 or 15 years and it just baffles me. imagine spending all that time with someone just for it to be for nought, and not only that but the entire span of memory for that time will be tainted by the thought of her. what a waste. a gf is an investment and im not confident in it at all

>>82819046 (OP)
I was a volcel, but now I found a girl that isn't like the others

>>82819133
I'm terribly jealous but I wish you happiness all the same.

>>82819046 (OP)
We've always been animals. In fact, we used to be worse.

>>82819141
thank you fren. Ironically I did it by just being myself and asking her number. There is hope, but you have to look for what it is you want

>>82819158
how/where did you meet her? and how did you know she was the end of your love quest?

>>82819133
does she shave? does she do anal? does she cum quick? does she swallow cum and piss? how often do u fuck? do you rape her?

>>82819166
It was meetup for autistic people. First date we kept finding things in common and it ended up being 7+ hours just talking and hand holding

>>82819176
that sounds wonderful anon

>>82819046 (OP)
No I'm in the same boat.

I still am attracted to women unfortunately, but my conscious mind has no desire for intimacy. I'm dating someone right but she's so boring and puts zero effort into me so whatever.

I hate women, I hate men, I hate human beings, I hate myself, I hate how fake everything is, I hate that God abandoned us

>>82819046 (OP)
For a long time I was kind of a volcel, since I didn't care to date and didn't look for anyone. Now I started to be more active with that, but still nothing, so I guess incel mode now.

>>82819074
There is a way it can make sense.

A relationship in which you have no attachment. Sounds like a contradiction in terms but you'd have to be able to appreciate someones presence without being invested in them remaining.

>>82819046 (OP)
Vast majority of women see the endgame of a relationship to be marriage and children. In today's economy, those things result in poverty/debt/wageslavery/divorce-rape. More than anything in this only life I'll ever get, I want to be rich and retire early, therefore I am volcel.
I also just don't have much in common with most women so I've never felt any need to approach one. I have a high libido but masturbation feels so good that I have never felt like the trouble/expense of a relationship is worth it.
I simply do not see any point to pursuing women and most normies with gfs/wives seem to be living worse lives than me. It genuinely all looks like a scam to me and love looks like alcoholism, because you make stupid/illogical decisions like marriage under the influence of it.
I wish I could find a sane, smart, sexy woman like me who just wants an exclusive best friend with benefits but they're so rare it's pointless to even try finding one.

>>82819289
>Vast majority of women see the endgame of a relationship to be marriage and children
No? Like 80% of the women I have talked to say they don't want kids. Women these days are a broken version of what a woman is

>>82819310
this is true, I also found this to be the case

>>82819046 (OP)
Basically the only reason I see for pursuing a relationships would be to have children, but im sterile anyway so it was litterally over before it began. I even had a girl in highschool who really liked me, but I would have felt guilty deflowering her when I didn't reciprocate her feelings. Sometimes in moments of weakness I do wish i'd been a dark triad chad,though

>>82819310
I live in eastern EU. They are very much "not broken" here, which is bad for me. Every normie family man I know is perpetually broke and miserable. Not a single one is happy or even sexually satisfied. I guess I have to emigrate to western EU, but I hate the violent mudslime immigrants they have over there.