>>82828233 (OP)
I don't really hate women, it's just that they only want you to talk them in terms of positive emotional expression and get mad at you for not having feelings that they have. They want to exchange complements, but not in such a manner that it makes them uncomfortable. Everything that a guy said before in an attempt to get laid now makes them uncomfortable. That's a lot of landmines.
I'll sit down at table full of dudes and talk about MTG card mechanics for 6 hours. Same thing with video games, hiking, biking, kayaking, etc... We all share notes and tips for the improvement of our endeavors.
I talk out going out kayaking or hiking with women and immediately catch "you're not supposed to do this alone!" In a scolding tone. It's exhausting and boring.