Thread 82829866

Are any other boys here scared of women? I can't speak to them, I can't look at them, my heart beats so much I begin to sweat when I'm even near a woman.

Even when I know someone is a woman online it scares me. I'm not sure why I feel this way but I always have. I don't think I'll ever get over this.

>>82829866 (OP)
>I don't think I'll ever get over this.
Of course you will, they don't bite unless you're into that

>>82829879
I can't even think about being with a woman in any sort of intimate way, it's frightening. I'd just freeze and wouldn't know what to say or do.

No other boys here feel the same way? Am I an outcast here too?

>>82829866 (OP)
I'm not completely scared of them but I am definitely unable to be myself around them, unless I know them really well, like I know my mom and grandma. I don't know why and it makes no sense as I could overpower 99% of them and oftentimes I am of higher status than them. And I become even more scared when I am aware one of them is into me, which has happened several times.
I used to pretty much get red in the face and freeze up around unknown women as a teen. As I got into my 20s, I got that under control and I don't blush anymore. But the idea of flirting with them or having non-professional conversations is alien to me, in that I can't imagine myself pulling it off unless she made an effort to get to know me a bit. A few women have done that but still I could have awkward moments when alone with them, or run out of things to say, knowing that they're not into the same stuff I'm into.

Not scared of them but being near them or talking to them makes me anxious so I avoid them.

>>82829866 (OP)
I'm not exactly scared of them, but I actively avoid them and never initiate any sort of contact
If a girl smiles at me? Look away and pretend it never happened. She was probably smiling for someone else.
If a girl is nice to me? She's probably just nice to everyone, it means nothing.
If I walk into a room in a social setting and there are girls there? I'm doing a 360 at the door and walking away.
Girls used to chase me around when I was younger so I think I developed an unhealthy self defense mechanism by flat out ignoring them

Thank you anons, it's nice to know I'm not alone feeling this way.

>>82829866 (OP)
I will take advantage of you op

>>82830776
Please do not, just leave me in peace, the fact you even might be a woman and I'm replying to you makes my fingers tremble as I type

I would say that I am totally indiferent. Talking to thm seems bothersome and I avoid them as much as I can

>>82829866 (OP)
yes but it's mostly because my baseline quietness and awkwardness can be read as creepy by women, whereas that's not really a problem when i speak to other men. it's not a good feeling to see actual discomfort in someone's eyes and body language when you're just trying to exist. so i try to avoid the ones who look scared but that makes them either more scared or angry and i don't know why. they are so confusing.