Thread 82830914

At what point did you accept you are unloveable and will never have a friend, muchless love? I can't take anymore ghostings. I can't even keep online friends. I don't think it is possible to get any lonelier than this.

>>82830914 (OP)
>At what point did you accept you are unloveable and will never have a friend, muchless love?
21. i'm 33 now and haven't had a single friend since then and am still a kissless virgin. never had a full conversation with a woman unrelated to me as well.

>>82830914 (OP)
I keep a voicemail of my ex gf crying and sobbing to remind me that bitches ain't shit. Stopped feeling bad about loneliness when I realized that I was never the problem to begin with and that the type of people I vibe with are just inherently niche. My hustle is supreme.

>>82830914 (OP)
>At what point did you accept
You don't. You simply repeat. Forever.
>>82830935
Knowing that there aren't many people like me doesn't really help feel less alone, not sure how it makes you feel better.

>>82830925
I am going down your path but I have never had a friend at all and I'm planning on leaving everything before my 30th.
>>82830935
I wish someone ever cared enough about me to cry over me.

>>82830953
You don't need anything from plebs that you don't even like. All a person needs is for a few critical people to be present in their support structure when it really matters.

>>82830960
>but I have never had a friend at all
i had one friend growing up i played vidya with but that was it. once he started wanting to get laid around 19-20 we just kind of naturally drifted apart. he's married with kids now and i haven't seen him in ages cause we're just too different nowadays. he changed a lot and i stayed the same.

I have a very strong friendship with a woman, but we never had sex. She did fuck multiple people she doesn't really consider friends though. I am too autistic to ascertain the implications of this.

>>82830914 (OP)
I am loveable (I love myself atleast) but I don't like other people. I gave up on people around 28 I'm 35 now. Eventually you have to let go of trying to force anything to be good and just deal with life as it actually is. This post from 2013 always kills me because it's like damn some anon already had it figured out spot on back then.

>>82830966
I'd agree, but that's the point, people into my niches effectively (or perhaps literally) don't exist. Still, at least you do.

>>82830968
Still better than nothing. But yeah, sorry you lost your friend.
>>82830993
I do not think I am important, I am not under any delusion that life isn't awful. I just wanted a single friend before I died. To know what it was like to have someone to share things with.

>>82830993
>the post
That's one perspective on life, but it forgets to take into account that it's you who decides what "important" is and that people can and very commonly do have relationships/friendships where certain things are important to both of them. It's just us that get stuck in our bubbles, since nobody holds the values we do.

idk probably in youth
I do not care anymore I'm so cursed