Thread 82840038

To my fellow femcels: how do you get a good man when you're tall? Guys won't approach me, and it feels like all the good ones want petite, small girls.

I feel so damn manly sometimes. I wish I were small and cute, but at the same time, I kind of love looking down on men. Additionally, it makes me feel safe as hell. At night, I just pull up my hoodie, throw on a puffer jacket, and bam! people back off.

Sometimes I wonder how things would've been if I were a lesbian. I feel like I'd have had crazy pull. Once, I even unintentionally pulled my gay friend. Recently, I've been thinking about getting serious with calisthenics so I can btfo (most) men

>>82840038 (OP)
you can thank #metoo
about 1/4th of chicks have reported people who approached them IRL to HR, university admin, authorities, etc.
about half of men below 30 have NEVER approached a woman IRL. another 15-20% haven't in "more than a year".
Basically 2/3rds of guys do not approach women at all anymore IRL.
So the 1/3rd still approaching girls with pickup lines are either creeps trying their luck or serial PUA chads looking for some quick poon, neither are husbandu material.
you are NOT gonna meet the love of your life cold approaching you in a library or grocery store or something. That just isn't how the current year dating market works anymore.

How tall are we talking OP?
I'm 5'10" and I go for women 5'8"+, tallest I was with was 6'2"

>>82840038 (OP)
You'll be fine, my nurse the other day was talking about her tall sister who was married so it's not your height pushing people away. Maybe it's your demeanor, maybe its >>82840120

>>82840038 (OP)
If it makes you feel any better, guys don't really approach women at all in public nowadays.

>>82840038 (OP)
You are obviously a dude

I'm 6'5 and my tallest girl was 5'8. I would date a woman of any height but most tall girls are athletes and we have nothing in common

just be hot. im 6'1 and wear heels because i enjoy towering over people and my height has never been anything but a boon in courting

>>82840038 (OP)
you are not an incel because you are a woman

>>82840038 (OP)
>Guys won't approach me
Ok well hey, I'm approaching you now. I'm a good man, and I don't care about height. Are you white?

>>82840038 (OP)
step on me please bae

>>82840038 (OP)
Nobody's stopping you from approaching you stupid bitch

>>82840038 (OP)
>>82840210
NNNGGGGHGHHHH I FUCKING NEED A TALL GF TO DOMINATE ME NNNGGGHH

it's your darkskin and facial features that make you look masculine not your height

>>82840038 (OP)
most guys won't approach you because they think you're out of their league or you won't date them. you have higher chances by approaching people yourself
>>82840210
>just be hot
is there any namefag on this board that isn't a complete retard?

>>82840296
No i am not white.
>>82840155
6ft
>>82840120
>>82840169
Sometimes I feel ashamed that I don't get approached. I feel like all women experience it, and I haven't? Makes me think I'm clapped or something. Or maybe I am intimidating. I don't go out much. I am kind to people but I don't like to make friends. Also I don't talk to ofthen men because I find most of them to be boring or horny or both. Don't talk with many women either. I just don't talk to many people unless they are old people, because they are cool.
>>82840210
Tall women are sexy. I dont think being tall is a bad thing, I just think that media (especially porno) glorifies this idea that women should be helpless and small. And all those gurlboss movies portray women as being like a man. But why can't we just be women in our own terms? Idgaf about guys. Heck Idgaf about getting a man or having sex. If I die a virgin I wouldn't have a problem with it. It's just that society always tells me that I should care. That i should want to be desirable. But idgaf? Why do I have to give a fuck?

>>82840513
>most guys won't approach you because they think you're out of their league or you won't date them.
Fucking this
>>82840518
>6ft
Hot

>>82840513
>is there any namefag on this board that isn't a complete retard?
it's a prerequisite

>>82840518
Pack it up, OP's just some big negress. who gaf.

>>82840518
>6ft
Very nice, I would approach for sure.

>>82840038 (OP)
>Guys won't approach me
Why don't you just approach the guys you like?

>>82840547
I do. OP give me ur discord

>>82840518
>No i am not white.
then refer to >>82840465
and goddamn why are there so many browns and blacks on this fucking site? Don't you have like rap or basketball forums you can go to? You'd think this site would only have the high IQ introverted races on it like whites and asians(I'm assuming you're not asian since a tall asian woman is so unlikely). Fucking seems like every time I see a fembot talking about wanting a bf it turns out she's fucking brown or black ugggghhh. Light skinned fembots are such a rare breed.

>>82840518
>Heck Idgaf about getting a man or having sex. If I die a virgin I wouldn't have a problem with it. It's just that society always tells me that I should care. That i should want to be desirable. But idgaf? Why do I have to give a fuck?
This would seem to contradict your OP. Anyway, guys don't approach tall women because we just assume you would want someone significantly taller than you who makes you feel small (like most women do). You're gonna have to make the moves when you see a guy you like. A lot of guys don't genuinely care how tall a woman is, other than we know the stigma that most women don't want a guy that's their own height or shorter, so we already treat it as a non-starter. You would have to open the door and do the approaching if you're fine with a guy's height who isn't freakishly tall.

>>82840571
universal smartphone adoption has led to blacks being all over the internet, it's why everything sucks now. black people used to party and rap and gangbang, turns out that impulsive retardation is also primo for getting sucked into youtube shorts and porno goon life. lotta black introverts coming down the pipeline

>>82840626
>>82840547
>>82840571
I'm not black either. My iq is 120.

>>82840641
what race are you? if ur asian or latina then ur ok

>femcel
>doesn't approach men herself
another day with bad bait threads in the catalog

foid, if this is real, you know by being the taller one that means you have to approach first, right? You're the more dominant figure, so go pursue your prey.

>>82840641
>6' tall asian foid

My pp hardens at the thought.

>>82840518
>6 ft giraffe
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
Disgusting foid

You will never have a pretty pink pussy, roast beef

>>82840611
I do want someone around my height, but doesn't have to be taller. My preference is to be the same height, idk I don't prefer tall men that much. I have met a couple, I dont get why they are hyped so much. Its annoying to look up at someone.

I have no problem approaching either. I'm not shy, don't care too much about rejection either. But you're right, OP is not really how I feel. I'm not a femcel, I dont think so at least I think its funny. I am just bothered by the fact that society shame everyone who doesn't quite fit the box. If you're tall you're told "oh but you could model???" But that's bullshit.

As women, why are we constantly told we need to be desirable? Why do we constantly think about what men like? Makeup, clothes, demeanor... all of it. Just for men. Men men men. Why?

>>82840571
Light skinned women are desired by everyone all over the planet. Use your brain retard, they would not be femcels and it makes perfect sense why brown and black women qualify. Fuck off normgroid

>>82840777
Wow. It's kinda crazy to think that there are actual women who don't have simple aesthetic labia like that. How do they cope with it? If I was a woman with big brown fleshy lips and I saw that picture, I would know that I am eternally gross and inferior and probably want to kill myself.

>>82840657
>>82840752
I am whatever you want me to be.

Its peculiar that I have to say I am not black and that my iq is such and such to be treated with humanity. I don't like people who lack morality and dignity.

>>82840518
>No i am not white.
pls be asian, that would make ultimate unicorn combo and score you achievement

>>82840786
Do you have any other useful skills other than being desirable to men?

>>82840786
>As women, why are we constantly told we need to be desirable?
the same reason why men are told they need to be providers and their only purpose is to work and earn money. its because of gender roles
>I have no problem approaching either. I'm not shy, don't care too much about rejection either. But you're right, OP is not really how I feel.
so you are here just to mock people that really struggle with getting a partner?

>>82840786
>Why do we constantly think about what men like? Makeup, clothes, demeanor... all of it. Just for men
I very rarely see western women dress up for men these days. Most of what they do is trying to outdo other women in stupid shit like ridiculous nails, eyelashes, and bloated lips. And the clothes they wear aren't attractive either. I tend to see them wearing baggy or masculine shit.

If you want to know the kind of clothes and demeanor men like, you have to look at fucking femboys, because they actually know what men like and actively try to appeal to it. Also helps they don't hate men. I think all the stupid shit women do to their looks these days is partially to spite men.

>>82840817
Is womanhood only defined in the eyes of men?

>>82840829
No, I am just talking about the experience of not fitting in the box. I dont laugh at that stuff. I think saying I am a femcel or an inces is funny, because it's a very chronically online term. It gives off the same vibe as people who have their own pronouns. Maybe I fit more in the category of being a voluntary celibate person? Idk. I dont care either.

>>82840847
I agree and disagree, it's in general just preformativeness. Initially meant for men, but over time it became about women and men and fictional ideas of status, beauty and whatever

>>82840850
Pretty much, yeah. That's the way the cookie crumbled.

>>82840038 (OP)
tall girls make my heart skip a beat, i fucking love them
i won't approach them but i won't approach anyone else either, i'm too much of a fucking coward to even start a conversation with people, doubly so when it's a girl, triply so when it's a girl that makes my heart skip a beat

>>82840518
wait a minute...

>how do you get a good man when you're tall? Guys won't approach me
but then
>It's just that society always tells me that I should care. That i should want to be desirable. But idgaf? Why do I have to give a fuck?
like... bruh

you need to start being honest, for starters
you either give enough of a fuck to warrant asking the question of how to get a man and complaining about not being approached, or you don't actually give a fuck and not even make this fucking thread in the first place
you're either a hypocrite or you're coping with denial, own up to what you feel and go with that
>inb4 i dun wanna sound desperate!!!!!
look around you, desperation is in ample supply here

>>82840941
Just another lying two-faced foid that doesn't know what she wants. Same as always. It's all so boring and tiresome. I wish women had real thoughts and personalities.

>>82840879
yeah, pretty much so. you voluntarily choose to do nothing about your "struggles" then complain about it just to get attention. if a man complains about being too short then they get told "height doesn't matter".
you suck as a person. even if you are able to get in a relationship, you won't form any long lasting bonds due to being insufferable

>>82840811
>my iq is such and such
>morality and dignity
choose one, retard. Either you're intelligent enough to know what morals are and that dignity doesn't exist. Or you're trying to larp as an intelligent human being demanding to be treated as such.

>>82840978
assume incompetence over malice, anon
everyone forgets that basic rule... it's so tiresome indeed

>>82840038 (OP)
Just get manlet man like me with 176cm height. I wouldn't mind having tall wife.

>>82840996
No, people who are racist are retards who inhale copium to keep their ego alive. You are not different. People who worship iq are boring and usually haven't made much of themselves
>>82840978
>>82840941
>>82841013
Damn anons. Damn. Sorry if I inconvenienced you guys that bad.

>>82840777
its okay cuz you are NEVER getting pussy anyways incel
stay coping limp dick

OP can you step on me please

>>82841056
no, you didn't "inconvenience" me all that much, it just bugs me when people aren't honest because i'm usually too dense to tell and because it brings them trouble down the line
if you're gonna cope with denial then you'll waste a lot of time and peace of mind coping while you could be working on solving your problem, whatever it is

i mean fucking look at me, for the longest time now i coped with the fact that "i don't need anyone" and now i'm in a pretty terrible state where i don't have any irl friends (and one online) yet loneliness eats away at me despite all the opportunities i missed
you don't wanna end up like that when it comes to relationships so again, make up your mind, own up to what you feel and go with that
don't waste your time with copes

tldr didnt read all that junk junas l2write lixo macaco

>>82841169
kek'd, here's a (You) for the laugh
take care of yourself out there, anon

>>82841129
Ok dude. Thanks for being considerate. But what i am saying isn't cope, it's fragments. I'll list them
>I dont mind dying alone
>still, i hope to find love
>traditional standards feminity and masculinity are dumb and based on porn
>I dont fit into those standards
>worried I won't find love because of that
> so i am angry about the standards.
>i wish I could be a woman without having to care about those standards
>but at the end of the day, if I die a virgin, then it's fine I guess.

>>82841311
hmm... sounds more reasonable when you put it that way
hope for the best but expect the worst, it seems like... and i can't blame you for it when i have that posture as well, kind of

i'll admit it's difficult to find someone who at the very least doesn't mind these standards all that much, so i wish you the best of luck with that
but i don't think it's based on porn, gender roles have been a thing since the dawn of humankind after all, they changed in recent years a fair bit but their roots run deep

still, i think someone's beauty doesn't depend all that much on their physical appearance, more so in their mindset
finding love is difficult for anyone really, one night stands are disgusting but a lot of people have tons of them, passion/infatuation also doesn't count because it's easy come, easy go
and crushing on anyone is easy enough, having those silly immature and destructive relationships is a bit more difficult (especially for us here) but eventually it cracks and breaks

tl;dr a lot of what can be interpreted as "love" is fragile and doesn't look much like it
finding love is hard for anyone, regardless of circumstances
try and get to know others i suppose, make friends first, even if you don't like it
the best chance one has of finding love is through those, i reckon