Thread 82851320

Thread for discussions about selfharm and mutual support

sunday! or.. cat..day?
yes I'm calling it catday from now on, cats need more days

Hello
>How are you doing today?
>Any plans for today?
>When was the last time you hurt yourself?
>Why did you hurt yourself?
>Is there anything bothering you right now?

hii
Here's a bunch of helpful links

> long list of self harm alternatives (thank you muddy):
https://imgur.io/a/7Q2zgw7

> first aid post cuting:
https://www.lifesigns.org.uk/first-aid-for-self-injury-and-self-harm/

>a wound care guide:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CsvJs8qNCVkHWHKekMSmCn6qn0GBEcgnq9fIqlA6Uv0/mobilebasic

> bpd workbook:
https://d-pdf.com/book/1781/read

> bpd Information Book (anon said it's exceptionally good)
https://annas-archive.org/md5/1a4f329474320214a120a4d553c6b60c

>a bdbt (dialectical behavioral therapy)
workbook is intended for BPD but can work for anyone:
https://cursosdepsicologia.com.ar/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/THEDIA1.pdf

Please don't post any drastic images and if you have to, spoiler them

I guess it could also be canday ...

>>82851337
>canday
picture didn't post

>>82851337
or carday, that might work too

My friend, who I have been on a 2 month long mission to protect from her ex boyfriend, cut herself a few nights ago. I broke down. Cried. Devastated. All my hard work in the bin. couldn't do anything. Wasn't there. I'm asexual through addiction, not a simp, but I believe in justice, and I wanted it for her because she saved my life, but I couldn't stop this.

schools back on Tuesday which is nice now im getting nervous tho, like im scared i forgot how ro exist really. i also told a "friend" something on the final day so lil scary

>>82845526
>what got you sad?
just being too late for everything
>called him "the guy with the skull on wheels as a profile pic"
that is very interesting and crazy he made his real profiles pic that just cause of one time thing hehe

>>82846542
hey lavender
>worst streak of bad luck in my life.
I'm sorry to hear that, life can be so rough and just the worst sometimes, hope it gets better for you <3

>>82851337
mmm candy ;p

>>82851477
>but I couldn't stop this.
that's really nice of you for helping her, and it's okay you definitely helped her a ton, and even if she cut once she still probably is really happy for you helping and supporting her

>>82851477
hello anon
is your friend trying to stop?
just know that even when someone is trying to not cut relapses are almost always going to happen, it's pretty normal and so the best thing to focus on is the amount on days between relapses and trying to make them bigger over time
Hopefully it helps you feel a little better
>hard work in the bin
that's probably not true
I don't know your situation but it'd would likely be worse without you help

>>82851965
hey ali
>now im getting nervous tho, like im scared i forgot how ro exist really
nah you'll probably get the usual feel like you have not been on any break at all once school starts
you'll just go back to your school mode and won't feel any difference
How's your day btw?
>candy ;p
lol it does sound like that ;>

>>82852204
heya cat
>won't feel any difference
okay that's good then
>How's your day btw?
it's been alright, pretty much just woke up and messed around all day. what about you? :]
>does sound like that ;>
yea hehe which makes it perfect :D

hellllllllo

>>82851320 (OP)
cat! hru?

>yes I'm calling it catday from now on
>canday
both seem good

>How are you doing today?
way better than yesterday.
i passed the exam and everything was good, then i came back home later and took a rest, then took another rest and a nap :>
and yeah i just woke up
what about you? how was your catday?

>>82851965
gator!
>getting nervous tho
i feel u , one day it was the back to school day and it felt like i lost most of my social skills. i hope it doesn't go like that with you.
so what's getting you nervous?
>like im scared i forgot how ro exist really
could u explain a bit more? if u want to

>i also told a "friend" something on the final day so lil scary
can u talk about what you told him?
sorry for these questions :<
>>82843535
>doing something till you're sleepy enough isn't bad
yep exactly
> Hopes it's past now
thanks! i'm better now

>i get them so bad since it's work
ouch dude i hope it isn't that bad atleast, cuz it's really annoying

>>82843632
>good job on studying
>sorry to hear
thank gator :) and don't worry!

>>82844118
>okay hopefully it works
it worked!!!!

>>82832772
>nothing wrong with a little trash sometimes
yup but unless it takes most of the time yk xD

>Best I can say is try to be as honest as you're comfortable with
thanks for the advice, i'll see how honest i can go with it.

>>82852565
>that's good then
yep ao nothing to worry about :>
>woke up and messed around all day.
cool^^
what sort of messes were you arounding today?
>what about you? :]
hm I just stayed inside, I started working on my project but I gave up sorta
also thinking about playing easy delivery co
Have you heard of that game?

>>82852588
Hey :>
>seem good
yep or maybe funday
>passed the exam and everything was good,
of course it did ur smart after all^^
>then took another rest and a nap
sounds good
though hopefully it doesn't mess up your sleep schedule
>was your catday?
not much happened
I basically just did nothing all day, I saw a game called easy delivery co, it seems very nice and I'm thinking about playing it

>>82852896
>yep or maybe funday
yup that's good too

>ur smart
:>> always speechless, thank you so much

>hopefully it doesn't mess up your sleep schedule
even if it did now it's okay, atleast i'm able to study so all good

>it seems very nice
i searched and wow, i think i'll play it too
i like the graphics so much and the overall idea sounds interesting to me.
looks so chill

>>82852588
>hellllllllo
hello !
>lost most of my social skills.
Yea really isn't fun :/
>what's getting you nervous?
i just don't want to be to weird or for something to go wrong somehow
>could u explain a bit more?
well i haven't really gone out in public since break and i haven't studied so im scared i may have forgotten how to do either
>can u talk about what you told him?
i kinda alluded to her i was gay, so definitely shouldn't have
>sorry for these questions :<
don't be, how was your day? how are you feeling? adorable owl btw

>>82852896
>what sort of messes were you arounding today?
just computer and bed, oh and bagel
>started working on my project but I gave up sorta
fair enough lol, what's the project about if i may ask?
>Have you heard of that game?
oh yea like a cat delivery game seems cool

>>82853120
>i just don't want to be to weird or for something to go wrong somehow
oh.
hey, no one cares enough to make you feel weird, i suppose.
sometimes you don't realize how no one really cares until you see someone doing something stupid or embarrassing then you notice how you don't really care and you're just minding your own business. take it easy!

>well i haven't really gone out in public since break
oh i see, well the social connection at school might help you building the social skills again, i know it's hard but it's gonna happen either way so let the easy way happen :)

>scared i may have forgotten how to do either
don't worry, just manage your time and deal with it easily. well i've been yapping about studying here for a long time so i think you could ask me anything if u ever wanted to

>so definitely shouldn't have
would she tell anyone? is that what annoys you?

>how was your day? how are you feeling? adorable owl btw
today was chill, and i'm feeling better than yesterday.
adorable gator too

>>82853068
>yup that's good too
yep yep :3
>thank you so much
you are welcome!!
>atleast i'm able to study so all good
do you have any tests any time soon?
>think i'll play it too
ye it's very comfy and has nice music ^^
and it's not very short even though it's fairly cheap

>>82853120
>computer and bed,
anything fun on da puter??
>oh and bagel
woa a bagel :o
where did you get it?
>what's the project about if i may ask?
it's a uni graduation project
>cat delivery game seems cool
yep it's cute and fun

>>82853654
>do you have any tests any time soon?
so far, there is nothing until the next sunday. actually there is one on tuesday but it's easy

>not very short
well i think i found what to do without focusing much :]

>>82851320 (OP)
heya cat! i'm doing okay i think. painted my mini and tried my best not to get upset over it, tried atleast.

>>82851965
hey gator!
>schools back on Tuesday
good luck dude, i'm sure everything will go fine.

>>82852588
hai rem

>>82853434
>no one cares enough to make you feel weird, i suppose.
yea probably not
>no one really cares
yeah true most people couldn't really care less what other people are doing there just thinking about what there doing
>building the social skills again
yeah it definitely will, and i guess starting is the hardest part should be hopefully ok tho
>let the easy way happen :)
okay will try my best too <3
>manage your time and deal with it easily.
yea smart just can't let myself get to distracted or anything
>ask me anything if u ever wanted to
okay Will do if i need ^^
>would she tell anyone?
probably not just never know
>today was chill, and i'm feeling better than yesterday.
that's nice then, chill days are best days, and that's great your feeling better.<3
>adorable gator too
tysm

>>82853654
>anything fun on da puter??
not really :/
>where did you get it?
it was just a store bought one but i love balges so still happy
>uni graduation project
oh sounds super.. interesting
>yep it's cute and fun
that's lovely

>>82853809
>good luck dude, i'm sure everything will go fine.
thanks and i hope so <3
hru?

>>82853838
no problem
>hru?
could be better could be worse. just kinda stressed mainly

>>82854001
>just kinda stressed mainly
aw :/ anything in particular stressing you? hope you feel better soon

I'm going to sleep
goodnight everyone hope you get the nice day/night you deserve

>>82853678
>nothing until the next sunday
D:
why do you have tests on sunday btw?
>tuesday but it's easy
I'm glad :>
>found what to do without focusing much :]
gaming time

>>82853809
Hey
>painted my mini and tried my best not to get upse
wanna post a pic of it?
and dw if you don't like that one that much
I'm sure you'll get other minis to paint

>>82853829
>not really :/
maybe next time
>store bought one but i love balges
those are tasty too
did you get anything else at the store
>super.. interesting
not to me desu but I have no motivation
>lovely
it's also fun to watch ^^
https://youtu.be/SQkyfYk3QvU?si=wX4d5znx3mIBx_kV

>>82854134
>anything in particular stressing you?
mainly just the mini painting, but I asked my lgs and they're holding a painting workshop soon. I'll go there to see if they can teach me anything.

>>82854357
>wanna post a pic of it?
picrel, ignore my messy room pls
>and dw if you don't like that one that much
i'm trying my hardest not to care rn, but it does kinda sting sucking so bad at something. especially when i see pictures of people being really really good at it.
>I'm sure you'll get other minis to paint
i've got enough to paint, I'm just really scared to ruin them like i did the rest.

>>82851320 (OP)
Only women and girly homos cut themselves

>>82852204
She doesn't want my help, made that clear. Decision is no longer hers to make, unfortunately, I want this woman beating prick in the fucking ground, even if I go with him. The only time I felt any emotion other than hate in the past 2 months was when I saw those marks on her arm. It destroyed me. I love her so much.

>>82854857
you seem too obsessed I bet shes gonna return to her abusechad ex sooner or later

>>82854857
seems like a horrendous thing to do ngl. life isn't a goddamn movie. if she doesn't want you to do anything then atleast fucking respect that

hey everyone! just stopping by on my way to bed. wish you all a good day or night. wherever you are.

>>82854967
I can't fucking help it, I'm furious, Absolutely fuming. The girl saved my life. And I saved hers by pulling her out of the River Severn. We have history.
>>82854945
He's 20 years older than me, far fatter and far slower, and far, far weaker.

sorry phone died so took a nap, woke up with a sense of sadness so that's fun

>>82854357
>goodnight everyone hope you get the nice day/night you deserve
goodnight cat hope you sleep well
>did you get anything else at the store
got some gummy bears and some stuff for dinners
>not to me desu but I have no motivation
fair sounds basically impossible to get motivated for
>also fun to watch ^^
I'll see if thats so ^_^

>>82854458
>mainly just the mini painting
oh yeah, that's a bad feeling, always sucks when there's self doubt with something you enjoy
>see if they can teach me anything.
hopefully they can <3

>>82855028
hey yuanon, goodnight sleep well

>>82853809
hai chev
>painted my mini
wanna share?

>>82853829
>about what there doing
yup
>starting is the hardest part
maybe, but it will pass anyways
>okay Will do if i need
alright!
>and that's great your feeling better.
thanks!!

>>82854357
>why do you have tests on sunday btw?
that's how the system works here
>I'm glad
:>
>gaming time
yup, guess i'll play tomorrow or whenever i could


>>82855028
hey yuanon! and cya!


maybe i could have some sleep hours now

>>82855922
heya
>wanna share?
I posted a pic of it a bit earlier in the thread. it's not good at all but atleast i gave it a try