Thread 82854211

my gf has a friend who has been her friend for years, and has apparently never hit on her. now that she's with me he has been constantly hitting on her. she has not reciprocated and told him to stop which he hasnt and im not sure what to say about it. on one hand obviously i dont want some faggot constantly hitting on my gf but on the other i dont want to seem like im trying to isolate her from her old friends. what do anons

>>82854211 (OP)
If she has asked him not to, and he still persists, then he's in the wrong, and you need to tell her to distance herself from him for not respecting her boundaries.
If she fails to do this, then she is failing a legitimate request from her lover (you, unless...) and as such you will tell her "listen, I understand you won't enforce your own boundaries, and that's your choice. Now I'm enforcing my boundaries around my lover, you. I would like you to cooperate. If you don't, I will have to distance myself from a lover who will not acquiesce to my wishes. I don't consider romance a game, and I'm not going to beg or plead with you."

She gave her friend the choice to act respectfully, he failed and she allowed the failure to continue. Now it's no longer about her, it's about you. Will you allow your woman to continue this behavior?

>>82854211 (OP)
talk to her about it and try to come to an agreement that if he continues to hit on her, she needs to cut him off herself

but also do it in a way that she thinks it was HER idea.

is ur gf particularly a smart foid?

pt2
Basically, you're either young physically or mentally, and the insecurities of begging your mate to act appropriately isn't worth dealing with. You found one gf, you can find another.
>but love!
If she loved you, she wouldn't bother putting you through this crap. And you can find another girl to love too.
She's either eating her cake and wanting it too, which is a bad personality trait, she's naive, or you're about to star in an NTR doujin.

>>82854211 (OP)
Rape him to demonstrate your dominance.

>>82854310
this is a good perspective thank you anon
>>82854312
average intellect imo, depends on what specifically

>>82854211 (OP)
>my gf
First thing you should do is kill yourself, faggot. I don't offer any advice to sexhavers.

>>82854211 (OP)
Curbstomp the cunt

>>82854350
I agree with this, many girls will tell you they love you but don't act accordingly. It's not hard to know what to do in this situation, a girl that truly loves you will know what to do and this shouldn't take long or many arguments over. Sadly many foids will pretend to not see the problem or try to downplay it (because they're evil)

>>82854211 (OP)
Assert your dominance verbally or physically. Make sure you are with ur gf when the two of them are together and get lewd with her. He has to know that he isn't getting anything.

Or rape him like the other anon said

>>82855038
its online for right now but we are likely meeting in a few months