Thread 82860225

anons with a fully developed brain (i.e. arent women haters or gooners), have you ever been in a ldr? if so, how was your experience?

>>82860225 (OP)
>oh wow no shit you have highly conspicuous job too?

>>82860225 (OP)
Ldr as in long distance relationship or long term one?
I was in the former and it went good, not as much as I would have liked but it the only time a gir ever cared for me. Ofc she dumped me and ghosted me like all women do.

>>82860225 (OP)
>anons with a fully developed brain
>arent women haters or gooners
You feeling alright dude?

>>82860250
Shit I didn't mean to quote the gooner part. Whatever.

Generally, I don't recommend it. It puts a big strain and huge importance on the tiniest things. Stuff that happened:
>ended up sending exbf a lot of packages and leaning into the gifting but we weren't really connecting, exploded
>exbfs that were clearly cheating on me the entire time
>men just using me to kill time future faking like crazy never intending to meet up
>earnest loving bf that had to waste hundreds on gas to see me every weekend until he could come be with me, lots of undue pressure and strain in what should've been the honeymoon period
It's romantic in theory but difficult in practice. Mine worked out we are very happy now but I had many many fumbles

>>82860244
>like all women do
i said no women haters
>>82860250
>>82860257
>t. woman hater
gtfo

>>82860273
such is the life of an adventurer
as an autistic guy i still think it's better than nothing
but, im glad it worked out :)

>>82860225 (OP)
>a fully developed brain
>believes LDR are viable
Pick one

>>82860352
>i said no women haters
Facts is not hating women, every single woman did this to me I never left one on my own they all dumped and ghosted me. You should ask women why they are doing disgusting stuff like that.

It was hard but we were both going thru a tough time in life so that probably helped us bond. We were long distance for 3 years before we moved in with each other and it's been 7 years since. We married last year.

>>82860732
Why would you make her wait that long for marriage thought you could get better huh lmfao

>>82860225 (OP)
My experience was 6/10. I enjoyed our time together. The ending was bad but it was mostly on her and she absolutely suffered more than I did. She damaged my already broken ability to trust people but I see that as a positive, protects me from being hurt again.

>>82860399
>Facts
that'd be the case if you were in fact stating facts
saying all women are like that is not facts, it's prejudice

>>82860750
op here, i unilaterally decided you're an idiot
friendly reminder that marriage is the first step to divorce

>>82860884
at least the journey was nice :)

If you can't touch each other irl it's not a real relationship. Everything else is cope.

>>82860225 (OP)
>ldr
they don't ever work out. one person always ends up cheating, whether the other person finds out is a different story all together. in fact I wouldn't be surprised if in a lot of cases both partners end up cheating. the whole concept doesn't even make sense if you think about it. a long distance relationship isn't even a relationship; you're basically pen pals who see each once in a blue moon. I was in one for about three years, and I later found out when we broke up that she'd slept with five other guys (at least, five is the number she gave me) in that time. the whole thing is just exhausting for your mental health. you're constantly interpreting distance/silence, wondering who that guy is in the selfie she just posted on her instagram story or who gave her that expensive gift knowing that it isn't even her birthday.

>>82861384
For me it is a fact since every single woman has been that way towards me.

>>82860225 (OP)
>anons with a fully developed brain (i.e. arent women haters or gooners), have you ever been in a ldr? if so, how was your experience?
Not good. Dont do it.