>>82862192
You cant argue with attraction. Do you want a fat 35 year old woman? No, so why are you upset that women take the best of what theyre offered.
The best you can do is the cliched advice, be as awesome as possible for you. Be the top of what you do, be unique, and be yourself.
Be yourself. Women say this to men because they often dont be themselves. They act in either a too nice or too antagonistic way. Most men dont act like men, but the good news is you can just start doing it.
Much of your guys problem is you dont try because of some physical problem. Well do what you can to fix it and try. Or go to Asia.
Trying doesnt mean trying, just put yourself in front of them and you dont have to act. Also dont take their stupid shit or ignore it, but dont go along with it.