Thread 82873580

Thoughts on age gap relationships?
Personally I don't think there's anything morally wrong with it as long as they're both adults, but there are some problems that arise:
>People who grew up in different decades might not have much in common
>If the woman is older, she may be barren by the time the man is ready for kids
>The older one will probably die several years before the younger one and leave them alone and depressed

As unrealistic as any other kind of relationship to me. I don't think about it too much because of this.

>>82873580 (OP)
who cares being a pedophile back then was normal now its not people cant make up their fucking mind, my opinion to this is people should mind their own fucking business

>>82873580 (OP)
As long as they're both adults I don't care. Personally I don't think I'd go younger than 23 or so. I like the DDLG thing though.

>>82873580 (OP)
As long as they ar both of age and consent then there is no problem

You need to be born within thirty seconds of your partner. Anything else is just too much and predatory, obviously.

>>82873595
Yeah I personally wouldn't go below 20 because that feels kind of wrong

>>82873580 (OP)
Older women are hot but pregnancy past like 35 is a risky endeavor.

>>82873580 (OP)
>yes theyre both adults
kek ngmi

Are niggers gay? What do you think

>>82873608
It doesn't feel wrong to me. I've dated 18/19 year olds, it's just not very fun and they tend to change too much since they're still figuring life out.

>>82873612
Yeah 35 is pretty much my maximum.

i would prefer being with an older woman, not 20 years older especially considering i'm in my mid twenties but the fact is that men die younger and having felt the pain of my loved ones passing away i think ideally we would die together at the same time when we are old
around 30 would be my ideal but honestly i'm open to dating someone even 10 years older than me even with the risks that having kids at that age brings

>>82873580 (OP)
I'm a gay guy and I'm dating someone 10 years younger than me. But he was the one who confessed, he made the first moves, so as weirded out as I was it felt okay because the younger one was initiating.

older women kino
older man cringe

understand this it's not that complicated.

>>82873612
We should progressively raise the minimum age of pregnancy to increase human lifespans.
(This would have the side-effect of leading us into glorious autistic supremacy.)

>>82873580 (OP)
I've been substantially older than all my exes. I do prefer younger women because they're more attractive, but don't specifically seek them out, the ones closer to my age are just ultraghosters.

I got so much flack for my young men fetish I actually empathized with chickn for a bit lol. Fucking a legal highschool teen makes me double hitler I guess? I admit it was hot hearing him talk about his classes and his body was on point but both him and the other young teen guy I fucked were just, off. Like they just weren't there mentally like they were super dissociated or playing a role. I think the one might've had schizophrenia

>>82874057
>both him and the other young teen guy I fucked were just, off. Like they just weren't there mentally like they were super dissociated or playing a role
That's just because you were traumatizing them for life in real time.

>>82873580 (OP)
sex aside, I couldn't stand being near a modern teenager for a prolonged period. Even as a pedophile it's not worth it

>>82874073
I remember the one guy getting mad I wouldn't jerk his dick while I was highway driving. Like, young man, I'll do that AT my house. Like a very scared but also demanding baby deer

>>82873580 (OP)
I love little girls so much~

>>82874100
Uhm, based department! we got an escapee!
>I love little girls so much~
Same, but a little bigger for me.

>>82873594
Would you be okay if I groomed and fucked a 15 year old boy? I bet no

>>82874185
My fav ages are 6-12yo. What about you, anon :-)?

>>82873580 (OP)
So where is my 18-25yo wife?
t. 33yo man

>>82874230
>6-12 years old
Nigga is a bonified pedo

>>82873580 (OP)
I would prefer dating women my own age (33) but unfortunately too many of them are obese or have kids, which I'm not/don't. Unlike a lot of men, I do not like zoomers or their culture and would prefer to date someone my exact age.

>>82874252
I'm 20 and personally wouldn't be opposed to someone who is 33. 35 is my limit though... any older and he'll be an old man too soon before I'm an old lady. Of course I'd take care of him, but it would break my heart if he became geriatric while I was still decently lively and stuff.

>>82874309
Good news I'm 33 and already need a carer due to being an autistic retard. Want to be my tard wrangler? I'll try to follow instructions.

>>82874362
You need a carer? For what...?
You say it's a mental thing, but I think you seem fine. You're not like geriatric and dementia ridden (thankfully)

>>82874373
It's a joke, I'm actually in OK shape physically and my recent checkup had great results. Just autistic like a motherfucker.

Both are okay. Both are consenting adults
/thread

>>82874362
>tfw also 33 and also need a carer because also autistic retard who can't function in society
a fembot needs to adopt me

>>82874309
Yeah, that would be my only regret: leaving girl I like alone when I die. That's one of few reasons why I'd like to have several kids. She'd be with family.
>it would break my heart if he became geriatric while I was still decently lively and stuff
Which is why I'd like woman to nudge me to do shit I usually drop quickly, like exercising, or going out. Whenever I start exercising, sooner or later comes a day when I come back late from work and don't feel like doing it or something else, I skip a day, then some more and before I realize I haven't exercised for weeks. And I usually sit at home and don't feel like going out, but when I do for some reason, be it attempt at date or something, I usually enjoy it. I just need that initial push to get my ass to forest or riverbank to get some sun while laying in the grass or sand.
Do you put your upper limit this high because you fancy age difference or you simply don't mind?

>>82874394
Women generally don't do that. Some do, most don't.

I had a woman for 6 years and cared for her, but when I needed care, she left. That's pretty typical of how they are. Not all, but most.

>>82873580 (OP)
I'd like to date a woman up to maybe 6 or 7 years older than me as a 21 year old but I think it's pretty rare for women to prefer younger guys, at least relative to men who prefer younger women. I also don't want to be the submissive partner. I want to be dominant and eventually take care of my gf including financially. I think a majority of the small number of women into younger guys want someone submissive. It doesn't help that I look kind of twink-ish and nerdy.

>>82874441
I don't really need care, I just want to be a househusband. I can clean, cook, do whatever. I'm not a sub though which is a dealbreaker for most women who want a relationship like that. On the plus side, I'm very good at handling extreme mental issues.

>>82874423
I get what you mean about exercising. If you're with a younger woman (while it's not a requirement) you really should be taking care of yourself extra hard. It would be unfortunate if you became somewhat immobile at 70 while she's still wanting to go outside and walk at 60. Keeping your body in good shape is important if you want to stay active at an old age...
>Do you put your upper limit this high because you fancy age difference or you simply don't mind?
I like older guys, I just wouldn't want him to be ANY older than 15 years. It might seem like an arbitrary line, but you have to draw it somewhere. Basically I just like older guys, but I don't want them to get like dementia and stuff WAY before me lol

Biggest age gap I had was 26 years. I was 26, she was 52.
Honestly, the most sex I've ever had in my life, and the most stable relationship. Even when we fought, we'd talk it out and get over it. She had kids, but they were all grown and could take care of themselves. If you can find a good one, get her. Pussy was still good.

>>82874475
Yeah, I know. But it can be done, I've seen with my own eyes. My family in the countryside have been working fields their whole lives and at the age of like 70 still chop wood or do some garden work. Meanwhile old couple I've been renting flat from back when I was university looked like living zombies because they lives comfortable city lives. I might actually move to the countryside because my grandparents offered me piece of land if I'd like to build a house, but that will have to wait like year or two more so I could save up some more. And probably find a woman because most girls move from country to cities, so once I move there, finding one will be much harder. Id I actually move there, I'll have plenty physical work, especially because we have some forest there that sometimes needs some care.
>It might seem like an arbitrary line, but you have to draw it somewhere
That's fair enough. Being practical always takes priority over fantasies. After all, fantasies won't pay your bills and feed you.
>Basically I just like older guys
Any specific reason?

>>82874490
Did she smell alright? That's my biggest turnoff when it comes to older women.

>>82873580 (OP)
No opinion. I am going to turn 30 and I've never been in a relationship so why should I care?

>>82874100
Based and same and dubs checked
>>82874230
6-12 is a wide range but I'd say those are the best years as well so I can't judge

>>82874562
>Any specific reason?
I'm not sure. I don't mind people my age at all, don't be mistaken. When I think about someone older, I do feel like I'd really like it. I don't know, I've just enjoyed my time talking with people who are older and think they would be good partners.

I don't work huge fields like that old couple you mentioned, but I do farming and am very physically active. While I am chubby, I do a lot of work, so I think I'll be physically capable when I'm older.

>>82874624
>and think they would be good partners
Is it because they actually want to settle down instead of giving excuses they are not ready or something?
>huge fields
It's not that huge. It's like 100x50meters. That's where they had potatoes. But nowdays their age shows and grandfather chops wood slowly and takes breaks, while grandmother mainly tends to small garden near house and chickens.
What kind of farming do you do?

>>82874579
Oh she smelled very nice. She also would make me granola bars and sandwiches whenever I asked. I would highly recommend it, as long as you can find a good one, don't just settle for a hag.

>>82874859
>Is it because they actually want to settle down instead of giving excuses they are not ready or something?
No, I just like the thought of being with a guy who is very experienced and knowledgeable. Obviously it's not this exaggerated, we're both adults, but it is kind of like how as a kid, adults felt super wise. I like the idea of being with a guy who is well adjusted to life and can give me advice when I'm lost. I think I have an anxiety disorder, that might explain why I really like the idea of being with someone who is likely more used to life than me and knows how to do stuff.

>What kind of farming do you do?
We have a few chickens and cows, but I will say it's mostly just farming. I don't even really clean up after the animals or anything, I stick to working the farm. My brother does the gross poop stuff lol (shovelling shit)

>>82874909
>I think I have an anxiety disorder, that might explain why I really like the idea of being with someone who is likely more used to life than me and knows how to do stuff.
Makes sense. Do you see it more like some kind of father figure or more like leader/mentor?
Do you enjoy listening to people ranting and babbling about their thoughts, experiences etc as form of advice?
Do you like country life? I assume you are living in some countryside if you're farming.

>>82874955
>Do you see it more like some kind of father figure or more like leader/mentor?
Not that extreme, it might feel weird to think of my partner as my father. I would like someone who has fatherly traits though, someone who can give me advice, help me through life, etc.
>Do you enjoy listening to people ranting and babbling about their thoughts, experiences etc as form of advice?
Yeah, I like talking and listening about/to all sorts of things.
>Do you like country life? I assume you are living in some countryside if you're farming.
I live very rurally, yes. I'm a third worlder lol
I do like my life, but it is a bit boring and repetitive. People here also aren't very likely to share my interests, I'd like to move somewhere more urban... but I will miss the peace and quiet of the outdoors (my house is busy and not quiet though)

>>82875001
>it might feel weird to think of my partner as my father
Fair enough. I asked because it seems lot of young girls are into ddlg and similar stuff, or they seek father figure they never had because they come from broken homes. You seem normal though so I assume your family life is quite healthy.
So you'd simply want your partner to be good father material for your future kids?
>Yeah, I like talking and listening about/to all sorts of things
Even life metatopics?
>I live very rurally, yes. I'm a third worlder lol
Where from?
>I do like my life, but it is a bit boring and repetitive.
That's just life, not rural life specifically. I live in mid-sized city and my life is basically routine of work - sometimes shop on way home - eat, entertainment at home - sleep. If anything, I think country life has bigger potential because it usually comes with space you can use to enjoy some hobbies. I'm about to try getting into painting figures and I'm thinking where I'll set up my workplace because there isn't much empty space in room.
Usually boredom doesn't come from environment, but person's shortcomings like lack of will or initiative to try something, choice paralysis, laziness, vanity or anxiety. But it can be worked on.

>>82875074
>I asked because it seems lot of young girls are into ddlg and similar stuff, or they seek father figure they never had because they come from broken homes
That's true, but I don't think they're literally looking for a father. They're like me and looking for fatherly traits. They'll still want to have kids with you and marry you (things you wouldn't do with your father) we they want someone older and experienced to help them through life. You're right, it's something people often want if they don't have a good relationship with their family. I have a dad, but he is not around a lot and sometimes I get in to disagreements with my mother.
>Even life metatopics?
Anything life related... even the weird meta stuff.
Sometimes I overthink things, I can get very "meta".
>Where from?
I don't want to get specific... let's just say I'm black and don't see white people outside of tv and stuff lol
>That's just life, not rural life specifically. I think country life has bigger potential because it usually comes with space you can use to enjoy some hobbies.
I get what you mean, I guess it's a balance. You don't want to live in a concrete jungle, but you don't want to live too rurally. I struggle to buy certain things or find things to do outside of work. Like there aren't really game stores or cinema here. I know those things aren't super important, I'm just using them as an example of how a lot of entertaining things are missing here. I have to get stuff delivered.

>>82873580 (OP)
it's okay if they're adults, but that's 24-25

>>82875074
>Usually boredom doesn't come from environment, but person's shortcomings like lack of will or initiative to try something, choice paralysis, laziness, vanity or anxiety. But it can be worked on
Also I agree. I'm trying cooking new things and considering learning how to tailor. My aunt can make nice stuff, I'd like to do it too. Could be fun and rewarding.

>>82875180
>They'll still want to have kids with you and marry you
That's the thing, half of the time they don't want to. They just want carefree entertainment and don't think about future life.
>Anything life related... even the weird meta stuff.
>Sometimes I overthink things, I can get very "meta".
Well, then maybe you'd enjoy my lectures about human nature, sense of life etc.
>I don't want to get specific... let's just say I'm black and don't see white people outside of tv and stuff lol
Somewhere in Africa? Southern America? In any case, I'm from Europe so it seems there are no chances of meeting anyway. Internet contact at most. Such is life.
>Like there aren't really game stores
I think I recognize you. You're that femanon who plays older console games?
>I have to get stuff delivered.
We do get stuff delivered as well. Mostly due to convenience, not necessity. Though I do get some stuff shipped to me from China and Japan where I've never been and it doesn't look like I'll be anytime soon, if ever.
>how to tailor
You mean clothes?

>>82875283
>That's the thing, half of the time they don't want to. They just want carefree entertainment and don't think about future life.
Well I can understand not wanting to marry quick or have kids. They shouldn't just want carefree entertainment though... the point of a relationship is to love and support eachother, not get a kick out of it.
>Well, then maybe you'd enjoy my lectures about human nature, sense of life etc.
Depends, it's a very... *vast* subject lol
I do like talking about people and the way they act though. Compared to some people, I'm a very nurture vs nature person. I think a lot of people due bad things more because of the life they've lived rather than like natural differences. Since I believe this, I really think people are capable of changing and improving.
>I think I recognize you. You're that femanon who plays older console games?
Am I really that recognisable... lol
>You mean clothes?
Yeah, that's a school near me that teaches people how to tailor clothes and stuff. One day soon, I might attend it.

>>82873580 (OP)
honestly, you said pretty much all i have to say on the matter
there's obviously a cultural difference and there's also a gap in life stages (high school, uni, junior worker, senior worker, etc.) and these stages bring about different responsibilities, so communication may be difficult

but uh, as for the older one dying before the younger one, not always
there's a pretty noticeable trend that women tend to live longer than men so if a guy gets with an older woman, there's a real chance they'll die at the same time or the guy will die before her anyway

but yeah, so long as both are adults, there are problems with age gap relationships, but it's not illegal so not my concern
i'd rather worry about child-diddlers, rapists, thieves, etc. anything but two consenting adults fucking each other's brains out

>>82875348
>the point of a relationship is to love
I wouldn't say so. Emotions as chemistry in brain change. Relationships are simply convenient and practical when it comes to support and sharing life troubles. "Love" is idealized myth. People say they are in love and claim love is eternal, but later if they split they claim it wasn't real love after all.
>I'm a very nurture vs nature person. I think a lot of people due bad things more because of the life they've lived rather than like natural differences.
It's both. Environment and genes shape culture and personality, and culture and personality shape environment.
>Am I really that recognisable... lol
No idea. I simply remembered you because you stood out with your place and approach to games. I wouldn't recognize you if not for that mention. Did you try emulators like I recommended last time we posted?
Also I see you conveniently left question about continent out.

>>82874586
That's my man.
Little girls are so so so cute and sweet~!

>>82875420
>I wouldn't say so. Emotions as chemistry in brain change...

>>82875436
It's true though. Strong feelings you experience at the start fade over time. You're supposed to replace them with different kind of positive feelings over time. If you don't build it, relationship fails. When studied, it turned out that fresh couples when saw face of loved one produced the same chem that is produced for excitement, lust and desire, and couples who lasted for years produced chem associated with sentiment and comfort, similar to one produced when looking at your favorite, old, used up, comfy chair.

>>82875420
Well I think some people see love as having like a soul mate. So the feeling fades and they claim it was never love... love to me is finding someone you like and sticking with them. Acknowledging that as time goes on, they will start to show bad traits, as everyone has them. But it's your job as a lover to stick with them and focus on the good. Idk, my thoughts are SOOO much deeper than that... but I find it very hard to articulate myself. I'd need a lot of time to choose my words carefully and write my thoughts down... I just think people see love and infatuation as the same. Infatuation fades, but love to me is commitment.
>Did you try emulators like I recommended last time we posted?
My phone is very weak, I don't think it could handle it lol
I'm considering emulating VERY old 2d games though. Although I haven't tried yet, no.
>Also I see you conveniently left question about continent out.
If you were African, wouldn't you feel awkward saying it on this site of all places? Lol

Doesn't bother me desu, i'm a 36 year old who enjoys younger women. Women my age that are available are usually single moms or crazy cat ladies too set in their ways.
Younger women usually don't have the extra baggage and are comfortable with talking things through. No i'm not a misogynist or trying to force the patriarchy on you. I just want to get food and go on nature walks.

>>82875496
>>82875420
Can you people just trade discords already holy shit you're derailing the thread

>>82875422
Sometimes cute and sweet, sometimes and sexy and savory, little girls are the best. Crazy it was legal just a 100 years ago isn't it.

>>82875496
>love to me is finding someone you like and sticking with them
Fair enough. I say that relationship and love is kind of a choice, which kind of overlaps with your idea.
>I just think people see love and infatuation as the same. Infatuation fades, but love to me is commitment.
Correct.
>My phone is very weak
How about some laptop? There are lots of great GBA era games and I remember playing them as teen on school computers so their requirements are non-existent.
>If you were African, wouldn't you feel awkward saying it on this site of all places? Lol
Not really. You don't get to pick where you are born. Of course you will get reactions because humans will always stereotype and throw people into labeled bags. That's part of nature and there is good reason for it. It's optimization mechanism needed to efficiently navigate through the world. You aren't supposed to pause near every snake because this one might not be venomous. Same with people. Even though you have good and bad people in every group, if proportions reach certain threshold and one group looks worse compared to others, it will be treated the same way. How we deal with it is start with labeling and then make case-by-case exceptions based on personal experience with specific people. For example you didn't give me any reason to think low of you so I see no problem with you being black.
You may say that it's unfair and makes it harder to fall into exception category, but that's how life is and how people work.
I think lot of blacks don't realize there is difference between nigger and black person, and it's behavior that makes the difference.

>>82873580 (OP)
>People who grew up in different decades might not have much in common
This is the most retarded shit i've ever heard.
1) The whole decades/generations was literally invented in the 20th century mostly due to rapidly growing technology and cultural shifts. It barely even applies today because tech has not gotten much different since the 2000's.
2) the concept that should have everything in common with your gf is retarded and narcissistic, wouldn't it be more fun to have a gf to share your interests with for the first time?

>the older one will probably die several years younger
Women live an average of 5 years longer than men so its actually perfect.

>>82875586
>I say that relationship and love is kind of a choice, which kind of overlaps with your idea.
I do think it's kind of a choice.
>There are lots of great GBA era games
I might try them. Wasn't there a lot of zelda games on that console? I'd like to try them... for free (emulation)
Especially link to the past, that looks good.
>You aren't supposed to pause near every snake because this one might not be venomous. Same with people.
I get what you mean, but sometimes I feel like people are too quick to treat certain groups like snakes. That's just my opinion though.

>>82873580 (OP)
When I was 17yo I dated a 16yo and a roasty literally called me a pedophile.

>>82875632
>Wasn't there a lot of zelda games on that console?
Not sure. I never played Zelda. If I was to recommend something, I'd say Fire Emblem series is great.
>I get what you mean, but sometimes I feel like people are too quick to treat certain groups like snakes
There is no way around it. It's just how we evolved.

>>82875641
Let it go, xister. No one cares about that kind of age gap.

>>82875539
>Crazy it was legal just a 100 years ago isn't it.
Yeah... I'd love to have a loli wife. We would love each other very much ^^!!! My wife would be 7 yo.
What about you?

>>82875785
Amerifats do. I saw a mugshot the other day of an 18 year old who got arrested for having sex with his 17 year old girlfriend

>>82875830
>18 and 17
Lol you said 16 and 17, did you think I'd have forgotten?

>>82875641
Lole, I dated a 16yo when I was 18yo.
But I'm tall and she's pretty small and also looks very young, like 12yo.

>>82873580 (OP)
I don't think anything is wrong with it, but it can maybe get harder the more the gap goes. I dated a girl eight years younger than me once, and it wasn't an issue, but I didn't connect to all the same kind of music, memes, or social media shit. So, the biggest potential challenge is just a difference in cultural background, with maybe friends/family being weirded out, but we didn't experience any of that.

For what it's worth, I have always tended to attract much younger girls. I think natural gaps should be embraced and accepted rather than actively sought after.

>>82875810
Ideally she's also my daughter and I'm raising her as my wife from day 1. Yes, I'm a bit of a pervert haha. The mob girls in blue archive are so much cuter than 90% of the actual named characters. I've never played it though.

>>82874188
Here comes Shia with some advice for you.

>>82873580 (OP)
I didn't like age gaps when I was young. Now that I'm in my late 30s I like women who are 25 to 35.

>>82875886
>Ideally she's also my daughter and I'm raising her as my wife from day 1.
Sounds very interesting, cute and hot!! Good idea anon.
>The mob girls in blue archive are so much cuter than 90% of the actual named characters. I've never played it though.
I agree, also I've never played it too lol
>my fav girl from blue archive btw

>>82873580 (OP)
the most immoral thing in the world is wasted potential and age gaps is a form of wasted potential
faggot kys for posting that degen pic, also 19 year old males are twice the size of grown women, clearly you changed the ages from 13 to 19, dirty pedofag you need to be hanged

>>82875841
the fuck are you talking about?

originally

Why did this thread attract so many fucking pedoniggers

>>82875920
Why not both of them? They're a favorite of mine. I can't decide between Miyu (favorite named) and Justice Task Force mob (favorite mob).
>good idea
Thank you! I've had that fantasy since I was a teenager.

>>82876049
>Why not both of them? They're a favorite of mine. I can't decide between Miyu (favorite named) and Justice Task Force mob (favorite mob).
Yeah!! What about a threesome? hehe
>Thank you! I've had that fantasy since I was a teenager.
Interesting. How old are you now??

>>82873580 (OP)
The cartoon drawings are all they can do for this meme because actual 30-40 year olds look like the platonic forms of facebook karens
When people say they want milfs, they mean anime girls

Every, and I mean every, EV. ER. EY. woman above the age of around 26 looks like picrel and is slightly obese

>>82876138
Of course, I must pick both then. I'm 25 now so it's been about 10 years. When I was a bit younger than that I was more into little sister stuff but I grew out of that very, very fast haha. Daughter stuff has stayed with me for years. Do you have any fantasies like that? I'm sorry for being slow to respond I was typing with one hand but I must going now, gotta sleep for wageslaving tomorrow good night. Enjoy your evening fellow lolicon.

>>82873580 (OP)
I thought the age of consent meant I don't have to give a shit about them.

>>82876519
>When I was a bit younger than that I was more into little sister stuff but I grew out of that very, very fast haha. Daughter stuff has stayed with me for years. Do you have any fantasies like that?
Mmmm... Kinda? Ever since I was a teenager, I've always liked lolicon, but when I grew up (now I'm 20), I felt that sense of "protection," as if a loli made me feel tender, I don't know how to explain it. And I think it's very beautiful, an innocent girl to protect and also a romantic partner. I really like the idea of a daughter.
>I'm sorry for being slow to respond I was typing with one hand but I must going now, gotta sleep for wageslaving tomorrow good night
Don't worry dude, take care. You're cool.

>>82876613
>>82876519
Please never actually do anything to a child or support irl cp

I'd give a schizo reply to this but it probably wouldn't even entertain anyone.

>>82873580 (OP)
>>People who grew up in different decades might not have much in common
You can still love someone and have different tastes in music, movies, fashion etc.

>>82876891
I wanna know, go ahead.

>>82876625
I would never hurt a child. They must be protected and loved at all costs.

>>82873830
>as weirded out as I was
oy vey not 10 years younger
so weird
>faggot

>>82877178
Fuck, well, I was away from my computer and what I had saved to clipboard got erased. I honestly don't feel it was important enough to type again, but in short, I essentially said that my thoughts are, that the very fact the topic of OP's post is even a discussion means that society has already collapsed and we now live amongst the ruins. We aren't actively in collapse, it already happened, because of a faux hegemony that rules over society, and that to regard society as normal would mean you have to reap the fruits of the collapse and live out the long and drawn out death of civilization. Those who don't want to take part in that, have to take refuge in something else and in some sense outcast themslves from it, perhaps even from the world.

That's not quite how I'd inially put it, but it's sort of the gist. Doesn't even sound schizo, but the way I put it before was more like doom prophesy LOL
https://youtu.be/b3OAHeVe9TU
https://youtu.be/3rNoDxjmi7g

It's sort of a war between faux hegemony and truth, but the nature of the world is such that it can't be divided from hegemony. Perhaps this is why not being of the world is so integral to Christianity.

i dont know why people make a fuss about it. both are adults and both consent.
t. got 5 years older bf

pedos never learn, it's like when they tried to make map a thing. Age gap is pedo shit, won't ever be normalized, kill yourselves

>>82878914
>Age gap is pedo shit,
No it isn't. this thread was coopte by actual pedos, but there's bothijg paedophipic about age gaps between adults

>>82873580 (OP)
>Thoughts on age gap relationships?
I really don't care. A fresh 18yo woman can date a 100yo man for all I care. There's literally not a single shit I give about this "issue".

>>82873580 (OP)
Here's how this shakes out in reality
19 year olds think they will be a totally different person at 38.
38 year olds know that's completely wrong.
Men regardless of age don't care about age gaps much. The men who do virtue signal about it are 9/10 times projecting hard.
Older women hate age gaps because it makes them extremely self conscious about being unlovable hags.
Young women virtue signal about it in public but secretly like it behind closed doors.
That's all you need to know.

>>82874188
if ur a girl then yes
if ur a guy i cant say yes because ill get banned so my reponse is "i choose not to answer the question"

i wish when i was 12 some busty milf would of groomed me, for sure

>>82879080
>Older women hate age gaps because it makes them extremely self conscious about being unlovable hags.

yeah they do it to shame men for replacing them. hags hate losing power
i hate hags

>>82879080

Normies silmutaneusly claim "Omg I'm heckin 40 and I still feel like the kid from yesterday" and at the same time "I'm 25 and 21 year olds are literal children to me" lmao. That said at 38 you can still look sexy and be virile, but 20 years down the line your 19 year old will still be virile while you will be approaching gramps age.

>>82873580 (OP)
I'm in one, with an older lady. It works well for us.

>>82873580 (OP)
this age gap meme is just a glownigger psyop to generate GENERATIONS of incels who cant reproduce so they can justify ethnic cleansing by immigration

>>82874188
I was groomed and fucked as a 15 year old boy by a guy in his 20s and it was fine. Were you? Where do you take your opinion from? Surely not from experience, so shut the fuck up.

>>82873580 (OP)
They're both after fatherly/ motherly advice ;)

>>82876613
Good morning!
>"protection," as if a loli made me feel tender, I don't know how to explain it
I think I might understand a bit, she mellows you out, tames the beast.

>>82873580 (OP)
>Thoughts on age gap relationships?
Only if it is WMBF because the white man is surrendering status in the patriarchy

>>82873594
Being a pedophile was never normal, the difference between now and then is that dating a 17 year old is considered "pedophilia".

>>82873580 (OP)
I have no issue with it if the guy looks good.

>>82880155
Age of consent was never higher than puberty age and animals routinely commit what is legally classified as child molestation for humans.

>>82873580 (OP)
Dont college parties often have super young girls? Europe has brothels. I mean i dont think 3rd world warlords care much either.

>>82880300
The funny thing is who would even want to not see the parents even if they are 18? Id wanna see how my future wife ages even if i have their faces seared into my memory.

>>82879291
Howd that happen? Sounds made up, who the fucks letting you hang out with 20yos who for some reason think youre cool?

>>82873580 (OP)
>Thoughts on age gap relationships?
Not a problem to me.
I always wanted to run through some cougars and MILFs since my teens.
Instead, I'm in my third decade of inceldom; and ageing up to said cougars and MILFs. FML.

>>82880374
I'm now 20 so Discord existed back when I was 15. We met on a sikirt klub Discord server that we both were invited to. He knew about my age, but kept giving me compliments and said I was cute and that we are a good fit. Some day he was like "Do you want to go swimming?" (it was late summer). I said to my mom that I'm going to visit a museum in a city that's a 45min hour train ride away. I bought a ticket with my pocket money and went there. We did some swimming. Then he started to get closer and wanted to cuddle on near the lake so we did. It become late and I had to stay at his house, where we then fucked. My mom noticed that I was missing so the next day he got a call from the police whether he knows about a missing boy and then in the police car the policemen asked whether we had sex or kissed or anything like that, which we denied. They drove him home and me later as well. We kept up that relationship over Discord afterwards for a few weeks.

>>82873580 (OP)
In media?
Sure it can be cute and fun looking, notentioning all erotic scenarios that comes with it.
In reality?
I cant understand how anyone close to 40s could stay with people thqt are in early 20s, beside physical/mid life crisis.
Exceptions happen but it feels like in most cases its simply mental gymnatstics on at least one side.
Something like +8y is enough gap to spot a huge diffrence, a generaion gap creep. Something closer to 20 i cannot fathom. Maybe its possible with 20yo male and 38 female, because some males in 20s are logical and adult, but chicks in 20s are different.
Maybe it could work as a fling, but full on, long lasting relationship? Nah.

>when I was 21 and dated a 36 yo woman nobody batted an eye (we even lived together at my place)
>I am now 29, I was recently together with a 18 yo girl - perfect relationship, understand and matching humour (but she cheated on me, can't blame being 18 and horny)
>suddenly everyone lowkey calling me a pedophile

I fucking hate this shit so much.

>>82880912
>>when I was 21 and dated a 36 yo woman nobody batted an eye (we even lived together at my place)
Why did it end?

>>82881221
She wanted babies ASAP and I didn't want them. That was a dealbraker for her.
Maybe for the best as I was not aware of chances of autistic children in older women.

My grandma(102 now) married grandpa at 18 when he was 40. It was a different time.

>>82873580 (OP)
Both are fucked up

>>82880912
I feel stupid for even reading this

>>82880725
Nah thats a lie gay guys dont really have the nuts to fuck minors they just find 18yo twinks

>>82880725
How old were you when you thought you were down for gay butt stuff? Im totally straight and id never even fuck in a perfect world if a girl had a penis thatd be ridiculous and its a biological impossibility i know. But lets say instead of trying to turn a man into a girl we turn a girl into a man. What would be more appealing to you? Because as a straight man i would probably want a woman with a penis just to see that way its not gay and they dont even have to fuck me it just has to be flopping around or whatever.

>>82881538
Holy copium anon just admit you are fucking gay already and hop on Grindr

>>82881538
what in the gyatt damn fuck are you trying to say

>>82873580 (OP)
Do niggers reposting these images have the awareness that average guy around 19 is taller than average near 40 hag?
Hell, even the zoomettes tend to be taller.

>>82880033
Hey there! How's it going? :D
>I think I might understand a bit, she mellows you out, tames the beast.
Yeah, more or less. It feels really good, feels like love.
I find the romance between an adult and a loli beautiful.

>>82882097
Wrong, women never stop growing, my grandma is 2.5m tall.

>>82873580 (OP)
Men mature faster so the left is fine and the right isn't
Boys are built for hags pussy

Let me rephrase my question. Do you think me, a woman nearing 30 should be after 15 year old boys? Do you see that as moral? Do you think we are in the same stage of life? Have the same experiences?

>>82873830
>10 years younger
you're pretty much a pedophile

>>82873580 (OP)
when a woman's all about her twice-her-age boyfriend, everyone cheers. (he's rich)
When a mfer in his mid 20s is in his first relationship with an 18/19yo, he's a pedophile groomer that should be killed
Older women are spoiled eggs, all the negatives of women, and the extra negatives of being old.

>>82881449
>the nuts
I was above the age of consent in my country so why are you thinking it would be legally an issue?
Age of consent was not an issue in my case, so the only negative effect for him could have been social consequences, which didn't happen because he tried his best to hide our relationship. That's nothing big and nobody cares really.
>>82881538
14 maybe.

>>82873580 (OP)
I love age gaps

>>82873580 (OP)
>>People who grew up in different decades might not have much in common
an 18yo virgin wallflower girl who has never been in a relationship has more in common with a 28yo virgin incel who has never been in a relationship than an 18yo chad with a double digit bodycount.
Regrading the sexual developmental milestones, the 28yo virgin would be much more compatible with the 18yo virgin, yet for some reason people have no problem with the wallflower-chad relationship without age gap, yet have a lot of problems with the wallflower-incel relationship with age gap.

There are many more "power dynamics" that come into play other than age gaps.
For example economic gaps, the 18yo son of millionaire lawyers has much more power in society than a 28yo min wage grocery store worker. Anyone denying that is delusional.
If preventing "unhealthy power dynamics" in a relationship were the main goal, again it would make much more sense to pair e.g. an 18yo female grocery worker with the 28yo grocery worker than with the 18yo millionaire lawyer kid.
But its not about "unhealthy power dynamics", thats just the strawman that sounds good in an argument, the actual reason is post-wall hags are mad 30+yo guys aren't pursuing 30+yo women and would rather go after early 20's girls, so they've used their media influence to poison society against age gap relationships specifically.