Thread 82882890

I am so sick and tired of online relationships.

Anysays, tell me about your most fucked up online relationships, just to prove my point

>>82882890 (OP)
All of mine ended badly and I still want more haha. All were crazy AND refused to treat it, then the craziness eventually ruined it.

>>82882909
You sound pretty fucked up buddy. Was it them who fucked it up, you, or just the situation went bad?

>>82882890 (OP)
The typical stuff, told me she love, that she wants to be with my forever, that we marry and have children and move togheter and that she only wants me. All lie all lies and now I can't trust women anymore.

>>82882890 (OP)
I want a fake online relationship where we pretend to be in love but are just using each other to fill the time and get off

>>82882890 (OP)
had a guy constantly love bomb me, he would also just be constantly sexual even when it was weird or inappropriate for the situation

he then broke up with me, got back with me, then broke up with me again like a day after.

>>82882930
I fucked the first one up (shouldn't have even started it) but I lay the blame on them for the others.

>>82883004
I have had the same as a guy getting the bombings

>>82883004
And yet she stayed with him. I think the only way to get a woman in 2025 is to be abuse chad.

>>82883004
>he then broke up with me, got back with me, then broke up with me again like a day after
Did you have no agency in the matter? I sympathize with you but, damn anon.

>>82882890 (OP)
My old girlfriend was severly mentally ill, and was autistic. She was in love with the columbine shooters too. Her parents also abused her. I don't miss it, fuck her

>>82883064
yeah i was just young, inexperienced and mentally ill. i would have broken up with him sooner but i just didnt see what was wrong with the relationship

>>82883089
Youth is a valid excuse as long as you've learned from your mistakes

>>82883097
yeah i absolutely have, ive avoided guys like him since then

>>82883003
Happened to me. The guy loved bombed me, I played along, and then ghosted me. We were like that only for a month so i didnt really care

>>82883164
I want it to be mutually understood to be fake from the start

>>82883164
I experienced the same but managed to fall in love within that month so it was devastating :----DDD ebin

If you're a foid stupid enough to fall for lovebombing you deserve to get wrecked, I've seen the kind of loveboming crap you fall for and you're literally retarded to be honest

>>82883179
Why do you wanna be fake lol
Wouldnt it be better to just find someone you truly love and cherish

>>82883201
>implying you wouldn't fall for a girl lovebombing you

>>82883201
I fell for it as a moid thougheverbeit

>>82883201
Lets not throw rocks at each other. This post is about telling experiences and comforting each other

>>82883207
Fake is better for me. I can't maintain long term relationships and it would be cruel for me to try. I just want to have fun for a while and then leave.

>>82882890 (OP)
1/2
>be a literal who streamer
>decide to shop around and find low viewer women I think are cute because I want a girlfriend
>find this unique looking chick who lives across the sea
>she's kinda funny and her personality is endearing to me
>worm my way in by chatting and hanging out in her streams, become a mod
>she starts to hang out in my streams too
>I get curious and stalk her reddit history a little
>huh she posts on r/femaledatingstrategy, kinda weird but okay
>eventually we talk on discord DMs
>I'm into her, she's into me, everything is great I now have an e-girlfriend just like I wanted
>we call each other cutesy pet names and engage in much conversation and ERP, I'm simping HARD at this point
>she absolutely refuses to send any lewds, which was fine, I'm not gonna force her to do something she's uncomfortable with
>we talk on voice for the first time and apparently I said something that had upset her
>apologize, even though what I said wasn't anything intended to make her feel bad
>go on as normal, but every other day or so she brings up the thing I said again so I can keep apologizing in circles
>trying really hard to be a thoughtful and understanding person, but my patience has limits
>tell her she's "being a pain in the ass" in a joking sort of way
>she takes this deadly serious and this is now the new thing she will constantly bring up for me to apologize for
>every few days we repeat a cycle of "talking, I say something, she takes offense and holds it against me"
>starts to actively berate me and call me names, will act really sweet and then do something like hang up on me mid call
>making me feel like a monster, like a huge piece of shit, like I'm losing my mind, she's making me responsible for her internal feelings
>ask a female friend for advice and share some of the DMs that weren't sitting right with me
>she straight up tells me the bitch is insane
>but I rationalize it, make excuses, etc
>I'd try to distance but was drawn back in

>>82883201
but femanon, i've only talked to you for 2 days and you're like sooo interesting and pretty. you're really unique you know that? i've never met anyone like you. I think you're so special, really i do i promise you from my soul i think you're amazing! can i see your amazing body?

it really do be like this and it makes me despise foids. who the fuck falls for this.

>>82883242
2/2
>this went on for months
>I'd put up with her cruel behavior just because talking to her was like a drug
>but my mental state was deteriorating, I'd regularly get overcome by the negative emotions and cry
>finally, my friend had convinced me to see the light and go full no contact
>still, I'd peek in on her streams
>one day later that year she was blackout drunk on stream and doing shit like doxxing her address while flirting with a random guy in chat
>out of concern, I message her telling her to stop the stream because she's way too drunk
>she knows I'm right so she ends the stream
>later tries to blame me for ruining her stream and that she was only having a bit of fun
>had enough of this bullshit
>tell her to have a nice day and stopped DMing her

Her last message to me?
>You were blunt with me before, but I needed it

Left that shit on read just for the satisfaction
Moral of the story? Know the signs of BPD in women and RUN THE FUCK AWAY at the first indicator

>>82883229
Meh. Fair enough. Though it def would be better for it to happen irl wouldnt it
How unfair for us internet lurkers who can just experience online love... sigh

>>82883254
i think the moral of the story is
>she absolutely refuses to send any lewds,
lol, lmao, cucked. immediately disregard any foid who doesn't send nudes.
your own fault bucko

>>82883257
IRL would be hard for me, I'm very uncomfortable around people. I'd be fine with a completely online, fake romance. It fills my needs. I try not to think in terms of fairness, life is a cruel thing so it's best to just focus on the good when you can.

>>82883242
>>82883254
Yeah anon she was just a little too much cray cray. Shoudlve ended the relationship esrlier, but I dont blame you. Its hard to let go someone you like.
I hope youve completely forgotten about that bitch, still, you were the bigger person by telling her to enf her stream.
Loves you anon stay safe

>>82883242
>>82883254
>all that stuff about being super hung up on minor shit you didn't even mean
Oh hey it's literally my ex e-gf. She also loved to use breakup-baiting as a scare tactic until I just broke up then she's all like "wait don't actually do the thing I told you to do!"

absolute normalfag thread, if you can get women online you can get women irl which means you're not a real robot, fuck off back to /soc/ or discord.

>>82883345
But IRL I can't find autistic shut-ins like me

>>82883345
First of all, not true, second of all, not true

Im a foid and for the love of god I cant get a moid irl

>>82883295
Life is sooo nice tho
Imagine squeezing her thighs and caressing her hair, poke her boobies, let her touch you too, and smother each other w kisses

>>82883363
Do you want a virtual moid that sits in your storage drive?

>>82883372
I like being alone. I enjoy sending and receiving lewds but touching girls or being touched by them just makes me feel repulsed. I like fake, I like distance.

>>82883271
Just one red flag in a sea of them I ignored lmao

>>82883305
Yeah I've long since moved on. Just a funny little story now.

>>82883315
BPD is a hell of a drug

>>82883375
Do you mean as in a small virtual boy that is a png that hangs out around my files and i can interact with him? Then yes

If you mean a random discord boy then no

>>82883363
where irl are you i'll be your moid

>>82883459
Spain. Come get me moid

>>82883446
This is racism against random discord boys I'm reporting you.

>>82883489
okay i can be there. which airport foid

>>82882890 (OP)
her and my so called bestfriend would pretend to act zesty together, told them that its weird and could become a problem, they both kept doing it, she eventually started getting dry and that shit made me feel gross about her, and she left me for him and he lied to me about it a bunch.

At least people tell me it's fucked up when I tell them, I just liked her
>first "real" e-date, as in not one-sided
>e-dated for 4 years, co-dependent
>constant fights because of untreated BPD, every single day some shit which might very easily take a few hours or days to get under control
>deleting and re-adding the very next day
>come up with systems to figure out if something is true or not, real truth requires "promises"
>any activity together she quits a few hours or days in: games, movies, series. all inconsistent
>sexual aspect of it is odd too but has enough upsides for me to overlook it
>shallow as fuck talks all the time, incapable of having any serious conversations ever, unless I force it
>never shares anything about her life at all, autistic as fuck
>goldfish memory, doesn't remember previous arguments or events that we went through/doesn't care (seems like this is every woman though)
>during one of the million fights she admits she just never "liked me enough"
>only ever knew her real name due to a misunderstanding that leaked it
>never once saw her face
>never once heard her voice
>she still adds me all the time to chat
Definitely ended up mirroring some bad things from her, which still linger in me. The taste of codependency is also hard to pass on after you try it once... These days I don't think much of it. I'm way stronger after it

>>82883634
Why dont you doxx them (if you dont know their location) and throw rocks at their windows. And when they get them repaired, throw rocks again. And keep doing that until you get caught or they go bankrupt for fixing too many windows

>>82883658
That girl is real messed up. Like real real. I feel bad for both of you.
For you because you have to put up to it,
And for her because she genuinely needs professional help

>>82883658
Yup, that's your typical fucked up online relationship with a BPD girl

>>82882890 (OP)
I am talking to a really nice Russian girl. When I asked her what her first impression of me is she only said nice stuff. But yeah, I had to go through a lot of online people to find this one.

>>82883666
eh i just cut them both out of my life and hope the worse for the both of them instead, just not worth the time, i want to find a girl who will actually love me and not do that gay ass shit

>>82883712
Glad you found a nice girl for yourself anon! I hope you can be happy together.

Also may i ask where you found her? I also wanna get to talk with foids...

>>82883712
i knew a russian/english girl too and she was super autistic, but also kind of a whore and ghosted me to presumably be with some lovebombing chad.

>>82883712
A girl who I think was Russian sexted me, said she would make me her bitch and gag me with her panties, then became deleted_user_384637946, sad

>>82883749
>I hope you can be happy together.
I hope so too... we looked up plane tickets and i cant travel there rn because of war. Fuck bro

>Also may i ask where you found her? I also wanna get to talk with foids...
Found her on Boo but I probably lucked out since she was the only Russian I matched with and then I have 100 indonesian women that is trying to message me

>>82883249
Unironically yes, absolute retards

I don't even ask for nudes. I just want good foid company.

>>82884032
Until the day you realize you actually really like her and she has to break your heart (or she likes you back)
I can be friendly towards women, but I can't have them as friends because I always fall for women I get along with
Then when I fall for them, seeing them get with another guy is intensely painful so remaining in contact after a rejection is not a possibility
Maybe I'm an idiot for getting emotionally attached to women though

>>82884089
Wait you misunderstand me, I don't mean I don't want love, it's just that I don't need nude pics. All the ones I've been sent were spontaneous.

>>82884108
NTA but I find the sooner they send nudes the better the relationship ends up being

>>82884120
Eh, I added a girl from here who flooded me with lewd pics and vids, she was really hot and all but wasn't very interested in talking. Just an exhibitionist.

>>82884137
I guess I should have stipulated that she needs to be able to balance sex with talking. That doesn't sound like a relationship even just a sex thing.

>>82884171
damn anon I think you made me have a revelation just now
thank you

>>82882962
bpdemons need to be killed

>>82884411
But not before being tortured

>>82884137
post them here. who was she? where was she from?

>>82883489
I'm in west europe and want to get to know you if you do