>>82886254 (OP)
what am I even supposed to answer?
should I cross out the things that I'd probably do in a relationship or cross out the things that I want/would tolerate from my partner in a relationship?
>cant forgive
okay in case of betrayal like cheating, not okay if its always even for small things
>(X) insults you
only if done playfully or if we're on our twosome, never infront of outsiders
>(X) lack of trust
not 100% trusting is fine
>hide
only in the beginning of the relationship its okay, not when we wanna get married
>lack of compr
if it happens with some issues she's very passionate about its fine, if it happens with literally every single issue, we have a problem
>(X) immature
dont care
>(X) interrogates
dont care
>act perfect
dont care
>takes advantage
dont care as long as not extreme
>(X) extreme jealous
dont care, normal non extreme jealousy can even be cute
>(X) wants to change you
only if its to a limited degree, not parts of my core personality
>cruel
dont care unless others includes animals, I don't like animal abusers
>free
free
>fits of rage
dont care unless very extreme
>controlling
dont care unless very extreme
>denying behavior
occasional is fine, but always is a problem when they are literally unable to admit fault, same with "never apologize"
>(X) verbally abusive
if non extreme and only in private with the two of us, don't care
>physically a
same as above
>family dislike
dont care
>unpredicta
dont care if limited and tolerable unpredictable, a suprise vacation is fine, a surprise affair with another man isn't.
>secretive
only to a reasonable point, and would voluntarily e.g. share her phone password to ease my doubts if I developed any
>guilt tripping
don't care unless extreme
>easy to anger
don't care
>never apologize
see denying behavior
>cheater
hard no
Things that I could theoretically see myself guilty of are marked with (X), though that depends on your definitions e.g. of "extreme" in extreme jealousy or "abusive" in verbally abusive
