Thread 82886780

I sit next to a girl in my class who has autism like me and we're into the same terminally online shit (rare from where I come from) and most of my friends know I like her but the problem is that she acts interested in talking to me but also not at the same time and I honestly don't even know if she's into boys much (she's bi) and I feel like she thinks of me as more of a friend. I was planning on getting her number by the end of this week but I honestly don't know what to do anymore.

For reference, no girls are ever into me and I literally don't talk to woman at all.

>>82886780 (OP)
you'd probably already have spoken to her by now if anything was gonna happen

>>82886820
and if you have, it would be obvious if she liked you.

>>82886780 (OP)
You're on /r9k/ no MFing girl likes you.

>>82886780 (OP)
Change your mindset. Don't worry about whether or not she likes you, ask yourself what do YOU want. If you like her, ask her for her number, ask her out, etc. She'll probably turn you down but at least then you'll know and can finally stop worrying about this shit

>>82886820
I talk to her everyday in class
>>82886832
I can't tell if she does or not but I honestly think she's just shy

>>82886780 (OP)
How tall are you? (very important)

>>82886852
I honestly might do this and ask her to play tf2 or minecraft or some shit with me
>>82886860
6'0

>>82886780 (OP)
>How do you know if a girl is interested in you or not?
physical proximity and strong eye contact are pretty good indications, though just ambiguous enough to afford them plausible deniability. does she laugh at your stupid jokes? does she find excuses to touch you? those are dead giveaways.

>>82886780 (OP)
>girl in my class
>terminally online
You're gonna rekt your life fr fr nocap ONNNNNNNGGGGGGGGGGGG
Enjoy becoming the class pariah for the rest of undergrad. Just a training run for the real thing later on when you lot gets dumped into the workforce. This has been the social convention for over a decade now.

>>82886862
>ask her to play tf2 or minecraft
lol no. do you want to date this girl or be her friend?

>>82886883
She always looks at me alot and yes she laughs at my jokes but she doesn't try to touch me because it's not a normal thing really for someone you don't really know.
>>82886896
I mean that's something she'd want to do

>>82886853
do you guys have the same major? what's your major? what's your gpa? what year are you in? have you gotten any 95+s?

>>82886893
I'm terminally online but I have lots of friends and live a double life as a normie.

>>82886911
No you fucking retard. The fact SHE is terminally online is the threat. It means she already has a counterattack mapped out to deploy against (You).

>>82886905
We're in grade 12 and she doesn't want to go to college because she hates school
>>82886916
Meds now

>>82886926
>We're in grade 12
18yo senior btw blahblahblah
underageb& detected

>>82886926
>teenagers don't use online maymays to stab each other in the back
lol, lmao even
You have autism for sure.

>>82886926
homework now

>>82886955
I don't care about school
>>82886952
This doesn't happen btw

>>82886780 (OP)
>I sit next to a girl in my class
That's so cute, I wish I was young again. Anyway kid, this is what you do. Don't wait till the end of the week, and don't just blurt out "KinIhaveyernumber?" Instead, try larping as a normal human being and casually say "Hey, have you seen that (insert name of movie that's currently in theatres and that there is some possibility both of you might be interested in seeing). If she says "No I haven't seen it" then you say "I saw the trailer on Youtube and it looks pretty (funny/scary/cool depending on what movie you picked). Anyway I was wondering if you wanted to go see it with me?"

If she says "Yes" that means she's interested in you. Then you say "Great!" and you arrange a time to pick her up. THEN you say, almost as a casual afterthought "Oh, I should get your number."
>InB4 "But I can't pick her up, I don't have a car!"
Then you arrange to meet her at her home, or the bus stop or train station and you both ride public transit together. Not a big deal.

After the movie, say "Hey, want to get a coffee at (Insert local late night cafe/fast food place/whatever) Then when you're at the cafe or whatever with her you can talk about the movie you two just saw. You can also talk about whatever class you two take together and any other stuff you think about. Finally, when it's time to go home, walk her to her home because girls don't like to be left alone anywhere after dark. If you're brave enough and she seems friendly this is where you kiss her goodnight. That brings me to the conclusion of First Date for Beginners, Introductory Lesson. Any questions?

>>82886968
bro thinks it's 06 and they're going to get burgers

>>82886780 (OP)
Dont rush it, you said you dont have experience talking with girls, you can keep her as a friend, do not risk blowing your only feminine connection.

Wait for better signals

>>82886968
Well if anything I'd just talk to her at home for a while and ask her to go out to like dq or something and get ice cream
>>82887000
I wouldn't mind her as a friend but her signals are mixed because she's not normal

>>82886989
>bro thinks it's 06 and they're going to get burgers
Got something against burgers? I don't know, maybe where you come from you got to the all-night curry vendor.

>>82887017
go ahead OP, take the advice

>>82887017
Curry is mid at best
>>82887025
No

>>82887012
>Well if anything I'd just talk to her at home for a while and ask her to go out to like dq or something and get ice cream
Okayyyyy, have you ever actually BEEN to this girl's home? Has she been to yours? You said you don't even have her number. Are you going to say "Hey, wanna come over to my house and play Minecraft?" You COULD try that, but for a first date it's usually less intimidating to go to "neutral territory", if you know what I mean. But sure, DQ isn't a bad idea. Tomorrow ask her if she wants to go to DQ after school.

>>82887074
No I'm saying texting her at home not going to her house or whatever like a talking stage and then I'll probably ask her to do something.

>>82887000
>Wait for better signals
This is legitimately the worst advice you could give OP. This board is full of forty-year-old KHHV virgins who are STILL waiting for a girl to give them "better signals".

The signals girls give are often very subtle. The fact that this girl looks at OP "a lot" and laughs at his jokes are all the signals he needs that there is at least the potential for romantic interest. Don't ruin it for this kid, the last thing anyone wants is for him to be posting here in 20 years about how he missed his chance.

>>82887012
Yes, they are mixed and thats the problem, you have the potential to fumble catastrophically, multiplied by the fact you dont have female interaction. If she likes you, there will be better signals

>>82887131
Missing your chance is helluvalot better than spending those 20 years trying to salvage his career. Way too much at stake nowadays to be fucking around.

>>82887102
Why don't you skip that crap, grow a spine and ask her out in person? While you sit her working up the courage to someday ask for her number so you can send her a text message, some other guy in your class (with more balls than you) may think to himself "Hey that weird girl is kind of cute", and HE will be the one who asks her out. Seize the moment, kid. Stop being a lonely pussy and ask that girl out TOMORROW!

>>82887131
And how much percent of the population does these 'full of forty-year virgins' make? You already know that girls hate men who look desperate, he doenst need to treat every girl as a potential match, he could hurt himself real bad and end here anyways

>>82887155
I can't tell if you're genuinely retarded or just trolling. For the sake of argument I'll assume you're a genuine retard and explain this to you in simple words a retard such as yourself can understand. You can't "ruin your career" by being an 18 year old boy and asking a girl if she wants to go to a movie or the local Dairy Queen for ice cream. Is that clear enough for you?

>>82887155
THIS
The risk of harming your friendship AND getting rejected is simply not worth it

>>82887131
I don't want that either
>>82887177
I have reasons

>>82887227
You can once you get rejected and she gets free license to spread whatever rumors she wants about you to the entire class, the professors, and whoever else is listening. That will absolutely torpedo your networking opportunities since who in the fuck wants to be seen with the class sex pest, predator, or worse?

>>82887266
Well she's very quiet and doesn't have many friends and literally only talks to me in class

>>82887279
Trust me she'll have plenty of friends once she gets the golden opportunity to play victim. Nothing binds together an ingroup better than an outgroup to attack. Doubly so if it's a "traitor" that is easily accessible who they can strike at day after day.

>>82887289
Her friends are random weird kids nobody talks to that none of my friends know, she's not some "popular girl" or something and my friends don't even know her name.

>>82887229
>I have reasons
No, you have excuses. Stop making excuses. Imagine that girl you like is sitting at home doomscrolling on Crystal Cafe or whatever, and thinking "I wish OP would ask me out. I'm always smiling at him and laughing at his corny jokes but he just doesn't show any interest! Maybe he's gay? Oh well, I guess I'll just go out and lose my virginity with Brad instead."

>>82887326
You're right and I always hope that she thinks about me at home or whatever so I'll probably ask for her number by the end of the week or so

>>82887317
lol did they cover future tense yet in whatever ESL class you have to take in shitholistan, OP? or did you forget because you "don't care about school" (>>82886967)?

>>82887395
I type quick and it's 4chan who cares about grammar here

>>82887564
>still missing the point
Yeah you're fucked because you're a fucking autistic retard. On the plus side, her performing character assassination on you is unlikely to alter the trajectory of your life much since your career potential tops out at menial retail. lol, lmao even.

>>82887350
>I'll probably ask for her number by the end of the week or so
Say that sentence out loud and you'll be disgusted by what a lame, timid, cringing little weiner you sound like. ASK HER IF SHE WANTS TO GO TO THE DAIRY QUEEN AFTER SCHOOL TOMORROW! Not the next day, or the day after that, do it TOMORROW! While you're enjoying your Peanut-Buster Parfait and joking about that one teacher everybody hates, ask her if she has any plans for the weekend, then ask if she wants to see a movie.

And for fuck's sake, don't even reply to that retarded troll who is gleefully making up imaginary doomer scenarios where this girl somehow "ruins your life" for asking her out. You and I both know that guy is some sad sack of shit who still lives with his mom in his thirties. He was too gutless to ever ask a girl out and now he wants you to share his disgusting fate of being a lonely middle-aged loser who never kissed a girl. Don't be that guy.

>>82888015
Based anon. Just be forward with her OP, women like that shit and they also like a man with guts and confidence. Fuck her right in the pussy.

>>82888015
honestly probably the best, literally just ask if she wants to grab something from dairy queen as long as you arent weird about it you should be fine
make sure you've got enough to pay for both of you, and if she says you didnt have to offer to have her pay next time you go out

>>82888015
It actually happened to me when I was in college (real 4 year university), but then again maybe it's better OP get this bullshit out of his system while he's still in high school so at least if she brings it up later on he can pull the
>lol ur still talking about high school LOOOOSSSSSSERRRRRRRR
trump card when she tries to bring it up later on. On the other hand, OP's not likely to get to any college to begin with.