Thread 82891135

Is dating a BPD fembot a good idea?

>>82891135 (OP)
I think everyone should do it once as a life experience just so they never ask this question again
You may not make it out alive though, but you'll be stronger for it if you do

>>82891145
Yeah it sounds fun until you try it.

>>82891135 (OP)
Destiny doesn't date. he just pumps and dumps them. bro literally has a different woman every day.

ALSO big proof that femcels don't exist.

>>82891135 (OP)
i have bpd and i would say dont do it unless you are prepared to show a lot of unserstanding and care. we can be good partners with effort

"My ex was totally crazy with BPD" equals "my ex held me accountable for the way I treated her and it was so annoying"

>>82891162
>we can be good partners with effort
1000x more effort than a normal (crazy) woman, for a slight decrease that you won't stab us while we're sleeping because we didn't respond to a text in set amount of time and words

>>82891135 (OP)
yes
t. dated a bpdemon

>>82891158
how is a mid man having sex with women proof that femcels dont exist? lol

>>82891169
"oh this woman who responds badly to abandonment and has attachment issues is mad at me for ghosting her!!! oh no!!!"

>>82891135 (OP)
If she is hot, do it

>>82891168
no fr a lot of men ive talked to who claim to have a "crazy bpd ex" were just toxic asf and borderline abusive. like at best they emotionally neglected their gf and were confused why she was angry lol

>>82891176
You do know the guy in the picture is a multi millionaire right?

>>82891168
More like she's holding me accountable for her internal emotional turmoil over my decision to make eggs for breakfast that morning

>>82891187
It's not so much that that bothers me, more the whole making up a fake personality and constantly lying and cheating.

>>82891198
okay yeah fair point. women go crazy for a rich relatively well known man.

i hate destiny so i might have a bias

>>82891203
>making up a whole personality, constantly lying and cheating
thats called being a bad person, anon. has nothing to do with bpd. mentally ill people can also be shitty, just like anyone else. doesnt make everyone with that disorder evil

>>82891187
Except her definition of ghosting is not responding for 10 minutes because you were busy

>>82891135 (OP)
How did emp chan go from hating niggers and filming herself assaulting them and spitting on them to a LEFTIST pro immigration streamer named fucking Destiny?

>>82891201
More like you do weird passive aggressive shit then treat her like she's crazy for calling you out on it. Men are not slick

>>82891135 (OP)
so no one's gonna post the webm?

>>82891145
>You may not make it out alive though, but you'll be stronger for it if you do
speak for yourself

>>82891246
That narrative is entirely in your head
I just wanted eggs for breakfast and you took it as a personal sleight

>>82891247
delete this right now anon
im serious

>>82891226
>How did emp chan go from hating niggers and filming herself assaulting them and spitting on them to a LEFTIST pro immigration streamer named fucking Destiny?
clout, money

My favorite fembot is now fucking a political streamer who is the opposite of her world views.... also this guy had sex with black men before (not a meme) ((yes he was the bottom))

>>82891260
More like you refused my eggs another time previously because they were "wrong" but this time you made them the same way, gaslighting me
I dated a guy like you before it was just so tiring. Nigga thought he was Light Yagami constantly playing some mental chess with me.

>>82891273
Maybe I just wanted to surprise you by making your eggs just the way you liked them

>>82891170
i miss this girl so much.

but the fact is, I'M older. i have no qualms about dating an early-20s woman, i just couldn't keep up with this level of energy any more ;_;

>>82891219
Yes that's why they call it bad person disorder because that's what they all do.

>>82891271
>My favorite fembot

>>82891271
girls may look pretty on the outside but are rotten inside

Is that empath? How the fuck did she get in contact with destiny???

>>82891347
I cringed so hard when I read that

>>82891219
>thats called being a bad person, anon.
and?
>has nothing to do with bpd.
yes it does. BPD is what causes them to be that specific brand of bad person.

why do stupid people hear about a disorder and just go "nuh uh they're just big poo poo doo doo heads" as if this is some kind of unique revelation no one ever considered before lol.

like yeah, no shit. the disorder *explains* the pattern of behavior, it doesn't justify it. narcissists and pedos have disorders too lmao, they're still shit people.

>>82891347
>>82891400
Get out of here reddit greentext tourists

>>82891168
>>82891197
bpd can manifest in both genders so lowkey, if a woman OR man are complaining their previous partner had bpd, theres a significant chance that they themselves were the bpd one

>>82891135 (OP)
yes, he who burns fastest burns brightest

>>82891168
>"My ex was totally crazy with BPD" equals "my ex held me accountable for the way I treated her and it was so annoying"
BPD is a serious mental illness and genuinely causes trauma in relationships.

Stop making excuses for abusive people.

>>82891504
Men can't be abused shut the fuck up

>>82891517
Of course they can. How did you not know that? Are you like 12? lmao

>>82891517
>Men can't be abused shut the fuck up
if you say so

>>82891135 (OP)
That's not a fembot, it's a man with a penis.

>>82891168
>babe let me hold you accountable for...
>planning our anniversary dinner
*throws food in my face and stages 3 hour breakdown because she didnt believe i loved her*
the craziest part was, femanon, nothing she said about her episodes was real
it was all delusions (e.g. you will hit me, you will rape me, you will lie to me, you will cheat on me) of things that never happened, so how is that holding people accountable?
you bpdemons all use the same therapyspeak to cover up your yawning internal void where a normal person has a heart full ofnlove and trust.
accountability is somthing you only get the privilege of when you love and trust.
its a little triggering for me to see the word accountability, coming from someone who i am 99% sure is (like her) completely unwilling and incapable of being accountable herself.

>>82891135 (OP)
>Is dating a BPD fembot a good idea?
Do you like being abused?

>>82891643
just because you were treated badly by someone with untreated bpd doesnt mean all people with bpd are inherently evil. it can be treated.

>>82891643
they'll usually just cheat on you first because they think you'll break up with them

>>82891504
CPTSD is what psychos pretend to have when they actually have BPD.

>>82891470
Underrated post in every way.

>>82891643
I bet you slammed stuff and scared her

>>82891830
you could literally be her, because this is how she talked; always deflecting, always my fault.
ironically it was she who used to slam the doors, throw things at me, accelerate her car at me, honk outside my apt for minutes when mad, try to crash the car when im driving
do you suppose she took accountability, anonnette? or do you suppose she inverted these behaviors - the flying into rage, the guilt tripping, the degrading words - onto me?
by the end she was convinced i was cheating, but she came back from her 3 week vacation with a fucking herpes outbreak and asked ME if I HAD HERPES. AHAHHAHA
Do you think she took accountability for that?
i loved her so fucking much. i did right by her, and she spent years trying to destroy me, until she succeeded. but yeah. i MUST have "slammed stuff". because im the one who has to take 'accountability'.
yall bitches crazy, get help before you hurt someone

don't trust bpd anons saying they can heal, they will not. donut throw away your life for a bpd bitch just because shes hot

BPD fembots, I believe you can get better if you really try to be accountable for yourself and seek Dialectical Behavior Therapy

>>82891135 (OP)
if you want to experience hell on earth sure

>>82891914
You sound like you are just reframing everything to cover for your abuse and I wouldn't be surprised if you did much worse shit you are leaving out. Women know

>>82891135 (OP)
The cure for BPD is a solid beating. I really believe this.

>>82892070
>Women know
I think you're misinterpreting your delusions as some sort of female intuition
Seek help >>82891957

>>82892070
oh the horror to have a boyfriend who fucking loves you
you have bpd, so you wouldnt believe anyone loves you, and you will never be able to trust them
project your abuse on your abuser, not me.
hail mary full of grace:may you be blessed among women
i pray for you. i love you because i understand you, anonette, and i still love her too, because for all her faults i could understand her.

>>82891957
yeah, i did this therapy and it did so much good for me

i am fairly healthy now

>>82892077
tbf they expect you to beat them and want you to beat them, so it isnt a cure, you just lose another aspect of your dignity to the bpdemon

>>82892114
Good job
What made you seek help?

>>82892120
well i just realised i was lonely and alone because of the way i was acting and i was tired of it, so i brought it up in therapy (i had been in therapy since i was a kid already)

>>82892131
That's what taking accountability looks like
Good shit anon, best of luck of you

>>82892119
you're getting arrested for beating them whether you do it or not, might as well break her face apart

>>82892107
It can be a horror yeah men's idea of love is usually shitty I've only met one man that's ever really loved me and I'm planning to marry him. You're all narc users that crybait out of arguments and guilt trip and try to use scrotenese to reframe stuff

>>82891135 (OP)
Not if she is from this website and only if she is working to better herself and can healthily work through tough emotions and situations.

>>82891226
She doesn't hate blacks she just hates poor people, and so do liberals so they are perfect for eachother.

>>82892171
do you ever think that maybe the issue is your choice of men
retard

>>82892391
My problem is that I didn't date men that knew true suffering just pampered baby princes. My bf understands that the trenches are like and chooses to be a better person. Try it sometime

No, and you know full well it's not a good idea, but you likely would do it anyway if given the change because sticking your dick in crazy is thrilling.

>>82892171
>scrotenese
Logic

>>82892413
again that reflects on you
i don't feel the need to insult women as a gender because i know not to spend time with stupid women

>>82892413
You're a big fat dramatic pig and your boyfriend is a homo who kowtows to you, you sow

>>82892467
>>82892457
Lol someone's pissy at the baby prince line

>>82892483
how
i'm telling you that the company you keep reflects on you

>>82892483
Why would I be, you're a retard who went through a multitude of those guys before you found someone who would at least pretend to tell you what you want to hear.

>>82891150
>>82891145
It's awesome for the first 6 months, I've been with a few BPD girls. I was actually able to diagnose one before a psychiatrist lol

>>82892413
>>82892457
I've also dated BPD woman and they without a doubt don't take accountability and have wild outbursts. By the end of the relationship she used to get physically violent if I didn't want to have sex.

I obviously couldn't hit her back because I know how she would frame it with the police, she tried to threaten to make a fake accusation once but I got that on recording and told her. I would just run down the street till she calmed down when she was violent. This girl saying all men are narcs is without a doubt projecting, if she is bpd she will just ruing this coming marriage.

Before you say your pampered bullshit, I have 100% been "in the trenches", I've been attacked, been homeless, been a heroin addict who saw some fucked up shit, had to pull on people a couple times, wild shit. Rough childhood too obviously.

>>82893243
>they without a doubt don't take accountability
That's all women though

>>82893243
I'm >>82892413
>would get violent if you didn't want sex
>would run down the street from her in fear
She sounds hot and I might be in love with her
>is a heroin addict
Nigga I didn't mean that by in the trenches I mean dealing with family abuse and bullying you are just a worthless druggie thug

>>82893291
>by in the trenches i don't mean in the trenches
>i mean a less bad situation
what did she mean by this

>>82891135 (OP)
Those eyes are completely vacant.

>>82893291
It was hot lowkey, and sso was she.