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Anonymous No.82911413 [Report] >>82911423 >>82911896 >>82912159 >>82912324 >>82912325
Have I fallen out of love with my bf or am I just depressed?
Also I am too loyal to leave, also no I will not be giving identifying information on my relationship. Deleted the prev thread cause spam
Anonymous No.82911423 [Report] >>82911431
>>82911413 (OP)
If you have to ask, you were never in love with him.
>loyal
Lol no you're just too much of a stupid coward to leave.
Anonymous No.82911431 [Report] >>82911899
>>82911423
How do you know I wasn't
Anonymous No.82911896 [Report]
>>82911413 (OP)

You are. Immediately dump him and have sex with another man.

Jkjk. Youre probably just getting your period soon or maybe your hormones changed because birth control or another pill? Maybe its biological and your brain just wants you to hurry up and get knocked up and its angry at your bf for not breeding you.

As long as your bf is working hard for you everything is nice. If hes always away working for you to get a house, a car, or resting after work hes still a good man.

My girlfriend when she gets her period or is about to get it she wants to always play videogames and is slightly easier to upset.
Anonymous No.82911899 [Report] >>82912194 >>82912249 >>82912271
>>82911431
Because people who are truly in love don't fall out of love. True love is the unsexy stuff people don't really like talking about. It's attention, and awareness, and discipline, and effort, and being able truly to care about another person and to sacrifice for them over and over again. What most people, especially women, think about love is really just the initial 'sparks,' or what some people on this board have come to pejoratively refer to as the 'tingles.' Relationships are hard, and its love that gets you through things. The fact you're doubting whether or not you even love your bf anymore is evidence enough that you never really did.
Anonymous No.82912159 [Report]
>>82911413 (OP)
>Also I am too loyal to leave,
What do you mean by this?
Anonymous No.82912169 [Report] >>82912180
>I am having issues in my relationship
>I have an idea, I should go ask a bunch of men who have little to no experience with them!
Kill yourself
Anonymous No.82912180 [Report] >>82912197
>>82912169
someone's salty they've never been in a relationship ruh roh
Anonymous No.82912194 [Report]
>>82911899
>What most people, especially women, think about love is really just the initial 'sparks,' or what some people on this board have come to pejoratively refer to as the 'tingles.'
trvke
Anonymous No.82912197 [Report] >>82912233
>>82912180
I have been in a long term relationship. I am just calling out your obvious attention whoring from social retards, dumb whore.
Anonymous No.82912233 [Report] >>82912254
>>82912197
You're not even making any sense. Would someone who was in a LTR, long term relationship, really result to such petty insults?
Anonymous No.82912249 [Report] >>82912285 >>82912396
>>82911899
I wish I could beat every single woman who think of love as infatuation, it is so disgusting and leads to so many heart breaks. This anon is right real love can never ever go away, I still love the only girl I have loved despite her treating me like trash in the end and admitting to only leading me on. I can not simply remove this feelings from my heart even if I want. This is what real love means. OP is just a stupid piece of shit whore who probably can't even love to begin with.
Anonymous No.82912254 [Report]
>>82912233
It's not a petty insult. I am just pointing out you are an attention whore because you are. No sane woman in a relationship goes to a place full of incels and other autistic lonely men to ask them for relationship advice. The fact you are in a relationship and still farming attention from people here shows how worthless of a partner you are.
Anonymous No.82912271 [Report]
>>82911899
Then what am I supposed to do now
Anonymous No.82912285 [Report] >>82912303
>>82912249
>the only girl I have loved despite her treating me like trash in the end and admitting to only leading me on
Men are disgusting, nothing new under the sun lol. If you want to be attractive to men, just become a mean girl abusestacy. Nothing else is as attractive to them.
Anonymous No.82912288 [Report] >>82912306
Also to the males calling me a bad person how am you supposed to know that I would not feel the same way about him as I did in the start ?
Anonymous No.82912303 [Report] >>82912688
>>82912285
kys already okay. You are purposefully misinterpreting what I wrote. I don't love her because she treated me like trash in the end. Otherwise I would have never fallen for her. She was the sweetest girl ever most of the time and only became very nasty in the end for some reason.
Anonymous No.82912306 [Report] >>82912314
>>82912288
How could you possibly expect the honeymoon phase to last forever?
Anonymous No.82912314 [Report]
>>82912306
Doesn't answer how I would know it was only this cause there isn't a way to tell
Anonymous No.82912324 [Report] >>82912339
>>82911413 (OP)
maybe talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. relationships are not perfect and its normal to have doubts. unless you have had this feeling for a longer while now.
Anonymous No.82912325 [Report] >>82912339
>>82911413 (OP)
How long have you been dating? Why do you feel you don't love him anymore?
Anonymous No.82912339 [Report] >>82912381 >>82912425
>>82912324
I feel he would break up immediately if I said this
>>82912325
Not long, not sure which reason of the ones I can come up top of my head
Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE No.82912342 [Report] >>82912406 >>82912911
You know your truth. Neglecting that truth only causes you mental anguish. Love overcomes all, even distance. Just sharing where my heart is at
Anonymous No.82912381 [Report]
>>82912339
just wait a bit then. if the feeling doesn't go away, you have to tell him.
Anonymous No.82912396 [Report]
>>82912249
>I still love the only girl I have loved despite her treating me like trash in the end and admitting to only leading me on
You just proved his point about being infatuated, fucking retard. You're obsessed over some bitch because you have abused dog syndrome. That's not love. Your primitive brain is addicted to the rush of rekindling hope and having it crushed, similar to how a gambling addict's brain only becomes more excited the more they lose, believing that the reward will pay off in the end.
Anonymous No.82912406 [Report] >>82912641
>>82912342
Well where is mine?
Anonymous No.82912425 [Report]
>>82912339
Ok, what reasons are coming into your head? Are you attracted to him? Is he bad in bed?
Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE No.82912641 [Report] >>82912710 >>82912911
>>82912406
If you are OP then you know and are recognizing it now because that anguish has gotten to a certain point that it can't be ignored
Anonymous No.82912688 [Report]
>>82912303
>feminine male creature is still crying about the abusestacy who didn't want it
Sad ngl
Anonymous No.82912710 [Report] >>82912768 >>82912839
>>82912641
So you really think I don't love him since I asking and should leave or
Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE No.82912768 [Report]
>>82912710
Your autonomy is a part of you that I wouldn't ever want to hinder. Ultimately that's what is important. All of you.

Me telling you what to do is not a way forward
Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE No.82912831 [Report] >>82912911
It's not an issue of strength and decisiveness from me. I can easily apply a firm hand. With that my person knows how I feel. It comes down to our truth complementing, completing each other. I need her to be just as strong as I am fighting for each other
Anonymous No.82912839 [Report]
>>82912710
you don't love this guy and for some dumb reason you need to be told that even though you asking at all makes it obvious
Anonymous No.82912911 [Report] >>82912972
>>82912342
>>82912831
>>82912641
The thread isn't about you if you couldn't tell, stupid fuck
Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE No.82912972 [Report]
>>82912911
You should learn how to read. I was asked by OP and I answered. I don't need you to chase my threads around the board and comment after everything I write. It's weird.