>>82917012
To add to this, like 90% of the fathers I know are miserable. They complain about having to give up hobbies, not sleeping enough, dead bedrooms and having no disposable income. I've also noticed both them and their wives begin to age like shit after having kids, which makes sense as stress is very bad for you. Still, the biological conditioning will make them cope by saying "I don't regret it" minutes after swearing about how expensive their kid's doctor visit was.
I want a comfy, wealthy life with time for hobbies after work and savings/investments to retire early. Having kids or even getting married would badically destroy my life. I'm literally scared paranoid to have PinV sex with a fertile woman because accidents happen even with condoms.
Becoming a father looks like the dumbest self-inflicted harm one could do to themselves. It's an 18yr+ expensive responsibility and gamble that denands a lot of effort and time and consumes you through stress.
