Thread 82952000

Another day of no gf, why did god made me into an unlovable incel.

>>82952000 (OP)
1) YWNBAI
2) I learned the hard way if you're not happy by yourself you won't be with a gf

>>82952018
i've seen anons say that getting a gf fixed absolutely everything for them. guess it depends.

>>82952000 (OP)
Ashbie would never exist irl. It's a sperg projecting his positive traits onto an idealized imaginary girlfriend. It's over.

>>82952018
You are lying I once had one just online and I so happy, I can't even imagine how good it would feel if I had one irl.
>>82952040
I know but let me have my fantasy please.

>>82952070
>>82952034
>Getting a gf fixed absolutely everything for them
>You are lying I once had one just online and I so happy, I can't even imagine how good it would feel if I had one irl.

It felt amazing the first 1/2 months of having her but then i felt back into being an evil, pridedul person with no self confidence, and my little angel understandably got sick of it after around 5 months. And i'm lucky that she was a good person and didn't break me further!

>>82952118
That just you being a broken person projecting it into others. She ghosted me after telling me she loves me so there goes that. I just want one to stay with me and have a future together. You have no idea how long I have searched for just one girl only for her to treat me like that in the end.

>>82952139
We're all broken here anon

>>82952145
Yeah but you are more broken than others and even love could not fix you. Real love and affection would fix me on the other hand. But women don't like that they want a perfect winner from the get go.

>>82952152
The love a woman can give you is not perfect. Maybe it it was perfect she could've slowly fixed me, but no woman can endure what i made her endure even if her love is immense.

>>82952174
I get it you had a hard life, most of us had. But a good gf can cure that with her love, sadly this type of girls are just very rare. More men would be fine with a broken woman.

>>82952000 (OP)
you weren't good enough to get one when you were young. all them girls got claimed and passed around by higher status males when they were in school and college. your only chance is leftovers. you might get one but it's gonna be super hard since you're so far behind everyone else and you're gonna have to accept that she won't be anything like in your dreams.

>>82952145
Not all of us are broken the same way or attempt to project our brokenness onto other people. A woman loving you did not make you happy. Okay. A woman loving me would make me happy.

>>82952000 (OP)
>Another day of no gf
Hahahahhahahhahahahhahahahah

>>82952363
this man has no gf and you are laughing....

>>82952378
You know it's weird, I think I experienced what the Joker did in this movie.
>experience horrible shit as a child
>becoming socially crippled softie your whole life as a result while avoiding confrontation with your past
>finally confront your past
>become emotionless and start laughing at things like gore
I bet this series of steps is common af

>>82952303
I rather stay alone then or try to get something that women want and then go for a younger one.

missed out on teenage love
missed out on everything

>>82952498
>nooooo i missed out on very imperfect love 99% of people end up regretting nooo its over

You're prolly just socially inept like everyone else on this board. Me included

>>82952118
>evil, pridedul person with no self confidence
how does that manifest itself?

>>82952000 (OP)
>Another day of no gf, why did god made me into an unlovable incel.
>god
Why do you believe in god?

>>82953847
Yeah I am never claimed I was not but I am also not very attractive to the point women don't care about it. I mean I get zero likes on most dating apps.
>>82953862
Why not I am not some atheist.

>>82952070
what did you do with your online gf?
just talk?
text and voice? how often would you be on voice or talking to each other?

>>82954461
Chatting ever single day, saying good morning and good night, watching movies togheter nearly ever night to fall asleep togheter in vc, playing games togheter. We only did once video call because she was shy but we send each other a lot of pics. Also talked about less christian stuff sometimes. As good as you can do it online. Sadly I never saw her irl she ghosted me before we could meet.

>>82954509
that sounds heavenly
minus the sharing pics part since i am ugly i'd be anxious about losing her
at what point did you share pics? early on?

>>82952018
>1) YWNBAI
Says the failed normalfaggot retard

>>82954543
It was very nice and I miss her a lot, I really wanted to be with her forever and marry her at some point. I would have waited for her for years if she would have stayed for me :(.
Yeah we posted pics very early on I think that is necessary sadly. I think it can work if you make up a emtoojal bond before but this is just how realtionships work you need at least a baseline of attraction and seeing how the other person looks like helps a lot to make it more real. And daily pics are just cute. Was the only time I felt like I had a future thanks to her.

>>82954584
>emtoojal
interesting typo
i wish i could find someone who'd be down to just be text or voice based emotional partners

>>82954603
I think women are more fine with that than men short term. Idk really but they lose faster interest if you don't meet up asap. I don't mind it at first but I want to see my partner at some point in the future, only online forever sucks.

>>82954030
Sorry if it came across like I was assuming something about you. I probably could've worded that better. But yeah I get you l. Honestly I don't really have much advice to give you. Any chance or opportunity I may have had, I pissed away. But don't let those apps get you down. It's rigged.

>>82954763
I mean some apps let you see who looked at your profile and if not a single woman who looked at mine gave me a like then I think it says enough. Just don't know where to meet women really, kind of hard if you are not very good socially to do it irl.

>>82954824
I get that. Really wish there was some good advice I could give but I don't know what to say.

>>82955011
I don't think there is much to say here really so don't feel bad. I am just not what women want that is how it is.

>>82952000 (OP)
We never had a choice in the matter anon; we were forced to be born and will be sent to the grave empty handed.

>>82955106
I hope something changes for the both of us.

>>82955195
I don't think so I try to get better by getting fit again and try to reduce my social anxiety and make money but it all feels like a race against the clock. Meanwhile normalfags jump from one relationship to the next. It is pretty clear what women want and what they don't want no point in jumping around the topic.

>>82955252
Definitely good to keep working out and socializing even if it doesnt get you a girlfriend. But maybe it could happen? I mean idk your life. I'm not going lie and tell you that it definitely will happen. I dont know if it'll happen for me, but I'm still open to the possibility.

that feel when no pizza

>>82955385
Yeah giving up to 100 % will lead to nothing but it gets very exhausting when you get rejected over and over again. But it is always the random girls that come out of nowhere who are the best.

>>82955792
That's exactly it. I've had opportunities present themselves to me. Ofc i just had to let my autism shine a little too much, but those kind of things do happen occasionally.

>>82956084
Yeah maybe one day I will find a girl who accepts me how I am. I don't even filter myself and just act how I am I think that works best.

>>82956165
Same here. I'm an actual diagnosed autist but I've learned some social skills so I can make more connections. But I've almost always stayed true to myself. Idk if you're on the spectrum or not but in any case the best thing you can do is socializing but staying true to who you are, which it sounds like thats what you're doing. Some people will think they're better than us cause we arent like them but fuck them. We dont need them