>>82973224 (OP)
One glass of milk sir
I finally blocked my LDR oneitis today
Got really emotionally tangled up with her
It's a long story but basically I liked this girl from the start, made my intentions known, and she reciprocated. Great, right?
We spilled our guts, we flirted, we did sexy stuff online, got very familiar with one another. This goes on for almost a year.
Turns out she has a live-in boyfriend the whole time. They've been together for almost a decade. But she's not satisfied with the relationship. Red flag, right?
My dumb ass wanted to be her hero, so over time I convince her to leave her boyfriend if she's not happy with him. She does. That means she's mine... right?
Nope. She meets a guy at work. Says she wants us to be platonic friends. Asks me for dating advice. I'm in full nice guy mode at this point, under the vagina devil magic. I keep talking to her, in some vain hope she'll come around and treat me like she did when we first met.
She breaks up with that guy. A year passes. She finds a new guy. Tells me unprompted. She breaks up with that guy. Another year passes. She finds a new guy. Tells me unprompted. Each time, I'm taking this in stride, not trying to take it personally, but I've become more distant towards her. A year passes.
Today. She messages me about a guy she met online that she is going to fly to. That was my breaking point. She'd do that for a guy she just met, but always gave me the runaround whenever I asked if we'd ever visit IRL. Major depression hits, in a time where I was just beginning to feel better and sort of forget about her. I realize how little respect she has for me. How little respect I've had for myself for putting up with it.
So I wrote her a short explanation, and blocked her. Felt like shit at first.
But now, I'm feeling better about it. I know I did the right thing.
Happy Halloween motherfuckers
