Thread 82977878

Why do so many r9k moids have humiliation fetishes?
>Many of them claim to hate roasties
>But they also want to be dominated by them
What gives?

They just want the woman to take charge because they're unable to. It all evolves from that.

>>82977878 (OP)
>>82977895
Honestly? For me it's a mix of autism, having no father figure and my mom being weird.
>Have Korean parents who divorced because dad is an angry alcoholic cop and my Americanized mom cheated
>Be with grandparents until I was 11/12 and mom got a therapist job in the US army so I joined her in Germany
>Her big German bf (Sven) fucked her in our apartment as she moaned loudly so I spied through the keyhole
>I'm an autist so I fapped many times while watching her big pale tits flop and Sven's big cock looked juicy
>Later we moved to a base in Japan and she was getting fucked by a blond Australian marine
>I'd hide in the closet with horizontal slits 10 mins early and fap as they fucked then leave as they slept
Only did it 7 times but got caught. Was coomin as the door opened but she laughed it off. I'm too beta to try voyeurism again. As I watched her fuck I didn't know what "cuckolding" was. After the army we moved to Belfast with Sven. She had a daughter with him but he left her. I got a job and became a betabuxx provider for my sis. When mom isn't working as a kid therapist she's exercising and being slutty. Stopped fapping to mom but Civ 2 made me relapse.
>Played as a female while imagining mom is the civ leader and won on all difficulties except deity
>Me and mom are East Asians (Korean) but I could only play as either the Chinese, Japanese or Mongols
>Kept losing to the Vikings, Russians, Germans and Romans on deity and it made me horny
>Kept imaging my irl mom being fucked by the chad conquerors while I was forced to watch
I fapped hard after losing these civ playthroughs. Imagining my irl mom's pale and thicc body being roughly used by chad warrior kings while I fap and she taunts me for being pathetic. Then under occupation I'm forced to be mom's femboy geisha slave that serves her while she's pregnant and carrying chad babies.

>>82977926
That's mental frankly. What does your sister think of you?

>>82977926
To continue:
>My hapa sister is surprisingly white
>Pale skin and bluish eyes that are vaguely asian shaped
>I'm often caring for her on my own while mom is out on a date or hanging with friends
>I basically became a stepdad way too young
>I know my sister is going to live life on easy mode
>As a cute white passing hapa female
Luckily she will never endure the horror of my pathetic existence as a self hating autistic East Asian incel. But it's demoralizing knowing how better her life will be.

>>82977983
>What does your sister think of you?
She's a small kid. She doesn't think much beyond pokemon, princesses, kpop and kittens. But she sees me as a like maternal figure I guess.

>>82977878 (OP)
>Why do lonely mentally ill men with mommy issues
>That live under gynocentric dictatorships
>Have femdom fetishes
Geez I wonder why.

>>82977878 (OP)
i only did it for attention, it was what she wanted

It seems contradictory but is not. One of the things they find annoying about women is that they are not proactive about expressing interest but are also not pleasant or natural to approach.

Asking her to be "dominant" is not truly asking her to be a meaningful authority, but rather is asking her to be enthusiastically assertive so that she is not as much of a burden as one who does nothing AND demands you initiate everything AND demands you do it right AND isn't good enough/happy enough with being an authority to direct you in how to do so.

They're asking to be "dominated" the same way a dog "dominates" you by jumping on you and licking your face. There's also an element of fear involved in particular of zoomers with a demonized sexuality, in which they can not accidentally do some kind of sexual misstep if she is the one to make the sexual first step.

I honestly encourage this as the natural way of things, I think girls expressing overt interest in guys they like then moving on quickly if he doesn't reciprocate is ideal for everyone involved, and was the standard for most of history.

>>82977878 (OP)
I dont hate women much to the contrary I LOVE them. Humiliation fetish is hot because Olga booga caveman brain like but if I had to rationalise it I guess its because your letting your girlfriend see you in a very vulnerable state and for her to still love you and not only that but be into it is kinda hot and heckin wholesome

>>82977878 (OP)
GOD I WANT TO BE HUMILIATED SO BAD PLEASEE

>>82978667
Does that >>82977926
scenario make you horny though?

>>82977878 (OP)
i find women despicable and i dont have a humiliation fetish
now what?

>>82978491
What if you only enjoy the humiliation and get aroused by betrayal?

>>82979194
Then your a cuck and I would genuinely suggest therapy and/or god. Its only going to lead to self destruction and when your left with post but clarity your unironically gonna commit

>>82977878 (OP)
Based Fuu-poster.
>foid
Cringe.

>>82977878 (OP)
>why do men with low self esteem have fetishes that reflect that
I'm not sure, OP, it's quite the mystery.

>>82977926
Damn bro this is either extremely high quality bait or the absolute truth. Man that's fucked and funny. I hope you're doing well kek.

>>82978016
You better not fucking harm her, you know what I mean

>>82977878 (OP)
I don't have a humiliation fetish but about being dominated i guess it's because i'm tired mostly, i'm the one having to solve everything and having to plan ahead to fix my life, had to dodge murder attempts before i even hit puberty, my life was and is a little rough, so the idea of idk, a foid bigger than me suddenly taking charge so i can rest a little isn't all that bad

>>82979324
>you know what I mean
I'm not pedo. I don't even like women under the age of 30. I have a milf kink. Little girls are too weak, silly and unexperienced. I don't even like hapa girls either. White girls mostly turn me off.

Foids be like
>W-wha?? How can someone say one thing.....but then act the opposite???? THIS IS ILLEGAL *melty*

Low self-esteem and prior experiences with being bullied or otherwise humiliated.
I shat myself in elementary school and that developed into a scat fetish (one I'm grateful to have dropped)
My older sister's female friend pinned me under a mattress and laid on top of me and when I got my head out from under it she faced me and dangled drool over my face. As you can imagine, I was infatuated with her afterwards.

>>82977926
Damn wtaf. How old are you??

>>82977878 (OP)
Often humans deal with trauma by sexualizing it. Its easier to cope with rejection, humiliation, feeling ugly and unloved when it turns you on and makes you cum.
I learned this when I had a fwb who liked CNC. I couldn't get into it because I am a very empathetic and gentle guy. I would just put my hand on her throat and pretend to choke but not squeeze, or gently spank her. I asked her if there was something that gave her this fetish, and she told me that this was how her abusive ex used to fuck her. She left him after he graped her.
From then on I started to understand where fetishes and kinks come and evolve from.
Transwomen/sissies with autogynophilia kinks for example are men who were shamed as kids for doing traditionally feminine things or acting in such a way, or some kind of abuse that destroyed their sense of feeling "like a man" and identifying with other men.

>>82977926
Such a disgusting fanfic. Anyone who believes this is retarded
>>82978006
Clear asian or white guy with a cuck or Asian woman fetish
>>82979296
>>82979494
>>82977983
Its bait, retards

>>82977878 (OP)
I'm not as fucked up as the other Asian anon but what am I supposed to do if I'm a tall Asian guy with a big dick and still ignored irl?

>>82979507
This is exactly why I'm interested in BDSM and sex and a subject.
Another thing about CNC, it gives women space to be sexually deranged "without a choice" which means they can sort of feel mentally free from judgement.

>>82979542
How are your social skills? I'd start there.

>>82979582
Yeah they are terrible. I can't maintain a casual conversation because small talk just sounds so pointless to me.

>>82979574
>feel mentally free from judgement.
Agreed, as should anyone. As long as your kink isn't something toxic, harmful, or severely disturbing like piss/shit, pedos, doing the grape, true self-harm, etc, then you should have a medium to express it. Human beings are complex and bottling even up trends to worsen the trauma

>>82979615
Work on facial expressions and bullshit your way through small talk with some prepared lines or something. I see decent looking asian guys ruin their chances all the time by looking extremely disinterested even if it's actually the opposite.

>>82979657
I'll try to smile more and drop the stoic playing it cool look.
Always good to see a nice anon.

My humiliation fantasies would make the korean anon look tame. Yes they go way beyond humiliation. Yes , I am an incel with a small dick, but not angry all the time and have no wish to do harm to anybody

>>82980266
>My humiliation fantasies would make the korean anon look tame. Yes they go way beyond humiliation. Yes
Surely it can't worse. Please give us some details.

>>82977878 (OP)
My mom used to hit me and curse me out. I think that is where it is from.

>>82980266
>Yes , I am an incel with a small dick, but not angry all the time and have no wish to do harm to anybody
My Korean dick isn't even small. I'm 5.5 inches hard and that's slightly above the global average I think. I'm also thick but can only get off to humiliation.

>>82979620
>agreed as should anyone
>.....except these icky things
Lmfao also RAPE RAPE RAPE RAPE RAPE RAPE this isn't tiktok graped faggot

>>82980350
My mom never hit or swore at me, but she would be passive aggressive and snarky sometimes. She's also a therapist and is good at guilt tripping me and gaslighting me.

>>82979620
>Agreed, as should anyone. As long as your kink isn't something toxic, harmful, or severely disturbing like piss/shit, pedos, doing the grape, true self-harm, etc, then you should have a medium to express it
Even jerking off watching your biological mom get plapped?

>>82980463
Do not reply to me, gook cuck.

>>82980301
Well for starters consider the same situation as the korean anon except the woman is not my mother ( that part puts me off) other than that
> Tied up on the closet with armbindrr and completely immobile
> Leather hood on my face and ring gag with cover so no noise
> Eyes also covered with the hood because I am not allowed to see her naked, only allowed to hear her
> After the deed she leads me out on a leash , removes cover on gag , then pours the cum from the condom on her heels which I am forced to lick off ( no skin touching allowed)

That's the gist of it, a lot of fantasies are some variants from dehumanisation. And they are just fantasies, I know they are not realistic.

>>82980659
>except the woman is not my mother
That makes it way less worse. I want all that humiliation and to be forcibly feminized by my irl mother afterwards. I have even had a wet dream out eating the creampies out of her.

>>82980695
*wet dream about eating the creampies out of her*

>>82980695
If there's one saving grace about me is that I have never fantasized about anyone related to me, in any way whatsoever
As for your fetish I have that one too, and have read stories on literotica about it, except i rationalise it as just an older woman who is a guardian, then again I am nearing 30 irl so i have to imagine myself as younger too, I have a lot of other fantasies but my original greentext pretty much explains the core of it.

>>82980845
Yours doesn't sound so bad. Not that long ago I got rock hard at a family party when the son of my mom's Irish friend slapped my mom's ass in front of everyone. She just laughed it off but I had to go into the bathroom and relieve myself. I'm too far gone to be honest.

I'm also into monsters raping anime girl hentai but that's arguably pretty tame. I also like watching vids of femboys being degraded and cooming in chastity cages. I used to jerk off wearing women's panties but had to stop.

>>82980364
I have been banned from sfw boards like /a/ and /pw/ for saying it
Irl you are probably a basement dwelling obese ugly subhuman. I would destroy you with a single punch or throw. You should probably not act so tough online, low life dysgenic rat
>>82980642
Nah that seems pretty normal as a kink according to the jews running mindgeek - as long as you don't act on it

>>82980894
>as long as you don't act on it
But I have literally spied and fapped watching mom have sex. So I have acted upon it.

>>82980887
Fair enough, but then again your mum is a hot Korean milf and you have actually seen her naked having sex, so don't fault yourself too much.

>>82981069
>Fair enough, but then again your mum is a hot Korean milf
It's kind of curse to have a hot asian mom.

>>82980894
>worked into a shoot over rape
Sheeeeesh

>>82979245
Yeah I guess. I've always been a bit depressed but never suicidal.

>>82979507
I just love how enthusiastic sissies are about being emasculated cumdumps. Sex with them is unabashed in the fact that it's a dominance hierarchy display like you'd see in nature of one male animal mounting another. To me at least, that's the rawest most distilled essence of the core of my attraction to feminized males of all types. There's a dark and primal satisfaction in making a "male" have an ego shattering handsfree orgasm, spilling his seed on to the floor while your hard cock is plastering his insides with your DNA, in a certain sense subduing his Y chromosome with your own.

>>82981456
I like that stuff as well but my cuck kink is much stronger. The idea of a stronger more masculine male taking your most beloved female (mom or gf) and using her as a sex toy while you can only pathetically watch is hot. What makes it better is when your beloved female prefers your conqueror than you and becomes sculpted to his big chad cock and is permanently ruined for you.

>>82981492
One of my top fantasies would be to fuck a sissy in front of "her" gf/crush, then make the sissy rub her little clit with my cum still on her face while I fuck the gf

>>82981563
I had a fantasy about my mom being taken by a chad multiple times in front of me while I'm dressed up like a geisha. Mom is exhausted and dripping with his cum and she forces me to eat it out of her. Then the chad fucks my mouth because he isn't satisfied and mom is too tired. Then I'm put back in chastity and forced to raise their offspring and I'm only allowed out of chastity to pee and fap while mom gets bred again.

>>82981597
Yeah that's hot imagining you swallowing the same seed that knocked up your mom, and making your raise our offspring like the little cuck faggot you are

>>82981692
It's weird how civ 2 gave me this kink. Then again, my mom fucking while I watched was the main component.

>>82981080
Post a pic? Or a reference?

>>82981896
>Pic related but pale and slightly longer hair

>>82981842
That is pretty funny/interesting. For me the fantasy would be being the conqueror instead, making a mixed harem of warbrides/concubines comprised of women and feminized males

>>82981940
>For me the fantasy would be being the conqueror instead, making a mixed harem of warbrides/concubines comprised of women and feminized males
I'm 5'8, can't grow a beard and am autistic. Being Korean is a terrible nerf. Even the Japanese can grow beards and be athletic. Our biggest "chads" are plastic effeminate freaks.

My dick isn't even that small. It's 5.5 inches hard and that's a global average. I have good girth but I can only get off to perverted stuff mostly involving humiliation.

>>82981080
Ahh man now I'm really curious about her looks. Any reference or stuff?

>>82982153
see>>82981927
Imagine her with pale skin and a face kinda like Rebecca Chang from dr2.

A lifetime of no confidence and no experience and being told that if I express sexual desire, I will be considered a creep at best and predator at worst means I can only feel comfortable if someone else is telling me what to do and I have a strong desire to please others.

>>82982412
>A lifetime of no confidence and no experience
Likewise
>I will be considered a creep at best and predator at worst means
My mom was too open about her sexuality but never shamed me about masturbating. She did catch me fapping a few times and laughed hysterically though and made slightly insulting jokes.
>I have a strong desire to please others.
Kinda similiar but mine is more about my own debasement.

>>82981842
how did CIV2 give you that kink...it's been years since I played it

>>82982590
see>>82977926
I have autism and my mom made me a perv btw.

>>82982590
I just imagine the chad enemies conquering the empire and their chad leaders fucking my irl mom while I watch and fap.

>>82977878 (OP)
humiliation fetishes are coping mechanism as a response to constant humiliation

>>82982853
>>82982608
what is with you zoomers and lusting after your mothers it's weird

>>82982870
I'm in my late 20s so I doubt I'm actually a zoomer.

>>82979507
>Transwomen/sissies with autogynophilia kinks for example are men who were shamed as kids for doing traditionally feminine things or acting in such a way, or some kind of abuse that destroyed their sense of feeling "like a man" and identifying with other men.

I have no memory of any shame or trauma. I've just never felt comfortable filling the male dominant archetype

>>82981456
>>82981940

So fucking hot.

>>82977878 (OP)
Having an overbearing mother whose entire idea of an upbringing is making into a meek people pleaser has some dire consequences.

>>82983205
Mine had me circumcised despite us being agnostic/ex buddhist Koreans. Thank God she didn't have another son. Her final kid was a girl.
>Be autistic bi ricecel
>Also circumcised
>Life is on impossible mode

>>82983429
like that even matters

>>82983451
Being circumcised is bad, I don't care what tradcuck neocons say. It traumatises us as babies. Circumcised dudes are more likely to have weird kinks. Look at jews and muslims with their raping and weird kinks.

>>82983485
what's your weird kink then

>>82983498
>Mom was promiscuous in front of me
>Am short, low t and very autistic and have a limp
>There was no way in hell I was getting a woman
>Even if I wanted to rape I'm too weak
>Mom didn't allow me to access porn
>So I had to spy on her fucking for fap material

>>82983498
see>>82977926

this explains why>>82983526

>>82983561
that's cute. it sounds like you need to be feminized as soon as possible though...

>>82983166
It's really like some caveman brain dominance thing, like you're pacifying and eliminating a feminine submissive male through sexual conquest, making them carry your genes like a territorial marking and giving them a "female" orgasm to help them accept their new role

>>82983625
This is why it's so hot to me, the dominance part of it! also probably why I hate the uwu headpats crowd lol

>>82983676
I just love the idea of you shivering and quaking on all fours, spilling your male identity uncontrollably all over the place while my hard cock is rearranging your insides, making you lose yourself in the rapture of primal submission as I pull your hair, smack your balls, and bite you all over until I finish deep inside

>>82977878 (OP)
I am into femdom, but I am a switch. I like to date switches as well. Its normally very experimental in the bedroom. Keeps things fresh for longer.

>>82983886
>>82983625
I liked the idea until I remembered how disgusting assholes are and how shit bacteria can create worms in your cock.

>>82983828
Stop it, anon. How am I supposed to hold fast through nofap november if I keep imagining myself writhing and moaning on my knees as you invade my most intimate places, leaving me too desperate for pleasure to maintain any illusions or dignity and forcing me to beg for more.

>>82977926
holy ravioli

>>82977878 (OP)
I don't hate women, but I do want to dominate them