Thread 82988666

i wish i could be friends with people in the same way boys are. I had zero friends irl for ages so I used to pretend to be a dude on the internet for years because i liked having friends who I knew with certainty liked me without any ulterior motives / gave me a chance to be their friend because we shared similar interests and humour instead of instantly hating me for being ugly.

I tried for so long to have female friends but its really hard to have close girl friends for me, i don't know why. I've had two close female friends before, one was a troon so idk if it counts but we stopped being friends after she tried to force herself on me while i was drunk and even after that I tried to maintain a friendship with her because i am desperate and lonely but things just became so awkward. My only other close female friend chose her boyfriend over me even though he is weird and cheats on her. I've had less close female frienships/acquaintances before but it was boring because they were clearly just a byproduct of close proximity + we would talk about nothing substantive and didnt share many similar interests.

I have autism and a strong sexual preference for women so I am not sure if this contributes to my issues, i just really wish i had a girl best friend or friends in general who i can connect with

I don't care nigga.

>>82988666 (OP)
>666
Ok lilith
>a strong sexual preference for women
I read your whole blog and got to this part, cant you just get a gf who is your partner and is your best friend?

>>82988666 (OP)
why not befriend gay or asexual men or something?

>>82989007
i am trying to get a gf but it is very difficult to find a girl who hasnt been with every other girl in a 50km radius, also keep in mind i am an autistic becky who doesnt want to be part of a polycule which makes things even more difficult

>>82989022
hmm this is a good idea, thank you anon

>>82989033
are you trans by any chance?
I thought only trannies were in polycules

>>82989046
i'm biologically female, the lesbian dating and queer scene in general is just fucked in my city. every other nga is in an open relationship

>>82989041
you are welcome
>good luck finding them though, kill me

>>82989056
even the cis lesbos are degenerates now?
I thought they were like mostly asexual and shit

>>82989064
hopes an prayers >:))
>>82989082
yea it's so over, everyone knows each other too so it feels a bit like that one friendgroup in highschool who would all practically take turns dating each other

>>82989115
I think I saw a lesbian vtuber talk about that
I dunno maybe you should go to some like 'came out as a lesbian' subreddit
or maybe you can get lucky on /lgbt/

>>82988666 (OP)
Is that really a thing? Women befriend other women with ulterior motives? Does it stem from sexual competition? Or a social scapegoat?

>>82989082
A lot of them have to deal with chadsexuals too funnily enough. It's why they use gold star lesbians as a way to filter them out

yeah its obviously because you are gay so the gender dynamic is reversed for you since there's a lot more sexual/romantic tension with other women

>>82989164
I'm Chad and had some 'asexual' 'lesbian' come over once and she was dropping 50 hints a minute along with leaving shit behind as an excuse to come back to my house.

>>82989131
i might give that a shot, ngl i've never gone on /lgbt/ cause it seems like a troon hellscape
>>82989155
i was referring to men who befriend women there (with the obvious ulterior motive) but this is also a thing amongst women but it is less common and for social climbing purposes
>>82989164
real, 'i will experiment with you but the second chad comes along im gonna friendzone you or pretend like it never happened because im a manipulative whore incapable of emotion' ITS SO FUCKING OVERRRRRRRR

>>82989211
I mean it is a troon hellscape but you can maybe make a thread and find a cis lesbian idk
I spam this pic on that board so just know its me ^-^

>>82989231
hehe oki thank you anon <333

>>82989115
>hopes an prayers >:))
scary face

>>82989254
your welcome!!!
*kisses you on cheek*

>>82989231
Do not use lgbt. Its 90% troon 5 percent twinks or gay incels and chadsexual cis lesbians. You'd have better chances on soc

>>82989263
in my mind its like a confused face hehe
>>82989281
ive been on soc before and it was all dudes larping as girls but that was a while ago so may be worth trying again now

>>82989281
Honestly you likely shouldn't use 4chan at all if you're looking for lesbians. There's already a brutal gender ratio, and those women in there are likely interested in eccentric chads.
Like one poster said, they're very good at being in tight knit groups. But it does mean if you befriend one, you can gain access to that network.

>>82989187
Chad what are you doing here

>>82989343
>in my mind its like a confused face hehe
oh are you reading it right to left? i can see it like that then

>>82988666 (OP)
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>>82988666 (OP)
>I have [...] a strong sexual preference for women
Funny that you tried using the "I just want a friend who doesn't try to fuck me" argument only to reveal you're the one who wants to fuck your girl friends.

>>82988666 (OP)
>in the same way boys are
male friendship is like this
>almost never hearing from somebody you once hung out with when they used to find you convenient
or
>hanging out everyday with your very best friend (1% or less)
and there's literally nothing inbetween because men are fucking retarded thoughtless wastes of space