Thread 83015708

Do women sense it when you are getting close to a girl? I swear I have usually no luck with women at all but the moment I talk with one for a longer time and get friendly with her other women just show up from nowhere and show interest after ignoring me for years. The last time that happend I talked with 3 girls at the same time after having not a single one for all my life and all three of them had feelings for me. And guess what after I choose one and told the others I am sorry it won't work out as polite as possible the one I wanted to be with dumped me shortly after after I started to fall for her for real. This time I am wiser should a girl ever give me a real chance then I will just stick with the first one since she liked me even when I had nothing even when I get tempted by women who seem more compatible with me.

>>83015708 (OP)
Maybe coincidence, maybe they are talking with one another.
Walk around in public with a ring on your finger. Suddenly, women will become very nice and friendly toward you.

>>83015708 (OP)
Alot of women want the men that are taken simply because they have something. They think "If this chick wants him and has settled with him, he has to be a real good man". Thats also why the dating market kida fucked up. Women usually like prior experience, both sexual and non sexual.

> t. Foid.

>>83015855
I've heard this kinda stuff before but I can't help but wonder if it's bullshit because I never got attention while I was married nor do I get attention now. At the same time though I think I'm kind of a special case because I'm divorced and I have a kid, and I'm pretty sure chicks look at single dads the same way we look at single moms

Plus I don't talk to too many people

>>83015768
Maybe but they were not talking with each other.
I never tried that but I have heard it works women are fucked up. Just shows how different the sexes are. Most men would go for a woman who had zero partners meanwhile women seek out the opposite.
>>83015855
Why are they like this does not make any sense.
>>83015893
Single partens can date each other nobody wants to deal with that.

>>83015855
I get it, just dont like how it sounds like job hopping in the form of relationships
like trying to find the right job that fits you, but the perfect job you want, requires you to have like 1-2 years of experience
which is pretty heavy to think about, when thinking deeper bout it, but oh well, nothing wrong with gatekeeping urself from a bad relationship

>>83015708 (OP)
isnt picrel the whole madonnawhore complex thing

>>83015893
Oh anon if you only knew. Single dads are a MASSIVE green flag. If you are settled, and somewhat attractive you'll come around. Don't use dating apps, nothing good there.

But its true anon, it really is.

>>83015936
Its to secure a good relationship. If they see another girl in a healthy relationship where she is treated right, the guy is gonna be attributed for it. Thus she wants the guy.

>>83016026
Yeah, most women want to secure a good one. That's why. We aren't polygamous by nature. We want one secure and good guy. That's why alot of women are willing to share when it comes to sought after dudes.

>>83016314
>If you are settled, and somewhat attractive you'll come around
I mean, I've been settled for at least a year. Nothing so far.

I think I look like a caveman but other people say I don't look bad.

>>83015936
>Single partens can date each other
Which is fair but all the single moms in my area have half negro kids or a body count in the double digits.

>>83015708 (OP)
No, they just can tell you're happier and not your miserable sod self so they feel encouraged to approach.

Learn to at least fake being happy and leave that worthless self deprecating schtick at the door

>>83015708 (OP)
>picrel
If a woman asks you to do something nasty, lightly slap her and say "dont ever ask me to do that again" and it'll instantly solve the situation without making you look like a cuck