Thread 83025967

Why not just date a girl who's as mentally ill as you?

>>83025967 (OP)
I'm not super mentally ill so I'd be chill to try it.

Girls don't really want me though.

>>83025967 (OP)
Because she can easily find someone who isn't mentally ill and won't want me.

i would but cant find any r9k femanons who are looking for a robot khhv boyfriend

>>83025967 (OP)
because they aren't virgins like me so they can never be on my level. I want a girl with as much experience as myself.

>>83025967 (OP)
>Why not just date a girl who's as mentally ill as you?
why would i do that when i can date mentally healthy stacy who is more attractive and funnier?

>>83025967 (OP)
Wild of you to assume everyone here is mentally ill.

>>83025967 (OP)
I believe I have achieved a level of mental illness that would set a new standard

>>83025967 (OP)
OK, where's the autistic/depressed/anxious/insomniac girl of my dreams?

>>83025967 (OP)
I would if they existed where I lived.

>>83025967 (OP)
I dated a mentally ill girl once, it was a fucking nightmare. I'd rather be alone than do that again.

>>83025967 (OP)
If I were to even attempt at trying to get a woman I would need almost a clone of myself to tolerate the effort and responsibilities and obligations that come with that type of relationship. Since I'm bi I'd rather just find a dude but I still really can't bother. I might just not be built for intimate human connection I may be a true vocel.

Can't find em. But if they want a 6'2 white blue eyed bf my discord is idksomedumbshit

>>83025967 (OP)
I want one more mentally ill than me but the only ones I attract are depressed khhv girls instead of the batshit traumabused ones

I did but she was more mentally ill than me, I would do it again if she didn't start punching me when she was mad.
Since I broke up with her she has gotten 2 restraining orders against her from 2 other men, an assault charge, and herpes.
I would go for another mentally ill 4chan woman if she didn't hit me, I can handle the mood swings easily enough.

>>83025967 (OP)
Women are mentally ill in a very different way than men and it affects them differently too.
I would be happy with similarly mentally ill one more than healthy one, the thing is, their illnesses are really different and not so relatable

>>83025967 (OP)
Well unfortunately us bpds only attract narcissists so....

>>83025967 (OP)
Somehow I even give girls who are orders of magnitude more mentally ill than me the ick.

>>83025967 (OP)
why would she date me?

>>83025967 (OP)
I'm trying but the bitch is just pretending for attention

>>83025967 (OP)
I would except they all ghost me because muh social anxiety
I love you anon except not enough to leave my room and be on VC with you teehee also I'm fucking chad now wow...I fucking love interacting with human waste

>>83025967 (OP)
You really think she'd want me instead if waiting and hop for her knight in shining armor? Women get that privilege, guys not so much

>>83025967 (OP)
>Why not just date a girl who's as mentally ill as you?
Because I just get a little sad sometimes and my solution is to knuckle through it and fix my situation. When women hit even my fairly manageable level of sadness they begin the SSRI cycle that makes them deeply intolerable and entrenches all their dogshit, retarded behaviors by alloying what's left of their soul to substance dependence.

>>83026712
women who make these videos where they talk about never having a bf are only looking for a guy out of their league. I remember another girl who made a video like this ended up selecting a guy probably after rejecting hundreds of comments wanting to date her. I hate women so much its unreal. her channel has since fallen off rightfully so

>>83026787
I think a femcel subreddit got shut down for basically the same reason.

Women really have no excuse or even explanation outside of being deeply fucking spoiled.

>>83025967 (OP)
>Mentally ill women want mentally ill guys
You're trolling right?

>>83025967 (OP)
i added a girl who claims to be mentally ill and she's obsessed with an abusive guy who lives in another country who comes to visit her sometimes. i really do not think young single women exist. i don't. it's just elderly women and single mothers. i am so depressed.

>>83025967 (OP)
I want a normal man to save me though
I feel like if I dated another mentally ill loser we would just spiral together

>>83026840
What if we simply supported each other as we seek treatment, got better jobs and crawled out of the pit together?

>>83026852
Thats very naive anon
Its like two addicts trying to help each other quit drugs

>>83026840
That's a roundabout way of saying you want Chad only

>>83026798
I messaged a few girls on that reddit but none ever replied probably for that reason that they got hundreds of messages. one I did become really good friends with for a short time she was obsessed with shooters like elliot rodgers she was cool though but they truly do not have any excuse. even the ugliest hunchback female can get a boyfriend. lonely women only exist because they make themselves that way

>>83026840
>I want a normal man to save me though
No man that is normal and not desperate will save you though.

>>83026840
>want a normal man to save me though
What about someone who's just got a minor persistent depressive disorder?

>>83026881
Not really, no. Do you actually want to get better? I take my meds and am functional enough to have a job. A normie woman wouldn't be relatable, would probably care about shit I don't like and find my nerd interests stupid.

1. because femcels do not exist

2. women feel disgusted with looksmatching they always want to be dominated by a superior man

>>83025967 (OP)
i would love to but i would just think i am not good enougj for her

>>83026936
I do actually find nerd interest stupid

>>83027075
Boooring so you can't even sperg out about bronze age civilizations, 1990s OVAs, ambient techno and PC games that need 3 hours of community patches and .ini file editing to set up? What are you even doing being mentally ill?

>>83027111
>What is she doing being mentally ill
Being self-absorbed, anon, it's what they all do.

>>83027111
> 1990s OVAs, ambient techno and PC games that need 3 hours of community patches and .ini file editing to set up
>muh quirky anime, meme music and video games!
Im sorry but all of that just signals you being a manchild

>>83027187
And what are your super high brow interests, hmm? Chris Brown, reality shows and gossip?

>>83027187
>Im sorry but all of that just signals you being a manchild
you post on 4chan, retard

>>83025967 (OP)
Because, if she exists, it is impossible to reach her since neither of us go out more than three times a year. Also, knowing female nature, she probably wouldn't even want me anyway.

>>83025967 (OP)
i am doing this and i abuse her. we are mentally ill in different ways but all the same, if you think about it, only mentally ill women would ever want to date me. then again almost all women are mentally ill. so what do we make of this

ill date a mentally ill girl her only requirement is she has to like anime girls and cosplay

my mental illness
)sit inside playing video games and relaxing, pursuing personal interests all day, sometimes productive in bursts
her mental illness
>unpredictable rage, cannot comprehend peace or tranquility, there must be drama at all times, destruction of everything

>>83027556
Angry people suck so much ass. I wish it was illegal to feel rage.

>>83027581
Even if it was illegal, I'd just become an outlaw

>>83027556
what do you like to break the most when youre angry? i punched a hole in the wall last time i got angry

>>83027643
Favorite thing I've ever done like that is chopping wood and it's way more effective

>>83027643
>>83027876
lol I mean productive but it is effective too

>>83025967 (OP)
>Why not just date a girl who's as mentally ill as you?
because i promise i'm worse (probably)

>>83027884
>i'm worse
How bad are you? I got a persistent depressive order and slight autism but that's about it.

>>83027900
i am
>schizoid
>bipolar
>deeply anxious
it's pretty bad!!!!!! but it could be worse!!! :D

>>83027876
>>83027883
that's a better use of your anger then what I am doing you must be really disciplined femanon

>>83027908
are you looking for a robot boyfriend? I can work with those mental illnesses I have anxiety and misophonia and adhd but nothing majorly debilitating

>>83027908
>>schizoid
Manageable
>>bipolar
Pretty fuckin bad
>>deeply anxious
Depends on how it expresses itself but could also be pretty fuckin bad.

Do you have to take meds to function like a human or can you go out in public au natural without making a scene or dying?

I haven't been able to find a mentally ill girl near me despite living an hour from nyc which is heavily populated. Most people I add are from California or Florida. im too pussy to travel. it sucks because I'm not hideous or boring, I just don't know any local girlfailures. I just want to spend all day together driving her places and eating out and driving her home from work. shit sucks

Half of the women today with mental illness learned what they're called, their top 10 characteristics, and how to implement all 10 of those right on TikTok. It's not real. It's called social contagion and it happens because they want pity, attention and money, as always.

>>83026160
this is what i'm saying. i dont have the link on hand but Science! says that you are most likely to date someone equally as mentally ill as you so OP is just inevitable

>>83027985
in theory i'd like one but i know my limitations so no (because i'd be a horrible girlfriend)
>>83027987
>Manageable
that's, um, that's the worst one!!! actually!!!
i take medication for anxiety but it has drawbacks because i'm bipolar
no other meds because i'm basically functional!!!
>>83028011
jokes on you i got diagnosed before i knew any of them!!!!!!

>>83028028
>that's the worst one!!! actually!!!
How so? I sometimes wonder if I might have it because I'm very low-energy emotionally but it doesn't impact me very negatively. If anything not caring about others makes my day-to-day easier.

>take medication for anxiety but it has drawbacks because i'm bipolar
That sounds really shitty.

Iuhno man. I'd be willing to talk to you but I can admit that on paper you do seem like too much of a handful to be dating

>>83028028
>in theory i'd like one but i know my limitations so no (because i'd be a horrible girlfriend)
okay if you ever want to be friends on discord though im open to having friends with the opposite sex to watch anime with or play vidya

>>83025990
/thread

unironically literally and a buncha other stufff fuck off bot.

>>83025967 (OP)
Because I have high standards and I don't like myself.
Dating a mentally ill chick is not a good idea, so I wouldn't do it. Messed around with a BPD girl and it ended as bad as I thought it would, almost a little worse.

>>83025967 (OP)
Doubling the mental illness didn't work for my parents. Gooning till death niggers.

>>83028286
you are gooning till death niggers. i am gooning till nigger death. we are not the same

>>83025967 (OP)
I don't know what mental illnesses I have and dont really care. life is like a box of chocolates every day for me

>>83025967 (OP)
If they are as ill as me, then they wouldn't go outside either.

>>83025967 (OP)
I'm stuck between wanting 2 different kinds of girls. The first I'd like is one who has no baggage whatsoever, who had/has a good relationship with their dad and is just the nicest, clean-cut, run-of-the-mill loyal basic girl there is. I'd want that because I wouldn't have to be concerned about any difficult past experiences or anything, but they might turn out really boring and bland, a total 'live, laugh, love' type whose interests are so reddit, and has the most basic ass white girl starbucks takes.

The other would be one that does have baggage so I can be the best I can be. I would make it a life goal to be the best man she's ever seen. The kindest, most moral, smartest, most reliable, most honest, strongest guy there is. I'd want to be the person that makes her rethink her whole stance on men being bad because of previous experiences. I'd want to be a person who can pull her up from the depths and rescue her. But the downside to that is obviously the baggage. There'd be more turmoil and possibly problems from previous relationships like ex's and stuff.

I don't want the girl I date to have suffered or suffer in the future, I want to be the guy that can make sure she doesn't suffer ever again. I just want to be a good boyfriend and a good husband. I have my own problems, but I know that if I really try I can overcome them. And if I can overcome them in myself, I like to think I can help someone else overcome them.

>>83028743
>I would make it a life goal to be the best man she's ever seen. The kindest, most moral, smartest, most reliable, most honest, strongest guy there is. I'd want to be the person that makes her rethink her whole stance on men being bad because of previous experiences. I'd want to be a person who can pull her up from the depths and rescue her. But the downside to that is obviously the baggage. There'd be more turmoil and possibly problems from previous relationships like ex's and stuff.
this is so insanely cucked it's unreal, you are "dad who stepped up" material

Have tried before. Sex was euphoric but I am legit schizo so having a BPD woman being with me as I was going through it was a recipe for disaster. We broke things off simply because we realized neither of us were equipped to handle the commitment. I still love and miss her. I hope she has found happiness. Maybe I will run into her again one day

>>83026160
Stay safe and try to not drink too much anon. Godspeed

mentally ill women only want chads and would rather kill themselves than settle for incels like me

because not even mentally ill women want to build a family and have children in the future

>>83025967 (OP)
I'd be happy to be with a girl who has AvPD, since I think I'd qualify for a diagnosis of it too. I'd just make things clear that my hesitancy towards anything intimate isn't because I don't want to be with them, it's because I'm anxious. If she was autistic too then that's a bonus. Sadly, no such girls want someone like me.
>>83025990
Pain.

>>83028743
>t. Savior Complex
I thought I chose option 1, but she turned out to be more of option 2.
She's an extremely online millenial. Nice tits, OK face, into some nerd shit like erotic fanfics and medieval & ancient rome trivia, LoTR, etc. has a decent family, didn't seem like a gold digger.
I burned up 5 years trying to help her upgrade our lives (she works at a grocery store and I'm in tech) but in the end all she saw was my money paying the rent, so of course she had no motivation to improve.
After a bad fight I sent her home to her parents. She went on an online smear campaign then found some other guy within a few months. Fucked him immediately, then quickly started calling him her new "partner".
This girl was an asexual virgin when we met. She told me her body was mine forever. We were basically engaged.
Don't try to rescue anyone. Most people cannot radically change unless they are forced to.
>i can save her
You'll only drown yourself, and they will push your corpse aside then find the next guy.
t. 40yo oldfag

>>83025967 (OP)
Whatever happened to opposites attract?

>>83025967 (OP)
Because I'm an asocial ODD autistic that holds grudges forever, and she'd be a needy BPD whore that switches between lovebombing and manipulation every 15 minutes

>>83029015
I'm sorry that happened to you anon. I know the 'I can save her' meme exists for a reason, I guess I just had the same phase others do and think I can get something to work when it just won't. That's why I have option 1. Probably just gonna try to go for a girl who's loyal more than anything, even if she's boring. I'd rather have the most basic stacy than someone who would cause problems for me.

>>83025990
Good for her.
Who's fault would that possibly be?
What could make it easier for females to find a partner than males?

It's simps.

>>83029093
Loyalty only exists as long as your resources do. My ex told me she'd do anything to make our relationship work. Instead she just fucked around on Facebook and spent hours building shit in Minecraft instead of studying.
This is a woman who failed to launch, but works a job where she gets to interact with the public, and she's really good at masking and remembering people's names.
If she was a guy, she'd be invisible. But now she's realizing she can use her body to get men hooked fast. I think I turned her evil...

>>83029142
That's another downside. I don't want to despair or anything like that, but it does seem that a lot of people aren't really loyal unconditionally. I'd like to think a girl would be with me for the long haul, but it's very easy for them to think there's no benefit if you don't provide 'enough'. Having a girl who stays home and fucks off from society wouldn't be too bad if she wasn't a total neet and did chores or something, but it requires I make enough to support us both. At this time, I don't make enough to support a family and that might be something that turns them away or makes them look for 'greener pastures'. Then again, some girls are literally just incredibly lazy and want a guy to fund their doordash and rent while they browse tiktok all day. Finding a woman who would stay with you through genuine financial turmoil and want to see it through to the other side is rare

>>83029178
>Having a girl who stays home and fucks off from society wouldn't be too bad if she wasn't a total neet and did chores or something, but it requires I make enough to support us both.
Yeah. I briefly had that. She eventually told me how she was burnt out (working part time) and wanted to be a "stay at home gf".
This next guy will probably give that to her, if not for the rest of her life then for a while. I couldn't, and eventually the sex got boring too. We both started sinking.
My ex would love to be a coomer NEET, but sadly life gets in the way. And unfortunately I don't think this sort of lifestyle is sustainable at all without having shitloads of money or an extremely stable job & business mindset.
Basically she wanted to be a trophy wife, but got angry when I told her she could do that if she let me buy her cute outfits and do more chores and generally not add stress to my life. I don't know what the fuck she wants. Trophy wife with no kids to raise? And she is cute but not some bombshell. She was also a queer feminist. It was very confusing.

>>83029178
>Then again, some girls are literally just incredibly lazy and want a guy to fund their doordash and rent while they browse tiktok all day.
Yes, that's what mine wanted. She thought a six figure income made me rich. I was, by her standards, but it's not much money when houses here start at $500k and rent is as much as a mortgage. She has no retirement savings either, basically broke.
Given all this, I have no idea how she plans on locking a guy down.

>>83029221
I don't know why it is seen as some great evil to do basic house chores. Arguably housework is the easiest it's ever been in human history. And yeah, I bet a vast majority of girls would kind of prefer to be a do-nothing coomer neet if their husband/boyfriend could pay for everything, but the economy doesn't allow that at the moment easily. I make nowhere near 6 figures but I want to get there, but I'm concerned I won't be able to provide for anyone until I have that, which isn't even a guarantee.
>>83029237
Just like this guy says. Many girls (not all, but a lot) think a 6 figure income is easy to obtain, which it absolutely isn't today. If I made just 100k I'd be living lavish, but even if I had that kind of income I don't know if I'd be able to afford a house along with all the expenses associated with it and upkeep. Lots of people are bad with money, even if they have a lot.

>>83029278
I'm the same guy. And yes, a lot of the girlfailures use guys to leverage themselves up in life. Boyfailures do not have any such option.
It's honestly fucking wild how my ex went from wanting to split costs and build a life together to "I don't wanna work anymore. I want to be a kept woman".
When we met she had blue hair and a lesbian haircut.

>>83025967 (OP)
Because if such a woman does exist she's not outside or accessible in anyway she's locked in her room isolated and not talking to anyone

i don't trust people who aren't at least a little mentally ill

>>83027556
It's fucking hilarious how a male failure is a peaceful guy that doesn't have any ambitions, but wouldn't hurt anyone physically, while you have to be a complete raging unstable subhuman to be a femfailure.

>>83030018
i can't even laugh desu. it's not funny to me anymore, i just want a drink

>>83025967 (OP)
Where is my Aussie failed normie wife?

>>83025967 (OP)
I had a crazy egf once she even found my mom on facebook after we broke up (I cheated on her) unfortunately I was too crazy for her.

>>83025967 (OP)
Because Mentally Ill women have a ~400% increased fertility rate compared to mentally ill men with the same issues.
There are tons and tons of men who'd date a schizo or an autist girl, marry her, and have a family with her.
There are basically no women who'd date a schizo or autist guy.

>>83025967 (OP)
WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THEY WANT US??? THEY DON'T, WE'RE INCELS, ITS INVOLUNTARY

>>83025967 (OP)
Because she gets infinite validation off the internet and would never "lower herself" to my level.
A woman as isolated and fat as me gets enough thirsty jeets in her dm's that she thinks she deserves a 21 year old chad

>>83026787
There is no league for women we can get any man we want it's kind of our whole deal

>>83025990
vice versa can be said for a mentally ill women, he will spend the entire time resenting you and just waiting for the opportunity to leave. this is why i am explicitly only interested in mentally ill men

>>83025967 (OP)
I had to break up or I was going to murder her, or vice versa.
>>83030979
I miss her a lot honestly. It's just not the same

>>83030979
I'd only resent a mentally ill woman if she didn't treat it.

Kuso thread. I just never met someone who is different you know.
>>83030979
Hello I'm a mentally ill man

>>83025967 (OP)
>get a fat/mentally ill/generally low self esteem gf
>build her up until she's not a loser anymore
>realizing her newfound worth she immediately replaces you with someone more attractive just because she can
Dunno why any guy would do this to himself really.

>>83031863
Have you tried also building yourself up at the same time to not remain a loser so that your worth increases proportionally?

>>83031908
>you must be a loser yourself because I feel personally attacked by your post
Lol simmer down, babe.

>>83025967 (OP)
because they too are chad-only

>>83030321
yeah and its why we hate you. youre leaving so many men going without feeling love until they hang themselves or drive a knife through their heart because they cant take it anymore

>>83025967 (OP)
I did. She ended up ghosting me. Turns out mentally ill people aren't the most reliable partners. Who fucking knew

I wish I got a gf who was as depressed and anxious as me so we could support each other and get out of this hole toghether. I don't think I could find a common language with a normie girl who hasn't struggled with life. I think her worldview and values and way of life would be radically different and we wouldn't be happy toghether. Sometimes I just want to lie in bed all day, you know? Would feel very nice to have someone to bedrott with
Also why would you a normie settle for a mentally ill person? Maybe it works for cute girls, they get normie boyfriends, but why would that work with me?

>>83025967 (OP)
These chores still want Chad
The first thing these girls do ones they find out your mentally ill has them they'll make you one of her many orbiters and lead you on while fucking Chad

>>83025994
You're fucked
Make your peace the sooner the better

>>83032746
If he was fucked he wouldn't be a virgin eh? Huehuehuehuehuehue

>>83025967 (OP)
i tried. she fucked my dad

>>83032746
I'd rather die a virgin than to form a relationship with some used up skank.

>>83027203
You know what, that's a response I've never thought to ask retards that say dumb shit like the person you're responding to.

>>83031908
If you dumb bitches understood proportions you wouldn't be fat and crazy in the first place.