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Anonymous No.83039628 [Report] >>83039635 >>83039647 >>83039663 >>83039764 >>83039915
this confuses and enrages the normalnigger
Anonymous No.83039635 [Report]
>>83039628 (OP)
hehehoho
Anonymous No.83039647 [Report]
>>83039628 (OP)
Though the advice is retarded, this is an uncharitable, dense interpretation of the advice given.
Anonymous No.83039663 [Report]
>>83039628 (OP)
>coworker asks me if i did anything yesterday
>nah nothing
>why not play some vidya what about aoe4
>i dont really want to play anything
>haha there has to be something you like, what do you enjoy what do you want to do
>i dont enjoy anything do something i enjoy you know what i enjoy i enjoy doing nothing if i could lie down in a dark room and do nothing then sleep and wake up and do more nothing until i die i would do that so no i cannot just DO what i want to do because what i want to do is absolutely nothing i dont even want to be here right now
>goes quiet and we just stop bullshitting and get back to work
>few minutes later he goes back to talking the vidya hes been playing
Anonymous No.83039764 [Report]
>>83039628 (OP)
Me on the bottom left.
feels pretty bad, ngl.
I'm trying to lose weight since I actually broke out a sweat trying to use an pussy and ass onahole.
Anonymous No.83039915 [Report]
>>83039628 (OP)
Id date a dude who looks like bottom left
Anonymous No.83039954 [Report] >>83040004
The irony is the advice of "just be yourself" is the best thing you can ever do for yourself. In terms of pure jungian individualisation, just being yourself is genuinely great.

Normals however, think that everyone is essentially the same underneath. When they say shit like "just be yourself" what the actually believe is that "That guy is being awkward, anxious or weird, if he just relaxed then he would drop his guard which would reveal he's just a normie underneath. And I wouldn't have the be in this constant state of unease around him because I have no idea what he's thinking"

I know this shit in depth because after my parents separated at a young age my Dad who is a bit of a sperg himself got with this peak normie woman who would constantly subtly abuse me and gaslight me by constantly simultaneously shaming me for being a bit weird but dressing it up as "just caring about me"
Anonymous No.83039986 [Report]
>bee yourself
>stop taking shit from people
>advocate for yourself
>don't let yourself get taken advantage
>be more assertive
>communicate your needs instead of bottling it up
>indicate your interests
>immediately retaliate when disrespected or for injustices

>WAAA ANON WHY ARE YOU BEING DIFFICULT
>suddenly normies are hostile towards you because you aren't a doormat they can control
Anonymous No.83040004 [Report] >>83040023
>>83039954
Normies have a lifetime of building social skills such that it is second nature, they don't have to meticulously analyze everything they say.

>That guy is being awkward, anxious or weird, if he just relaxed then he would drop his guard which would reveal he's just a normie underneath.
This is true though, normies don't realize underneath is someone who would rather be reading about history or some nerd hobby, that 95%+ normies will react with boredom and sometimes disgust at this person's inner life and the remaining 5% would find him offputting due to lack of said social skills, even if they share some interests.

It is like when Eugene tells a joke and there is deathly silence then Chad says the same joke and everyone laughs. You need the perfect set up, appearance and inflections in your voice to get people to even register that you are a human let alone accept you as someone they want to be seen socializing with. The tribalism is everything.
Anonymous No.83040023 [Report] >>83040081
>>83040004
normies don't have social skills though

they have social deceit and herd behavior

they don't communicate to actually relate to people or impart information. they communicate solely to market themselves and emotionally parasitize

they unironically remind me of demons in frieren
Anonymous No.83040081 [Report]
>>83040023
Yeah, once you see this you can't unsee it. It became extremely apparent to me when there was a crisis in my immediate family.
People, even close relatives will "care" to the point where they can make themselves seem moral etc, but when that care actually begins to cost them in genuine ways they run for the hills.

I don't trust anybody now. I don't play by any social rules. In "casual" conversations I just make people uncomfortable by saying brutal harsh truths. I find it entertaining when these make them squirm. I simply do not care