Thread 83044414

What's the appropriate response if you try to have sex with your gf and she tells you she isn't in the mood? Obviously backing off but afterwards what then?

I feel like this is a relationship killer for me.

My girlfriend and I are incredibly high libido and get horny everynight but on the rare occasion when she's not in the mood I'll either start touching her while she's minding her own business or I start telling her "You think you're too good for my dick!?" in a sarcastic way.

>>83044414 (OP)
find a BIG BLACK BVLL to fuck her for you while you play steam deck

Get her in the mood

>>83044414 (OP)
I'd just go rub one out in another room. And if she has a problem with that, we're probably not going to last long...

>>83044429
>>83044448
I did, and it was right after we watched a show with a sex scene. I was trying to get her in the mood for 10 minutes, but I got an annoyed expression out of it only. It's not like I randomly jumped on her when she was doing the dishes.

>>83044414 (OP)
>I feel like this is a relationship killer for me.
16 year old gooners be like

>>83044414 (OP)
>>83044466
Unless she's under tremendous stress (from work, school, family stuff, etc.), tiredness, pain or grief, there is no good reason that she would be 'not in the mood'. It means she doesn't find you attractive enough that you can turn her on without some other stimuli. Break up with her dude

>>83044472
>nooo you can't have a high libido I need to control every facet of our sexual relationship
kill yourself

>>83044500
yes this is ironically what I think is the case
it's been 4 days and now she has clued in on me being upset about it and has "offered" sex a couple times since then but I'm no longer in the mood either and my attraction to her is waning by the day

I really wanna get my dick wet but not in her, I think it's gotta be another woman at this point so I will need to break it off soon

>>83044414 (OP)
A coupe times my ex did this and it was because she had another mans semen inside her so...

>>83044519
You should try to find out the exact reason, but getting women like that to be honest is like getting blood out of a stone sometimes.
>'offered' sex a couple times
Yeah you should break up with her asap, that's the kind of thing you hear in sexless marriages when it's the husband's birthday or something.

>>83044542
yeah it's 2 months into the relationship the idea of dealing with sexual scarcity is a complete no-go for me, I'm in my physical prime I'm not dealing with that for even a second lol

>stop trying
>she eventually does
>tell her you're not in the mood and make her seethe because women can't comprehend being sexually rejected a single time

>>83044519
must be nice to have this mental freedom. i actually love my gf so if this issue arose, breaking it off wouldnt even cross my mind.
>>83044524
howd you determine this? and why would you get a bud light AND a natty?

>>83044414 (OP)
It's not a big deal if she does it once in a while, but if it happens regularly, then start thinking about leaving. You can bring it up with her and talk about it, but it probably won't fix it, because it's a subconscious thing where she's losing attraction towards you and logical talking about it won't fix it.

>>83044559
>physical prime
show me

>>83044414 (OP)
Ask her about her issues, then, you fucking gooner. They get stressed or depressed and aren't in the mood because of that.

respect her feelings? why is this even a thread, sometimes when I'm stressed I dont wanna fuck, it doesn't mean anything aside from the fact that you dont wanna fuck, are you really that retarded that you see that as a relationship killer? fuck her tomorrow its no big deal

>>83044559
My ex was the same way, despite having a bodycount of 12. Left her for a virgin and we've been together 5+ years. Find yourself a virgin and you'll be having sex almost every day

>>83044560
my dad (who divorced my mom) said he pulled this move after 3 straight years of a dead bedroom and it caused the biggest fight of their entire marriage. Broken vases, table leg broken, neighbors called the cops because she was screaming so much, etc. It really does break women to be sexually rejected.

>>83044572
Also, this. Sometimes you just feel off. I've had times where I knew my gf was horny but not "pounce on me" horny and I didn't instigate because I was either dead tired from work, extremely busy due to school, or generally feeling ill. Same can apply to women - in fact, a bit more often considering they have 10-20x less testosterone than men even during ovulation.

>>83044593
im sorry about the rape you will experience in your future. i really am.
its even a thread because op posted it i believe. thats how threads get made. you could make one right now or even i could. i think anyone can.

>>83044626
>being passive aggressive
you a woman? you sound bitch made ngl

its a shit test. her abusechad and drug dealer tyrone exes didnt take no for an answer. just have sex with her anyways

>>83044638
we're all bitch made. that's just biological.

>>83044569
>howd you determine this?
A couple times she came home from "work" and immediately took a bath. Then later when I wanted sex she said she couldn't because the bubble bath gave her a yeast infection . Didn't put two and two together until a year or two later when she came home one morning after being m.i.a. and showered and immediately left. I picked up her dirty clothes to throw in the hamper and stuck my hand in jizz filled underwear. Shes now married to that guy and is probably cheating on him
>and why would you get a bud light AND a natty?
Why not?

start loudly gooning in the bathroom

>>83044593
Read the context, retard.

She wasn't stressed or tired and was in a good general mood and during the sex scene she looked like she was into it.

If she felt like shit I wouldn't force myself on her I'm not a moron.

>>83044662
>why not
idk are you like a pisswater connosior? id just pick one

>>83044593
>respecting women's feelings
>on my woman hating board

>>83044662
u got cucked

>>83044662
Brvtal, anon. I hope you found someone who wasn't a total slag since then.

>>83044720
I could only imagine what she was up to that year I worked out of town. That reminds me, one of the times I did get to come home she didn't want to put out after not seeing each other for a couple months

>>83044726
>Brvtal, anon. I hope you found someone who wasn't a total slag since then
Nope. This is as good as it gets for me. Thanks mother for being such a great role model!!!

>>83044662
Michelob is real? I saw people drinking this in an 80s vaporwave video. Never heard of it though.

>>83044414 (OP)
You need to get her in the mood before asking

>>83044466
>I was trying to get her in the mood for 10 minutes,
You need to spread this out over time. A few kisses and gropes at random over the course of the day is far more effective than 10 minutes of concentrated effort right when you want to start sex.

How did robots go from incels to cucks? Is this really an improvement?

>>83045072
real robot dont have gfs obviously, its a failed normie thread