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Anonymous No.83056128 [Report] >>83056165 >>83056166 >>83056171 >>83056173 >>83056354 >>83056719 >>83056833
My ex-girlfriend wants me to pay for her hemorrhoid removal surgery. She says that I caused her hemorrhoids by cheating on her with my now-girlfriend and being emotionally abusive. Both are true, I did cheat for months and I treated her like shit during that time, but I don't really want to spend any money I don't have to. Am I legally obligated to pay for the treatment? She doesn't have much money because I told her while we were dating that I wanted to be the only breadwinner, so she last had a job four years ago.
Anonymous No.83056147 [Report] >>83056156
How much is it gonna cost?
Anonymous No.83056148 [Report] >>83056833
You're not legally obligated, but if I were you, I would. Just out of courtesy for all you did to her. You don't reeeally have to, but if you ever loved her it wouldn't be a bad good-by gift.
Anonymous No.83056156 [Report] >>83056833
>>83056147
She said it will be around $600
Anonymous No.83056165 [Report]
>>83056128 (OP)
you dont owe her shit anon
grow up
Anonymous No.83056166 [Report] >>83056186
>>83056128 (OP)
Were you the sole breadwinner and ballpark estimate range how much were you making? You aren't legally obligated to but if she wasn't working for the past fore years then idk
Anonymous No.83056171 [Report]
>>83056128 (OP)
hemorrhoids aren't fucking contagious you stupid mongoloid
Anonymous No.83056173 [Report]
>>83056128 (OP)
She sounds like a pain in the ass
Anonymous No.83056186 [Report] >>83056199
>>83056166
I was the sole breadwinner and made her quit her job. I made 40k-50k a year.
Anonymous No.83056199 [Report] >>83056354
>>83056186
Sole breadwinner in this economy off 40 to 50k? Not to shit on you but I don't know if that is enough to be the sole breadwinner for two people
Anonymous No.83056219 [Report]
Pay or kill yourself. Both are acceptable
Anonymous No.83056354 [Report]
>>83056128 (OP)
>>>/adv/
>>83056199
depends where you live.
i'm on 45k and i can afford a mortgage and probably a wife, but we wouldnt be traveling anywhere/far.
Anonymous No.83056719 [Report]
>>83056128 (OP)
Did you fuck her in the butt? If you did then you should pay for it. If you didn't, then you shouldn't pay for it. Case dismissed.
Anonymous No.83056833 [Report]
>>83056128 (OP)
Personally, I doubt you caused her hemorrhoids.
That said,
>wanted to be the sole breadwinner
>hasn't worked in four years
>>83056156
>$600
I feel this is a reasonable compromise.
>>83056148 is right. No one will force you to pay up. But it's a manageable expense that translates to an "I'm sorry."