Thread 83062805

why do people here here talk to me and say they like me
but then wont add me on disc or somewhere else so we can talk more
why
what did i do wrong
i just want friends

>>83062805 (OP)
Because most people here don't know how to hold a conversation.

>>83062828
but they talk with me just fine
do you think they just dont like me and feel bad for me?

>>83062805 (OP)
Hey what's up player, have you been feeling lately? feeling the breeze of the day, or feeling in suchs, feeling the cold of the night, feeling mad about something?

>>83062841
Don't think so, there's no reason to fake to some anon they don't even know. They're probably shy? It happens. I'm good talking publicly, but as soon as I have to talk with someone on private, I freeze.

>>83062805 (OP)
I feel like it's a lot of work and commitment and time to maintain a relationship, and people probably don't want to put in that effort despite really liking you on the surface. People are pretty busy working or studying or gaming or something all the time. Well this opinion might just be a reflection of my own lazy views when it comes to friendships...

>>83062870
i guess so it just makes me feel really bad
its so hard making friends

>>83062872
i mean im not asking them to do much
just talk to me when they feel like it
im not that needy of a person

>>83062854
im tired. life never gets better.
but i guess im content in my own misery sometimes. im going to japan soon which is exciting

>>83062914
Are you fine with month-long periods of not talking? Often I go for months without texting anyone because I feel emotionally exhausted and overwhelmed, or I just don't feel like talking to anyone. I generally like to stick around as long as I don't have a mental health event and start clearing people out from my friends list.

>>83062906
It's really hard. Maybe if you list out your interests you can find someone who shares them? I see you might like DOL.

>>83062931
i am yes. even if it hurts a lot id still wait.
im just desperate for any connection

>>83062925
We'll it's good to see you're feeling atleast miserable instead of being in complete nothingness or something like that, enjoy your trip and stuff, sorry for leaving you in complete hold in your last post but I fell asleep :P

get better son.

>>83062937
i love DoL. also anime, manga, game dev.
Gacha games and especially hoyo games (i know you like hsr from your images)

>>83062958
Well, do you have Discord, email? I'm interested in adding you. No promises, expect inconsistency, but I'll try to be your friend.

>>83062977
thank you. did you reply to my other thread or replies? or are you referring to this thread. im autistic so i get confused a lot sorry

>>83062805 (OP)
>wont add me on disc
you haven't posted em

>>83062989
yay!!! my disc is vasilijia !!

>>83063000
because no one asked before.

>>83062997
So you forgot, that's nice but I was referring to this in what I think it was your last post, glad to know you forgot.

>>83062982
Yes!! I love Phainon, actually, you sound cool. Want to add?

>>83063029
>no one asked
fair point
adding you too btw

>>83063029
I'm honestly surprised no one has, but at the same time I'm not surprised because of the reasons I listed earlier. Or maybe everyone here is quite shy about asking. (Oh gosh, asking someone to be my friend, it's so scary >~<)

>>83063033
im sorry i post a lot of threads.
thank you for apologizing though!! there's really no need though, but I appreciate you being nice

>>83063040
yah!!! disc is vasilijia !!!

>>83063060
yah making friends is scary. that's why i dont make new ones irl

I also need friends anon, if you post your disc i could add you, you seen nice, I can't promise we will click but I can promise i would try

>>83063144
posted it before but it's vasilijia !!!

>>83063033
omg I remember now please add me !!!

>>83063101
>that's why i dont make new ones irl
It's scary to me too, but I'm working on it! I've been talking to people in real life and it's scary and tough and difficult to act like a normie in front of them, but as long as they accept me I'm happy. I'm surprised that the normies are actually pretty nice and not cold. I think a lot of it is just my own doing. It's hard for other people to talk to me if I come off as cold and reserved. (I like self-isolating.)

>>83063153
oh derp, sorry i was waiting on captcha, sent you the request, I'm L, hope we get along well

>>83063165
i relate to that a lot. apparently i come off really cold unless im with someone I like.
you seem nice can I add you

>>83063157
I am sorry to disappoint you anon but I do not use discord at all whatsoever, even tho your posts look really cute, they are not enough reason for me to go and install the software in question, but let me think about it.

>>83063222
I already added you, silly. Why do you think I asked for your Discord earlier? Silly~

>>83063223
please please pleaseeee
im begging pretty please

>>83063237
sorry!!! im very stupid and retarded

>>83062805 (OP)
oh, hey again mr faggot

can i add u heh

>>83063326
hiii
how are you!!
it's been like 7 hours!!

>>83063223
pleaseeee install it pleaseee

Majority of people here are here because it is anonymous. That means no matter how nice another anon is they are quite unlikely to go off site and talk non/less anonymously. You probably did not do anything wrong, its just how the site is.

>>83063080
Forgot to say, but I added you!

>>83063386
not much. except im sleepy and ate a bigass burrito. enjoy this knowledge

>>83063828
i guess but it just sucks cuz i like the people here

>>83063844
yayyy!!! ty for adding mee

>>83063846
that's so real desu.

>>83063682
I'm still thinking about it OP, you see, the (false) sense of anonimity or whatever the word is that this site provides me, it's enough to fulfill my low but crucial desire for outside connection and communication, forming an actual bond with someone from here is risky and might make me feel bad in the end.

>>83064408
please please pleasee ill be nice
you won't get sick of me I promise

>>83064542
And it's even worse due to the fact that this upmost fascination that you seem to have over me it's created by the idea you got of who you think I am, which is born for things kept sacred of mine, such as my body and sexuality. all of this has drove me to the conclusion that our ways will be forever separated outside the veils of this website until death.

Either that or siren behavior in which case, :(

>>83064139
Yeah i do too actually, a lot of non larpers and toursits here are quite nice. Never would add any one though there is too much fear of the unknown,rejection and interaction in myself nowdays. But hope you find some people anon.

>>83064660
awwwh thats unfair

>>83064823
thank youuuu. I made some good friends so this was a success as long as they don't ghost me

>>83063016
aryan balkan name

>>83066322
true but i have brown hair and brown eyes sadly...

>>83062805 (OP)
you sound very gay and annoying maybe be a better person?

>>83066355
i am gay and annoying how do I fix myself

>>83066373
be less annoying be less gay and then you are fixed

>>83066394
how do I do that??!?!!
i can't just stop being myself

>>83066467
is being an annoying gay guy a cornerstone of your identity?

>>83066512
i mean i like boys and im a twink
and i yap a lot about stuff i like
so i guess so

>>83066544
womp womp
it's over for you

I like Kylar but also I like to cuck him

>>83066607
Real. Specially with Robin.

>>83066607
HE'S SO CUTEE I love my husband
i am going to marry him irl

>>83066612
i bet you're a dirty Avery fan

>>83066656
At least I can live with Avery

I only like girl Kylar better because forcing her to wear a skirt with no panties is hotter than boy Kylar just not wearing briefs

>>83062925
where are you gonna go in japan?

>>83066814
FUCK YOU DIE
I will live with my husband eventually
I swear

>>83066853
this is true but also bot yandere Kyler is infinitely cuter than foid kylar

>>83066854
just tokyo

>>83066874
oh cool, i didnt spend enough time there, there's too many things to do it gets overwhelming lmao

>>83066922
yess but it's so fun
i love Japan sm

>>83062805 (OP)
vulnerable narcissism. yucky

>>83066373
something about believing in yourself to a deranged degree where even if you're wrong, it'd be beyond world's judgement
>what? wtf? wdym?
pointless to elaborate if you don't get it. instead, read some Elinor Greenberg on maladaptions

>>83066951
i wanna go back so bad!
im so close to just blowing all my money to spend the winter there again.

what a thread lmao

>>83066953
i literally do not understand anything you're saying because im retarded as fuck
use small words please

>>83067027
that's enough.

>>83066986
it's worth every penny. its nice feeling safe in a city
and food is cheap asf

>>83067035
what is??? im so confused

>>83066996
it's fun talking to everyone <3

>>83067037
missing the food so much
food here is so bad
are you mostly gonna hang in one ward or just go everywhere?

>>83067076
ill prolly spend most my time in Shibuya (my fav <3) but i am going to Yokohama for the omori orchestra!!

>>83067089
>omori orchestra
that sounds really cool

>>83067154
yess im so excited!!! omori is my fav game of all time

where did everyone go???
come back pleasee i like talking

>>83067452
I was busy having some dinner.
I havent been to r9k for a while now, interesting to see threads were people just talk about life and shit

>>83067452
okay ill talk with you

>>83067681
hi!!! hru anonn

>>83067517
yah it's fun to talk about life stuff

>>83067756
idk im okay i guess, im a bit sleepy but im fixing my sleep schedule. nothing really excites me in life but im continuing the job search and playing a pokemon fan game

So, hows japan?
Ive never gone there, probs never will but I am interested in how life and such is like over there.
at the very least I do hope random muggings arent as common over there as they are where I live

>>83067768
so real tbhh. which fangame?

>>83067807
it's so much fun
most things are cheap, it's super safe
everyone is really nice and the transportation is amazing!!!

>>83067888
pokemon uranium, its pretty fun if you wanna see my pokemon team....
i havent played pokemon in a long time (last game i played was sun & moon) and i kind of miss it.

>>83067931
ooo Ive heard of that one!
post ur team!!

>>83068070
heres my team
i try to keep them balanced n stuff in terms of typings and stats.
whats your favorite pokemon?

>>83068089
ooo cooll!!!
my fav is prolly piplup or oshawott (I adore samurott)

>>83068168
im going to sleep soon now
but is your favorite type water? (i noticed you picked two water starters)
personally i prefer grass buy samurott is quite cool and i always thought every gen 5 starter was cool

>>83062805 (OP)
Hey silly want to chat about whatever, i'm bored and want to kill some time

>>83068214
probablyyy
i also really like dark types tho!!!

>>83068287
okay what do you wanna talk about!!!
i was just playing a dbz RPG on roblox

do i get drunk anons?

>>83068517
alcohol sucks balls, do stimulants

>>83068525
i don't have any besides tea which I've been drinking all day

>>83068458
how do i find a woman who will do that to me guys....

>>83068555
real... probably a femcel who'd do this
i want a girlfriend so bad

is roblox good for making social contacts? I thought that stuff is for kids but apparently a lot of adults play it too
it's impossible to find someone on discord these days

>>83068579
ehhh not really. its fun to make friends on there because you dont need to talk to them all the time, just play with them.
ive found my most friends here

I have like 4 friends and I'm stocked for life
I need a partner, any partner of opposite sex but I know that's not happening. Not a fucking female friend who just wants me to entertain her, a partner

>>83068627
real. I need affection so bad ugh
but since I'm a submissive anxious autistic twink faggot I know no (mostly normal) women are into me

why does everyone leaveee come back
i wanna get drunk ughh

>>83068653
Im in the same boat as you except there arent even any normal women below the age of like 40 in this rural shithole and even then i dont go outside

>>83068834
awh im sorry Anon. i believe in you though!!!
I hope things get better for you

>>83068653
I feel like twinks should have it better, no? at least if you're face is pretty

>>83068847
i guess but most women don't want anxious depressed twinks.
they want the confident suave ones or ones that suck up to them

>>83068873
Being a "twink" doesnt even mean anything to women as its 100% personality that attracts the vast majority of them. You do need to be taller and stronger than them as a prerequisite though but thats not difficult unless you're like 5'4 with health problems problems.

>>83068458
Just added you in disc, accept pls we can talk about vidya.

>>83068873
people want the autistic twink but dont wanna deal with the separation anxiety and menthol illness
>>83068627
if i had even one friend id be so happy

>>83062805 (OP)
>avatarfagging with kylar of all characters
shiggy