>>83065953 (OP)
So much sexuality is really about the mental component and how that plays into erotic taboo, fetish and kink. I think dominating a broken male feels a lot hotter than a woman sending you boobs. A tranny isn't even that into you, you are just someone who wants to use them and they mostly get off on that feeling. Whilst with a woman there are random retarded layers to it.
>>83066224
Erotic taboo, the biting lip that says no but means yes. It builds TENSION. And tension feels great when it is released. The more tension, the more the difference between good and bad.
Masturbate to degenerate filth, feel REALLY GOOD. Cum. Post-nut clarity, feel like shit. The stark difference in extremes between the extreme good and bad is the good feeling.
Fetish and kink are often the winding path people take to feel safe pleasure, even when it feels contradictory. Anonymous sex is safe in terms of reputational protection and worries.. but unsafe in terms of violence, STDs etc. So much of this stuff, humiliation, submission, all fits in that safe paradigm. It is safe in terms of not trying or putting yourself out there or making effort because it is passive, being dominated, used and fucked.