Thread 83066956

What does it even mean anymore?

I feel like it just means, being loud, no monotone voice and obnoxious.

What does it mean to you when people say "get a better personality"?

Like seriously holy,

i take it for myself because the children talk like pretentious faggots

>>83066956 (OP)
I kind of get it because Im extremely cynical and blackpilled but theres not like an actual solution for that.
The only way to change your personality is to fake it until you delude yourself and I'd rather not.

Learn to be charasmatic and be more social. That's basically it . Also it's kinda hollow and empty advice too.

>>83066956 (OP)
do the research

>>83066956 (OP)
>child D: the flute was promised to me by god 3,000 years ago

>>83066956 (OP)
Whatever you're thinking in your head, whether it's appealing or not, convey it louder, clearer, and more often. Invade other peoples space with your presence.

>>83066956 (OP)
Soul. Sounds like something AI would ask. Sage.

>>83066956 (OP)
These goyim stole that flute from my grandpa moshe when he got sent to auschwitz! Give it back right now antisemite.

>>83066956 (OP)
Separate the middle into two
>I came up with the idea of making the flute and used my money to pay for its construction. I paid for it, so I should own it.
and
>I may have been paid to make the flute, but I'm the one that made it after all. Shouldn't I have the full value of my labor?

>>83066956 (OP)
it's obviously a & b

when normies say it they mean "be fake and always be marketing yourself to everyone" they want a sleazy car salesman constantly yapping and assuaging their egos

they actually hate someone authentic

>>83066980
this guy gets it.

>>83066956 (OP)
Personality is just when you treat someone like shit and then gaslight that person so they feel like it's their fault even though you were the one that started it.

>>83066956 (OP)
Just take the flute and run. Anything less would create a situation. Child B shouldn't be so careless.

>>83066987
Only right answer so far

>>83066956 (OP)
Whatever it is you've got, take it to 11, that's your personality
Be it a hateful chud or a fake-chad, take it up to 11 and that's how the wider world perceives you

>>83066956 (OP)
Social manipulativeness

>>83066956 (OP)
What would give me the right to take the flute from the child that made it and give it to someone else?

>>83068427
They're fighting over it because they're stupid dumb retarded children probably fisticuffs and child B might be instigating it esp. if she took resources to make it Child C's could have used

Personality=looks.
Thats the commonly understood meaning at least. But reality is it's like height or race. You can do a lot to change appearance, but your pretty well stuck with your race, and it's about as changeable as personality is. Demoralization agents will tell you personality can be changed through magical thinking and cargo cult shit.
>practice talking to people, downgrade to a worse mobile operating system, start using drugs
>it just werx
>my best friend is 5'2, lives in the sewer, and was born with permanently attached spiders instead of hair + he's incontinent of bowel and bladder
>he used to be incel but then he drank a water and took a pickleball class and now he has more gfs than there are people in China
Personality is like iq. Study all you want but it won't move the needle. Practice for the test and you'll get better at taking iq tests but iq is the same as before, you just managed to invalidate the test you studied. You can memorize all the footballs teams and learn a million variations of "the current climactic conditions in our immediate vicinity is [observation]". But you won't feel the same intense euphoric rush and level of connection that normalfags feel when they exchange apparently meaningless smalltalkisms. You'll always be off on some level. You moved a facial muscle 0.5mm too far/not far enough, the pitch variation fell short of the 1hz increase/decrease they unconsciously expected, your response was 1ms fanher/slower.
Uncanny valley is undefeatable. Commit to two or three stereotypes and clearly display any quirks or abberancies. Pretending to be one of them unnerves them, but you might find begrudging acceptance as long as they know what to expect with you and aren't surprised by anything.

>>83066956 (OP)
i retain ownership of the flute. i pay child b who made the flute some pittance once time to get them to fuck off. i allow child a to rent the flute on a limited term so they can perform with it and pay me from their earnings. child c, having neither money nor skills like flutemaking or musicianship will have to come up with an alternative arrangement if they want a turn with the flute

>>83066956 (OP)
>What does it even mean anymore?
Looks

Don't sweat it. You can't change most of your personality and you can only change so much of your looks

>>83066956 (OP)
It simply means to act differently.

>>83066956 (OP)
Dunno, I'm aware of identity and temperament but not personality.

>>83066956 (OP)
Child B gets the flute because he made it. Simple as. But I would recommend that he let Child A use the flute sometimes in exchange for her teaching him how to play it.

>>83066956 (OP)
I get my coat and go out for a pack of cigarettes

>>83068350
When i take stuff that lowers my inhibition, I've always ended up acting like a retard, more social, but I look at photos I took when I was on x for example and I hae those crazy eyes.

>>83066987
what if my head is either empty or filled with gay self loathing thoughts

People don't say that to me. Not because I have an amazing personality, but because I don't interact with faggots (...outside of this website, that is).

>>83069529
>Child B gets the flute because he made it. Simple as.
It sounds like it was his to begin with, so he should be entitled to do as he pleases with it, including keeping it for himself.

>>83066956 (OP)
B gives it to C in exchange for coitus while A stamps their feet crying about the sanctity and value of art

>>83066956 (OP)
Child B represents the ultra capitalists, Child C represents breeding stock, and Child A represents the skilled technicians. Everyone wanting Child B to get the flute has exposed themselves as a bootlicker of subversive consumerist forces.

>>83066956 (OP)
>What does it mean to you when people say "get a better personality"
It means to be more interesting and pleasant to be around. You sound firmly on the spectrum.

>>83070409
I wish, at least then I'd have an excuse

>>83066956 (OP)
Often, when people speak of personality, they aren't referring to a collection of personality traits but to a persona. From their perspective, characteristics such as a person's history, relationships, or goals make up someone's personality. With the way you worded this, though, it makes it sound like people wish you were more exciting to be around.

>>83070432
Well, then you just need to be more interesting and pleasant to be around.

>>83066956 (OP)
I advance a payment for the flute to child B, child A will play the flute for money until she can repay the loan at a fair 8% interest rate.
Part of the money I make is given to a charity (set up by me, staffed by family members) so that I can write off some taxes. The charity takes its cut and the 20% left is given to child C.

>>83066956 (OP)
Personality is ( looks ) * (your ability to project power) * ( your ability to create social cohesion). If you are funny, sexy, a great engineer, this is all capability. To project this power into a social space means being funny, witty, manipulative inspiring, etc. If you visibly look good while doing this, it acts as a multiplier because looks are associated with long term things - such as health, happiness, etc. They make your capability seem more long term, more true and more believable. Creating social cohesion is leadership but also not pissing people off too much, not making others feel too powerless, getting everyone on the same page, etc.

Each of these factors combined is personality

>>83070657
Being perceived as being funny, witty etc***

>>83070372
and you just exposed yourself as a commie lol

>>83066956 (OP)
Don't worry about it. Some people just don't have enough brain capacity to understand the differences between good and bad behavior, and they definitely will never understand the difference between someone being quiet and someone being loud. They think that these two things are the exact same.

>men and women have the same personalities! trust me bro

>>83066956 (OP)
means you should get away from retards who said something so retarded and focus on getting money

once you get money retards will come crawling back

ignore the retards

>>83070372
By definition, the only way to be a bootlicker in this scenario is if you take away the flute from the original owner and give it to someone else. The literal and only definition of licking boots is that you think a militant government makes the best choices for society.

>>83066956 (OP)
Give it to child be because w*men don't deserve anything good in life

>>83070372
>Everyone wanting Child B to get the flute has exposed themselves as a bootlicker of subversive consumerist forces.
It's not about "wanting" it, it's about adhering to the basic principle of being able to retain one's own property. Child B may very well decide to sell it to Child A, or donate it to Child C, or even put it up his own ass, but the point is that it should be his decision to make. If Child B is not allowed to decide what happens to his own creations OR get any compensation to keep creating them, then he has less of a reason to create them in the first place.

>>83066956 (OP)
Child B could make another flute and then give it to Child C since they never experienced it before
Child A is an asshole, and they should give something equal in value to Child B if they wanted it

what a stupid false trilemma
as if the children cant sort this out themselves and require divine intervention

>>83068339
Free flute! Suck it, children, I'm bigger than you!

brinan

>>83066956 (OP)
It means get a better personality in terms of what you're seeking for, there's no perfect personality or anything of the sort.

For example, to make more friends getting a better personality implies becoming a better listener, learning to trust others, be more proactive seeking conversations, etc..
That's not the only thing in life though, for some things like becoming a top salesman you would do good by stopping valuing honesty so much, to become more skilled at something you might have to learn to be introverted and more focused at the expense of other lower priority things, etc.