Thread 83068955

Do you ever hope to be a parent?

>>83068955 (OP)
No. Not unless the USA takes a drastic turn and becomes a better place to raise children in. I will not pluck souls from the void just so they can grow up to never afford homes and work for technocrats.

>>83068955 (OP)
yeah, but not where I currently live. my ideal is small town America, but I'm white, educated and Christian and they don't let my kind in the US anymore

>>83068955 (OP)
Yes. It was my dream to have 8+ children at one point in time, but as I've gotten older the number has gotten smaller, because I don't want to be at retirement age with several toddlers.

>>83068955 (OP)
>hope
I know I will, man
not now, not in the next 5 years, but some day
I feel like... it's inevitable

>>83068955 (OP)
Why? So my kids can suffer through humiliation from older generations? So they can experience hypergamy? No.

>>83068955 (OP)
no, I hate kids too much to have one myself

>>83068955 (OP)
Every day. But I'm a boring man and you have to be interesting for women to be willing to reproduce with you.

>>83068955 (OP)
Hope? No.
I yearn, I dream, but I never believe there is a snowball's chance in hell.

>>83068955 (OP)
>Do you ever hope to be a parent?
In my 20s, I did. But not anymore.
Even though I never escaped inceldom (apart from some escorts), I still have an irrational fear of ever knocking up a woman. Though my dick feels so dead, and it's so tough to cum, that I really want to bareback a barren foid on the regular, just so I don't have to deal with rubbers. No luck with them either. FML.

No not really, I wouldn't be a good father so I would rather remain alone rather than mess up an innocent kid.

100% as long as I can get a good job and be financially successful. I don't want to bring life into the world without knowing he/she will almost certainly be happy.

>>83068955 (OP)
I am, single dad

hell no i hate kids. i dont hate kids in the sense of just "oh theyre such a hand full ahaha" no. i fucking hate children. keep your subhuman animal away from me lest i splatter his brains on the concrete

>>83068955 (OP)
yeah, it'd be a dream come true
cuz it'd mean I finally found the right kinda gal whos not only worthy, but wishes to be a mum

>>83068955 (OP)
if i dont get to have kids by 30 ill just give up on life.
i likely wont be able to find someone like my crush within the next 10 years tho to be able to have them. so i may as well already admit defeat.
wouldve liked 1-5 kids...
ill just wait til my younger cousins grow up and have kids in 15~ yeara

>>83068955 (OP)
I have never once in my entire life considered getting married or having kids. Why would I want to be some little shit's bitch for 18 years over true freedom?

>>83068955 (OP)
my genes are riddled with schizophrenia, so I didn't want to reproduce. Jokes on me, cause I'll probably end up raising my schizophrenic sister's daughter when my parents get too old. Hopefully the kid doesn't go insane too.

i still need to watch dandy...

>>83068955 (OP)
It would be nice, but I also enjoy the simplicity of only having to take care of myself

the only joy I would get from life is if I had a large family and we all got to live on a farm with self sustainment.
I dont care about money, i dont care about status.
thats the only thing that would make me happy

Dad of 3 boys oldest is 7

Can confirm it's fucking awesome being a dad they are fun to hang out with, they ask me nonstop questions about dragonball z, yugioh, and space

>>83068955 (OP)
I feel like it would be a waste not to pass on my unique mind in some way but perhaps the root of it exists in my niece and my cousins.
At the same time I've been tormented all my life by mental anguish, and I wouldn't wish my suffering on anyone.
I'm considering offering to pay a girl I know money to be a surrogate, she's autistic too and intelligent, and I love her, so any child born between us would be a combination of the two of us which would be wonderful. I doubt she would agree though because carrying and birthing a child is a heavy burden and since she doesn't want to be my gf it would mean giving it up to me, although I'd happily include her in the kid's life and accept her as an actual romantic partner if it came to it.

>>83068955 (OP)
I need a loving wife and 3~ kids ASAP.

>>83068987
>pluck souls from the void
ya it's better to stay resting in the void for now... and just try to make the best of my existence now and disregard all of the worldly pursuits as much as possible. Accepting a life with less responsibility feels so liberating once you actually let go of all the effort it would take to be a GOOD father/provider and you can finally stop worrying about it and just enjoy the moment