Thread 83070266

Robots, i just turned eighteen a few months back. Can you guys give me advice? Financial, emotional, relational, anything. I don't know what to do.

>>83070266 (OP)
avoid this website unironically, avoid all social media like reddit and 4chan , think for yourself, come up with your own opinions

Why not make a line on your arm with something sharp? I'll tell you what - I am well connected and can make sure that ANYONE on the internet sees it. Could literally be andrew tate,elon musk etc. All you have to do for me is draw their digital @name on your arm with something sharp, red colored. I am not scamming you, you should know better. Not many that I give such chances to

>>83070290
Fuck off illuminati

>>83070282
All my friends use instagram and I think I'm looked at as a bit weird for not having one. I don't like Reddit, this website is more honest
>>83070290
Dude...

>>83070266 (OP)
get the hell off the internet and learn to make friends irl NOW or you're fucked for life

>>83070321
I used to have friends, I just can't make them because I'm pursuing a GED this year and don't meet people often. I think I'm pretty good acquaintances/friendly with the cashiers of the stores in my neighborhood. Friends i think aren't possible anymore because you need to have an app for everything

>>83070339
>you need to have an app for everything
nah. you need to find a community to be in, like a club of some sorts. that's how you make connections. do that and you won't need an app other than something to keep in touch. social media apps are shit and you shouldn't use them. if you're concerned about looking weird for not having an instagram profile then just make one, post some random pictures and then uninstall the app.

>>83070358
It's a bit hard for me, I don't really have online or real life friends, I don't where I could meet up with people with similar interests to me, I think it's harder since I believe that third places seem to be dying recently. Idk where I could get with people to a similar community, I've considered getting a library card, but there're not many places that are close and where I could meet people with similar interests. Thanks for giving me an answer though!

>>83070266 (OP)
remember that n*rmies are evil, but you need to go out and hustle and press on anyway, think of it like an RPG where you go out and goblins attack you for no reason, it would be boring without the challenge, go out and grind and skill up and you can accomplish great things

also it is better to own than to be a wageslave, so learn to live beneath your means and save and invest, maybe start your own business if you know what you're doing, even if you don't and your business fails you will learn something and do better next time, obviously don't get involved with multi-level marketing schemes, cryptoscams, gambling or anything retarded

also AI and new technology is going to stir up some shit, so prepare for that, don't get complacent

>>83070266 (OP)
We're in the same boat, anon. What do you plan to do with your life from now on? I'm completely lost.

>>83070422
>also it is better to own than to be a wageslave, so learn to live beneath your means and save and invest, maybe start your own business if you know what you're doing, even if you don't and your business fails you will learn something and do better next time, obviously don't get involved with multi-level marketing schemes, cryptoscams, gambling or anything retarded
Do people get impressed if you've run your business
Are stocks okay
>>83070500
For me, a GED, trade school, and then, I think I don't feel like I've got more options or ambitions.
I don't know who to meet or what to do, feels like technology ruined relationships.
You?

>>83070266 (OP)
>Ask 4chiners for advice
You've already failed, anon.

>>83070528
>GED
Did you drop out?
>trade school
Nice, it's good to learn something in a practical way knowing there's a demand for the supply, besides being faster than a college course.
>You?
I think I'll venture into the field of STEM, certain life scripts like mine already come pre-made lol. If things go wrong I'm gonna become a NEET or something like that
>don't feel like I've got more options or ambitions
do you think you are going to marry someone a day?

>>83070649
>drop out
yup, i'm recovering though. it's tough
>besides being faster than a college course
it's super cheap too, comparatively
>I think I'll venture into the field of STEM, certain life scripts like mine already come pre-made lol. If things go wrong I'm gonna become a NEET or something like that
which one? i hope the best! i guess people like us really are destined for STEM
>do you think you are going to marry someone a day?
I don't know, feels like i'm more fatigued than anything
Probably soon, but dating apps suck, i don't know where i could get with a girl, but I'd settle for anyone really, I think i'm relatively good looking, but I don't know if I could keep up with the costs
Seeing the world now, it's probably going to be a bit hard
You? If i do get with a girl i think i'd go full mormon with ten kids, I don't know

1. Are you a (biological) male?
2. Are you a nerd male/incel in the making?

If you answered yes, then advice from a 30yo guy who's the same. I'll be your dad for the amount of time it takes you to read this:
- World is full liars, scammers and grifters, especially nowadays. Do not trust people's words. Liars are everywhere, everyday. Either withholding information, warping your words or others. Actual Truth is rare and hard to find, unlike what reddit might make you believe. Something appearing as true on the internet/news, doesn't mean it actually is.
- Learn the concept of leverage in business relations. This is important when dealing in the adult world, especially due to the first point.

- Do not trust just any women, especially the ones who make you feel loved fast. Any woman who tells you about how much she loves, you are soulmates etc. is always to be assumed to be a lying manipulative snake unless proven otherwise. This might be hard without getting bitten by the snake in the first place.
- Women are worse scammers than men. Never fall for the gynocentric lie of a "wonderful woman". They hide who they really are.

- Learn about finance and how to invest your money. Look up how indexes such as S&P 500 work. Never keep too much cash if you earn a lot of money. Invest in smart things long term.
- Money makes world go around. Find out how to make money fit based on your potential. Do not be deluded you're the best or smarter than you actually are and find work that you can realistically make money with that you like. Research information on the markets and remember it's mostly a casino.

- Good things only come with a phase of being confused, hard working and persevering through discipline as you acquire knowledge. The reason this works is because over 90% of people are not willing to do it due to being dumb hedonistic animals and drones. Be skeptical of anything that doesn't involve this (ie. ponzi schemes, crypto scams)

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Sadly, I am aware that majority of this won't help you, because you have to experience it yourself to truly understand it. Me saying it... doesn't really matter.

Either way, good luck. World is harder than ever, don't let anybody gaslight into thinking you have it better. You have it different, and in many aspects - worse. Just don't sit down and browse imageboards and video gaming doing nothing all day. You can have fun, just don't overdo it.
Do stuff. Improve. Fight. Action is the true key to success in life, as much luck dictates it, so does action to change.

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>>83070422
Good advice in general

>>83070762
>World is full liars, scammers and grifters, especially nowadays. Do not trust people's words
Yeah, the world seems to be getting worse
>Learn the concept of leverage in business relations
Is it similar to the concept of impact?
>Do not trust just any women, especially the ones who make you feel loved fast.
I have heard stories about this, I'll keep a watch out for them
>Any woman who tells you about how much she loves, you are soulmates etc. is always to be assumed to be a lying manipulative snake
Someone I knew once got with them, they once talked about being SA'd or something alike, she lied a lot so I fear for him
>Learn about finance and how to invest your money. Look up how indexes such as S&P 500 work. Never keep too much cash if you earn a lot of money. Invest in smart things long term.
Is real estate good? I got told often that it's the best
Do you get benefits from the company from investing in a companys stock
>Be skeptical of anything that doesn't involve this (ie. ponzi schemes, crypto scams)
Yeah, you definitely have to look out for a lot of them, I know a lot of people who put money in penny stocks, don't know if they made anything
>Either way, good luck. World is harder than ever, don't let anybody gaslight into thinking you have it better. You have it different, and in many aspects - worse. Just don't sit down and browse imageboards and video gaming doing nothing all day. You can have fun, just don't overdo it.
>Do stuff. Improve. Fight. Action is the true key to success in life, as much luck dictates it, so does action to change.
Thank you! That was really good

>>83070266 (OP)
Do what will be the most fun, and whatever you think is right. Be careful about the obvious traps.

>>83070748
>yup
How did it happen? Just got too tired of normies?
>which one? i hope the best!
Thanks. Honestly, anything involving programming that I can do from home or with minimal contact with other people is fine to me.
>I don't know [...]
Dating apps definitely are useless if you aren't chad. If you plan to pursue a married life, I think the sooner the better, since it means your wife has had fewer men (even though you can still marry someone younger, for example, marrying a 20yo girl being 30, it's still better to be with someone close to your age in my view)
>religionmaxxing
Is it really a good idea? I think it's a bit radical to follow a religion for the rest of your life just because of your spouse.
>You
I'd say I've an average face but due to manletism it would be a bit hard, I don't know if I would manage to be a good male in the sense of protection against other men too. Maybe if I manage to get rich and really have an urge to have children, I can search for a match-maker in some 4th world country in Africa and buy a wife (above 18, obviously), I know it sounds weird but well, it's what happened in the entire human history, marriage wasn't about love back then. I don't think I should care too much about where I'd live after that because generally no one would speak her language and I probably would be responsible for supporting financially her family (all of this is just an extremely hypothetical scenario though)

>>83070994
>How did it happen? Just got too tired of normies?
Long story, normies are normies
>Thanks. Honestly, anything involving programming that I can do from home or with minimal contact with other people is fine to me.
Make sure you go for anything involving servers, or cloud administration, or server development, devops is the way
>If you plan to pursue a married life, I think the sooner the better
Agreed, it'll probably be a waste to not do much with the time we've been given
I have heard of relationships at 37, but beyond that, a partner would just be a bunch of single mums
>Is it really a good idea
It's not that bad, I think you'd just need to read up on the practices, and act the closest, I think ten kids would be fun too honestly
>I can search for a match-maker in some 4th world country in Africa and buy a wife (above 18, obviously), I know it sounds weird but well, it's what happened in the entire human history
Been considering this too, arranged marriages were historically relevant, so, well, it does have a connotation, but it works, since the family would be in on it too
>I don't think I should care too much about where I'd live after that because generally no one would speak her language and I probably would be responsible for supporting financially her family
Yeah, I think those match making practices would usually almost always be tied to religion too. Financially supporting them could be easy, I don't know, depends on the exchange mechanism
I think it's still possible to make matches in the West with Asians though, their family might not be the most accepting, but it's possible

>>83070860
>Is real estate good?
No. That's just a house, price of which will go down over time due to population going down.
Real estate is for boomers. Investing in a bunch of wood and land lmao.

>Do you get benefits from the company from investing in a companys stock
There's dividends.

Stay sober, limit watching slop, watch educational videos, get a bachelors degree in a high demand field like nursing, live below your means, stack money by living with parents until you can outright buy a small starter home, invest in index and mutual funds, don't daytrade, be nice to people, avoid toxic people, be kind to yourself, workout for at least 30 minutes a day, do stretches and core exercise esp for your back, find a girl you like and stick with her.

>>83071082
>Long story, normies are normies
I see, I can't judge you since I thought about dropping out a lot of times too, but somehow I managed to go through it. I already saw some anons saying GED isn't that hard, but study hard to make sure you pass on the first try.
>devops is the way
Understood! I'll take a look on that.
>It's not that bad
Maybe, just be aware of roasties with promiscuous pasts claiming to be tradwives after converting to a religion. Finding a religious woman is easy, finding one who follows the religion strictly is much more complicated. And yes, having 10 children sounds like something really nice if you manage to be a good father, not to mention the amazing part of making them lol
>I think it's still possible to make matches in the West with Asians though
I just think that would be possible if she were the daughter of a very religious family that values marriage as something sacred, something that cannot be separated by law. It would be a big gamble, especially knowing that most western countries have feminist laws and your wife would speak the same languague as Chad from ur cunty, so if she got the ick she could easily divorce and take half of your belongings.

>>83070266 (OP)
34 here
>Always say yes to hanging out when asked
>Build a savings account, don't be stupid with loans, live within your means
>Career and money are nice and help but what matters is people. Making friends, finding love, building connections and bonds, thats what'll actually matter in life.

>>83071458
>thats what'll actually matter in life.
Knowing people matters because it gets you money and labor for free. It gets you jobs. Networking is extremely important (!!!) for business and getting jobs.

So remember that OP, Network as much as possible.