Thread 83073059

I am talking to a black nubian queen and she wants to marry me, what do i do? She doesn't want to date, she straight up wants to marry instantly

>>83073059 (OP)
Had the same thing happen lul

>>83073059 (OP)
She wants your white seed confirmed

>>83073059 (OP)
Is this her? Looks like sza or one of those British black girls with some European thrown in

How do you open with a black girl?

>>83073078
>>83073082
>>83073089
she's a virgin, muslim and she doesnt believe in relationship, said we could date for 2 weeks then marry

>>83073059 (OP)
>>83073109
Run far, far, far away. If you think being an incel is bad, being married to a demanding, crazy bitch is far worse.

How do I know? Guess.

>>83073109
>and she doesnt believe in relationship
Neither do I, and Ive never even met a girl who agrees. Dating is an annoying an exhaustive social activity that everyone has normalized. If two people genuinely and whole heartedly love each other or are just strongly attracted to each other, I say fucking go for it. Why wait and waste months just for disaster to inevitably strike you know? You struck gold man

ask advice from virgin misfits board of course they know everything about women and relationships but have never been in one. maybe only seen women from a distance

>>83073141
Dating just means vetting the other person to see if you're compatible. Jumping into marriage before doing this can be suicide.

>>83073133
I would rather have that any day of the week over an untrustworthy and shady gf, which is all zoomer foids. Easily. I have never been in a relationship where I feel the other girl is even half as committed. In fact, I wake up every fucking 2 hours LIKE CLOCKWORK because I worry about not responding in time or waiting too long, her losing interest, then moving on or onto another guy. It is shark infested waters dealing with zoomer foods and Im eternally motherfucking exhausted

In an ideal world it would be nice to think you can marry this girl but realistically you have to get to know her first. Maybe she will turn out to be nice, but it's also true she could be crazy.

>>83073161
>Dating just means vetting the other person to see if you're compatible
I dont have a need to vet them though. Ik im in the minority with this though

>>83073109
Is she somali? No, dont marry her. Does her family know? The moment her family gets to know about this ...

> Somali anon

>>83073198
Then you're setting yourself up for misery. This kind of attitude makes you a sucker and target for scams for your entire life. Hopefully, once you've been abused enough, you'll eventually figure out why scrutiny is important.

>>83073225
>Then you're setting yourself up for misery. This kind of attitude makes you a sucker and target for scams for your entire life. Hopefully, once you've been abused enough, you'll eventually figure out why scrutiny is important
Not everyone picks shitty girls and needs to play detective like you. Like I said, In in the minority, I know that. I have been through unimaginably horrific relationships. Also, I am not geriatric, I dont fall for scams

>>83073247
I don't understand at all why you wouldn't want to thoroughly vet someone after being in "unimaginably horrific relationships". If you want to get married and then find out she's massively in debt, has terrible family issues, was a massive slut when younger and fucked half the town, already has children she doesn't see anymore, has a crazy possessive ex, is an ex-junkie, etc. etc., whatever myriad other issues she could have, then that's your prerogative.

>Not everyone picks shitty girls and needs to play detective like you
Obviously you don't know they're shitty at first, that's why you vet them, anon. Surely you've spoken to people and they've talked about how their partners hid their negative qualities until they married/moved in together, right? No one deliberately jumps into a dog shit relationship, they realize it's dog shit after they've already committed. If you've actually been in horrific relationships, you'd know that.

But again. Your life. Do as you please.

>>83073059 (OP)
I married a lady the same day as meeting her, when I was in Africa. Still together

>>83073308
I've been wanting to go to africa for sometime but don't want to get kidnapped. where did you go anon? i have a chunk of money saved up but not really sure how to go about it

>>83073308
Lolwut. Nigeria?

Anon, I'm telling you dont do it. In the best case scenario her family will never quite warm up to you, in the worst case scenario they may go ballistic. If youre not muslim there is a high chance things may go wrong. I get that shes pretty, and a virgin, and she is probably a great person too. If you are willing to take the risk thats up to you, but if not, dont meddle with her. Inter religious couples hardly ever make it, unless one leaves their faith. If she's religious, fat chance. What worse is if her family is religious.

>>83073333
No, Angola

>>83073329
Yeah you have to be careful. I was there as part of a humanitarian NGO effort so it wasn't like just one lone guy wandering around. At least not at first, once I was with her I stuck around.

>>83073392
I guess i'll see if i can get my friend group interested in going, harder to kidnap 11 guys than just enough atleast i think. thanks anon