Thread 83077816

I honestly think its better to be lonely than settling for someone you find unattractive or don't "gel" with.

/r9k/ keeps opining that they'd settle for anyone, but I think if an opportunity presented an option you wouldn't settle for someone you dont like.

Its an actual nightmare spending time with a girl you don't like, trust me. It's not worth it just to get your dick wet and get a notch on your belt.

It does feel kind of comfy to use someone below you as a confidence boost until you feel confident enough to try for someone more worth it. Sorry to the men I used lol

>>83077830
I did the same to my ex-gf, we sound like a perfect toxic couple made in hell

>>83077816 (OP)
people, blinded by loneliness, dont realise how truly retarded it is to settle.
if you dont find them attractive at first, youll never find them attractive. if you dont have an aligning goal, itll never work.
someone who wants kids and someone who vehemently doesnt will never work. someone who wants to travel the world and someone who doesnt will never work.
never fucking settle. just dont. youll be putting yourself AND the other person into a shit situation

>>83077862
Yep, know someone like this that is getting married, everyone in the room knows that shit is ending with cheating but for some reason the two won't just break off

>>83077857
>>83077830
you two are perfect for each other but you're both holding out for someone hotter who wont tolerate your shit. the irony

>>83077881
I actually have a hq bf and I already quit I was just reflecting on past wrongs. I did some fucked up shit. Like led on some really down and out guys some were even virgins. I'd show the texts of them pining over me for months to my bf to make him mateguard me more

>>83077881
Learned my lesson, volcel now but flirting with girls in my league is always fun
>>83077893
too obvious you know

>>83077905
Female strats are different than male ones what seems obvious to you wouldn't seem that way coming from your gf

>i'm le sad
>let me mog a bunch loser on the frog website

>>83077893
>confessing to being a garbage human for internet points
>thinks her "bf" is impressed
>will be dumped by him for a slightly newer model next year
>will be back here crying about how men are all the same

>>83077816 (OP)
Yeah I would have to like them at least, my egf wasn't pretty really though and hurt me a lot and I want her to come back so I would settle a lot in return for love and affection

>>83077949
Women are pretty disappointing man

>>83077816 (OP)
You don't gel with anyone because love is built not found.
Want to see me put 26 crayons in my mouth at once?

>>83077949
We are dating for marriage, he is proposing after my little brother's wedding is done next year

>>83077874
Im sure your r9k incel ass knows how to judge a relationship

>>83077816 (OP)
Staying alone is objectively better than being with someone you're not attracted to. More unpopular and controversial takes at 11 everyone

>>83078355
Yes love is built not found. OP here I agree.

But there should be a base level of attraction and understanding or you are building on shit foundations

>>83077816 (OP)
Most people get into relationships simply out of FOMO. I agree that it's better not to give in to FOMO, but I also think men's expectations have become warped thanks to porn and the Internet.

>>83077862
>>83077862
There is nothing wrong with settling. We make concessions all the time in our lives, it doesn't make it not worth living just because you didn't become a race car astronaut doctor. The problem is there are too man people who lack the compassion and empathy needed to make a relationship work. Instead they lament what they think is lacking and poise themselves to monkeybranch again.

>>83078355
at least this person gets it

>>83077816 (OP)
Yeah I did rejecet a girl a while ago because we had nothing in common, I don't want to date just for sex it is pointless.

>>83077816 (OP)
There is a special kind of pain, misery, and agony that comes from being alone, anon. Even if the person you are with is only sometimes good, having no body to even talk with or touch brings its own kind of suffering. Even worse when you can actively see others have what you don't. Envy is matured in such situations.