Thread 12463178

I am unironically afraid of having sex. I don't know how to explain it. I just feel uncomfortable at the thought of having sex with someone (although this feeling does not extend to masturbation). And how can I communicate with a person after I have had sex with him? Like, I had a dirty act with him, too close and too intimate. I just want to close myself off in my little world and fall asleep.

I understand, I'm afraid of sex too and also of kissing

I'm still afraid of sex because I'm afraid of being intimate with people to the point even being touched makes my carapace recoil in disgust
But maybe someone here is normal lolol...

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plus i dont like prolapse porn but thats where u get real deep squish nosies and farting kinda embarrassing ut uhh what im into rly

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>>12463196
Just have sex it's not a big deal.
You'll realize this after your first time.

>>12463202
tbh i just went piss and i noticed how tiny my dick is it's fucking pathetic lole
no wonder i can't get a gf or have sex

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>>12463202
I had it today with a person, who loves me. I also had a positive attitude towards this person, but now I want to peel off my skin (*・~・*)

>>12463213
That's just the initial awkwardness, you're not the first or the last person to feel that way, it'll pass with time.

>>12463202
true..I hope I lose it to a cute boy

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>>12463178 (OP)
Take whatever helps take the edge off (alcohol, weed, mdma, ect.). Have him take it, too, so you don't feel taken advantage of.

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>>12463295
Oh boy, is this the how to become an addict 101?

Oh haha..yea women suck

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do you ever get tired of smellnig your own farts during sex tho or are they JUST that good?? mine are

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>>12463303
I guess that's true. To paraphrase Scott Storch, "I never had a drug problem. Drugs and women? That made me lose my mansion".

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>>12463178 (OP)
you are thinking of having sex with someone who you wouldn't trust with your life and who you don't feel comfortable enough to have loud toilet time around, intimacy and trust comes with time and familiarity there's no real shortcut to getting that with someone you have to build it up over years and when you finally get comfortable enough with them to not care about being naked around them or sharing a shower you can then do sex with them and your bond will prevent you from feeling too ashamed of it to do it
some people see sex as dirty or casual but it's not that for everyone, sex can also be you wanting to make the person who you have strong feelings towards feel good while they want the same end goal, after that the bashful after cuddling would feel good instead of embarassing

>>12464201
why do people need a multi year long bond to enjoy cuddles after sex, says more about that person’s sense of shame tbh

>>12464202
if you don't understand the need to bond to feel safe around the person you're doing intimate acts with it's pointless to try to explain it to you, not everyone is an extrovert who is fine with one night stands and cuddling people they don't have special feelings towards
intimacy is scary, you leave yourself wide open to be hurt and if you don't fear it you've had a better life than most people

>>12463213
he put his bodily fluids into your body

>>12464205
well i kinda understand it, like obviously i wouldn’t just have sex and cuddle with any random person, but if i liked (and trusted) someone enough to have sex with them i don’t see how intimacy is any scarier
sometimes you can try initiate intimacy and see how the other person reacts, if they react in a safe way then you can push it further, you don’t need to wait years for that
even if i did get hurt i could just tell them they hurt me? if they don’t take me seriously then i wouldn’t trust them anymore probably, maybe if this happened to someone a bunch of times they would be scared of ever trying again? idk

>>12464217
some people feel emotions way stronger than others, having someone take a dump on your feelings can lead to suicide in worst cases or make the person depressed and cautious about ever being intimate with anyone unless they're 100% sure the person is trustworthy

why do you think birthrates are plummeting and some men stopped trying all together?

i want to have sex but i dont know how to approach a griller
i want one to just fuck my brains out and dominate me

>>12464225
you need to be attractive to them first, if you manage that you don't need to do anything but not say the wrong things to scare her off

>>12464225
first u will need a brain hole or a charcoal grill! if you need help lighting the charcoal i would recommend that you learn basic skills that humankind has known for millennia and that separate us from the animals you fucking imbecile, you sub-neanderthal iq troglodyte lololololololol

u can teach a man how to have sex but you can’t teach him how to cuddle

if you don't have a natural desire to be close to the person whose holes you're filling you probably won't be "good" at cuddling

>>12464233
Give a man sex, and he will sex for a day. Teach a man to cuddlel, and he will sex for life.

>>12464237
literally this

>>12464236
filling someone’s holes is like the natural outcome of wanting to be close to them, close enough to be literally inside them

i fear sex because i want to keep my virginity as it makes me feel somewhat pure

>>12464246
i don't understand
is there putty involved here
or some kind of plug

>>12464246
it's not even just wanting to feel close to them, it's also wanting them to feel really good and to like you as well

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>>12464256
personally i believe that those things are also natural outcomes of wanting to be close to someone, since for you to be comfortable in their arms is to have them be comfortable in yours

>>12464267
what if you just want to touch dicks with them and then lounge on the couch and eat snacks while watching some anime with them?

>>12464268
the arms are metaphorical but the same idea applies

>>12464271
what if they're straight and you have 0 sexual chemistry with them but you still want to touch dicks with them?

>>12464271
the arms are the dicks

>>12464273
i dunno man

>>12464273
share an onahole together

but for your dick to be comfortable cumming on theirs youll need a bunch of lube probably

using your cum as lube to frot inside an onahole sounds rly romantic tbh

>>12464227
are you a hote griller?