>>16741133 (OP)
Basically the size of a black hole's event horizon (or the black hole itself if you prefer) scales in a linear fashion with its mass.
So if black hole A is twice as massive as black hole B, then it will also be twice as big.
TON 618 is estimated to be between 40 and 66 billion solar masses (the mass of our sun).
And since we've established that its size scales linearly to its mass, that's why it's so huge compared to our solar system.
As others have pointed out, these black holes are mostly empty, except for the singularity which has infinite density.