f26. Question for men and women of /atoga/
Just heard my father and brother (lets call him Mittens, after his dog) in law talking.
We had a family get together, and alot of people came, so I slept in my fathers caravan, I had my window open when everyone had gone to bed, and heard my dad and brother in law talking, went something like this

Dad started
>you had something to tell me Mittens?
sir, I am thinking about leaving your daughter
>You what?
you know I have been sick, right?
>yes
It wont go away, sir.
>Is it that bad?
worse. I dont have about a decade left.
>oh dear god, does "big sister" know?
I dont know how to tell her
>May the devil claim and inherit this situation
(doesnt translate well)

They kept talking for a while. Turns out my brother in law wants to leave my big sister, because he is very ill. And wants her to still have a good age to find someone else and have a family. My father agreed, called him a brave man.

And now it has been 3 days and they are still together. And I am not supposed to know.

Should I tell my big sister? Should I tell my mom? Should I talk with my dad?
Or should I just shut up even when I feel very sad about it? If my big-sister knew that I knew and didnt tell her, what will happen?
And how can anyone keep a secret like this? Dad wtf.