>>33323364 (OP)
I’m a 22 year old male here
I’m 6’2 179 pounds 17% body fat and yet I’m still a virgin.
I believe in god and I don’t contribute to this stupid society so because of that I don’t have many hobbies and many people see me as dull without a personality.
Do you women agree that you have huge egos and this society has absolutely made it 1000x worst, do you agree that you women belong in the kitchen and not in education and certainly not in the working field. I worked with a female captain (she was 35) and I’m a co pilot and she was really dumb and anxious, I corrected her once and she said “let’s agree to disagree” in a super nice voice, you women are so manipulative.

A question or two for femanons, for a (non-porno) story I'm writing

1. Is it physically possible (i.e. can you reach) for a woman to suck her own tit?
3. Would it be worth it? What would it feel like, physically, mentally, emotionally?

>>33323393
1. i have tried and it’s nearly impossible which makes me sad because all i want when horny is to get my tits sucked

>>33323393
Late but: it is impossible for most (young) women, but not physically impossible. It depends not just on your own flexibility but on how malleable your tit is. If you have really droopy breasts down to your belly button then yes, you could pick them up and bring them to your mouth probably. If you have A cups, there's no way you can get your mouth to your nips unless you're also in the circus. Most women I think are somewhere in between, where they can get verrry close but not quite (like the other anon also said), I would compare it (and yeah I tried very hard as a teenager) to trying to lick your own elbow. It seems possible but you can't make it happen.

>Would it be worth it?
No. Our mouth is incredibly sensitive, more so than nipples or really most other bodyparts. Quick test, put your finger in your mouth. Fingertips are hella sensitive but you will still feel your mouth (with a finger in it) rather than feeling a mouth caress your fingertip. This would also happen with your breast. So it would feel more like sucking a nipple (not physically that rewarding) than like having your nipples sucked.

Women?

Far as I can tell, the interior of the vagina is practically insensate. And logically so, since a fetus has to go through there.

People talk about the nerve endings in the clit, but they don't talk about the lack of nerve endings elsewhere. It's like no one wants to say the quiet part out loud.

>>33324012
Small penis?

>>33323364 (OP)
Femanons is it weird if a guy has a fetish for being humiliated? Would you think less of him?

>>33324012
Anon... you seem to have confusion about the clit. What we call the "clitoris", the little "button", is just the external part. Inside the clit swells with arousal and wraps around the vaginal canal. Pic related. The magenta part is what we typically call "the clitoris". But the light and dark blue parts are what swells and hugs the vagina.

You are right, the vagina is the birth canal primarily so it cannot be innately hypersensitive like the head of a penis or the external clit. This is also why women do not typically masturbate by inserting fingers, and feel no arousal inserting a tampon.

However once the clit is fully engorged, it can easily be stimulated through the vaginal walls. Imagine your boner is pressed into tight jeans and a woman grinds hard on it. You would feel pleasure through the tissue. This is the pleasure women CAN feel during penetration.

...however, because young guys tend to be impatient and they all watch porn where foreplay is optional, they typically do not get her horny enough for this. They fuck the woman as soon as she is physically wet enough to, so they are fucking the female equivalent of a semi. It'll always be meh for the woman. Let her wait until she's actually thirsty before she can get it.

What does femanons think of an asexual guy who's not interested in dating or sex

>>33324091
Not that weird. I feel it's fairly common because it's the reversal of a lot of pressures guys tend to feel - to be in control or at least seem it, to underreact, to never act desperate, to be strong.

>Would you think less of him?
Provided I don't find out about his turn ons because he overshares (or worse, starts playing into them in public), no. It is pointelss to judge people for what they like in bed. It is as arbitrary as judging them for weird food combinations they enjoy.

>>33324149
Good for him that he knows what he wants, or at least what he does not want, and doesn't feel the need to hide it either.

>>33323364 (OP)
What is a woman’s advice for an antisocial, mentally ill man who hates his physical appearance and believe women do as well? I keep hearing the same kind of advice from guys that kind of misses the point so I want to hear what women think.

All I ever really wanted was to be desired and admired by someone. But repeated terrible events and years of social isolation combined with the genuine belief I am unattractive as made me understand that it’s impossible at this point and on some level I feel that I’ve become misanthropic as a result knowing the circumstances of my birth and genetics made me undesirable in the eyes of others no matter how much I struggle.

So what do you think I should do? I assume I shouldn’t try to bother getting a girlfriend since at that point I’m just dragging them down with me. Maybe I should just turn to prostitutes and leave other people alone. My only real goal anymore is a education and career since I know with money I can atleast have some agency.

>>33324158
For me I have a bit of an embarrassed naked male fetish and I'm still straight. Would that be weird for you?

did I go too far in bullying my daughter? I used AI to make a fake Sanrio theme park with ads and rides and getting to meet Hello Kitty, then I made a bunch of fake news articles about how it was destroyed by a meteor. Daughter has been crying all morning and my wife is pissed but I think this was hilarious. Women care to weigh in? I mean in perspective compare to some of the horrible stuff you always say your dads did I feel like I'm a saint.

>>33323413
>>33323878
Thank you, ladies. It may actually serve my story better for her to be disappoiinted

>>33324176
NGL because the reflex to accuse men of being gay or not being straight enough is so active in many, I would expect some women to not understand or find it funny. Personally I don't care at all. For one thing I am fine with (dating) bisexual men so there is no incentive to make incredibly sure someone has no "real" attraction to men in the first place. Secondly it's not like this situation is unheard of. A lot of women get off on lesbian porn, not because they're into women but because it is the genre that shows more kissing and romantic touching, and they also don't really care that it's two girls. Just to name an example. Or they watch porn they really enjoy watching but they would not want to be in the shoes of either person doing the scene.

Sexuality doesn't have to make "sense" it just is what it is. Your fantasy/kink in itself is nothing remarkable - shame, surprise, vulnerability feature in lots.

>>33324181
Assuming this isn't a shitpost, you are mostly an asshole for seeing your prank made your daughter incredibly sad and still finding it hilarious. If she is young enough to take your AI generations for gospel then I also don't see how this joke would have ever been fun(ny) for anyone but yourself.

It's like playing board games with kids and insisting on playing your best because that way they can get used to real life or whatever. It'll be a short time until your kid no longer enjoys playing with you.

>>33324169
I know this is advice that is a lot easier said than done, but the tl;dr of your post is you are feeling insecure, you are having lots of insecure thoughts, and the more of those thoughts you have the worse you feel to the point where you are almost ready to just bow out of life.

The only way to break this cycle is by having actual experiences and putting yourself in a position where people can prove you wrong and surprise you. Let reality prove your ideas about reality wrong.

>who hates his physical appearance and believe women do as well?
T'is the way. Anyone who hates their looks will have a very hard time even entertaining the idea that others might not. That is what insecurity and shame ARE.

Bodies are weird. Everyone has insecurities about their body. Even the 10/10 girl you see walking around all fit and young with perfect proportions, worries about her labia or how she can never shave as cleanly as shown in the commercials or whether her boobs are big enough or cellulite or that weird mole that someone might find disgusting?

These insecurities are not just human, they are also a result of our loneliness, time and energy to overthink, mental issues and/or low self esteem. If the brain wants, we can -always- find something wrong with us, physical, mentally, any way.

The thing is nobody has ever fallen for anyone for being flawless. It is enough to see something in them you really like. Most of the time that's not even a trait like eye color or jawline - it's the look in their eye, their smile, how they move, something in their vibe.

I would not go looking for a gf right now because it seems you are too stuck in negative thinking to have a real chance at dating as it is. Try to focus on enjoying your own company, making new friends, working on your issues, trying new activities/experiences. Try thinking less of yourself and feeling more. Leave dating for after realizing that while you have a hard time seeing your own charm, others don't.

aboba

>>33324259
I don’t want to start whining or complaining about lookism but I also have put myself in a lot of social situations and nobody has ever proven me wrong in fact they usually just prove me right.

The main physical insecurity I have is my height, I live in Scandinavia so at 5 foot 8 I’m very firmly short (adjusting for averages I’d be on the same level as a 5 foot 6 man in the us). in real life people have mocked me for my height, called me a midget, told me I have a napoleon complex whenever I’ve been to extroverted and I constantly get told by people that my achievements are “compensation”. (Though I think the rest of me isn’t especially attractive either even though I try to keep fit to prevent myself from being even worse.)

What really solidified the idea that I am truly unattractive was just browsing women’s forums and dating discussions and seeing how women in the US which is shorter on average considered anything under 5 foot 10 short and undatable and how callous they were about it too just plainly insulting men who where short.

I really want to break out of this thinking and believe you because I don’t want to believe there is a fundamental ugliness to me but it’s reinforced everywhere irl, online, in media or even just by the fact I have to look up at the average guy. It’s just a inescapable fact of a gentic flaw and I just don’t know how to see it in any other light.

>>33324384
>I don’t want to believe there is a fundamental ugliness to me but it’s reinforced everywhere irl, online, in media or even just by the fact I have to look up at the average guy
What you mean is: you see your fears confirmed all around you. Right? Because you also see different things. You must at times see couples where the guy is shorter than the woman or even just not as tall as expected - but you don't remember those the same way. You must speak to women who have to look up to you at least sometimes, even if just foreign women in your country - but that does not impress you the way having to look up does.

I am not going to try to argue that you are wrong about being tall being next to universally appealing for women. It is just that this info is not as relevant for you as it seems. All that matters for you is if you are still able to make good friends and fall mutually in love. And I really see no reason at all why this would be impossible just for being shorter.

>in real life people have mocked me for my height, called me a midget, told me I have a napoleon complex
People are assholes a lot. Again though you are not unique in this. One of my friends from high school got mocked for being short, chubby, having a remarkably full ass for a guy and to top it all off he had a short dick. He was never as popular with women as more conventionally attractive friends, but he dated and just became a father with his girlfriend who is both younger than he is and incredibly cute. The thing is, he never would have accomplished that if he had given up over the taunting and the realization he did not fit the image of someone's dream man.

It's like applying for jobs. Even if you realize your CV is not ideal for the position, you can never start downplaying yourself, then it truly is over. You have to talk yourself up, believe in your strengths, believe they won't be sorry for giving you a chance, and then you could have a shot.

>>33324384
nta, but I've really handled a lot of my self esteem issues by hanging out with Indians, like imagine instantly being the tallest, most attractive, strongest, and smartest guy in your friend group. There are these guys called the Brahmins, I think they're like some kind of 1980s Bully caste or something in Indian culture, they always come try to pick on my jeets and I have to chase them off, but they're even wimpier than normal Indians and way dumber, like you clap and they run away babbling in Hindi, what you do is stand up to a few of these Brahmin characters when they're trying to get lunch money or whatever from the other Indians and the other Jeets worship you, which is kind of fun.

>>33324384
>>33324413
If your tone/attitude is something like "I'm aware I'm probably not what you want", people will believe you, you will confirm all their worst thoughts about you.

Do YOU feel you could make an amazing partner for someone? If not, work on that first. Height attracts, but ultimately in a relationship it's not what catches people's attention but what makes them stay. If you believe you are a good person, a loyal person, an honest person, a decent listener, someone willing to make an effort to learn to get along better with someone else, someone who can make others laugh and is happy to be included in fun, someone who can make a woman feel beautiful and loved - then you have what women want and frankly if a woman cannot even consider you because of a superficial trait, yeah it hurts but it's also fucking sad FOR HER. You need to reach a place where you can feel enough self-respect that whiile you might mourn missed/less opportunities, you do feel that conviction inside that a woman misses out on something good if she is not interested in you.

Everyone is hugely attracted to confidence and this is another factor to consider. Maybe you have known people who were visibly not at ease in their own skin. If someone makes them a compliment, they pull a cynical face or are quick to argue how shitty they are. They are quiick to be worried a joke was made at their expense. They make "self-depricating" jokes that make people feel uncomfortable because you can tell they're not jokes and this person just really does not like themselves and is airing it currently.

Someone with an aura like that, makes people want to avoid them (or argue them for a bit then give up and avoid them). Even if it's a lot more subtle, people can usually tell when others are not happy in life - their eyes lack a spark, their voice is more dull, their eye contact less interested and open, less intense.

>>33323364 (OP)
So you're not going to tell newbies what ATOGA stands for? Not going to link to the previous thread? And people complain about the rules posters....

>>33323393
>Is it physically possible (i.e. can you reach) for a woman to suck her own tit?
It depends on the size and consistency of the breast. If you have very large - and especially large and saggy - tits, then it's possible.

>>33324384
>>33324413
>>33324425
It is next to impossible to judge from your own lived reality, from "inside" basically, whether people that shun you or don't notice you do so because of perceived flaws like your height - or because your aura is just kind of depressed. Talking to women in the total assumption they will not find you attractive and you should not find them attractive, also gives a wholly different vibe than if you are talking to them actively excited to find out whether or not they like you.

You mention the rudeness online. I am not American either and will readily concede it has baffled me too how fucking rude (some) women can be in online dating. But realize as a woman if I really want to, I can easily find the same. If I browse /r9k/ for a few hours, or even /adv/, and notice all the things they say women should be or shouldn't be, it would take me no time either to conclude that I'm not what men want.

Those voices existing does not mean it is a majority. It does not mean every single voice is right about their own feelings and will never change their mind. Some of those voices come from being guarded and angry rather than sincerely desiring something (e.g. women often throw in hurdles like making a guy go through a lot of effort, in an attempt to lose fuckboys that are looking for easy sex).

Long story short - you feed your insecurities by reading those things when it is very hard to judge how seriously you should take them. And honestly even if they were right 100%, it still would only make you less proud, less confident and relaxed, and less appealing to have those voices in your head while interacting with a woman.

I also unironically agree with the anon saying hanging out with Indians helped for him. It can be very easy to hyperfocus on those comparisons you "lose" and ignoring those you would "win". Seeking out a social circle where the comparisons are different can help keeping an overall larger perspective.

>>33324384
Very last post from the "OP". I realize this is just hopefully inspirational ranting. The thing is the point I am trying to make is hard to make to someone who does not have the lived experience. Unless you use a bunch of examples, it easily boils down to
>just ignore it
>nobody's perfect
>just be yourself
which is all fine but only self-explanatory to the people who do not actually need that advice.

But the fact that it is harder to explain or sell in words, does not change that it is the truth that the most meaningful relationships happen despite the trivial traits/characteristics and not because of them.

Also I did not lead with this bc I realize hearing a single "well actually" is pointless or even tiring, but I have to say I am a woman who actively prefers a guy to be around my own height - we do exist. I do not like having to look up to people, it makes me feel like a child. It is frustrating to me not being able to cover my lover's full body. I am a big fan of hugging and making out and neither is comfortable standing up if you have a big height gap. That's not even going into spooning or 69. I also think men of average height or below just tend to have more beautiful proportions: not lanky, more compact.

Granted I also do not care for a lot of the typical fantasies like being picked up and carried or being thrown around in the bedroom. But my country is not unlike where you are and I would wager the women in your country/neighboring countries also tend to have less desire to feel like a miniature princess than the average US woman.

Try to own anything/everything you've got and it will appeal to people more.

>>33324427
There's an active ATOGA, this one got abandoned, probably for not having all the proper introduction shit.

>be me
>have friend I know
>we don't share any friends, just know each other
>go to hang out with friend
>later they invite me to their apartment
>their roommates are there, whom I don't know
>they all start talking about events I wasn't there for and people I don't know
>don't even share any interests, just talking about degen stoner shit.
>just sat their awkwardly with nothing to add
>eventually just leave, day ruined

Whose fault is this?
Is it my fault for even agreeing to go in in the first place? My fault for being socially retarded?
Or is it their fault for putting me in that situation?

>>33324466
Classic. Happened to me so often in college. It's not really your fault, just realize if you can't really talk to them about anything you should respectfully dip.

>>33324466
I think yours in the sense that if you knew your friend lived with roommates, him suggesting you go over to his place should've made you realize you might not be alone with him there.

Also realize that while these situations are awkward and you might really just not have been compatible with his roommates, chances are your friend thought he was doing you a favor by including you and having you interact with new people. After all, if one of his roommates had been a cute girl you instantly loved, you would have been thankful as fuck to him, right? So it is pointless to resent him too much for doing this. It is a lot easier to make new friends or date through friends than to make every single friend individually on your own efforts.

I think in general if you are invited over to someone's house you can only expect to potentially (have to) interact with everyone living there. If you went to his family home knowing he had a sister, you wouldn't have been surprised if you had ended up hanging out with the sister too. Roommates are like that. It's their home and do not expect them to not be home or to leave you alone if you come into their home.

>>33324413
>>33324418
I appreciate the advice but I don’t really get it. When I see some really short Indian working some low paying job like a cleaner I just feel pity and sympathy for him and no better about myself. In fact seeing people like that just makes me more misanthropic when I think about how easily the circumstances of my birth could have been even more depressing and unbearable, how I’m just one step away from being untouchable.
>>33324425
> Do YOU feel you could make an amazing partner for someone? If not, work on that first
I don’t and that more stems from the psychological issues I mentioned. I’m not going to trauma dump but I had a very troubled family/upbringing making it deeply difficult to feel loved because even the parts of my family that were well intentioned were rife with mental issues themselves, Followed by a frankly horrific medical issue that put me in the hospital at 13 and kept me there for about a year and half. These two things needless to say left me completely psychologically ruined, and I feel like the realisation that what I’d truly need to heal is some kind of love since my family failed me there but to be loved as a adult I’d need to be a good partner and what I’d need to be a good partner is to heal in some way.

I’m stuck in this loop of isolation and pain that keeps me from being the person I’d want to be for someone else. And being unattractive on top of that just makes me lose all hope for any kind of resolution.
> frankly if a woman cannot even consider you because of a superficial trait, yeah it hurts but it's also fucking sad FOR HER
in the end I can’t help but feel that people who are or are with superficially appealing people are just happier than the mental car wrecks like me who can’t offer anything. That’s why I end up fixating on money as my only saving grace and even through I was born into a lower income family I’m working 12 hour shifts while studying hoping for something better.

Do you think he will be punitively sodomized? Are they going to tie him to a slab and rape him with sex toys?

>>33324012
The Department of the Interior of the Vagina is being funded. Due to Reductions in Force from the Trump Administration. Sorry, bro.

>>33324511
>When I see some really short Indian working some low paying job like a cleaner I just feel pity and sympathy for him
Right but that is probably also because you make a lot of assumptions about him. How would you feel if you saw the really short Indian working a shit job and suddenly being picked up by his lovely and visibly loving partner? Suddenly you would no longer be filled with pity right? That's what happens when you actually get to know people beyond seeing them in passing, you could be surprised.

I am not surprised at all by what you allude to regarding your background. It is this way 9/10 times. Only lack of secure attachment or no(t enough) love in childhood make people walk around with a hole in their sense of self, their heart. It is not caused by flaws, it is not even caused by disfigurement. As long as you are loved just as you are you can learn to accept yourself just as you are. I can also imagine that being such a sensitive age and then in the hospital for (!) a year and a half, it must have made you feel really different and alienated from your peers. So much happens in that time span for someone that age. Kind of like you had a false start in life because right when you were supposed to discover yourself, you were benched and had to watch things pass you by.

I agree with you that you need to heal. You can heal if you can make yourself mourn what you missed out on or what hurt you in the past. A wound that never healed properly needs to be re-opened before it can heal better. But if you are used to ignoring your emotions or downplaying them, inviting them to overwhelm you is a learning process for sure. Professional help can really help there, or even reading accounts of others going through similar journeys in their own life.

>in the end I can’t help but feel that people who are or are with superficially appealing people are just happier
I can imagine this, but in my experience it is not true.

Should I comment to groups of women wearing sandals about how I want to fuck their toes? And jizz on the soles of their feet?

>>33324535
>>33324542

>>33324511
>>33324540
Also because people tend to view being superficial as a personality trait when it is more an inability - to face themselves, to go deeper, to feel their own emotions. A lot of superficial people are simply not willing to live their life according to the deeper stuff - because it's harder.

It is only the deep stuff that satisfies us as human beings, though. Feeling connected, feeling inspired, losing yourself in an idea or another person or nature. Nobody on their death bed has ever gone "you know, sixty years ago I was the hottest chick EVER" because... who cares? People are remembering what it was like to be alive - things they saw they found beautiful, moments of grace between people, warmth. Everything else starts mattering less and less the closer you get to death (either literally or just in the sense of realizing how finite life is).

FWIW I work in the mental healthcare field so this if nothing else I feel very confident about. By the way, there actually ARE very old people who keep bragging about superficial stuff like them having been a Big Boss at some point or really athletic. Those are the people that keep spouting the same thing like a broken record because they have zero clue how else to talk to people, because they have nothing else to say. Because they don't know how to listen and cannot talk unless they are trying to show off and impress. It is sad. It is human life mostly wasted, honestly. Those are not people you should ever pity. Though I know the youthful and more or less happy ones can make it seem fun from the outside looking in - that's true.

Women, can you put your boob in your mouth?

Are autistic women close to manic pixie dream girls?

>>33324535
Calm down, JH.

>>33324549
Sometimes in elevators i bet they are

>>33324549
I guess I'm somewhat like that but with more melties and stuff. I mean like there's a lot more negatives to it.

>>33324554
Is a meltie just any sandwhich where the cheese is melted?
Sounds good

>>33323393
Yes and no not really it doesn't really feel like much

>>33324555
... yes. Autistic women are known to love those.

>>33324425
> Everyone is hugely attracted to confidence and this is another factor to consider
But how can I achieve confidence if life has just repeatedly beat me over the head that I’m worthless in every sense of the word and even my struggling and trying to not be worthless still measures up to less than what people want from me. I really want to be confident but I don’t how I would conjure it out of thin air.
>>33324435
I know you’re completely right on not assuming I’m unattractive but it’s just so hard to ignore that voice in my head reminding me of all the things people have said to me or written about short guys online. I also can’t help but feel people are just more honest online, atleast even expressing these kinds of things and seeing the thousands of likes that comments like that get just shows that even if it’s not a majority a lot of people still agree with these things. I know reading these things just ruin me even more mentally but I don’t know what to believe anymore, I just feel like the only consistent thing I can feel through both online and real life is that people are generally cruel or uncaring and that I am right to be a misanthrope.
>>33324449
I do appreciate the idea that there are women out there who might prefer guys their own height but like you said the almost universally desirable trait is tallness.
>>33324540
I mean that’s true I wouldn’t pity him as much but also knowing just how people view him on social level is what makes me misanthropic. I feel like it goes without saying this hypothetical Indian cleaner is not the ideal in a western society but most of the supposed flaws society holds him against are just facts of how he was born, besides possibly the cleaner part but even that can often be a result of poor upbringings.

This kind of extreme focus society has on inborn traits is what makes me so misanthropic. Being held in a lower social status just on the basis of being born “wrong”

>>33324549
Manic pixie is relative, I think for most not really. The reality is pretty boring

>>33323393
If she's big enough yes but most likely not the nipple. She probably wouldn't get anything out of it but the guy would like it.

>>33324558
Who wouldn't?

Why do women do multi post answers so often?

>>33324567
wtf is that
>>33324568
i do multipost answers a lot if there's a lot of interesting stuff to respond to

>>33324568
Because theres like ten dudes to one of them. Its like a beer festival or a party I threw.

>>33324572
nta... that's a beaver, anon...

>>33324572
Its a beaver.
Its daming the doorway out of instinct.

Cats be cute or something idk. They seem cool

>>33324577
>>33324578
ah. thanks.

>>33324568
If I did a single post for each thing I wanna answer we'd hit the limit fast.

>>33324580

>>33324581
Are they not very well known where you live? They're pretty often around Canada.

>>33324585
lol the kitty looks so bewildered. He don’t know what fire is

>>33323393
possible but not really arousing

>>33324540
It’s really hard to even think about my childhood and spine thing. I can’t really ever fully speak to what it’s done to my psyche but I can definitely say that I’ve always struggled immensely to relate to people.

To elaborate a bit more the spine thing was a cyst that was slowly crushing my spine over that year and half. I’m lucky to lead a fairly normal life physically with only mild discomfort due to the metal/fusion in my spine but I can’t really explain how that pain wore on my psyche fully. Combined with the fact I had so little stability in my family I don’t know if can heal at all even with professional help (which I’ve tried) and that’s one of the reasons I think of myself as kind of a lost cause since the only thing I think could heal me is the affection I’d wanted then but I also understand that as a adult I can’t get affection unless I manage to become valuable.
>>33324545
I absolutely agree with you. In reality I’ve always cared about art or movies or books and just learning in general, so I see what you mean about deeper emotions mattering more.

But in the end I can’t help but feel that these emotions and thoughts are not enough for a human to live off. What does it really matter compared to being hot/rich/charismatic enough that I could be loved and held for a while. My thoughts and feelings and all the love I have for art and music and the passion I’d like to think I have for the world even if not the people in it are not enough to replace years and years of pain and loneliness.

in fact I suppose that’s kind of what I’m striving for now with just relentlessly studying and working all the time so I can hopefully find some comfort if I have money. I don’t know if that will ever make me happy but it’s all I can really think to do with my life now.

>>33324568
because they get so many (you)s and questions and who tf solves a captcha each time or waits for the timer just to not pack it all in one post?

>>33324546
>Women, can you put your boob in your mouth?
I can lick my nipple

>>33324549
>Are autistic women close to manic pixie dream girls?
No, that's a very harmful stereotype. But tbf, I love Andy in Parks and Rec, and he is the himbo flipside to the MPDG.

>>33324568
>Why do women do multi post answers so often?
Because I hate cluttering threads with multiple posts, especially when I have to wait 60 seconds in between them.

>>33324578
Turtles on tiny skateboards is something I never knew I needed in life.

>>33324602
What the hell is this image

White people, have you ever personally experienced racism?

>>33324612
no not really tbqh.

>>33324612
There was some small stuff when I went to Japan for a summer.

>>33324612

>>33324622
didn't he get raped in the ass

>>33324612
Yeah, but I'm not from a white country

What's the most hurtful thing anyone has ever said to you irl?

>>33324612
Yes. Lots of people made fun of me for being too white.

>>33324621
But I've been told japanese women lusted over white foreigners...

>>33324630
"Don't take it personally, but I hate you."

>>33324623
No, /asp/ and /pw/ just literally cannot stop thinking about men getting sodomized

>>33324630
My mom saying she wishes I was never born

>>33324633
I mean, don't get me wrong, it wasn't really overt, more like curiosity and places I wasn't allowed to go and that type of thing but I guess that still counts.

>>33324612
I went to a 99% urban black school, so yes

>>33324630
A guy once told me I should legit get a breast reduction. I mean, maybe I should, but that's not something you tell someone, right? :/

>saying oh my god, oh my god, oh my fucking god, whilst cumming
Is this normal moid behavior?

>>33324560
>I really want to be confident but I don’t how I would conjure it out of thin air.
This is a misunderstanding that implies confidence is built on achievement or acknowledgment, having arguments for why you would be special or at least average.

Real pride and self-respect come from respecting yourself as a person. You would not respect someone else for being tall - you would respect them for being honest, dependable, interesting/intelligent, respectful. Self-respect is valuing yourself for reasons like that. It is earned by setting goals and achieving them, by noting your own progress, the ways in which you are a good person (someone who practices what they preach, someone with integrity, someone who strives to do right by others). It comes from knowing your own emotional resilience.

If you have always respected yourself very little, it is not surprising this is also what you found in others. People even subconsciously seek out the company of those that confirm our ideas about ourselves - if you are cynical and thinly filled with self-loathing, you will not avoid people that shit over you, because that's just life for you. And being around people that shit over you, is constantly wordlessly communicating to yourself that this is what you can expect or even deserve, so it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy where you are around people that lower your self-esteem further.

It is too much to ask of yourself to expect that you can just forget your negative convictions and experiences. This is why there is no way around to sooner or later exposing yourself to experiences that make it easier because they do not adhere to your own expectations. Even if those are initially just platonic interactions.

>I know reading these things might ruin me (..) but I just don't know what to believe
Let me ask you: does it matter? Say you only had one leg. Aside from disturbing fetishists, that would be a disadvantage for every single person.

>>33324642
I once overheard my mother saying she wanted to abort me but chickened out. That's why I'm against abortion nowadays.
It's crazy how media conditions us to think women are empathetic and caring when that couldn't be further from the truth.

>>33324654
should have gotten an abortion

>>33324655
Thank you for providing an example of what I said :)

>>33324656
thank you for providing an example of what I said

>>33324657
Thank you for providing an example of what I said :)

>>33324658
thank you for providing an example of what I said

>>33324560
>>33324652
Would it help your love life if you read up daily on how much people value their partner being able-bodied? Or would it help you more to protect yourself against that and feel happier and more confident as a result? Which would help more to attract the woman able and willing to overlook your disability?

If even in such an extreme case it would be better not to seek out such upsetting things, why would that not apply to your situation?

>like you said the almost universally desirable trait is tallness.
True, but there are many other almost universally desirable traits. Youth is a big one and everyone loses that sooner or later. But then again most people very happy with their partner would not say this person ticks off every single box they like or even value. It is just their favorite, the best person overall, beyond qualifications "on paper".

>knowing just how people view him
You are not wrong, it IS sad that many people judge quickly, harshly and superficially. But the less you do it yourself, the more easy it will be to A) not live in this reality yourself and B) feel some wonder and pity for the people that do.

>>33324661
Thank you for providing an example of what I said :)

>>33324664
thank you for providing an example of what I said

>>33324642
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

>>33324665
I really want to keep going but filfthy jannies will probably ban us both for spamming if I do.

Can people in wheelchairs have sex?

>>33324670
idk

>>33324669
reasonable, good fight

>>33324669
also, that webm is funny af

>>33324594
I hear you on it being hard to describe. FWIW my mother struggled with severe medically unexplained fatigue for years in my childhood, with many days where even dressing herself was too much. I know it really changed her, it made her much more spiritual (not religious just sort of aware of how much of the daily grind is ultimately pointless and just pushing paper around in one form or another). It is not usually acknowledged much in medical discourse but it is only natural that prolonged physical suffering or really any kind of impairment also shapes you emotionally/mentally and comes with an emotional/mental toll too.

If you are willing to explore whatever you do feel enough, even just on your own, you -will- develop more clarity on what happened to you inside. It's like your eyes needing to grow used to the darkness, not seeing anything or only seeing faint outlines is the start of seeing more - if you can bear to stay with it despite the vagueness and uncertainty. That is (an important form of) introspection and it can play a vital role in your general well-being.

>lost cause
Such a thing is not really possible merely based on what happened to you. Some people are lost causes but it is because they themselves truly do not believe they can change and that makes it impossible. In reality there are people who have lived through things that would make you weep just to see them written out, and they can continue to find life worthwhile. There is no end to the potential for growth, really. People are used to thinking of our bodies as either working, working with issues or being defective (for example). But even healthy people will have weak spots, damage, flaws in how they are designed. Being healthy is not about not having anything "wrong" with you, it's about the whole working well and working together well. It is the same for emotional well-being.

>>33324596
I'm not sure how just assume that will help the desire for babies
Women won't actively have children unless they want children more than anything else in the world
Career ambitions will hinder most desires for a kid

>>33324594
>>33324683
A healthy person is one with capacity to enjoy life, to connect, to relate meaningfully to the world around them. Not a person without dysfunctional sides or without bagage.

And to again use a physical metaphor: say your knee joint was damaged and hurt easily. It would help to fix/replace your joint. But it will also help to strengthen the tissues and muscles around them so the hurt part is supported more effectively. It is the same with trauma: people often think they need to soften or forget what happened, while investing in your foundations (by processing your emotions and being kind to yourself) often means you are able to carry what happened and that makes whatever happened literally bearable.

>these emotions and thoughts are not enough for a human to live off
You are right, but these kind of emotions and the openness to these emotions is what creates meaningful moments and intimacy. Without it, a one night stand would also be meaningless and not even memorable. Ticking certain boxes would make it easier to meet people you have a shot with at experiencing intimacy, but it wouldn't be a natural result of it, you would still run into situations where technically all the ingredients are there but you don't feel it.

Being able to share your deepest feelings with someone else is the closest we can get to not being lonely for a moment. And again that is not exactly a given just because you are technically close with someone. A real, spontaneous heart to heart with a complete stranger is more intimate than disconnected sex with a stranger. I am saying this as encouragement to not be too quick to feel like every couple you see walking around has everything you crave - they don't. A lot of them are still searching for it.

Money won't make you happy. Sorry anon but that's just what it is. It is good to have a strategy somehow that you feel comfortable with. But nothing can replace connection.

girls

If a girl had some threesomes before, in your point of view does that devalue her or make her used goods? There is a girl in my friend group who has done multiple threesomes in her past. But now she’s dating a good guy and I’m debating telling him.

>>33324705
>But now she’s dating a good guy and I’m debating telling him.
Well there's multiple layers.
She's getting something out of not telling him if he doesn't know for some reason.
But why do you need to sabotage her, what do you get out of making sure she doesn't have a "good guy"? Why do you feel the need to devalue her?
Even if she's used goods, what's it to you?

>>33324716
Because when I think about it. If I was him, I would hope someone would tell me. I know she hasn’t told him, because I asked her and she said it’s not his business. Which is funny, because she told her social circle about her threesomes, but won’t tell her new boyfriend

>reading at 6am
Just because someone figured me out, doesn’t mean I can’t encourage anorexia anymore <3

>>33324705
Less a question of value/used goods imo, and more - do you know and respect this guy? Are you sure she didn't tell him? Would he have never been with her if he knew? If yes to all three, I'd tell him. I'd want to be told.

>>33324705
I wouldn't tell him simply because you don't know, first of all, that he doesn't already know and if he does and is fine with it, implying to him his gf is worth less because of it will make him angry.

It is also possible (and imo more likely) that he does not know, he does not like knowing, but he also feels it's not serious enough to actually be a legitimate dealbreaker and as a result he would have preferred not to know. In that case you are the one causing issues that were not necessary (assuming your friend group isn't the kind where he would find out anyway).

I think many young guys would see it as a devaluing and in that sense it is. Personally though I do not think it's really important. A lot of young people do impulsive sexual things that do not necessarily reveal some deeper truth about their character. A threesome is something lots of young guys push for and it makes some women really insecure, like you're no fun in bed if you're not open to it. They are a really common fantasy for both men and women.

>>33324176
faggot

>>33324654
Yeah, but imagine her saying it to your face as a child. And not in the "I almost aborted you" way, but in the "if I could go back, I would have aborted you" way.

>>33324667
Yeah

>>33324670
>Can people in wheelchairs have sex?
Yes, depending. Just because they have no function in their legs doesn't mean the same applies to their genitals. I know plenty of paralyzed women that still have sex.

>>33324705
>If a girl had some threesomes before, in your point of view does that devalue her or make her used goods?
No, and this is a very male perspective. Not all sex is good sex, people change, etc. If they're both happy, that should be all that matters.

Personally, I don't think you should ever ask your partner's sexual history unless you're fully prepared for the outcome.

>>33324736
Just read your other post that you are sure he does not know. I can see why you are tempted to tell him. You can, just be prepared there's a risk whether or not the relationship survives, both people will be angry with you. (Yeah that's not that reasonable for the guy if he does care, but people often get unreasonable in highly emotional situations like these and "don't shoot the messenger" is a saying for a reason, people do often have that urge.)

As for it being funny she tells her friend group and not her boyfriend, that's not really uncommon as friends also won't care as much what you do/did or do/did not do. A guy is also likely to be more open with his friends about hot girls he fucked than his girlfriend.

>>33324612
Not directed at me or anything personally threatening, but the obnoxious "white male" shit is everywhere.

>>33324734
What’s her social media so I can try to weight again?

>>33323364 (OP)
>>33323364 (OP)
>>33323364 (OP)
OPPO Gang has noted your transgressions.
Do better, or never bake again.

>>33324670
It depends on why they're in a wheelchair. If they are paralyzed from the waist down as men, they cannot "perform", and both men and women will be unable to experience pleasure from penetration in that scenario.

You can be in a wheelchair for a multitude of other reasons, though, that do not impact sexual performance. And even for the people whose genital region is out, they can and often do still enjoy being sexual with others in the ways they can. I would expect other parts of the body to become more sensitive in reaction to not feeling different areas, just like people that lose their vision often develop better hearing because all your focus is there and it's what you depend on. Especially women typically have many erogenous zones and one could be the neck for example. Genital stimulation is not strictly necessary for achieving an orgasm.

>>33324746
Twitter “skinnlheart”, that’s L, not i

>>33324705
Not a woman, but unless the guy is being obviously manipulated/lied to, he's probably a degenerate just like her. He can be amiable in public settings and still a complete subhuman in his private life; they're not mutually exclusive.
The main question is why the fuck YOU are hanging out with people like that.

>>33324736
>>33324735
See>>33324721

>>33324757
I added >>33324744.

how smart are atoga moids

>>33324740
>If they're both happy, that should be all that matters.

Personally, I don't think you should ever ask your partner's sexual history unless you're fully prepared for the outcome.If they're both happy, that should be all that matters.
>Personally, I don't think you should ever ask your partner's sexual history unless you're fully prepared for the outcome.
This mindset is one of the biggest signs of a broken individual.

>>33324760
I get by, ya know.

>>33324765
If you throw away a potentially incredible relationship based on actions they made before having ever met you, you're the one with the issues.

>>33324760
126 IQ, recently mastered saying "you too" to end any and all interactions with service workers.

>>33324770
Nta, but previous patterns of behavior are pretty good indicators of future patterns of behavior and other things important to deciding if one is compatible in a relationship, like values.

>>33324770
People are the sum of their actions. I don't want a relationship with a woman who did things I find grossly immoral, so by definition, the relationship won't be "incredible".

It isn't healthy to act like others are obliged to accept your past behavior;; that's just narcissism.

I love seeing people get fat after becoming famous for cooking

>>33324760
Probably like 76 IQ. Any semblance of genuine intelligence I've had has likely been coincidental.

>>33324778
NTA but it is also healthy to recognize your partner isn't you and that most people do not even agree with every single thing they ever did, said or thought themselves; let alone expecting you to be able to identify with every single thing your partner ever did.

This attitude also only gets harder later in life where everyone you meet and can meaningfully relate to will have gone through some shit already.

Girls, how would you make a guy feel like a king?

>>33324771
Enjoy your movie

>>33324785
the usual, pretend to not like humanity, especially men, but having a soft spot for him that he earned by being so other, the chosen one
obviously only works if you are someone he wants to be chosen by, but thats simple too, be as pretty as possible and keep your reputation as pure as possible

>>33324685
That anon is basically centrism personified. They're still coping and hoping that you can make some tiny 0.5% change to the system and it will suddenly be fixed and stable.

>>33324785
pretend that i can feel his dick

>>33324760
very smart. this place is a support group for high functioning autism

>>33324783
>it is also healthy to recognize your partner isn't you
"Your partner isn't you" =/= "your partner is viscerally repulsive to you as a result of their choices".
Sure, if some hypothetical person was repulsed by anything but a genderswapped clone of themselves, I'd agree that they're mentally ill. But having a given set of values and wanting a partner who shares them--and has lived their life by them--is a far cry from that.

It's not a matter of needing to positively identify with all of their actions, as if any difference is bad in itself. It's a matter of them not having done things you find intrinsically awful.

what are new york white men like

>>33324800
Not actually white and missing parts of their dicks

>>33324800
Liberal faggots who would get stabbed to death by a black man on the sidewalk and apologize to him for their white privilege.

>>33324802
Not in Manhattan. They're the ones who cream themselves whenever white men get stabbed to death by urban wildlife.

>>33324760
No IQ can be detected.

>>33324800
Like Joshua Block “WorldofTShirts”

>>33324776
And is having previous sexual experience indicative of?

>>33324778
You're allowed to draw your own boundaries, but I just think you might miss out on an otherwise perfect partner due to past choices. You're completely writing off the notion that people can change for the better.

And how are threesomes immoral?>>33324785
>Girls, how would you make a guy feel like a king?
You're not ready for that information.

>>33324800
>what are new york white men like
Scrawny rat fucks that are way too tolerant of other people's shitty cultures. Most are of Italian, Jewish, or Irish ancestry, which is just awful.

AITA for wanting to tell people on r/immigration that entering into a Green Card marriage is not an actionable plan for the future, and that they deserve every bad thing that comes their way if it gets them deported?

>>33324815
nah

>>33324812
>Italian, Jewish, or Irish
I feel nauseous

In some of the animated Star Wars spinoffs Darth Maul appears with a cyborg groin and ass after having had his lower half cut off in Episode I. How does he piss, fuck, and shit with his mechanical below the belt area? I always wondered?

State gender
Have you ever delved deeper into grooming honeypots than 4chan? What was it like?

>>33324824
A guy I went to community college with worked for a law enforcement agency where his job was to pose as underage girls and boys online to entrap pee-dough-files. He quit after two years from the mental health stress.

>>33324815
Obviously not.

>>33324825
why dont they just use an ai chatbot

>>33324828
This was before those were common.

The reason you are disabled and living off of benefits is because you are lazy and refuse to work. You should never have chosen this lifestyle. It is disgusting. And you should be ashamed. Why aren't you?

>>33324821
Sex with mechanical dildo, electric and vibrating. Works well, surely.
Shit through colostomy opening (or internal bioreactor burning the waste?)
Piss through same thing as above, alternate opening or storage system and either manual release or automated reprocessing

>>33324612
Not a whole lot, as I live in a pretty white area and interact with mostly white people. But my Asian coworker semi-regularly jokes about white people having no culture, and I have seen job postings in the field I was applying for that openly discriminate against white people.

I hope this time apart makes her long for me as I do for her. Is it possible?

>>33324705
>I’m debating telling him.
That which can be destroyed by the truth, should be.
But destroying things that don't belong to you is a dick move.

>>33324760
I'm pretty smart. Why?

>>33324841
Probably not, otherwise she would have taken you up on your attempts to reach out by now.

>>33324612
I'm white with a tan and when I lived in a white area where people hadn't met many foreigners I got bunches of racist comments from people who variously assumed I was an Indian, Mexican, or Arab

>>33324630
I honestly can't think of any time somebody has said something hurtful to me

>>33324812
>Italian, Irish, Jewish
>White

>>33324842
The sweat on the underside of your nuts tastes like salted peanuts. I don't like it.

>>33324845
Well she said that she wants to wait a bit longer before talking again. I guess that’s something, right?

>>33324825
I think I wouldn't have a problem doing that. Maybe I should apply.

>>33324812
>I just think you might miss out on an otherwise perfect partner
But that's the thing. I don't care. Someone who would be perfect were it not for a dealbreakingly horrible flaw...is infinitely far from being perfect. I don't care about their good points if there's already something intolerable about them. Will I automatically assume the worst of every facet of their personality? No. But for a relationship, I won't ever consider them.

>how are threesomes immoral
Exactly my point. We obviously don't see eye to eye, and you may or may not have even done what I'm objecting to so much. So ho could you possibly think I'd get along with someone who not only shares your attitude but has already done what I detest? Just from a practical standpoint, regardless of who is metaphysically "right", it's silly to sweep things like this under the rug.

>>33324815
Yes, because you're using reddit. Get the fuck off my board (pretty please).

>>33323380
>and I don’t contribute to this stupid society
And why should society contribute to you?

How do you explain to boomer parents that grew up without a strong sense of family and community that importing infinity brown people, the native language being less and less used and culture being lost isn't a wholesome chungus idea?

>>33324862
>>33323380
Ask not what society can do for you. Ask what you can do for society. You must work hard and contribute, and not leech.

>>33324853
Could mean something, could mean she does not have the heart yet to cut all cords. Time will tell.

>>33324866
When you grow up you will realize that your parents are right all along and that you are a foaming at the mouth retard who frames a complex public policy, diplomatic, and criminal justice issue like immigration in dumb fuck ethno-racial terms.

>>33324866
show them ISIS beheading vids, india and IDF rape vids and african white genocide compilations

>>33324760
>how smart are atoga moids
We vary wildly.
I have an IQ of 141 with a useless but genius level associative ability. It's really about applied intelligence though.
There are many people smarter than me.
There are many people quicker than me.
There are many people more clever than me.
But there are very few that are smarter, quicker, and more clever.

>>33324870
>the horrific betrayal of 1400 children isn't that bad, actually

>>33324872
Is his parents aren't poor as dirt they've probably been to Israel and India and realize those are actually pretty chill places. You, on the other hand, have a smol pee pee.

>>33323393
Yeah I can suck my own tits
It feels interesting but I prefer pinching them

>>33324012
Wdym? I feel good when I finger myself and I can't even find my clit

>>33324874
you reposted your own post? how cringe

>>33324876
Why are you brown?

>>33324842
>But destroying things that don't belong to you is a dick move.
Means shit, if that should be destroyed

>>33324879
I'm not. I am just well traveled. You, on the other hand, shiver in fear at anyone from anywhere further than your local Wal-Mart.

>>33324876
>Israel and India
I've heard enough.

>>33324821
>How does he piss, fuck, and shit with his mechanical below the belt area?
He doesn't. He survives off of pure hatred.

>>33324820
>>33324850
Right? 30 years ago, they weren't considered white. And then 9/11 happened.

>>33324860
>if there's already something intolerable about them
And that being that they have had threesomes? I can understand a difference in perspective about the emotional aspect of sex and value of monogamy, but I cannot understand how you see them as immoral.

>>33324866
By moving one of them in. Best case scenario, they get fed up and come around to your perspective. Worst case, they get Jihad'd and the coroner had to sew their heads back on for the funeral.

Win/win desu.

>>33324870
>boomers were right all along thats why you'll be a minority in your own country while they got to enjoy it being homogeneous
Dang thanks for clarifying faggot that was so complex but thanks to you I finally understand

>>33324866
Show them what the nursing homes are like.
I mean this won't do anything but at least they'll panic to themselves that life may not be cushy.

>>33324883
>guys guys, I went to a fee tourist spots and the people were actually nice
>noooo, not just because I an their source of income, WTF
>I swear, they smile really nicely when serving coffee, surely they would never ever rape little kids
ok

>>33324868
>Ask not what society can do for you. Ask what you can do for society. You must work hard and contribute, and not leech.
Why?

>>33324869
I suppose so. I’m just such an impatient bastard and I’m not sure what she wants so the uncertainty kills me

>>33324892
she told you what she wants, repeatedly- distance

I fucking HATE YouTube's automatically generated foreign language audio tracks.
Fucking retarded useless jarring pieces of shit.
Whose idea was it?

>>33324895
i have no idea wtf you just said

>>33324841
>>33324853
>>33324892
She wants to cuck you. She'll come back only if/after the other guy dumps her after pumping her full of cum.

>>33324896
https://slator.com/youtube-now-defaults-80-million-creators-into-ai-dubs/
There's no way to disable this feature. I fucking hate it.
The AI voice sounds extremely fake and jarring to the ear. I prefer the original audio even if I don't know the language and using subtitles instead.

>>33324895
They need to find problems for AI to solve to appease shareholder and the concept of bilingualism is alien to anglo saxons

>>33324901
ok
who even used yt in 2025, lol

>>33324760
Not nearly as smart as they think they are while also being dysfunctional due to mental illness.

>>33324705
>If a girl had some threesomes before, in your point of view does that devalue her or make her used goods?
M
It makes her more "free-spirited", just less suitable for marriage.
>There is a girl in my friend group who has done multiple threesomes in her past. But now she’s dating a good guy and I’m debating telling him.
Are you sure he's a "good guy"? Either way, it wouldn't be immoral to warn him and let him decide what to do with this information.
Just don't wait a decade to do that
https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/33108457
https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/33152477

>>33324908
>being dysfunctional due to mental illness.
We are all on 4Chan right now we all have the illness.

>>33324878
>you reposted your own post
What?
I don't know what you meant but just discovered that ENTJ has been claiming an IQ of 141. Weird coincidence but pic related was me.

>>33324909
>forgot the pic

>>33324800
they vary wildly from personal experience talking to them bunch of gay left leaning dudes bunch of more trad right leaning dudes a lot of white guys who are only here for school or work and plan to leave

>>33324912
Yes.

>>33324705
>now she’s dating a good guy
The fate of all "shut up incel!!" simps.

Where can I find women like this?

>>33324721
You sound kind of jealous.

>>33324918
Not here

>>33324920
How do you know?

>>33324894
Yes, I know that but does that mean she wants to discuss things further eventually? She said she loves me and we were intimate for the first time in like 2 weeks before we went no contact. Idk what all that means. I interpreted it positively but I want another’s opinion

>>33324918
Even if she were real, she wouldn't like you because you're not ambitious enough if you're here (ambitious in a sense of actual ambition rather than delusions of grandeur).

hi women. what do you think of the sentiment of this song lyric?
>Finding your light, much the same
>As the darkness that you've been through
>Carry the weight of the flame
>It burns brighter than you meant to

>>33324881
Suit yourself.

Women, how much better are 7 inch dicks?

>>33324917
Well good because after over 25 years of a power imbalance for nerdy men it finally is coming back. I'm glad these deadbeats who treat women like pump and dumps and leave their child for 20 years to get cigarettes and milk are being put in their place. The real man is someone who has the common sense and listening skills but isn't afraid of responsibility like some 14 year old who only wants to be cool. Glad the real street smart men are showing up.

>>33324918
I knew someone like this and I wanted to cave her head in with a bat but she was very to chill to hang out with on a superficial level.

>>33324918
>constantly horny
>28 yo virgin

this is me

>>33324923
>>33324898

>>33324924
The truth can be bitter

>>33324918
This was literally me 4 years ago except for the privileged part. Literally all of it.

>>33324935
the truth is bitter, but better

>>33324936
Which lucky bastard got you and how did he do it?

>>33324927
>Women, how much better are 7 inch dicks?
They're not. 6 inch supremacy.

>>33324935
It's better to face it right away than waste time on fantasies.

>>33324913
coincidence, yes

>>33324929
This isn't even bait. It's a literal copypasted Reddit comment.

I should probably eat food today

>>33324938
>no morals or empathy
>lucky bastard

>>33324937
Butter? Why would truth be butter?
And since when does butter taste bitter?

>>33324938
It was a woman, and it was when I was on the verge of ending it all. She tricked me into going to therapy again and start taking benzos. Now only like half of it still applies to me.

>>33324851
>The sweat on the underside of your nuts tastes like salted peanuts. I don't like it.
Perfectly understandable, sir.

>>33324946
Yeah, okay, fatass. I bet you deep fry your hands before biting your fingernails.

>>33324927
4-5 inch is best for me

>>33324923
it means she needs distance to clear her mind from the noise of being around you, so she can listen to how she feels about your relationship without your signal interfering
also, I saw you post about how the last fuck felt impersonal and that you can‘t come back from that
so why do you want to drag her back into this swamp?

>>33324953
No I skinny. Also biting fingernails is disgusting.

>>33324950
>Now only like half of it still applies to me
Which stuff?

>>33324169
looksmaxx will change your whole life anon. I can fashion and skincare advice if you want. also, muscles are sexy af

>>33324954
>4-5 inch is best for me
NTA but is this for relationships or fun weekends?

>>33324169
me on the left tag yourselfs

>>33324939
Moid hands

>>33324881
Ironically, cheating and hiding info from his wife was a bigger dick move than simply being brutal, but honest

>>33324955
>I saw you post about how the last fuck felt impersonal
Nah that was some other anon. We just made out for more than 5 minutes. I initiated it but she pulled me in and kept me there. It was anything but impersonal

>>33324958

>>33324965
ah well, good for you
the rest still stands

>>33324966
Still good.
You're bf is very lucky

>>33324950
Are you still dating her?

Women, would you rather have people think that you are a slut or a boring prude?

4channel, chill, I'm not even into sports

>>33324941
Well, the alternative is that he copied me, which is a bit conceited.
I tried to track how long ago he started posting but the archive tapped out at something like 7000 posts in the last year. But. I posted that months before he posted his first picture.

i just thought of a cyclepath idea. i want more locks for my hobby, why don’t i head over to the bridge and pick those locks that couples leave on the chain fence

>>33324969
Yes

>>33324970
Prude. I would rather people think I am no fun than them think I exist only for other people's fun.

>>33324970
prude, the hell kind of question is that

>>33324974
surreal dystopian cycle path arc

Women, would you date a man that is a prude?

>>33324983
Wdym by prudence? Does that mean prudish in our private lives as well?

>>33324983
sounds like a loaded question, so I will go with good old kys

women

Why do women say “my past doesn’t define me” but also say “my past made me who I am today”?

>>33324927
I only use a 7 in dildo when I masturbate to black guys. It doesn't feel physically much bigger than my 6 inch bf but it does feel immersive.

did you guys know that linkin park has a female vocalist now

>>33324971
You wouldn’t get it

>>33324982
actually i think i’ll get into trouble if i try that. maybe at night i might yoink a couple if there are no cameras or people around

>>33324993
Is she any good?

>>33324987
>Wdym by prudence?
He only likes flower sex with the lights out.
>Does that mean prudish in our private lives as well?
Yes
>>33324988
Tranny

>>33324989
learning from mistakes is not the same as people being unable to move on from the mistakes you have made in the past and making it your whole identity

>>33324993
She’s a scientology weirdo and rape apologist. The band died with Chester and I’ve lost all respect for Mike Shinoda

>>33324961
I don’t do fun sex stuff so for marriage.

>>33324670
I mean Stephen Hawking married his second wife while being completely paralyzed.

>>33324995
or you could just order a pack of ten for two bucks from china

>>33324996
I like her specially on The Emptiness Machine

>>33324992
Why do women love black men so much.

>>33324999
damn didn't know that

>>33324999
A what apologist?

Could femanons date a highly sensitive man?

Deep down, when I accept my true nature - this is me. I wish it wasn't so, but it is. I wish I could change and be more stoic, but I'm not :(

>>33324970
Slut. People think I'm so ugly and autistic that they've gaped or burst out laughing when I've introduced my boyfriend.

>>33324993
Yes, she's okay but she'll never replace Chester.

>>33324996
She sounds like a female Chester.

>>33324997
Probably not. I would like a partner that would indulge in at least some of my kinks.

>>33324944
I'll try to do a bit better on my beligerance.

>>33325009
lol homo

>>33324652
Where do I find these experiences? I just don’t know how I could even begin to claw my way out off all this pain. I just feel like I’ve been disqualified as a human since I don’t believe I can gain the positive experience to gain self respect because im already in so much pain that even trying to do anything beyond work and study seems so destined for failure. I barely have any posstive experiences with my friends come to think about it, the only positive memory I have of being social with a friend was with a guy who moved across the country a while back.

I really appreciate your advice and I want to act on it but I just feel completely stuck and hopeless.
>>33324662
But It seems so paradoxical, like I’m running away from the truth if I do this and just trying to ignore the reality of my situation. I’d still feel my missing leg and I’d still feel the odd glances in this scenario even if I wasn’t exposing myself to genuine hatred.
>Youth
I’m technically still young by most standards and I just feel like a miserable wreck despite my age.

And again I just don’t understand how to avoid what I feel is the truth, that people hate others for superficial reasons and even if I don’t read about it they do it quietly.

>be 30s M
>went to the holiday mixer at the yacht club
>mom and aunt bullied me into taking my autistic man hating cousin
>"she wants to meet good guys, the yacht club has good guys"
>mfw I'm in the yacht club so obviously that's not true but whatever
>she's cold and dismissive to every guy who tries to flirt with her or get her a drink or whatever
>says disparaging things about boating in every group combo
>literally said the word "moid" at one point
>they want me to take her to another event
how to politely tell my aunt that her bloodline ends with her?

>>33325005
In my case it's honestly 4chan moids' fault for posting interracial porn everywhere and talking about BBC nonstop.

>>33325017
just fuck her already bro

>>33325003
idk if i want to buy chinese locks, at least not the cheap ones. they don’t seem fun to pick.

>>33325019
the psyop is working!

>>33325019
I don't think anyone actually jacks off to BBC porn, interracial porn is infamously unprofitable and there is almost zero real demand for it, I'm convinced the entire "industry" is just people spamming it to piss others off.

>>33325009
In another life...

>>33325016
1. start learning foreign language
2. teacher comes from foreign country and you befriend her
3. you connect pretty hard and you start feeling like you might be worth something
4. fumble
5. start exercising to get rid of depression
6. keep going??

>>33325019
It's black men who post that, sometimes chinese and indians, you got psyopd like a toddler

>>33325009
two things
first, women love sensitive men, you just have to be sensitive in the right way. being able to cue into her feelings and anticipate her needs? great. sensitive to bright lights? women hate shit like that

Women, what are your thoughts on precum?
Is it weird? Is it cool? Do you like it? Do you wish it didnt exist?

Men, thoughts on pussy juice?

Women, would you rather be private or public property?

>>33325033
M
Pussy juice is cool. I like the sounds it makes. It tastes good. Great visual indication of arousal.

Money can't replace connection but if being able to provide is a hard requirement for connection (and nowadays it is), then not having it precludes anything else.

>>33324998
Nta. But if a man was arrested for beating the shit out of his gf when he was 21. But is now 30 and has never done it since. Does that not define him?

>>33325032
>women love sensitive men
women despise sensitive men to the point where one of the most universal dating tips for men is not to open up to them emotionally

>>33325019
So why no black bf?

>>33323364 (OP)
Man here, a cute 18 year old cashier remembered me when I walked in and asked me ‘how I’m I doing’. The only problem is that I’m 32 and my 38 year old sister and my mom told me to look for a woman my age to settle down because younger girls are immature. What do? Also how the fuck do you ask out a cashier?

>>33325033
M
is cool.

>>33324993
Yeah, I dig it.

>>33325035
Private. Wtf?

>>33325051
into the stocks you go

YEAH ITS A REAL COOL CLUB AND YOURE NOT PART OF IT

Should I start referring in the third person? Would I be cool enough to get a girlfriend then?

>>33325009
There are three things you have to understand women are usually going after.

Common sense, listening skills, and maturity.

If you possess these three very well, you will be farther ahead than a lot of men. To prove this point look at all these interactions the women on this board have to men they reply to, it obviously is the guy who sounds like he makes the most sense.

Now one thing you got to understand is that women are afraid of you because they think you don't have the common sense to be careful around them. You essentially frighteningly come off as a doormat like the "special" rapist with glasses from "I Spit on Your Grave". Sensitive is good it is romantic, but you got to show you have the ability to be trusted with nuclear codes at times to people.

>>33325051
So you are conservative?

>>33325020
My cousin is the type of woman who would star in some kind of alabama incest porn flick and by the first ten minutes the drunk redneck relative would awkwardly tell her that they should just be friends and make up an excuse to leave.

>>33325055
Grug

>>33325062
hot, set me up with her

>>33325058
No, I just don't want to be at the disposal of an entire community. There are some really repugnant people out there.

>>33323364 (OP)
Should I become a tripfag?

>>33324993
Yeah, she's not bad. Wasn't who I'd have picked but she's not bad.

>>33325068
nah

>>33324868
That idea died with kennedy and tax relaxation on the rich in favor of taxing the poor.

>>33325033
It doesn't really appeal to me, but at least it lubricates her I guess? And it's a tell that she's aroused or whatever.

There’s a cat chasing a chicken outside. Wonder if the owner knows his chickens are leaking out into the adjacent yard.

>>33325019
We got BLACKED femanons before GTA 6 lol

>3 weeks off work for the first time in 6 years
>spent the entire week on mediterranean beaches relaxing
>all i could think about constantly was tfw no gf and how crushingly lonely i am
how can life be worth living if even moments of pure bliss are infected by a stinging feeling of agony?
not sure how to keep going with the knowledge that even my highest highs will still always be miserable. there is no escape.

>>33325033
M
no opinion as ive never seen or felt it

>>33325078
what?

>>33325026
>almost zero real demand
Well there's an absolute shitload more of it available than the niche I prefer: straight sex featuring a young attractive man.

>>33325044
They're rare where I live and I don't really care about race one way or another.

>>33325025
>>33325031
>you got tricked into doing something fun!
Woe is me. It's like when we raided Gaia Online and I actually stayed there for a couple of weeks.

>>33325033
>Men, thoughts on pussy juice?
I would like my face covered in it.

>>33325072
Maybe this is a better name?

>>33325005
Maybe my opinion doesn't mean anything being mixed, but I hate black men.

>>33325080
>how can life be worth living if even moments of pure bliss are infected by a stinging feeling of agony?
it isnt obviously

>>33325085
You got basically raped but if you enjoy it good for you I guess

>>33325080
it’s not. work to get gf or find acceptance in not having gf. if you don’t do either you will be in severe pain forever!

Women
Can one of you be my gf already so this loneliness will finally fade?

>>33325098
Go outside

Men
How would you feel if you found out a woman got off to the food orgy scene at the end of Sausage Party?

I also want a gf but I don't want to go outside

>>33325103
couldve been a lot worse. i can still accept her.

>>33325105
Get an e-gf

>>33325101
I do, I have a job
Doesn't help

>>33325101
nta but i go outside and girls still don't approach me

>>33325107
That is even worse what if she catfishes you?

>>33325103
I wouldn't even know what that is.

saw a hot chick jogging today
she had huge boobs
too hot to jog with those imo

>>33325111
Approach girls.

>>33325107
I don't like using discord or social media and probably wouldn't stand out enough there anyway.

>>33325103
I haven't seen it so its hard to say but if orgies in general are her thing we probably aren't compatible

>>33325111
just be in the same place as them and talk to them like a nromal person that it will happen. you will have a shot eventually at least

>>33325117
You’re fucked.

Why are women so fascinated by precum?

>>33325103
Haven't seen it, but I would be making every food-sex-joke possible to tease her about it.

>>33325116
>>33325119

that's creepy to do these days

>>33325120
:(

>>33325125
Okay give up or hope to god a mutual friend is there to introduce you to them.

>>33325125
existing in the same place as woman is creepy?

>>33325115
It's a good thing she's jogging, or she'd be fat.

can i jog in low top converse or should i buy new shoes
i have been but im worried its bad for your feet

>>33325108
Do you talk to women at all.

>>33325122
Judging from the lack of replies to my question, they arent.

Life really is only about work. Work to get education brownie points that look good on a CV, work to get the chance to be selected by a callous HR feminist for the opportunity to maybe go to a job interview, work to progress in your career while actually staying behind inflation in terms of income, work constantly to be eligible to maybe talk to a woman without being considered a rapist incel freak, work to maybe keep a relationship going, except for the fact that she has her exit plan made and dumps you when it's most convenient, work to keep up with the taxing life of being a parent, work to maybe succeed at teaching your kid not to be a failure like you were, work to maybe keep some of the things you worked hard for when she divorce rapes you. And so on. Work.

Gender, how is work going?

>>33325135
Yeah

>>33325127
>>33325128
girls don't want to be approached

>>33325128
*approaches women and hovers around them*
-the distant orbiter

>>33325138
how would you know that you never talked to one

>>33325128
I’m a chick and other women can call the police accusing you of a sex pred for approaching. Men have no issue approaching me apparently in my area though.

>>33325095
i'm a literal hobbit with an extremely autistic job and extremely autistic interests. i've accepted the fact that it's practically impossible for me to find a fulfilling relationship of mutual interest (or that anyone will ever truly love me).
but i am still unable to come to terms with the feeling of loneliness. i've tried, but it's not just not possible for me to banish it through rational thought.
i had hoped that it would go away on its own through personal fulfillment in other domains, e.g. a great career, leisure time that i enjoy or spending time helping and bettering the lives of others. but despite these, it doesn't go away, so it feels like i am out of options.

>>33325143
i have? they would just ignore me or give short responses so i stopped

Other women, do you call yourself a woman, girl, chick, lady, female, etc or what casually?

>>33325138
Use dating apps then.

>>33325132
At work? A bit yeah. I get nervous though so its hard to hold a conversation, and I rarely actually have the chance to talk to them since my actual department is entirely men
And they don't seem all that interested in talking with me anyways

>>33325103
Don't know what that is, but food and sex is a gross combination.

>>33325138
They do want to be approached, they whine about it all the time, the thing is they don't actually want to date anyone, they just miss the ego boost of getting to shoot guys down in overly dramatic fashions.

>>33325150
I call myself a lady.

>>33323364 (OP)
WOAH BBASSED BASED BLACK WOMAN!
I LOVE NIGGERS BLACK WOMAN BASED WOMAN BASED BLACK WOMAN
HECKING BASED!
LET'S GIVE 500 BILLION TO NIGGERS BASED!
DAMN, SO HECKING BASED BLACK WOMAN!
I WISH NIKI MINAJ HAD A NEGROPENIS!
THEN LIBRULS SURELY CAN'T CALL US RACIST TRANSPOHOBES AND THEIR HEADS WILL EXPLODE!
GOD WE ARE OWNING THE LIBS SO HARD!
I LOVE NIGGERCOCKS IN MY MOUTH I AM A HUGE COCKO SLURPO!
BASED NIGGERS DAMN I LOVE NIGGERS AND NIGGERPENISES D
DEMONRATS ARE REA RACITS WON'T EVEN SUCK NIGGERS OFF DAMN BASED BLACK MEN I LOVE BLACK MEN MIGA OH G-D!
WOW JUST WOW LIBRULS ARE SUCH HYPOCRITES!
WE CAN'T HECKING HAVE OPINIONS OURSELVES WITHOUT HECKING NIGGERS VALIDATING THEM THAT MAKES THE NIGGERS THA DO IT SO BASED!
GOD I WANT TO SUCK NICKI MINAJES COCK!
LIBRULS LOVE NIGGERS, BUT WHEN NIGGERS SAY A THING THEY DON'T LIKE - THEY HATE THE NIGGER. WOW MIND EXPLOSION!
LET'S ALL DIE FOR ISRAEL FOR BASED BLAKCMENS FREEDOMS LIBRULS OWND!
HE IS SO BASED, HE LOVES ISRAEL. HECKING BASED BLACK WOMAN!
DEMONRATS ARE LOSING THEIR MINDS
US CONSERVATIVES AND BASED NIGGER NICKI MINAJ LOVE ISRAEL!
I WISH NICKI MINAJ HAD A COCK
SO I COULD SUCK IT
WOAH
NIGGER CUM LITERALLY DRIPPING OFF MY LIPS GOD I LOVE NIGGERS SSO MUCH
FIRST WE HAD A BASED TRANNY BRUCE JENNER AND NOW WE HAVE A HECKING BASED BLACK WOMAN!
US CONSEVAKEKS LOVE NIGGERS UNCONDITIONALLY, UNLESS THEY DO SOMETHING WE DON'T LIKE!
HECKING OWNED YOU DEMONRAT!
WOW LE BASED NIGGER LEAVES LE DEMONRAT PLANTASHUN! THIS WILL MAKE THE RACIST LIBRUL HEAD EXPLODE GOD I LOVE NIGGERS AND ISRAEL SO MUCH!
LIBRULS OWNED
BASED BLACK WOMAN!

>>33325131
I have a pair of trail shoes that give me blisters every time I jog in them. Had to buy a pair of expensive running shoes to fix it.
If you don't have any problems like that your shoes are probably fine. Although converse are not known to be durable.

>>33325141
i dont mean approach them. just do stuff that has women in it and then you talk to them

>>33325147
what kind of autistic interests, i don’t believe that should be a reason that you’re unable to find someone.

>>33325135
I'm neeting at the moment.

>>33325156
Thank god I wasn’t raised like them.

>>33325135
Pursuing a career is the most retarded thing you can do in your life, you will get stuck mid tier they will never allow you to get higher and when you finally realize you are getting nowhere and quit you will be either underqualified or overqualified for all jobs and you're done for

>>33325147
also how old are you

I want a boyfriend real bad

>>33325159
The park has women in it. Usually with their boyfriends, or today's Tinder date. I sit down in the grass and look at the sky. Then I go home.

>>33325160
i really enjoy writing proofs of correctness for software, for example. it's what i spend most of my free time on.

How do I manifest someone dying

>>33325135
Male
Horrible
My coworker screwed me over without even realizing it so the transfer we were both going to get is now just him. Aside from that, they changed hiring standards so now they only hire in above my paygrade, and half the new hires neglect 100% of their duties but corporate refuses to fire anybody. Even if I get promoted to their level, which feels unlikely with how stingy corpos are, big whoop now we're on equal footing. Regardless all I've been rewarded with is more work, no raises or anything.
I wish I was the kind of person that could just not care and fuck off but it's just not my personality type

>>33325172
alright we are gettign somewhere. now do something that is not a single player activity

I want a girlfriend real bad

>>33325138
You can approach them but you should come from a place of following them or forcing them to have sex. Why hasn't anyone read the iceberg post I made a few weeks ago?

When you meet someone you are starting off as a stranger so you slowly dig deeper in a considerate manner if you jump steps like go from stranger to girlfriend, it is going to have bad consquences. You go from stranger to acquiantence to friend and then girlfriend. That is how it works.

m and f
thoughts on period sex?

>>33325169
>>33325175
>>33325181
Attention-fag, same-fag

>>33325178
I go to work. We're supposed to be a great and highly functional team and family, according to the owner. Theoretically it's a multiplayer activity. In practice, everyone throws all of the shit your way and then spends the rest of the day/week/month/year doing nothing.

>>33325184
>f
ew, no
Periods gross me out so much that I gag just thinking about it. Blood is nasty (and smelly) stuff no matter what.

>>33325191
but arent you more horny on your period? I personally find it hot, but I know men generally arent into it

>>33325184
Male
Sounds messy but if we can figure a way for easy cleanup I don't mind
I'd do just about anything for a gf though

>>33325194
No, it’s either before or after

>>33325172
Kek, this is what happens when you listen to the "just go outside" retards. They never add the disclaimer that you're supposed to go outside with your friends or gf, not be alone like a creep.

>>33325199
you should put some flowers in the corenr of your room and wait for you gf to appear

>>33325174
do literally anything outside

>>33325165
early 30s

sorry the internet here is incredibly bad so i can barely post or refresh the page

Okay I'm outside, what do I do now?

>>33325184
F. Not worth the cleanup. I just vibe myself when I'm horny and red.

>>33325213
Find a bridge

>>33325150
Woman or girl, depending on the context.

>>33325217
Okay on my way, the one over the drainage canal is at least an hour away on foot though

This is the end of the line. Your evil must be stopped, here and now!

>>33325184
M
I don't have a problem with it, but I also haven't done it. (I did have a weird nightmare once where the blood turned into a whip and started attacking me though...)
I'd rather have period sex than avoid having sex because she's on her period.

>>33325201
Your chances don't increase by going outside if you're a non-Chad. Even if he managed to hit it off with a foid, she could be a rape victim or some other trash or she could ask for his social media and judge him by the amount of followers he has and ghost him anyway.

>>33325216
not even in the shower?

>>33325150
I use the term for "young woman" in my language, or just woman. I use girl or woman in English.

I went outside to a concert. Was hoping that I could dance like some sort of schizophrenic next to a woman but no one was dancing and they were all there with boyfriends (or literally 15 years younger and obviously underage). Next time I'll try the outside + drugs angle?

>>33325220
Of course you know what to do when you get there. I’ll see you on the news.

>>33325207
>Just pretend to have interests and hobbies that you don't actually have to meet women who have those interests
I'm sure that will lead to a fulfilling relationship, anon.

>>33325230
No, you won't

>>33325231
what if you did something that interested you and that you actually liked though

>>33325087
Bruv...

>>33325229
Yeah, the days of meeting someone single organically are over. Every female creature is getting fucked by the Chads from Tinder or IG.

>>33325232
Pussy won’t do it. Too bad I guess…

>>33325231
branch out and do other stuff, do you not enjoy ANYTHING aside from what you do. do you like birds do you like nature do you like food

>>33325227
No.

When you have a setback, do all terrible memories come back and haunt you, making you want to do, or actually do self harm?

Need an alt/goth gf who listens to Crystal Castles and wears cockstomper boots

>>33325244
I just go for a walk and listen to music

>>33325245
you mean a fake e-girl poseur

>>33325239
not really. pretty much all the things i enjoy are solitary activities, or ones that are extremely male-dominated. none of these are great for meeting women.

>>33325236
I'm in a sort of catch-22 where I want women to approach me but then get annoyed and hate it when they actually do.

>>33325239
Nta but I've branched out and gone solo hiking before, and also just spent half a day hanging out in shopping centers. Once I'm there I don't know what to do, it's not as though people are terribly friendly these days so even if I try to strike up conversation they quickly try to exit it

Need a goth gf who listens to Liszt and Mahler and looks like an 80s catgirl

>>33325239
>do you like birds do you like nature do you like food
Your advice gets more retarded with each post. Are you telling anon to hit on bitches while he's hiking or eating alone at a restaurant (which is already creepy and makes you stand out in front of people)? That's fucking stupid. You have no idea what you're talking about.
>>33325250
The solution is to save up money and go back to university. It's the only place left where you can talk to girls.

>>33325103

>>33325260
No.

>>33325266
You could not handle them. I couldn't either, but I'd die happy

>>33325264
>The solution is to save up money and go back to university. It's the only place left where you can talk to girls.
i have a phd, so this would seem pretty silly

>>33325264
>The solution is to save up money and go back to university. It's the only place left where you can talk to girls.
Nta
When I was in uni every girl already had a bf, I would overhear them talk about it before class and I would never see single women on campus, they always had a guy with them
Conversely, it seemed like a lot of the guys I met were single

>30yo Moid
>only single girls I know are 18-20
>all girls my age are married to childhood friends or are dating someone 10-30 years older

Not really sure what I should do here.

I am so depressed

>>33325273
lel

>>33325274
Getting a gf in college is only if you’re early 20s. By the time you’re 30 like anon you’re fucked.

>>33325282
Report one of the women dating minors to the police and offer to pay her bail in return for her hand in marriage

>>33325289
The one 30 year old in my class ended up marrying this drop dead gorgeous and brilliant 18 year old girl.

>>33325285
Ain't we all

>>33325274
also nta but my undergrad and PhD were so female dominated that I was the only guy in some classes. Every woman there seemed to be dating an older guy who was bankrolling everything, the only interest I ever got was sexual harassment and not in a cute fun way.

>>33325305
>the only interest I ever got was sexual harassment and not in a cute fun way.
What does that mean? They mocked you for being single?

can you guys help with my emo playlist
my chemical romance - welcome to the black parade
my chemical romance - disenchanted
my chemical romance - i dont love you
my chemical romance - helena
linkin park - crawling
linkin park - the emptiness machine
muse - time is running out
muse - starlight

>>33325315
since when is Muse emo?

>>33325315
want me to send you my chart later

>>33325317
idk, those songs just make me feel a certain way like all the other songs in the list

>>33325314
No just a lot of comments on my physique and jokes about how the only guy in the program must be doing favors for the professors to hack it.

>>33325319
ye

>>33325317
I mean most of the time ppl just mean sad music when they say emo, not capn jazz and mineral or whatever

>>33325331
muse really isnt sad music though

>>33325184
m
it's not a deal breaker at all
it barely smells

>>33325305
>Every woman there seemed to be dating an older guy who was bankrolling everything
Foids will always deny that men are helping them but they will judge a guy who still lives with his parents or doesn't own a car etc, while all of them live rent-free with their boyfriends while they go to college. Once they finish, they will dump the bf because they now earn more than him, of course. They wouldn't survive a day as a man when all their support system gets taken from them.

Women, is this your type?

>>33325333
Maybe it just makes him feel sad idfk

>>33325315
A Perfect Circle - The Outsider
Paramore - crushcrushcrush
Linkin Park - X-Exutioner Style
Glassjaw - Black Nurse
Pendulum - Crush
The 1975 - Give Yourself A Try
QoTS - If Only
Type O Negative - Set Me on Fire
Smashing Pumpkins - Hello Kitty Kat

>>33325150
If a guy calls me a female, I assume he's either a virgin, a misogynist, and/or black.

>>33325337
It is pretty hilarious how every one of those famous "you don't need a man!" feminists had husbands supporting them, even Andrea Dworkin of all people had one.

I couldn't imagine being in one of those people groups where they had to come up with laws to keep normal people from hating me.

>>33325340
NAG
This nigger is fat

>>33325353
>normal people

Women
How would you feel about your partner groping you in your sleep?

>>33325344
tnaks fren

>>33325346
What a weird thing to be upset about. Is your life that easy as a female? Must be nice.

>>33325358
>How would you feel about your partner groping you in your sleep?
He better be ready to dick me down if I wake up. Don't start something you can't finish.

>>33325359
I hope you enjoy. Those are some favorites of mine

Should I kill myself

>>33325368
nah, ur good

>>33325368
If you have to ask or feel like writing a mopey suicide note then the answer is probably no.

Why do so many people with severe depression push people away? I tried listening, I gave advice, I tried to help but I guess it was not enough and in the end, she decided to push me away out of fear of "hurting" me because of what she was going through. But in the end, knowing that she might never be a part of my life again is more damaging than helping her endure whatever pain she's going through

>>33325364
I take it cuddles don't exist in your world.
How would you feel if he didn't wait for you to wake up?

State gender
What are some weird quirks about yourself?

>>33325374
dude with girls you have to realize, if she wanted to, she would. Thats always the rule
if she wanted your help, she'd accept it
if she wanted to keep you around, she'd keep you around.
the ''hurting you'' part is complete bullshit hoping you go away and she doesnt feel bad about cutting you off, because technically you were the one who left.

Block and move on

M
What's been your experience so far in finding a partner for a LTR, from the earliest time you can remember? For singles, why do you think you have been unsuccessful in finding one, any personal anecdotes you'd like to share?

>>33325384
M
there are none
im pretty unremarkable but not so unremarkable it becomes remarkable

>>33325315
there's a lot here that's not what i consider emo, but you might like it

>>33325384
I can point out JH's post with surprising accuracy

>>33325392
My personal anecdote is that, as a man, if you look even slightly different because of things outside of your control, then presumed LTR candidates get weirded out. I have been unsuccessful because girls, and later women, have a clearly defined image of what the ideal man is and if you don't fit it then you're out.

>>33325384
F
I like to listen to ASMR with noise canceling headphones while caressing my entire body in a non-sexual way.

>>33325135
https://youtu.be/OXJU88ZfXVc?si=eqLS40yu_diXHcSB

>>33325384
M

I thought women were just naturally autistic for years because of my autistic mom and sister.

>>33325396
Suck my ass.

>>33325402
That's brutal. What was slightly different about you?

>>33325418
suck my dick

>>33325315
I demand some La Dispute be put on the list Broken Jar and Andria

>>33325244
M
bottle up and swallow it, refocus on basic things until it passes.

>>33325422
>>33325418
does anyone actually suck ass? that’s not a thing, right?

>>33325391
After 4 years? After spending all of that time together. She literally only hangs out with me. She's either with me or she's at her parent's house and all of a sudden, she's just going to cut me out completely? I don't buy it

>>33325315
Crywank

>>33325270
Android Catgirls! Tank Police!

>>33325422
You wish.
>>33325428
A kiss is sort of like sucking, if you think about it.

>>33325435
>You wish.
yeah you're probably right, your bjs probably suck

>>33325430
women change all the time, you'll know better than me. I personally wouldnt really entertain this ''oh im hurting you by being around you, im such a mess'' bullshit.

>>33325437
I'm not going to be tricked into bragging that I'm good at sucking cock, because it'll just open me up to being called a whore.

>>33323878
>So it would feel more like sucking a nipple (not physically that rewarding)
Says you

>>33325444
We can call you a whore regardless, dummy.

>>33325444
im not trying to trick you at all, im stating facts.
>i'll be called a whore
by now it should be like water off a coat

>>33325444
>it'll just open me up to being called a whore.
Nobody said anything about these dicks being married to another woman.

>>33325405
That was fucking shit. Get better taste if you're going to post 'deep' songs.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c7rGkJNQMw4

>>33325440
I didn't entertain it when she first brought it up, but the way she put it was since we're so entangled together, either or our personal problems inevitably become the other's problem. I told her that I'm here to comfort her and that she can tell me what's wrong but she said it would be hard to talk about it with me and that she doesn't want me hearing all of that. I know she tried killing herself when she was 18 and she got temporarily institutionalized after it. Maybe she never fully got over it? I'm not sure but I really just hope she's okay and that we can still be in each other's lives since we have such a tight bond. I've known her since we were 12 years old

>>33325374
I'm a woman with MDD, but the worst has passed now for me. The quick answer I can think of is people with severe depression can have the worst self esteems, and especially if they haven't been able to deal and process with their demons, usually whatever things that cause them to engage in hopeless, helpless, suicidal spirals of thoughts (e.g. unresolved guilt). No matter what love you personally express, no matter how loving you can act and be, no matter how much support you try to convey, if the depressed person doesn't believe they can be loved by someone else (even if they are, objectively speaking), then they will push you away. Intellectually, a depressed person knows they are loved and cared for, but emotionally, they always wonder whether you love them for all the disgusting emotional baggage they have, for their biggest fear is the potential of being abandoned by the one person who showered so much love on them. Thus, they push people away, try to be the one with the power to severe in order to avoid this nightmare.

If she hadn't done this mental processing yet before going into a relationship with you, then it was most likely a lost cause. People really can only save themselves when it comes to depression and dealing with internal demons, and I think being in a relationship stunts out this growth. Therefore, I think it's best if all of us don't go into a romantic relationship with these people. They're not ready, yet.

>>33325421
A skin issue.

How do I as a woman with very large breasts attract a guy without seeming easy or slutty?

>>33325465
male hands typed this

>>33325465
Chop them off

>>33325465
Add men from 4chan, only interact over text or voice for the first year or so, don't mention the size of your boobs, unfriend men who ask about your boob size.

>>33325467
I'm being serious! I have a bunch of stereotypes against me and I'd like to know how go about that without making it worse.

There's no way one time of me being too drunk to hear her say "no don't grope my tits" has ruined her entire life. I don't have a habit of not taking no for an answer and we both drink a lot to the point of losing memories. I've apologized profusely and asked what I can do going forward but she didn't give me an answer, just kept tearing me down. I know what I did was awful but I believe in forgiveness, especially when the person immediately works to change (I've quit drinking because of that night).
I just want to be part of her life again.

>>33325476
Embrace the stereotype and post tits

>>33325465
Just make them wait a few months before putting out

>>33325448
True.
>>33325449
Well, then the fact is I've been told I'm very good at it and look hot doing it.

>>33325465
Idk if that only means large breasts or large body overall.

>>33325458
There's nothing you can do, or really, anyone else but herself. If she didn't have her shit together too well emotionally (I think you could probably feel or tell this yourself, hopefully), then it makes perfect sense to me that this happened. Sure you could listen to her and give advice, but that doesn't make her grow. Why would she? She had another close person in her life to think about, so she couldn't have the space or motivation to learn about herself.

>>33325465
Forever alone guy here but I would think a good idea would be to just dress more modestly than you perhaps want to.

>>33325451
Ew why did I click on that. I knew it would be shit.

>>33325374
Personally I pushed everyone away, deleted all of my social media and cut contact with friends and family without telling them why, and gave away a bunch of my shit because I felt my presence was poisoning everyone around me and foolishly thought I could just disappear from existence and nobody would notice. Loved ones can give you all the advice in the world but it won't matter if you can't figure something out on your end.

>>33325484
I'm not slim but I'm not really overweight.

>>33325465
You don't

Women what are some things that make you think a guy is a loser dork when you talk to him?

>>33325495
Shitting on people behind their backs, complaining about service workers, shit like that.

>>33325495
If he asks questions like that to be honest.

>>33325498
Thank god we're anons
>>33325497
That's like basic human decency kek

>>33325489
that's what I feel like whenever your picture gets posted

>>33325495
the women on this site are only going to talk to guys who are losers lol

>>33325500
>Thank god we're anons
I hear that... but seriously, questions like that show some sort of insecurity. Not giving a fuck is attractive. Embrace your dorkiness.

>>33325500
nta but you'd be surprised how many people shit on service workers. Janitors and stuff like that.

government mandated vasectomies when

Women, thoughts on moids who litter?

>>33325485
>I think you could probably feel or tell this yourself, hopefully
I never noticed this until the last 2 weeks; she just flipped a switch, started retreating to herself more. When we'd be in the car, instead of playing music for the both of us, she'd just put in her headphones. The same thing would happen when we'd draw together.
>She had another close person in her life to think about, so she couldn't have the space or motivation to learn about herself
You're right, I think I just needed to hear it from someone else but that's exactly what she said. She told me not to wait for her but she's so wonderful
>>33325491
>Loved ones can give you all the advice in the world but it won't matter if you can't figure something out on your end
Fuck, I guess the best thing I can do is let her go then I guess. She said she'd reach back out when she's ready but I hope she doesn't come back too soon and I hope it's to be my partner because I don't want to lose her again. This is just such a shit situation. A part of my almost wishes she hated me because then I'd just know that it's over

How is Japan so clean if there's hardly any public garbage bins?

>>33325505
No you're totally right, I get it. It does show insecurity.
>>33325509
Man, shits fucked.

>>33325465
dont be easy or slutty, simple as

>>33325514
Do you have any hypotheses?

>>33325514
that's an easily googleable question
also this isnt japan general you faggot
go to int or trv or even jp

>>33325514
They take their garbage with them actually.

>>33325514
Social pressure and homogenous society

>>33325512
The worst. Be a decent person like me. I throw all my garbage in the back of my car.

>>33325513
Might be good to let her know that you'll always be in her corner if she needs something, but sometimes you can't do much for people in that situation.

What are the best sex positions for men with small pps?

>>33325514
They keep a little plastic baggy and carry their trash with them. >>33325523 This really.

>>33325528
Gooning alone in their room

f26. Question for men and women of /atoga/
Just heard my father and brother (lets call him Mittens, after his dog) in law talking.
We had a family get together, and alot of people came, so I slept in my fathers caravan, I had my window open when everyone had gone to bed, and heard my dad and brother in law talking, went something like this

Dad started
>you had something to tell me Mittens?
sir, I am thinking about leaving your daughter
>You what?
you know I have been sick, right?
>yes
It wont go away, sir.
>Is it that bad?
worse. I dont have about a decade left.
>oh dear god, does "big sister" know?
I dont know how to tell her
>May the devil claim and inherit this situation
(doesnt translate well)

They kept talking for a while. Turns out my brother in law wants to leave my big sister, because he is very ill. And wants her to still have a good age to find someone else and have a family. My father agreed, called him a brave man.

And now it has been 3 days and they are still together. And I am not supposed to know.

Should I tell my big sister? Should I tell my mom? Should I talk with my dad?
Or should I just shut up even when I feel very sad about it? If my big-sister knew that I knew and didnt tell her, what will happen?
And how can anyone keep a secret like this? Dad wtf.

>>33325523
Diversity is our Strength, chud.

>>33325539
He'll tell her himself, or it seems like that's his intention. Are you Arab or something what are these manners of speech.

jap men are small tho and they all eat onions in every meal

State gender. What's something you were afraid to do but you did it anyway?

>>33325503
>women on this site
>women

>>33325544
Cant this be said for basically every Asian man. Except tribal Mongols or something.

>>33325545
M
Most scared I've been is probably asking a chick out

>>33325539
It doesn't hurt to talk to your dad about it as long as you can keep it secret from anyone else. I am hoping your brother in law will eventually tell your sister, because that's depressing as fuck to leave a secret in the end. But for now I would not tell anyone who doesn't know yet because you don't exactly know his plans in regards to telling your sister or not. It's a rough situation for sure.

>>33325547
Anon, we've been over this. Just because we won't post tits doesn't mean we don't exist.

>>33325514
M, worked as a parks department guy for years, 90% of litter is down to two groups
>Boomer White Men
old entitled fucks who leave styrofoam coolers, cut fishing line, and fishhooks everywhere, will throw a beer can in the lake even if they're right next to a trash can, saturnite hedonism made flesh and always ready with a quip about how things were in their day.
>Mexicans
Mexicans are to littering like Indians are to street pooping, I've literally seen them pick up all the garbage, bag it, and then instead of using one of the many provided dumpsters or trashcans, they go empty the trash they just bagged up into a creek or something.

>>33325545
F I asked a guy out. He turned me down but at least I shot my shot.

>>33325555
This but it's chinese and black people in my area

>>33325554
Can you post a kind and encouraging message instead

>>33325527
When she reaches back out again, would that be a good time to express my love to her or would that just make her feel guilty? I want her to know that I'll always love her and that I'll be waiting for her to get better but I don't want to suffocate her in that sense

>>33325514
They actually trained the rats their trash invited to pick up after them and bring it to their next, which they conveniently provided for the rats at their local dump. It's very efficient.

>>33325545
ive never done anything i was afraid to do
except maybe apply for a job when i was 15 but nothing since
thats my problem

>>33325559
Uh... uh... You're doing better than you think. Every small step forward is a victory and I'm proud of you for taking it.

>>33325562
their nest*

>>33325561
Hard to say, man. I really don't know, I'm sorry. Gut feeling tells me you should tell her when she reaches out again.

>>33325502
You mean when you constantly repost it because you're obsessed

>>33325567
Thank you...

>>33325545
Can't think of anything. Thing's like that don't really stick with you after you've overcome the fear.
I sent a girl flowers once to show her how I felt about her, but I wasn't afraid. It was something I felt I needed to do.
Most afraid I've ever been was sitting on the floor with a knife to my throat fully intending to kill myself. But I didn't do it.

>>33325567
Oh, wow. You're good at this.

>>33325511
There were, for a very long time, across multiple nations.
They didn't work. Not that they didn't work technically, but didn't work objectively when it came to bettering society.
You cannot erase people you don't like, even Hitler knew this so he had to deport and also kill.

I miss him.

>>33325581
He doesn't care.

>>33325581
Who is he

Any girls here dated a guy with BPD and what was your experience?

>>33325587
:\

>>33325570
I will then, I appreciate the advice. I couldn't find anything like my situation online and I'm just shooting in the dark at this point so any advice helps. I primarily want to do it so she knows that I love her and that I wasn't with her just because it was convenient - I want to start over with her. I know she found it strange that she chased me initially and that we had gotten together after a week of speaking when we hadn't seen or heard from each other since high school. Maybe if I chase after her a bit, that'll ease whatever she's going through

>boyfriend not as sexually excited by me
>he is taking medication that creates sexual dysfunction and is getting less sleep lately
But
>I have clearer skin, nicer hair, bigger lower half, and even chest growth since we met (exercise and eating properly)
>Random people compliment me and guys flirt with me more often than before too
>he can still get hard
Is this a him problem? Or is it the inevitability of the male libido to become less interested in their girlfriends?
We are far apart right now and he isn't as excited about my nudes. I miss him hounding me for even a peek of leg sometimes.

I just think of those nightmare relationship stories where guys can only get off if they watch porn during sex. So fucking retarded.

>>33325514
Culture shaming success

>>33325545
M
Riding roller coasters. I never thought I would like them but after the first drop, I kept riding them all day until I was desensitized by the rush.

>>33325596
It's because of his meds, cut him some slack. You selfish whore.

>>33325596
Sounds like something's fuckin with his mind. Could be the meds could be in a bad headspace in general. Have you asked him.

>>33325545
F I ate a mushroom slice once!

>>33325587
What would happen if two BPDs dated?

>>33325596
he's on meds, you said it yourself.

Women could you ever love a man who gets his ass handed to him on civ 6 by the bots

>>33325587
They're dead or in therapy, anon.

>>33325587
F
My cousing dates a guy who we thought had bpd, but turns out it was autism or aspergers.
>or maybe its that and BPD
Like 90% of the time he was the calmest and kindest guy. but if some line in the sand he had drawn in his mind is crossed, he started yelling, talking to himself, phasing back and forth, punching things and people.
They are still together as far as I know. He hasnt so far punched my cousin but I am afraid that its only a matter of time.

My older brother has dated a girl with BPD and I have a dozen stories about that.

>>33325605
nuclear explosion

>>33325607
I was going to say civ players are a red flag but almost all of the ones I know are women.

My rival, my friend. I grew stronger only to challenge you, but my time has run its course. Goodbye.
*dies*

Fellas, would you date her?

>>33325607
If he lets me hand him his ass on civ 5.

Why does my mom keep watching movies where women get raped?

>>33325605
What happens when you smash two unstable isotopes of hydrogen together? That's how you make a nuke.

>>33325616
downvoted

>>33325619
Because she was raped and cannot process it. Duh.

>>33325616
I think I'd get sucked into her like a black hole if I got too close.

>>33325611
Why's she still with him damn

Why doesn’t my gf argue with me? She’s easy to gaslight and just accepts what I throw at her.
>from the other thread

>>33325611
Sure I'd like to hear your stories. The man I'm seeing says he has it and I'd like to understand more about it

>>33325627
Her mass is quite immense

>>33325616
Has she ever denied that this is what she looks like?

>>33325612
>>33325620
Imagine the sex...

>>33325601
You're probably right.
But I'm not completely selfish! I sent him 80 bucks to buy a video game this week because I wanted him to enjoy his free time more fully.
I just don't want us to be in a miserable relationship where we are disgusted by each other. Very scary, anon.
>>33325602
>>33325606
Maybe it is just that. He's been on them a several months now and hasn't lost function (good for us both), but I guess I can't expect him to be as eager as without them.
Do you guys still find your GFs hot after a long time together?

>>33325632
That ain't even a red flag bruh that's a whole ass tapestry

>>33325630
Shitty upbringing probably.

>>33325630
Because you're too retarded to argue correctly or constructively. Your emotions are a waste of breath. Might as well just cut the chase.

>>33325596
M

Have you tried reciprocating sexual attraction and desire? I know that sounds like it should be obvious but the majority of women don't do that.

>>33325511
The government doesn't need to waste expenditure funding unnecessary medical procedures, when the current state of affairs is already pushing the 80/20 rule into fruition; men with inferior genes will remain celibate and thereby childless of their own accord
>>33325636
Nope; in fact she acknowledges it and claims crocodile purposefully took the picture at a ""bad angle"" while she was moving, yet she refuses to post another more flattering photo, thereby proving that this is actually what she looks like

>>33325619
Because your mom has good taste and is gagging for it.

>>33325638
nta Anon... you don't want to be in a miserable relationship yet you give him something that encourages him to be alone?

>>33325638
I've never had a gf but I think I would. I haven't lost interest in my friends after years of knowing them. But it has to go both ways, she has to desire me just as much as I do.

>>33325642
I’m not emotional at during the arguments, dumb cunt. That’d be her job, but she can’t even do that for some reason.

>>33325639
why so? I only hear about women having bpd so I don't really know what I'm getting into

>>33325630
She sounds like a doormat that likely had domineering parents, learned a self-preservationist pattern of conflict avoidance behaviour, rendering her vulnerable and susceptible to your controlling, emotionally abusive clutches

>>33325630
Because she knows that arguing with men is a shitty waste of time when they’re being childish and gaslighting as you said. Dipshit. Stop trying to get a damn rise out of her.

i want to get gang banged by a team of womens volleyball players

>>33325654
If the women with it are crazy why would you assume the men are any different. The only meaningful difference is that he'd probably hit you on top of manipulating you.

>>33325648
Wtf. Her and croc are friends on discord?

>>33325545
M, probably stood up for my mom against her abusive boyfriend. I was like half his size and took a beating but I don't regret it

>>33325667
Did anything change or nah

>>33325135
M, currently NEETing but need to find and accept another wagie job soon

>>33325654
Men with BPD tend to very quickly have the law and society slap the shit out of them so they either learn to control their emotions or they end up dead or in jail, women with BPD rarely suffer any consequences for their actions so they can continue going on rampages and ruining lives without the law or their social circle stepping in, like if a guy freaks out and breaks the windows in his ex girlfriend's car that's a police visit and an arrest, everyone around him would immediately tell him that's not okay. If a BPD woman has the same melty and breaks her ex's car windows, the police won't even answer the call and all of her friends will tell her she did the right thing. This is why you don't hear more about male BPD, we already have it "under control" while female BPD is pretty much a hyper privileged above the law monster that there's no real way to stop.

>>33325315
I don't know if you're asking for emotions or musical genre, but here are a few.

>Linkin Park - Breaking the Habit
>Evanescence - My Immortal
>Tokio Hotel - Schrei
>Tokio Hotel - Durch den Monsun
>Tokio Hotel - Rette Mich
>Tokio Hotel - Spring nicht
>Halestorm - I Miss The Misery
>Anna Blue - Silent Scream
>Anna Blue - Unbroken
>Anna Blue - Every Time The Rain Comes Down
>Em Beihold - Numb Little Bug

Also you can check out midwestern emo but I can't give recommendations about it.

>>33325651
He's surprisingly reasonable and takes breaks. I love to buy gifts for the people I date and I knew he wanted to buy it anyway, so why not wrap it in "oh my gf loves me" so he thinks of me each time he plays?
>>33325652
I hope you find a gf, anon. I see men say otherwise so often, but I guess women do too so it's just a personality type across the board.

>>33325545
I jumped in front of a moving car for suicide, told Reddit about it, and got shat on by everyone. I attempted suicide again by cutting my wrists, but obviously it didn’t work.
Male

>>33325660
Fk me I can't find a man that's not stupid or mentally ill I really don't have that . much standards

>33325677
You’re ridiculous as hell…

>>33325683
define stupid

>>33325685
Where's the lie?

>>33325681
is it even a co op game? That would get me to think of my girlfriend a lot more.

>>33325688
Saying that women don’t suffer consequences like men do, cunt. The reason you never hear about it is because you only ever see things in the media about that one sided bullshit.

>>33325068
At least use a tripcode if you do, else it's too easy to impersonate you

>>33325677
That's ridiculousness. Property damage is property damage. Cops aren't gonna let someone off the hook just because they're a girl. Your bias is showing.

>>33323364 (OP)
Response to image: why the fuck didn't the Pokémon Anime writers let Ritchie reappear for the Johto tournament? Did they not have two seconds for him to job to Harrison?

>>33325653
Wrong. You only know how to show your emotions by creating conflict.

>>33325694
Not him. Criminal justice is state-enforced simping. Women are immune

>>33325686
Honestly I'm ok with stupid if they're self aware, I know I'm pretty stupid. But things like being insensitive, arrogant, making bad financial decisions are issues

>>33325681
I don't think I'll ever have one but thanks. You sound very caring take good care of him, and don't forget to talk with him too. You two will sort it out far more effectively than a bunch of random anons.

>>33325702
No the fuck we are not, retarded incel faggot.

>>33324993
Linkin Park still exists?
>>33324971
I remember watching the classic 7-up match live
>>33324946
You should eat somehthing, what do you have at your disposal?

>>33325694
The media is overwhelmingly slanted towards favorable coverage of women on an gendered issue. Most BPD men never even make it to the point of getting diagnosed because they rarely get to act out enough times to establish a pattern before the consequences come down on them hard enough that they either learn to regulate themselves or they go to jail. The muslim world doesn't have BPD in women for the same reason, the "disorder" vanishes when there are immediate physical consequences to acting like that.

>>33325384
I'm a Wiccan and a vegan, who (at least most of the time) considers himself to be on the conservative side of the spectrum.

I also grew up in the poly community and as a child regularly attended naturist/nudist events.

>>33325698
She won't go to jail for it and she sure as shit won't get a bunch of tacked on extra charges designed to get her in a cell.

>>33325700
How so??

>>33324933
I presume you're M and not F?
>>33324895
Can't you turn them off?
I wouldn't trust them personally, or AI in general, there's a lot of subliminal messaging on sites like jewtube now

>>33325703
ngl im surprised that that would be so hard to find. but i guess everything's gone to shit and only retards leave the house now it seems like

>>33325714
Overdone bait at this point 2bh

>>33325699
He had already served his narrative purpose.

>>33325587
My dad was diagnosed with it.
He kept us trapped in the middle of the woods, beat my mom, would leave for weeks and fuck random women, and when we left he chased us across the continent and started a massive custody battle (he lost). Had a history of substance abuse and crime of course. He only blew up after my mom got intimate enough to move in and have his child, it was just too close for him. Love is extremely difficult to give and receive with BPD.
But that's just one guy and he didn't settle himself into treatment outside of sobriety before my mom met him. Apparently he was nice in his later years. At minimum I would recommend against having kids with a BPDemon, saying this as someone who has symptoms now myself thanks to him.

Is it actually possible for BPD people to lead relatively normal lives?

How long does consent last before you need to ask again?

>>33324866
They will have to witness the destruction of whites before their own eyes until they finally awaken from the social conditioning that paints proponents of these backwards, violent ideologies such as Islam as victims who can peacefully assimilate into western culture and values

>>33325392
I didn't have much issue in school, but since re-entering the dating market after taking a break for a few (quite a few) years, it's been challenging to find someone I'd actually want to seriously date, i.e. date with the intent on marriage and all that. Both because my idiosyncratic requirements are a little steep, and because, well, women are kind of gross nowadays? It's super easy to get turned off of even women that I'm attracted to structurally.

I've been considering dating without the intent on marriage but I haven't quite figured out how to ask someone out with that milieu. Plus I'd have to be pretty specific about where I took them and I don't know how most people would react to that.

I've tried dating apps, but as far as I can tell women don't actually use them.

>>33325733
who cares

>>33325734
My dad rants every thanksgiving about how all five of his children grew up to be "nazis" after he tried so hard to make sure we all experienced other races and cultures. The irony is lost on him.

>>33325733
5 minutes before it's rape

>>33324834
Psyop post kek
>>33324825
>He quit after two years from the mental health stress
RIP, that sucks, but it's good that he was able to recognize it and quit
I have an old acquaintance who did similar in the police (don't know if he still does) and he unironically became fucked in the head. I don't know how much of it was pre-existing mental health issues finally bubbling up but he seemed completely normal before. He ended up falling down the tranny pipeline, becoming a misandrist and just overall having bizarre views and conspiracy theories on things, he lost his gf and many of his old friends
I think high-stress disturbing jobs like this can break people and regular mental health support and intervention if needed is crucial

>>33325726
That's awful I'm sorry you grew up like that. I guess I was hoping to hear some success stories but this seems like a really tough thing to deal with. I'm already feeling a lot of insecurity and doubt in this relationship because of the on and off affection

>>33325724
It's not even bait lol
Is that really something people use to bait people? Why?

i'm eating food

>>33325735
>Both because my idiosyncratic requirements are a little steep, and because, well, women are kind of gross nowadays? It's super easy to get turned off of even women that I'm attracted to structurally.
I feel you.

>>33325746
glad to hear it.

>>33325746
I'm drinking water.

>>33325746
I was eating food but now I've finished. I think I should get more food though.

>>33324779
I mean if you're that good at cooking, you'd probably be tempted to eat a lot too...
>>33324630
Probably my mother handing me a knife and saying I'd be doing her a favour if I killed myself kek

>>33325739
I became a lot more racist after I started regularly being in places black people were, I gotta be honest

>>33324834
I am but I don't really give enough of a fuck to change it. If I die then I die and it's whatever.

>>33325756
Same. Racism is taught in public school.

I had sex with an NPC. Ask me anything.

>>33324568
NAG but why wait for the timer for the sake of it?
>>33324549
Not most of them, no
>>33324466
>just talking about degen stoner shit.
Stoners are insufferable to hang out with and attempt to make conversation with, I would've promptly left also in that situation

>>33325632
ok

I'll start with a story of my cousin. Lets call her Lea, and his big brother, Leo (made up names ofc) and the BF Bob

National holiday a couple of years ago, Lea decided to invite people.
>Bob decided it was a BBQ occasion
>had just bought a grill worth more than my damn car
>People, myself included showed up
>The mingling was good, and the bbq meat was overcooked and dry
>Some guys I knew, like Leo offered to help, so the meat wouldnt be like gnawing on leather
>help sorely needed, but declined
>Bob went inside to get something, so Leo turned the steaks
>when Bob returned, he had a meltdown
>the steaks were ruined, punched and pushed Leo away
>someone had touched the food
>everything is ruined
>Told all of the attending people to go home
>trying to calm Bob just made him angrier, went inside his house
>we decide to keep the bbq up, still alot to be eaten
>Bob called the cops on us, we were all trespassers, including Lea
Everyone had to leave.

Big brothers story with bpd girl. telling this one second hand.
>She looks exactly like the pink one from Studio Killers music video Jenny
>5'7 thing of rage, hate and lovebombing
>she is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen, and I am jelly for the looks.
>Big bro watched her pay for some online shopping
>then they left to get groceries
>time to pay comes
>she goes for her card (they had a turn system for grocery paying) its her turn
>its not there
>she looses her shit
>card stolen, wants to lock the shop down to find it
>my Big bro wants to pay and go home
>sure the card is by her laptop
>she looses her shit because he is now a traitor
>throws every single item from her purse all over the shop
>Big bro gathers it all
>She calls her mom to cancel all her cards
>big bro texts her to wait
They find the card next to her laptop, surprise.
>now she is mad that its cancelled
>turns out it isnt
>she dresses up and proceeds to fuck my big brothers brains out for hours

I cant imagine life with BPD

>>33323380
This has to be a satirical post kek

>>33325764
Jfc

>>33324630
My ex criticizing my posture at my mom's funeral

>>33325762
What phrase did they say over and over when you pressed the A button near them

>>33325750
>>33325751
>>33325754
thank you
good drink water

>>33325770
If that's the worst thing that's ever happened to you you lead a very charmed life desu.

>>33325772
NTA, drinking water is a meme.

>>33325776
>tell me you're constipated all the time without telling me you're constipated all the time

Any gender

Have you suffered with "high functioning depression" before?

how did you deal with it?

>>33325764
>someone had touched the food
>everything is ruined
>Told all of the attending people to go home
Yeah this sounds like classic autism desu, being particular about food and having a melty because things didn't go according to plan
>she dresses up and proceeds to fuck my big brothers brains out for hours
and that's why your brother stayed lol
>She calls her mom to cancel all her cards
Is she unable to do that herself kek? Sounds like a spoiled rich girl desu

>>33325720
You said it yourself. Or can you suddenly not read?

>>33325781
F I'm pretty sure I have that. I don't know how to deal with it desu.

>>33325787
Me too we should date

>>33325781
M, depends what you define as "high functioning", I was often able to push myself to go through the motions and do what was expected of me day-to-day during depressive episodes, until they got really bad and I had no choice but to seek professional help and medication etc.

zoomer women are funnier at being horny than moids

>>33325790
I'm honestly too tired all the time to consider dating.

>>33325744
Ayrt and thank you anon. If he's extra determined to adheres to his treatment and therapy plan (DBT is generally recommended and some people take mood stabilizers) you can give him a chance. But if you think he's not doing that yet and if he doesn't take responsibility for his actions, run. Management of BPD is in the hands of the sufferer.
Do note that you will actively be involved with his treatment if you proceed. He will split, be over-emotional, be tempted to self-destruct, etc. and it will require endless patience to deal with it all. Make sure you know his history and if he's abused women in the past you should let him down as best you can.
Just proceed with extreme caution, anon.

>>33325774
People have said so much worse to me but the context in how he said it broke me and I can't get it out of my head years later. Like I was criticized for something insignificant on the worst day of my life by someone who's supposed to love me

>>33325725
He taught Ash the importance to try again by leading by example. Him not following through despite being in Johto muddies the message. He could have been given the new purpose of a jobber

>>33325781
It deals with me

>>33325793
We can just ignore all the shit that requires effort and just hold each other at night and reassure each other that everything will be ok.

>>33325781
You just force yourself to do the thing even though you don't want to
And then you are better off for it, especially if it's a social thing

>>33325791
>>33325806

I've always thought I just had brain fog and malaise because i still get through my days and do fun stuff sometimes like hobbies or spending time with friends, but I often just feel "numb"

>>33325793
i feel like this too. ive been dating a girl for several months but often times i feel even too burned out to deal with her and she's getting tired of it

>>33325764
tbf as a bipolar guy I almost had a complete meltdown in the supermarket today, cause my roommate decided to send me a list at the last-minute, even though I'm unemployed right now and could've just gone in the week. The store was heaving with people taking their sweet time in front of stuff and not watching their kids; some of the main items were sold out and the shop assistant was useless. Then a woman put the separator thing on the conveyor belt right behind my shopping, while I was still fucking unloading it, so I was angrily stacking everything. Then when I was walking out of the store I was stuck behind a slow couple for a while taking up the entire sidewalk, I wanted to scream. Fuck supermarkets and the general public

>>33325787
>F
>depression
?

>>33325810
nta how are your bowel habits, anon?

>>33325781
id say more mild than high functioning
i dont have brain fog im just sad all the time

>>33325806
>You just force yourself to do the thing even though you don't want to
>And then you are better off for it, especially if it's a social thing
nta but this has never worked for me.

>>33325810
>brain fog and malaise
>I often just feel "numb"
This could be symptomatic of a milder or recurrent depression; perhaps you've been that way a long time and thus it feels "normal" to you, but isn't really
>often times i feel even too burned out to deal with her and she's getting tired of it
Well even mentally healthy normies need rest and downtime, how demanding is she being? Probably best just to be honest about your mental health/feeling burned out. I had to with my ex who was very extroverted, I don't think she fully got it though.

>>33325810
>he has friends
>he is dating

>>33325813
I know, right? :/ :I I have big boobs and everything, you'd think I have life on a silver platter.

>>33325818
Nta, that works for milder depression, not more severe depression (where either you simply can't force yourself to do the thing, or it doesn't make you feel any better/you just feel worse after)

>>33325821
>I have big boobs
Haha no way

>>33325732
Yes. I once accidentally got volunteered into a therapy group of girls with BPD who were getting proper treatment (DBT) and taking it seriously, working through the exercises, keeping on track. They seemed to be living pretty decent lives, they were okay.
It helps to be a girl and have a family that can pay for you to get expensive therapy.

>>33324181
weak b8 kek

>>33323364 (OP)
What are the biggest controllable factors in being hot to women?

>>33325821
What??? Women with big boobs can't be depressed. I think it's a law.

>>33325827
Haircut.

Women did you know that it's illegal to kill people

>>33325735
Kek. I feel you brother.

>>33325732
Definitely, I know several BPD people IRL who are doing pretty well with careers, good friendships, relationships etc. They may've had some rocky pasts and periods but with the right treatment they were living pretty normal lives.
Of course I'm sure there was some selection bias though in the people I was meeting

>>33325827
Money and gym.

>>33325827
Fizeek

>>33325827
Fashion style and hair to the extent you're able. Also just don't be morbidly obese.

>>33325814
i had my large intestine removed 5 years ago after suffering for 5 years with dehabilitating illness

>>33325819
my long term gf broke up with me in 2022 after a long period of her getting tired of my malaise and negativity, so i was already feeling it then, the rest of 2022 went horrible. by the end of 2023 i was feeling happy again for a little while. I started dating this girl last christmas. in the beginning it was nice, but after a short while we started fighting. we have arguments weekly. my hair has fallen out worse than before. she is the one who told me about this type of depression. she thinks I will never be happy and that I keep pushing people who love me out of my life and will end up alone.
>>33325820
high functioning depression is not the same as a sheltered crippling depression anon.

>>33325827
Fitness
Grooming
Style
Charisma
$$$

>>33325839
women dont care about the gym

>>33324189
Thank you femanon

>>33325841
>>33325832
How do I know if my haircut is good?
>>33325840
>>33325839
Working on these

How do you even develop style as a guy?

>>33325842
Shit, seriously? You got a bag then and all that? That might actually have something to do with it.

>>33325842
i dont have "crippling depression" i just can't make friends or ask out girls
otherwise i probably wouldnt even be considered depressed at all

>>33325842
>a long period of her getting tired of my malaise and negativity
ok, so it is a running thing in your life then, like a recurrent depression
have you gotten any help for it?
>had my large intestine removed 5 years ago after suffering for 5 years with dehabilitating illness
yeah like other anon said that that sounds pretty severe and could definitely be connected
did you have depressive episodes before when you were younger, or not really?
>>33325820
doesn't mean that somebody isn't depressed lol

I hate women.

>>33325846
>How do I know if my haircut is good?
Shit, that's a tough one... if a girl compliments you on it? I dunno how that works. I get compliments on my hair but I'm a girl desu.

>>33325847
dress how you want to
unironically wearing pic rel and being confident will probably attract girls

>>33325853
I love women <3

>>33325857
fag

Women, I love.

>>33325860
Sounds like you're the gay boy who doesn't like women

>>33325853
I dont care about women either way
they might as well not even exist
no love or hate, just absence

>>33323364 (OP)
Long skinny cock or short thick cock?

>>33325846
>How do I know if my haircut is good?
nta but go to a salon/hairdresser's with female hairdresses, they can recommend a nice style that suits you if applicable

>>33325866
Short thick cock.

>>33325827
M.
>Fitness & arm muscles
>impressive and masculine hobbies
>career and wealth
>acting like you're an extrovert
>practicing and learning all of women's games, minefields, icks, and little judgy pet peeves
>nice clothes, cologne, and style
>hair (unless you're totally bald, then RIP)
>teeth
>being funny, sort of, since it's hard to really learn if you don't have the talent or are autistic

THE CHODE

>>33325856
I saw a couple recently where the guy had a fedora.

>>33325866
Femanons keep saying they like girth more than length.

>>33325873
what did the woman look like?

Women how much do you care about a guy's teeth

IS THIS REAL?

>>33325843
Tfw I have all of these

>>33325875
Very broad shoulders

>>33325863
I am sexually attracted to them, but I still hate them.
Meanwhile you act like a simp.

>>33325877
Yes

>>33325781
M
>Have you suffered with "high functioning depression" before?
Most of my life.
>how did you deal with it?
Meds.

>>33325876
A fair bit. I mean, it's not a total dealbreaker. I'm not going to hold it against him if his family was poor or something, I mean.

>>33325847
Generally you have four things that you have to triangulate (quadrangulate?):
1. Your personality (redneck, rich european, femboy, farm boy, whatever)
2. Your body type (determines what styles are going to look good on you or trash)
3. Your environment (determines, for example, if you have to have a closet full of suits for wokr, winter clothes, summer clothes because it's crazy hot, etc)
4. How much money you have

And when you end up shopping for clothes, the way those 4 things go determines your clothing style

Double rainbow
Can you guys do the meme voca?

>>33325848
yeah I've had a bag and while it helped me physically, it has taken a toll on me mentally. cant take my shirt off without getting embarrased. having to tell new women i meet about it before they get grossed out.
the girl im with now doesnt care about it thankfully. but it causes sleeping problems and i often run on little sleep day by day until i just collapse in tiredness. I think it may make me cranky and irriable unintentionally.

>>33325852
>have you gotten any help for it?
This is the first i've heard of it, and Im surprised my psychologist never mentioned it to me (started seeing her in 2022) I would be willing to have it looked it, but Im worried about taking SSRIs and other stuff.
>>33325852
>did you have depressive episodes before
not truly, but I went through periods of feeling sad/empty. starting around my teen years when i first got my bowel disease. I was put on meds that made me fat and break out in acne, and didnt have many friends. from age 11-17 I felt like i didnt belong. College was much better but i didnt make any female relationships nor did I ever kiss/fuck the entirety of my time there.When I turned 26 I became severly ill again, and my dad passed away around the same time. i had my surgery when I was 29, and by the time I was 31, i had to get another one.
I heavily mask around friends to hide how I feel sometimes, I put on this personality of lovable goof so people enjoy being around me, but when I go home I go back to my old ways.
You may be on to something here.

>>33325883
hot
>>33325879
are you dating stacy?
>>33325884
why do you hate them?
>>33325877
yes I saw him with my own two eyes