i guess im somehow exempt since i grew up online and im self sufficient now? who cares as long as you're happy. who are you to make fun of someone for wanting to, what, belong? everyone who does this isn't a stereotype so no need to act like it just because its how you prefer to look at it.

if someones having identity struggles, or going through a crisis personally im the kind of person who doesnt let that stop me getting to know someone if i think they might be worth knowing to begin with, and thats also something i dont need to prove to anyone in order to be comfortable with it. at this point im a little bit past my shitting on weak people stage. i think going through an identity crisis in life is not incredibly uncommon actually